Dzimwe nguva mumhuri munoitika matambudziko makuru, handiti? Kunyanya kana murume afa, kana vaviri vacho vakaparadzana, pane kusawirirana pamusoro pehukama hwevana nasekuru nasekuru vavo. Amai vanoda nzira imwe, vanasekuru nasekuru vanoda imwe. Vana vanorasika pakati pemakakatanwa aya. Iyi inyaya inonetsa zvikuru. Nhasi tiri kutaura nezvenyaya inokanganisa mhuri dzakawanda dzakadai, asi hatitauri nezvazvo zvakanyanya.
Nyaya yenyaya yemakakatanwa emhuri yakaendeswa kudare
Kuti tinzwisise nyaya iyi, ngatitorei nyaya yechokwadi yakaitika muAmerica semuenzaniso. Iyi inyaya yakaendeswa kudare repamusoro-soro munyika.
Kune rimwe divi kwaive nasekuru nasekuru, Gary naJennifer. Mushure mekurasikirwa nemwanakomana wavo, vaida kuona vazukuru vavo vaviri pazororo nekupera kwevhiki, kuti vapedze nguva navo. Ichocho chaive chikumbiro chine musoro, handiti?
Kune rimwe divi kwaiva naamai vevana, Tommy. Mumwe wake, baba vevana, akanga azviuraya. Iye zvino aida kutanga hupenyu hutsva uye kugadzira mhuri itsva yevana vake vaviri. Akaroorwazve, uye, iye nemurume wake mutsva pavakava nevana vavo, mhuri yakakura zvikuru.
Dambudziko rakatanga pano. Baba vevana ava vakanga vafa nekuda kwekuora mwoyo kwenguva refu. Mushure mekufa kwavo, amai vaTommy vakaderedza zvishoma nezvishoma nhamba yenguva dzavaishanyira vana nasekuru naambuya vavo. Vakati vaida kuvabvumira kutanga mhuri itsva. Asi sekuru naambuya vaisada izvozvo. Vaida kuva pamwe chete nevana sepakutanga.
Dambudziko iri rakaramba richikura zvishoma nezvishoma. Kunyangwe zvinhu zvidiki zvakava nharo huru. Pakupedzisira, vanasekuru nasekuru vakaendesa nyaya kudare, vachida kodzero yekuona vazukuru vavo. Nyaya iyi yakatora makore.
Izvi zvinonyanya kukonzerwa nehukama hwemhuri kwete mutemo. Kuenda kudare kunotora sarudzo yakaita seiyi zvinoreva kuti mhuri yatova mumatambudziko makuru.
Dambudziko guru riri pano nderei?
Tinoona mativi maviri panyaya iyi.
1. Kodzero dzevabereki: Chero bedzi mwana asina kukuvara, mumwe munhu anogona kukanganisa kodzero yevabereki yekurera mwana iyeye kusvika papi uye kuita sarudzo pamusoro pemwana?
2. Kugara zvakanaka kwemwana: Kubatana kwemwana nasekuru naambuya vake nevanun'una vake kunokosha zvikuru. Kuchengetedza hukama ihwohwo kwakakosha zvikuru pakukura kwepfungwa dzemwana.
Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, mubvunzo ndewokuti tingaenzanisa sei kodzero idzi mbiri. Amai vane kodzero yekuita sarudzo nezvevana vavo. Zvakare, vanasekuru nasekuru chikamu chakakosha muhupenyu hwemwana. Kana paine kusawirirana pakati pevaviri ava, vana vasina mhosva ndivo vanonyanya kushaya simba uye vanonetseka mupfungwa.
Kusawirirana uku kunokanganisa sei vana?
Kazhinji hatifungi nezvekuti nharo dzevakuru dzinogona kukanganisa sei moyo yevana. Kudzivirira mwana kubva kumatambudziko evakuru kunogona kumukanganisa hupenyu hwake hwese.
