Kodi munayamba mwamvapo ngati mwana wanu wamng'ono ndi wosiyana pang'ono ndi ana ena? Kodi sayang'ana ena m'maso? Kodi amavutika ndi mawu enaake? Kapena amakonda kukhala yekha m'dziko lake? Ndizachibadwa kuti makolo aziopa pang'ono komanso azida nkhawa akaona zinthu ngati izi. Koma musadandaule. Pali njira zothetsera mavuto onse. Tiyeni timvetse bwino izi.
Kodi 'kusiyana' kumeneku ndi kotani? Tiyeni tidziwe zizindikiro zake
Makolo ambiri akayamba kuona zinthu zimenezi, amaganiza kuti, “Umu ndi mmene alili” kapena “Izi zidzasintha pakapita nthawi.” Koma nthawi zina makhalidwe amenewa amatha kufalikira kwambiri. Taganizirani izi motere.
Mwana wanu walembetsa kusukulu ya ana aang'ono. Koma amalira m'mawa uliwonse, akukana kukusiyani. Sasewera ndi ana ena. Amakhala yekha. Amakwiya kwambiri ngati zoseweretsa zake sizisungidwa. Nthawi zina amangokhalira kuwomba m'manja popanda chifukwa.
Zingakhale zachilendo kukhala ndi chimodzi kapena ziwiri mwa zizindikirozi. Koma ngati zizindikiro zingapo zikuwonekera limodzi, mwina ndi chinthu chomwe tiyenera kuda nkhawa nacho. Apa ndi pamene tiyenera kupempha thandizo kwa dokotala. Mwina dokotala wanu angaphatikize zizindikirozi ndi kunena kuti vutoli likhoza kukhala Asperger's Syndrome .
Matenda a Asperger si matenda. Ndi kusintha kwa momwe ubongo wa mwana umakulira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti 'kulumikizana' kwa ana amenewo ndi kosiyana pang'ono.
Kusiyana pakati pa Asperger's Syndrome ndi Autism
Anthu ambiri amasokoneza matenda a Asperger ndi autism. Ndipotu, zonsezi ndi zofanana kwambiri. Masiku ano, madokotala amaona matenda onsewa pansi pa gulu lalikulu la matenda a autism spectrum (ASD). Izi zikutanthauza kuti onsewa ndi matenda omwe ali m'banja limodzi. Koma kuti timvetse bwino, tiyeni tiwone kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa matenda awiriwa.
| Khalidwe | Matenda a Asperger | Matenda a Autism Akale |
|---|---|---|
| Luso lolankhula | Kawirikawiri sipakhala kuchedwa kulankhula. Amadziwa mawu ambiri, koma ali ndi mawu osamveka bwino. | Kawirikawiri, luso lolankhula limatha kuchedwa kwambiri. |
| Maubwenzi ndi anthu ena | N'zovuta kumvetsa momwe anthu ena amamvera komanso momwe nkhope zawo zimaonekera (zizindikiro za anthu ena). Chifukwa chake, n'zovuta kupeza mabwenzi. | Amakonda kulekanitsidwa kwathunthu ndi ena komanso m'dziko lawo. |
| IQ (Intelligence Quotient) | Kawirikawiri amakhala ndi nzeru zapakati kapena zopitirira pa avareji. | Nzeru zimatha kusiyana kuyambira zazing'ono mpaka zazikulu. Nthawi zina mavuto ophunzirira amawoneka. |
Kuvuta kumvetsetsa khalidwe la anthu
Ana omwe ali ndi matenda a Asperger's amavutika kusonyeza chifundo . Izi zikutanthauza kuti amavutika kumvetsa momwe munthu wina akumvera, monga chisoni kapena chimwemwe. Amavutikanso kuwerenga zizindikiro za anthu, monga nkhope ndi momwe amalankhulira. Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwa iwo kupeza mabwenzi.
Kugwirizana pakati pa Asperger's ndi OCD
Ana ambiri omwe ali ndi matenda a Asperger amatha kukhala ndi chidwi chachikulu pazinthu zina. Mwachitsanzo, mwana akhoza kukhala ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi magalimoto onyamula zinyalala komanso njira yosonkhanitsira zinyalala kotero kuti amadziwa zambiri za iwo kuposa aliyense amene amagwira ntchito m'munda umenewo.
