Ukuba unomntu omthandayo, mhlawumbi umama, utata, okanye omnye umntu onesifo se-Alzheimer's, uyazi ukuba kukuzincama nomgudu kangakanani ukubanyamekela. Xa ubanika ingqalelo iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, unokuzilibala. Kodwa xa ukwenza oku ngalo lonke ixesha, udinga nokuphumla kancinci, inkululeko encinci, akunjalo? Ngamanye amaxesha xa kufuneka uphume okwethutyana ukuze ufumane into ethile, wenze umthambo, isalamane okanye umhlobo osondeleyo mhlawumbi uya kuza kukunceda. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba akunakwenzeka yonke imihla. Kulapho ingcamango "yamaziko okunyamekela abantu abadala" isinceda kakhulu.
Yintoni iziko lokunyamekela abantu abadala emini?
Ngamafutshane, le yindawo apho abantu abadala banokuchitha usuku lwabo ngendlela ekhuselekileyo neyonwabisayo, benze imisebenzi nabanye, kwaye bafumane iinkonzo zonyango kunye nonyango ukuba kuyimfuneko. Amanye amaziko amkela nawuphi na umntu omdala ngokubanzi, ngelixa amanye ejolise kwabo baneemeko ezithile, ezifana ne-Alzheimer's.
Eyona nzuzo inkulu yoku kukuba umntu omthandayo angahlala kweli ziko emini aze abuyele ekhaya ebusuku. Ngale ndlela, akalahlekelwa likhaya lakhe, indawo akuyo. Kwakhona, le ndlela iluncedo kakhulu kuye ukuze akwazi ukuzimela aze ahlale ekhaya ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Okwangoku, uya kuba nethuba lokubanyamekela emini, wenze umsebenzi wakho, uphumle kancinci, kwaye ufumane isiqabu sengqondo.
Oku kuluncedo kuwe nakwisithandwa sakho. Ngelixa ufumana ikhefu, bafumana ithuba lokuncokola nokwenza izinto ezintsha.
Zeziphi iinkonzo ezifumanekayo kwezi ndawo?
Nangona iinkonzo ezinikezelwa ziziko lokunyamekela abantu abadala zahlukile kancinci ngokweendawo, ungalindela oku kulandelayo. Masijonge ezi kwitheyibhile.
| Inkonzo | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Iinkonzo zonyango | Unyango olufana nonyango lomzimba, unyango lomsebenzi, kunye nonyango lokuthetha lunokunceda izigulane ze-Alzheimer ukuba ziphucule amandla azo omzimba, amandla okwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, kunye nonxibelelwano. |
| Ukutya kunye nesondlo | Babonelela ngesidlo sasemini esicocekileyo kunye neti. Bakwabonelela ngeemfuno ezikhethekileyo zokutya. |
| Imisebenzi yoluntu | Ukubenza bahlale bonwabile kwaye bekhuthele ngezinto ezifana nokumamela umculo, ukubukela iimuvi, ukwenza imisebenzi yezandla elula, nokudlala imidlalo yamaqela. |
| Ukhathalelo Lomntu | Ukuba kuyimfuneko, nceda ngokuhlamba, ukunxiba, ukutya, kunye nokuya ngasese. |
| Iinkonzo zonyango | Iinkonzo zeengcali zempilo, ezinje ngabahlengikazi ababhalisiweyo okanye iingcali zonyango. Oku kungabandakanya izinto ezifana nokunika amayeza ngexesha. |
| Izixhobo zothutho | Amanye amaziko abonelela ngeenkonzo zothutho ukusuka ekhaya ukuya embindini ukuya ngasemva. |
Ungayikhetha njani indawo yokunyamekela abantwana efanelekileyo?
Kulungile, ngoku unengcamango enzima. Umngeni omkhulu olandelayo kukufumana indawo ethembekileyo nefanelekileyo efanela umntu omthandayo. Landela la manyathelo ukuze wenze njalo.
1. Fumana ulwazi kuqala.
Iindawo ezilungileyo zokukhangela amaziko afana nala kwindawo okuyo zezi:
- Iindawo zonqulo ezifana neetempile neecawa kwindawo okuyo.
