Kuva nemapatya chiroto chakanaka kune vazhinji. Ndiani asingade kuona vana vaviri vakafanana, vakapfeka mbatya dzakafanana uye vachitamba pamwe chete? Asi kazhinji hatifungi nezvechokwadi chiri shure kwechiroto ichi, mari inoshandiswa, uye kuzvipira kunofanirwa kuitwa. Nhasi tiri kutaura nezvaamai vanonzi Leslie vakasangana nechiitiko chakadaro. Nyaya yavo ichave yakakosha kune vazhinji munyika medu, kunyanya avo vari kutambura nekushaya vana uye vari kufunga nezvenzira dzakadai se `(IVF)`.
Nyaya yaLeslie: Kubva pakusuwa kwekusava nevana kusvika pakufara kwemapatya
Leslie amai vane makore makumi matatu nematatu ekuberekwa. Iye nemurume wake, Heath, vatova nemwanakomana ane makore mashanu ekuberekwa. Akazvarwa nenzira yechisikigo, pasina kurapwa kwakakosha. Asi ipapo Leslie akava nedambudziko guru rekuva nemwana. Akava nepamuviri pekunze kwechibereko kakawanda, izvo zvine njodzi zvikuru. Nekuda kweizvi, vanachiremba vakarayira Leslie naHeath kuti vasaedze kuita vana nenzira yechisikigo zvakare.
Saka, vachida kuva nemumwe mwana, vakasarudza kushandisa IVF. Muchidimbu, IVF - In Vitro Fertilization inzira iyo zai raamai nembeu yababa zvinosanganiswa kunze kwemuviri murabhoritari kuti pave nemwana ari mudumbu, uyo anobva aiswa muchibereko chaamai. Izvi zvaiita semukana wekupedzisira wavaive nawo wekuva nevana vakawanda.
Mutengo uye Manzwiro: Kusarudza Kurapwa kweIVF
Leslie naHeath vakashandisa $22,000 pakurapwa uku, inova mazana ezviuru zvemadhora mumari yenyika yedu. Iyi imari yakawanda. Ndosaka vakafunga kuti, pachinzvimbo chekushandisa mari yakawanda kudaro, vaizova nemapatya kana zvichibvira. Sekureva kwaLeslie, "Hatina kuenda kuna chiremba tikati tinoda mapatya. Takati, 'Hatigone kuva nevana, tinoda rubatsiro rwenyu, iyi ndiyo chete nzira yatinowana nayo. Saka zvaizova nani dai taiva nemapatya.'" Nekuti mutengo wacho wakafanana kunyangwe tine mwana mumwe kana vaviri. Saka kana uyu uri mukana wekupedzisira, vakafunga kuti zvingave nani kupedzisa mhuri.
Nyaya iyi yaanotaura inobaya mwoyo zvikuru.
"Handifungi kuti unogona kuisa mutengo pamhuri yako. Maonero angu ndiwo, ndine rombo rakanaka kuva nevana vangu... Ndinochema pandinofunga nezvazvo. Chikamu chakaoma ndechekuti zvinodhura zvakanyanya. Rimwe divi nderokutora mwana, izvo zvinodhurawo zvikuru."
Izvi zvinoratidza kuti kukosha kwemwana hakugoni kuyerwa nemari. Vabereki havafungi kaviri nezvekuzvipira nekuda kwayo.
Zano rachiremba uye zvisarudzo zvakakosha
Vasati vapihwa mushonga weIVF, chiremba waLeslie akava nechokwadi chekuti vaenda kunorapwa nevanopa mazano ekubatsira kubereka. Iri raive danho rakakosha zvikuru nekuti panguva iyi, vaifanira kutarisana nematambudziko akawanda asingafungidzirwe. Semuenzaniso, zvekuita nemaembryo akasara mushure mekurapwa, ndiani aizotora embryo kana vaviri vacho vakarambana, uye maitiro ekugadzirisa dambudziko rekuva nemapatya ivo vatova nemwana mumwe chete.
