Mukapezeka ndi khansa, zimakhala ngati mphezi ikugundanitsa moyo wanu. Mwamsangamsanga, chilichonse chomwe tinkalota chimasinthidwa. Cholinga chathu chili pa chithandizo , opaleshoni, ndi mankhwala. Koma kumbuyo kwa zonsezi, pali chinthu chomwe sitimaganizira, chomwe nthawi zambiri chimatisokoneza mkati. Imeneyo ndiye mbali yamaganizo ya ulendowu. Lero, tikambirana za nkhondo yamaganizo iyi, kutengera nkhani ya mtsikana yemwe adakumana ndi chokumana nacho chotere.
Moyo unasintha modabwitsa
Iyi ndi nkhani ya mtsikana wina dzina lake Carissa. Khansa isanayambe, iye anali ngati ine ndi inu, ali ndi zaka makumi awiri. Anali pachibwenzi, akugwira ntchito ku salon yokongola, ndipo ankakhala mosangalala ndi anzake. Anasamukira ku nyumba yatsopano ndi chibwenzi chake ndipo ankalota za ukwati wake. Moyo unali kuyenda bwino kwambiri.
Tsiku lina akusamba, anamva chotupa m'bere mwake. Atapita kuchipatala, anamuuza kuti popeza anali ndi zaka 30 zokha, sichinali chinthu chachikulu, ndipo adzabweranso pakatha miyezi 6. Madokotala anaganiza kuti mwina chinali chotupa chamafuta, "Lipoma" yopanda khansa.
Koma patatha miyezi 6, anamva kuti chotupacho chikukulirakulira. Sanathe ngakhale kuonana ndi dokotala nthawi yake chifukwa cha COVID-19 . Ngakhale kuti anayamba kuchita mantha kwambiri, anadzitsimikizira kuti popeza anali wamng'ono ndipo palibe m'banja mwake amene anali ndi khansa, sipadzakhala vuto.
Pomaliza, dokotalayo analankhula namuuza nkhani yomwe sankafuna kumva. "Uli ndi khansa." Mawu sangathe kufotokoza kudabwa komwe adamva panthawiyo. Ulendo wa mphindi 5 wobwerera kunyumba unakhala ngati nthawi yosatha. Anali kuganizira za ukwati wake, pomwe mwadzidzidzi adazindikira kuti ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere yotchedwa `(Gawo II Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)`.
"N’chifukwa chiyani izi zandichitikira ine? Ndine munthu wabwino. Ndimathandiza aliyense. N’chifukwa chiyani izi zandichitikira ine?" Funso limeneli linabwera m’maganizo mwake.
Vuto lalikulu kwa iye linali lakuti ankakumana ndi zonsezi ali ndi zaka zake. Pamene anayamba kulandira chithandizo cha mankhwala a chemotherapy , anthu ena omwe ankabwera kudzalandira chithandizo anali akazi azaka za m'ma 50, 60, 70. Iye anali wamng'ono kwambiri m'chipindamo. Anamuyang'ana ngati, 'Kodi mwana uyu akuchita chiyani kuno?' Anali kudzifunsanso chimodzimodzi.
Masiku amenewo anadutsa ngati maloto.
Nditayamba kulandira chithandizo, ndinamva dzanzi. Zinali ngati ndikudziyang'ana ndekha kuchokera kunja kwa thupi langa. Panali chithandizo chokhazikika, opaleshoni, mankhwala ... madokotala akundiphunzitsa za mankhwala, kupita ku makalasi, kundipatsa zinthu zowerenga, ndi zinthu zambiri zoti ndipezere nthawi. Zonsezi zinachitika panthawi ya COVID-19, kotero ndinayenera kuchita chilichonse ndekha.
Malinga ndi Carissa, panthawiyo analibe malingaliro konse. Monga loboti.
Mavuto ena omwe adakumana nawo panthawi ya chithandizo
- Kuganizira za ana: Asanayambe mankhwala a chemotherapy, anaika mazira ake mufiriji chifukwa sakanatha kutaya mwayi wokhala ndi mwana mtsogolo. Njira ya IVF, komanso jakisoni wokhazikika womwe anayenera kulandira kuchokera kwa chibwenzi chake, zinali zolemetsa kwambiri.
- Kutaya tsitsi: Monga akazi ambiri, Carissa anaona kuti kutaya tsitsi lake kunali kovuta kwambiri. Monga katswiri wokongoletsa, ankanyadira tsitsi lake lalitali komanso lokhuthala. Tsitsi lake litayamba kutha pang'onopang'ono, ankadziwa kuti nthawi yoti alidule inali yoti alidule. Pamene chibwenzi chake chinameta tsitsi lake, ankafuna kusiya kulira. Pamene ankakonzekera ukwati, anazindikira kuti zingakhale zovuta kugula madiresi a ukwati opanda tsitsi.