Komanso, vutoli nthawi zina limatha kutsagana ndi zizindikiro za Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), vuto lomwe limayambitsa maganizo ndi zochita zosafunikira .
- Kumva ngati nthawi zonse umafunika kutseka zitseko.
- Kumva ngati ukuyenera kukankhira mipando mkati ndikuyikonza bwino.
- Kukwiya kwambiri komanso kukwiya ngati zochita za tsiku ndi tsiku zasintha pang'ono.
Ana awa ali ndi mavuto a nkhawa komanso kulamulira mkwiyo.Mwina pali. Monga ndanenera kale, kodi mukudziwa chifukwa chake ana ena amawomba m'manja nthawi zonse? Ndi njira yomwe amagwiritsa ntchito pokonzekera ndikudzitonthoza akakhala ndi nkhawa kapena nkhawa.
Kodi mungamuthandize bwanji mwanayo?
Musaope kumva mayina awa (Asperger's, OCD). Chofunika kwambiri ndikupeza momwe tingathandizire mwana wathu, osati mayina awa. Palibe yankho limodzi pa izi. Muyenera kuyesa zinthu zosiyanasiyana.
- Kuchepetsa zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa mkwiyo ndi nkhawa za mwana wanu (Tr IgGers ): Kuzindikira zinthu zomwe zimayambitsa mkwiyo ndi nkhawa za mwana wanu ndikumuletsa kuti asakumane nazo momwe angathere.
- Chithandizo:
- Chithandizo cha Ntchito: Izi zimathandiza kukulitsa luso lofunikira pa ntchito za tsiku ndi tsiku, monga kudya ndi supuni ndi kumanga zingwe za nsapato.
- Kuchiza Thupi: Kumathandiza kukonza mgwirizano wa thupi ndi luso loyendetsa thupi.
- Chizolowezi chokhazikika: Chizolowezi chokhazikika, chokhala ndi kusintha pang'ono komanso chizolowezi chofanana tsiku lililonse, n'chofunika kwambiri kwa ana awa. Chimawapatsa chitetezo.
- Mankhwala: Ana ena angafunike kupatsidwa mankhwala oletsa nkhawa kwambiri kapena mavuto ena a khalidwe pokhapokha ngati dokotala wapereka uphungu . Musapatse mwana wanu mankhwala popanda chilolezo cha dokotala.
- Anthu Abwino Omwe Amawatsanzira: Kukhala ndi anzako ololera kungakhale chitsanzo chabwino kwa mwana wanu.
- Zinyama: Kukhala ndi chiweto, makamaka galu, kungathandize ana awa kukulitsa luso lawo locheza ndi anthu. Angathe kulankhula ndi galu, kusewera naye, ndi kusonyeza chikondi. Iyi ndi njira yabwino yomangira ubale ndi anthu.
Matenda a Asperger si chinthu chomwe sichingatheke. Si mapeto a moyo. Mwana wanu akhoza kukhala wanzeru kwambiri, koma kulumikizana kwa ubongo wake ndi kosiyana pang'ono. Ndizo zonse.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Ngati mupitiriza kuona 'kusintha' kulikonse kwachilendo m'makhalidwe a mwana wanu kapena momwe amakhalira ndi anthu ena, musanyalanyaze zimenezo ngati 'chizolowezi choipa' kapena 'vuto la thanzi la maganizo', koma samalani nazo.
- Musachite mantha, pitani kwa dokotala wa ana kapena dokotala wa matenda amisala nthawi yomweyo kuti akupatseni upangiri. Kuzindikira msanga ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa mwana.
- Matenda a Asperger si matenda, ndi vuto la kukula. Mwana akathandizidwa, kumvetsetsa, ndi kukondedwa moyenera, amatha kukhala ndi moyo wabwinobwino komanso wopambana.
- Kumbukirani kuti njira zochiritsira, kuchita zinthu nthawi zonse, komanso malo okonda ana ndizofunikira kwambiri pakukula kwa mwana. Simuli nokha, pezani thandizo.
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