Pakutanga Leslie aida kuti mazai matatu emudumbu aiswe muchibereko chake. Chikonzero cheizvi kwaive kushandisa mari yakawanda kubva pamari yaakange ashandisa. Aitarisira kuti rimwe chete raizobudirira, uye kana zvichibvira, maviri. Asi chiremba wake aisatsigira zvachose. Akati, "Kwete." Izvi zvinoratidza basa revanachiremba. Chinangwa chavo chikuru hachisi chekuumba mapatya, asi kubatsira kuunza mwana mumwe chete ane hutano panyika.
Pakupedzisira, vakasarudza kutamisa maembryo maviri. Nerombo rakanaka, ese akabudirira!
Mapatya: Kurota kwacho kwaitika uye chokwadi chakaoma
Vanasikana vaLeslie mapatya, Bella naMaddie, vane hutano hwakanaka nhasi. Asi pamuviri pakanga pasina nyore kuna Leslie. Aifanira kupedza mavhiki matanhatu achizorora pamubhedha. Anotsanangura gore rekutanga mushure mekuzvarwa kwevana vake se "rakaoma zvechokwadi." Chimwe chikonzero cheizvozvo ndechekuti mwanakomana wake mukuru, Garrett, aive nemakore maviri chete panguva iyoyo.
Leslie paaibuda nevana vake, vanhu vazhinji vaiuya kwaari vachiti, "Oh, ndinodawo kuva nemapatya." Anofanira kunge akaseka ega panguva iyoyo.
"Chenjerera. Hazvisi nyore. Haungade kuzvichinja, asi hazvisi zvemutambo."
Chatinofanira kunzwisisa kubva munyaya iyi ndechekuti chokwadi chinogona kusiyana nemufananidzo wakanaka unoonekwa kunze. Asi Leslie anotaura nyaya yakanaka kwazvo pakupera. "Kunyangwe gore rekutanga iroro rakaoma, rakakodzera. Gore rimwe chete kana maviri akaoma pakupedzisira chii? Ndichave nerimwe gore rimwe kana maviri akaoma, pavanenge vachiri vadiki."
| Zvinhu zvekufunga nezvazvo | Mienzaniso kubva pane zvakaitika kuna Leslie |
|---|---|
| Mari inoshandiswa | Kurapwa katatu kwaidhura $22,000. Uku kudyara mari pasina vimbiso yekubudirira. |
| Kugadzirira kwepfungwa nemuviri | Kutora mavhiki matanhatu ekuzorora pamubhedha panguva yekuzvitakura. Gore rekutanga mushure mekubereka vana rakaoma zvikuru. |
| Kukosha kwekubvunzana nachiremba | Kufanira kuita sarudzo dzakaoma, dzakadai sekuti mangani maembryo ekutamisa uye zvekuita nemaembryo asara. Mazano kubva kuna chiremba akakosha. |
| Kukanganiswa kwevamwe nhengo dzemhuri | Dambudziko racho rinopetwa kaviri kana mapatya aberekwa, sezvo mwana mukuru aine makore maviri chete. |
Nyaya yaLeslie inotijekesera kuti IVF haisi nzira yekurapa chete, asi rwendo rwakaoma runosanganisira mari, manzwiro, tariro, nematambudziko akawanda.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Kurapa kwekushaya mbereko kwakadai seIVF kunogona kuva nzira inodhura uye inoshungurudza mupfungwa.
- Kuva nemapatya kwakaoma kupfuura zvinoita sekunge kuri pachena, kunyanya panguva yekuzvitakura uye mugore rekutanga kana maviri mushure mekubereka vana.
- Kukosha kwemwana hakugone kuyerwa nemari, asi zvakakosha kunyatsoongorora zvemari usati watanga kurapwa.
- Usati waita chero sarudzo dzakadaro, zvakakosha kukurukura nyaya dzese pachena nachiremba wako . Mazano avo achakubatsira kuita sarudzo dzakarurama.
- Pakupera kwedambudziko rega rega, yeuka kuti mufaro nerudo zvaunowana kubva kuvana vako zvinokosha kupfuura chero chimwe chinhu.
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