- Icandelo leeNkonzo zoLuntu leSebe lezoBulungisa.
- Buza ugqirha wosapho lwakho okanye ugqirha onyanga umntu omthandayo.
- Unokufumana okungakumbi ngale nto kumakhaya abantu abadala okanye kumakhaya abantu abadala.
Wakuba unoluhlu, fowunela ezo ndawo uze ubabuze ngenkqubo yabo yokufaka isicelo, ukuba bamkela abantu abanjani, imisebenzi yabo, kunye nokutya kwabo.
2. Qiniseka ukuba uzibuza ezi zinto ngaphambi kokuba uye ndaweni ithile
Ufanele uzibuze le mibuzo xa uthetha nezinye zeendawo ozikhethileyo.
| Umbuzo omele uwubuze | Kutheni oko kubalulekile? |
|---|---|
| Lingakanani ixesha eli lisebenza eli ziko? | Ukuba namava angakumbi kudla ngokubonisa ukuzinza nokuthembeka. |
| Ngubani onelungelo loku? Ilawulwa njani le nto? | Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba le yintlangano engekho phantsi korhulumente, iziko lenkolo, okanye ishishini labucala. |
| Zithini iintsuku namaxesha evuliweyo? | Oku kubalulekile ukuze ubone ukuba kuyahambelana neemfuno zakho. |
| Injani imali yokukhwela? | Fumanisa ukuba iyahambelana na nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwakho kwaye ukuba kukho naziphi na iindleko ezongezelelweyo. |
| Ingaba nibonelela ngezothutho? | Oku kungaba yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe. |
3. Eyona nto ilungileyo kukuya kuyibona!
Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukutyelela iziko nomntu omthandayo. Xa usiya, nikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwezi zinto:
- Ngaba abasebenzi banobuhlobo? Jonga indlela abathetha nabaphatha ngayo abantu abadala.
- Ingaba le ndawo icocekile? Ingaba inevumba elimnandi? Ucoceko yeyona nto iphambili kwimpilo. Ukuba inevumba elibi, loo nto ayibonisi ukuba ilungile.
- Ingaba kukho indawo eyahlukileyo yokuphumla xa umntu egula?
- Zithini iziqinisekiso zabasebenzi?Buza ukuba banalo na uqeqesho ekunyamekeleni abantu abadala.
- Ngaba amavolontiya ayanceda?
- Ingakanani ireyithingi yabantu abadala kubasebenzi? Ngokubanzi, ireyithingi yabantu abadala abathandathu kubasebenzi omnye (1:6) ithathwa njengenqanaba elifanelekileyo.
- Ndingafumana iireferensi kwabanye abantu abakhe basebenzisa le nkonzo? Kunganceda kakhulu ukuva kubo.
Malunga neefizi kunye ne-inshurensi
Iintlawulo zamaziko anjalo eSri Lanka zahlukile ngokweendawo. Ezo ziqhutywa yimibutho engenzi nzuzo okanye amaziko enkolo zinokuba neentlawulo eziphantsi. Ukuba une-inshurensi yezempilo yabucala, unokufumana ukhuseleko lweenkonzo ezifana ne-physiotherapy. Nxibelelana nenkampani yakho ye-inshurensi ngqo ukuqinisekisa.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukunyamekela umntu one-Alzheimer's akulula, ngoko ke kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukufuna ikhefu. Musa ukuziva unetyala ngaloo nto.
- Iziko lokugcina abantwana abadala lithuba elihle lokuba umntu omthandayo achithe usuku kwindawo ekhuselekileyo neyonwabisayo ngelixa uphumle.
- Ungaze wenze izigqibo ngokusekelwe kwinto oyivayo kuphela. Qiniseka ukuba undwendwela iziko, ubone yonke into ngamehlo akho, ubuze imibuzo, kwaye uphande kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo.
- Thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho malunga nokuba olu hlobo lwenkonzo lufanelekile na kumntu omthandayo. Uya kukwazi ukukunika isikhokelo esifanelekileyo.
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