Momwe mungathanirane ndi nthawi zovuta izi
Pamene dzanzi lomwe tinali nalo panthawi ya chithandizo linatha, chinali chisoni chachikulu. Tikamalandira chithandizo, timakhala mu "njira yopulumukira". Nthawi yokhayo ikatha, ndi nthawi yoganizira zomwe tataya. Zimakhala ngati tikulira chifukwa cha moyo wathu wakale.
Koma Carissa anamvetsa kukakamizidwa kwake. Tsopano akupita kwa dokotala wamankhwala ndipo ndi membala wa gulu lothandizira lomwe lili ndi anthu odziwa zambiri. Banja ndi abwenzi ndiye mphamvu zake zazikulu.
Chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri chinali chithandizo chomwe ndinalandira kuchokera kwa alendo omwe sindinakumanepo nawo. "Chinthu chimodzi chomwe khansa inandiphunzitsa chinali kusiya kuyesa kusangalatsa anthu ena. Ndinaphunzira kuti si kulakwa kuganizira zosowa zanga ndikulandira thandizo kuchokera kwa ena."
Tsopano akutenga mankhwala a mahomoni. Ali ndi zotsatirapo zake. Kutentha thupi, kusintha kwa maganizo, komanso kusowa tulo. Pali masiku omwe amalira m'bafa. Koma akuphunzira kukhala ndi moyo tsiku ndi tsiku. Kumvetsera nyimbo yabwino, kulankhula ndi mnzake, komanso kukonzekera ukwati wake wamtsogolo kumamubweretsera chimwemwe.
"Izi n'zovuta, koma nthawi zonse ndimayesetsa kuganiza bwino. Chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti maganizo amenewo ndi ofunika kwambiri."
| Vuto la maganizo | Momwe zimamvekera | Njira zabwino zothanirana ndi vutoli |
|---|---|---|
| Kudabwa ndi kukana | Kumva ngati "Izi sizingandichitikire", "Chifukwa chiyani ine?". Kumva ngati sindingathe kuganiza chilichonse. | Lankhulani ndi munthu amene mumamudalira. Funsani dokotala wanu mafunso kuti mumvetse bwino vutolo. |
| Kusamva bwino panthawi ya chithandizo | Kumva ngati mulibe malingaliro. Kumva ngati mukuyang'aniridwa kuchokera kunja kwa thupi lanu. | Ingoganizirani za tsiku limodzi ndi limodzi. Musayese kulamulira chilichonse nthawi imodzi. Khalani okondwa ndi zinthu zazing'ono. |
| Chisoni ndi chisoni | Kumva chisoni ndi moyo wakale womwe unatayika pambuyo pa chithandizo. Chisoni chomwe chimabwera chifukwa cha zinthu monga kutayika kwa tsitsi. | Vomerezani kuti kumva chisoni ndi chinthu chachibadwa. Pitani kwa mlangizi kapena lowani nawo gulu lothandizira. |
| Chiyembekezo ndi kupita patsogolo | Pali masiku abwino ndi oipa. Kukonzekera zamtsogolo kumakupangitsani kukhala osangalala. | Pezani nthawi yochitira zinthu zomwe mumakonda. Musaope kupempha thandizo kwa ena. Yesetsani kuganiza bwino. |
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Chithandizo cha khansa ndi nkhondo yakuthupi komanso nkhondo yayikulu yamaganizo. Ndikofunikira kukonzekera zonse ziwiri.
- Ndi zachilendo kumva zinthu monga kugwedezeka, mantha, chisoni, mkwiyo, ndi dzanzi. Lolani kuti mumve momwe mukumvera.
- Musayese kuyenda ulendowu nokha. Pezani thandizo kuchokera kwa abale anu, anzanu, ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira, funsani katswiri (monga mlangizi). Ndi mphamvu, osati kufooka.
- Si kulakwa kulira chifukwa cha moyo wanu wakale. Chisoni chimenecho chidzakuthandizani kupita patsogolo ndi zenizeni zanu zatsopano.
- Ganizirani zinthu zomwe mungathe kuzilamulira. Ganizirani za tsiku limodzi ndi limodzi. Ganizirani za thanzi lanu la maganizo komanso thanzi lanu lakuthupi.
- Ngati inu kapena munthu amene mumamudziwa akukumana ndi vutoli, kambiranani za thanzi lake la maganizo ndipo, ngati kuli kofunikira, mutumizeni kwa dokotala kuti akuthandizeni.
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