Ngaba umntwana wakho uyasoyika isibhedlele? Yiza, masifunde nge-"Child Life Specialist"!

Xa umntwana wakho esesibhedlele okanye efumana unyango lwesifo esithile, ngaba uyoyika kakhulu, ukhathazekile, kwaye ulusizi? Ngamanye amaxesha asinakukwazi nokuyicinga indlela yokumthuthuzela ngexesha elinje, indlela yokumenza aqonde ezi zinto zahlukeneyo. Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngomntu okhethekileyo onokuba luncedo kakhulu kuwe nakumntwana wakho ngexesha elinjalo. Loo mntu ubizwa ngokuba yi-'(Child Life Specialist)'.

Ngubani lo `(Ingcali yoBomi boMntwana)`? Ngamafutshane...

Ngamafutshane, "iNgcali yoBomi boMntwana" yingcali yezempilo enceda umntwana wakho ukuba ajongane nokugula kwakhe, unyango, kunye nokulaliswa esibhedlele. Kufana nomhlobo othuthuzela nokhuthaza umntwana. Ngelixa oogqirha kunye nabongikazi benyanga ukugula komntwana, le ngcali isebenza ukunciphisa uloyiko lomntwana, ixhala, kunye nentlungu, kunye nokubanika amandla okunyamezela eli thuba.

Khawucinge nje, umntwana omncinci sele eza kunikwa `(Injection)`. Uyalila kwaye uyasokola. Ngelo xesha, le ngcali ingafika imchazele umntwana ngomdlalo ngendlela anokuyiqonda. Mhlawumbi ingajika ingqalelo yakhe imncede anike `(Injection)` ngaphandle kokuba aqaphele.

Aba bantu badla ngokusebenza ezibhedlele. Banoqeqesho oluhle kwiindawo ezininzi kwezi:

• Uphuhliso Lomntwana: Oku kubhekisa kwindlela umntwana akhula ngayo ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwengqondo, nangokwentlalo njengoko ekhula.
• Imfundo: Iindlela zokufundisa abantwana iinyaniso ngendlela abayiqondayo.
• Ingqondo: Ukuqonda iingcinga, iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zabantwana.

Ingcali yoBomi boMntwana iya kuchaza imiba yezempilo echaphazela umntwana wakho kunye nonyango anokulufumana ngolwimi aluqondayo. Inokunceda nomntwana wakho ukuba aphazamiseke ngexesha lonyango ukuze angaziva.

Basebenza neentsana, abantwana abancinci, abantwana abasaqalayo esikolweni, abantwana abakwiminyaka yesikolo, kwanabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa umsebenzi wabo kukuxhasa lonke usapho. Bakunika wena nosapho lwakho ulwazi olufunekayo kwaye bakufundisa indlela yokujongana neli xesha linzima. Bakwenza oku ngokusebenzisa izinto ezinje:

• Dlala: Amathoyizi nemidlalo inceda abantwana baqonde izinto kwaye basuse uloyiko lwabo.
• Ukulungiselela: Ngaphambi kotyando okanye naluphi na unyango, umntwana ulungele ngokwengqondo.
• Imfundo: Ufundisa ngesifo, amayeza, kunye nemeko-bume yesibhedlele.
• Imisebenzi yokuziveza: Nceda umntwana aveze iimvakalelo zakhe ngemisebenzi efana nokuzoba nokubalisa amabali.

Nangona bephakathi kwezi meko zinzima, aba bantu bazama ukukhuthaza ukukhula komntwana ngendlela eqhelekileyo ngaphandle kokumthintela.

Luhlobo luni lwemfundo olufunekayo ukuze ube ``yiNgcali yoBomi boMntwana''?

Ukuze umntu enze inkonzo enoxanduva olunjalo, kufuneka afumane imfundo noqeqesho olufanelekileyo.

1. Okokuqala, kufuneka ube nesidanga se-bachelor seminyaka emine. Abanye abantu bafunda kwi-Child Life. Abanye bafunda kwi-Child Psychology okanye kwi-Human Development kwaye bathatha izifundo ezongezelelweyo ezinxulumene ne-Child Life. Kwezi nkqubo zesidanga, bafunda oku kulandelayo:

• Uphuhliso Lomntwana
• Izakhono zokunxibelelana
• Iindlela zokujamelana nobunzima
• Intetho esisiseko yezonyango

2. Abanye abantu bade balandele isidanga se-postgraduate (Master's Degree). Ezi zifundo ze-postgraduate zihlala iminyaka emibini. Zibonelela ngolwazi olunzulu kunye noqeqesho olusebenzayo. Oku kubanceda nokuba bajongane nokhuphiswano kwimarike yemisebenzi.