Ona tafura iri pazasi kuti uone kuti zvinhu izvi zvinokanganisa sei vana.
| Maitiro Evakuru | Kukanganisa Kunogona Kuitika Pamwana |
|---|---|
| Kupomerana nekurwa pamberi pemwana. | Mwana anonzwa asina kuchengeteka . Ane dambudziko repfungwa nekuti haakwanise kusarudza kuti otora divi ripi. |
| Mumwe munhu ari kutaura zvakaipa kumwana nezvemumwe munhu (semuenzaniso, "Ambuya vako havana kunaka" kana kuti "Amai vako havatibvumidze kuuya"). | Kurasikirwa nekuvimba nevanhu vakuru. Kugara pakati pevanhu vaviri vaunoda. |
| Kushandisa mwana kusonera kana kutumira mameseji ("kubvunza zvakaitika kumba kwaambuya"). | Mwana ari pasi pekushushikana kwepfungwa kwakanyanya . Vanozvipa mhosva, vachifunga kuti matambudziko aya ndiwo avari kukonzera. |
| Kuedza kuita kuti mwana ave parutivi rwako nekupa zvipo kana kuita zvimwe zvinhu. | Mwana anodzidza kuti rudo nerudo zvine chekuita nehukama hwepedyo. Izvi zvinogonawo kukanganisa hukama hwemangwana. |
Kuchinja kwemaitiro emwana
Unogona kuona shanduko mumaitiro evana vari pasi pekumanikidzwa kwakadai.
- Kamwe kamwe akatsamwa.
- Ndava munhu akanyarara uye akasuruvara kupfuura kare.
- Ndinotya pandinenge ndakarara uye ndinomuka kubva muhope.
- Kufarira basa rechikoro kuri kudzikira.
- Zviratidzo zvemuviri zvakaita sekurwadziwa kwemudumbu nemusoro zvinoratidzwa.
Kana mwana akaratidza zviratidzo zverudzi urwu, unofanira kunetseka nazvo.
Saka, mhinduro yacho ndeipi?
Kuenda kudare kana kuenda kudare ndiyo nzira yekupedzisira. Zvisati zvadaro, zvakakosha zvikuru kuedza kugadzirisa matambudziko aya semhuri.
- Isa zvakanakira mwana pakutanga: Yeukai, hutano hwepfungwa hwemwana wenyu hunonyanya kukosha kupfuura hasha dzenyu kana kusawirirana kwenyu. Musati maita chero sarudzo, fungai kaviri kuti "Izvi zvichakanganisa sei mwana wangu/muzukuru wangu?"
- Itai hurukuro yakadzikama: Sanganai vana vasipo, munzvimbo iyo mapato ese ari maviri anogona kutaura akadzikama. Taurai chokwadi nezvemanzwiro enyu nezvamunoda musingapomerane mhosva. Itii, "Ndizvo zvandinonzwa," pachinzvimbo chekupomerana mhosva, "Ndizvo zvamunoita zvinhu."
- Nzwisisa uye remekedza miganhu: Vabereki vane kodzero yekuita sarudzo dzekupedzisira nezvemwana wavo. Vanasekuru navanasekuru vanofanira kuremekedza muganhu iwoyo. Zvakare, vabereki vanofanira kunzwisisa kuti vanasekuru navanasekuru havasi vanhu vanogona kubviswa muhupenyu hwemwana, uye kuti rudo rwavo runokoshawo kumwana.
- Kusvika pakubvumirana kwakafanana: Zvinogona kutora wirirano pakati pemativi ese. Zvinogona kubatsira zvikuru kana mukakwanisa kuronga mazuva nenguva dzekushanyira mwana. Kana munhu wese akabvumirana nazvo, matambudziko achave mashoma.
- Tsvaga mazano enyanzvi: Kana zvichikuomera kugadzirisa matambudziko aya uri wega, usanyara kutsvaga rubatsiro kubva kune mumwe munhu wekunze. Unogona kutsvaga rubatsiro kubva kune mupi wezano wemhuri . Kana, taura nachiremba wako waunovimba naye nezvekushushikana kunokonzerwa nematambudziko aya emhuri. Iye achakwanisa kukupa gwara rakakodzera.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Zvakajairika kuva nekusawirirana nekukakavadzana mumhuri, asi chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti tinogadzirisa sei.
- Usamboshandisa vana sezvombo muhondo dzevakuru. Gara uchiisa hutano hwavo hwepfungwa nekuchengetedzwa kwavo pekutanga.
- Mhinduro yakanakisisa yekusawirirana kwemhuri dzakawanda ndeyekutaura pachena, neruremekedzo, uye nerunyararo.
- Kana usingakwanise kugadzirisa matambudziko uri wega, usambozeza kutsvaga mazano kubva kuna chipangamazano wemhuri kana kuna chiremba wako. Kukumbira rubatsiro kuti mwana wako awane zvakanakira mwana wako chiratidzo chekusimba.
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