3. Emva koko, kufuneka ufumane isiqinisekiso sobungcali kwi-Association of Child Life Professionals. Izibhedlele ezininzi zilindele ukuba ufumane esi siqinisekiso kungekapheli nonyaka emva kokuba uqalile umsebenzi. Ukuze ufumane esi siqinisekiso, ukongeza kwisidanga se-bachelor, kufuneka uhlangabezane nezi ziqinisekiso zilandelayo:

• Kufuneka ukuba ugqibile inkqubo yokufunda ethi "Ubomi Bomntwana" evunyiweyo yi-"Association of Child Life Professionals". Ngaphandle koko,
• Kufuneka ukuba ugqibe izifundo ezili-10 ubuncinane ezinxulumene nesihloko esithi "Ubomi Bomntwana" kwinqanaba leyunivesithi. Ubuncinane esinye sezi zifundo kufuneka ukuba sifundiswe yi "Certified Child Life Specialist".
• Ukongeza, kufuneka ugqibezele uqeqesho okanye ubudlelane obuthatha iiyure ezingama-600. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe phantsi kweliso elithe ngqo leNgcali yoBomi boMntwana eQinisekisiweyo.
• Okokugqibela, kufuneka uphumelele uvavanyo oluqhutywa yi-Association of Child Life Professionals.

Uyabona, oku akulula. Ekubeni usebenza ngempilo yengqondo yabantwana, kufuneka ube neziqinisekiso ezifanelekileyo.

Yintoni eyenziwa yi-"Child Life Specialist" kwisibhedlele sabantwana?

Kwisibhedlele sabantwana, ezi ngcali zibonelela ngononophelo olugxile kwizigulana nakwiintsapho. Injongo yazo ephambili kukunciphisa nakuphi na ukungonwabi, uloyiko, okanye intlungu umntwana wakho anokuyifumana ngaphambi, ngexesha, nasemva konyango. Zisebenza ukulungiselela wena nosapho lwakho kwaye zikufundise ngexesha lakho esibhedlele.

Zifundisa amaqhinga aluncedo okumelana neengxaki ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lokuba sesibhedlele. La maqhinga aquka ukudlala kunye nemisebenzi ekuvumela ukuba uveze iimvakalelo zakho. Zibonelela ngenkxaso yeemvakalelo kusapho lwakho. Zikwanceda umntwana wakho akhule ngendlela eqhelekileyo, nangona ejongene neengxaki zempilo.

``Ingcali yoBomi boMntwana`` izama ukunceda umntwana aqonde amava akhe kwezonyango. Bamlungiselela kwaye bamfundisa ngendlela efanelekileyo ngokweminyaka nophuhliso lomntwana. Xa umntwana eqonda okwenzekayo kuye, kulula kuye ukumelana nako. Kunokunciphisa nokulimala kwengqondo anokukufumana.

Nawe ungadibana nale ngcali ukuze ufumane ulwalathiso kusapho lwakho. Baza kukunceda ujongane namava ezonyango.

Ezinye zeenkqubo kunye neenkonzo ezinikezelwa yi-`(Child Life Specialist)` zezi:

• Izicwangciso zokuguqula indlela yokuziphatha: Ezi zicwangciso zinceda umntwana ukuba aziqhelanise ngempumelelo nenkqubo entsha yonyango (umz., amayeza emihla ngemihla, ukutya okukhethekileyo).
• Imfundo: Iinkqubo zemfundo ezibonelela ngolwazi malunga nesifo esisandula ukufunyaniswa. Ezi zenzelwe ubudala bomntwana kunye nenqanaba lokuqonda. Ziboniswa ngendlela efanela iimfuno zomntwana, kusetyenziswa amathoyizi, iincwadi kunye netekhnoloji.
• Ukulungiselela unyango lwabantwana kunye nokufundisa ngaphambi kotyando: Ukubonelela ngolwazi olufanelekileyo ngokweminyaka ukunciphisa uloyiko lomntwana, amaxhala, kunye nokungaqondani. Umzekelo, ngaphambi kotyando, ungambonisa unodoli indlela yokwenza utyando, njengomdlalo, kwaye umenze umntwana aluqonde.
• Inkxaso ngexesha leenkqubo: Zinceda ekunciphiseni iintlungu noloyiko lomntwana ngexesha leenkqubo ezifana nokutofa, ukufakwa kwe-cannula, kunye nokucoca amanxeba. Zisebenzisa iindlela ezifana nokuphazamisa, imifanekiso ekhokelwayo, kunye nokuzilolonga ngokuphumla.
• Imisebenzi yokudlala ngonyango: Le misebenzi inokunceda ekwenzeni imeko-bume yesibhedlele ibe yindawo eqhelekileyo yomntwana kwaye inciphise uxinzelelo. Oku kungenziwa ecaleni kwebhedi yomntwana, kumagumbi okudlala, okanye kumagumbi okulinda.
• Umdlalo wezonyango: Ukuvumela umntwana wakho adlale ngezixhobo zonyango, ezifana ne-stethoscope kunye nesirinji (ngaphandle kwenaliti), kunokunceda ekunciphiseni uloyiko lwakhe ngazo. Njengoko umntwana eqhelana nezi zixhobo, ukungonwabi kwakhe kuya kuncipha.
• Inkxaso kubazalwana noodade: Ukunceda abantakwabo nomntwana ogulayo baqonde imeko kwaye bajongane neemvakalelo zabo (ezifana nokudakumba, uloyiko, umsindo). Ukuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo abanokuba nayo malunga nonyango lomntakwabo.

Khumbula, "Ingcali yoBomi boMntwana" ngumntu obaluleke kakhulu kungekuphela nje kwimpilo-ntle yomntwana ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa nakwimpilo-ntle yakhe yengqondo.

Yintoni eyenziwa yi-"Child Life Specialist" kwisibhedlele sabantu abadala?

Aba bantu abapheleli nje kwizibhedlele zabantwana. "Ingcali yoBomi baBantwana" inokunceda nabantwana bezigulana kwizibhedlele zabantu abadala. Khawuthelekelele, umama okanye utata ulaliswe esibhedlele ngenxa yesifo esinzulu. Umntwana omncinci akaqondi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Usenokoyika, usenokuba lusizi. Ngamaxesha anjalo, ezi ngcali zinceda abo bantwana baqonde ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kubazali babo.

Aba bantu basebenza naye nawuphi na umntwana onelungu losapho elikhulileyo esibhedlele. Babonelela ngokulungiselela kunye nemfundo efanelekileyo ngokweminyaka nophuhliso lomntwana. Ukulungiselela umntwana ngale ndlela kunceda kakhulu ekumncedeni ukuba ajongane noxinzelelo aze alulawule kwixesha elide.

``Ingcali yoBomi boMntwana`` igxila kwiimfuno ezikhethekileyo zabantwana kwaye inika iinkonzo ezifana nezi:

• Imfundo: Ungamfundisa umntwana ngesigulo esitsha somntu omdala. Nika ulwazi malunga nesigulo somntu omdala kunye nonyango ngendlela umntwana anokuqonda ngayo.
• Uhlengahlengiso: Lunceda umntwana ukuba aqhelane notshintsho olubonakalayo emzimbeni womntu omdala (umz., ukwehla kobunzima, ukulahleka kweenwele) okanye izakhono zakhe.
• Ukulungiselela: Lungiselela umntwana utyelelo ngaphambi kokuba aye kubona umntu omdala esibhedlele. (Umzekelo: "Utata unikwe ityuwa ngoku, ungoyiki ukubona loo nto, nyana").
• Isikhokelo: Inceda kwiincoko ezinzima (umz., malunga nokulaliswa esibhedlele komntu omdala, ubunzulu besifo, kunye namathuba okuchacha).
• Unyango: Imisebenzi yonyango kunye nokungenelela kusetyenziswa ukujongana neemvakalelo kunye neengxaki umntwana ahlangabezana nazo ngenxa yokugula komntu omdala.
• Inkxaso: Inkxaso inikezelwa kwimiba yokuphela kobomi kunye nemiba yokulila, kusetyenziswa iinkonzo ezikhethekileyo kunye nokhathalelo lokulahlekelwa.

Ndingamfumana njani `(iNgcali yoBomi boMntwana)`?

Ukuba ufuna ukuthetha neNgcali yoBomi boMntwana, thetha nomboneleli wezempilo womntwana wakho. Banokukunceda ufumane izixhobo ozifunayo. Oogqirha nabo banomdla wokukunceda wena nomntwana wakho nijongane nesi sifo kunye nokulaliswa esibhedlele.

Okokugqibela, khumbula oku (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

``Ingcali yoBomi boMntwana`` yingcali yezempilo enceda kwaye isebenza nomntwana wakho xa egula, enzakele, okanye esibhedlele. Injongo yabo ephambili kukunceda ubomi bomntwana wakho buqhubeke njengesiqhelo kangangoko ngeli xesha linzima. Banokunceda ukunciphisa ukungakhululeki umntwana wakho akuvayo ngelixa esesibhedlele kwaye bancede umntwana wakho aqonde imiba yezempilo.

Aba bantu banika inkxaso yeemvakalelo kungekuphela nje kumntwana, kodwa nakuwe nakusapho lwakho lonke. Balapho ukukunceda, ukubonelela ngononophelo olungcono kakhulu kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana wakho uyoyika ukuya esibhedlele okanye ukufumana unyango, ungathandabuzi ukuthetha nogqirha ngaloo nto kwaye ucele uncedo kwi-"Child Life Specialist". Kuya kuba luncedo olukhulu kuhambo lomntwana wakho lokuchacha!

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