Kunzima kangakanani ukuva kugqirha ukuba umama wakho, utata wakho, okanye umntu omthandayo unesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo? Ziindaba ezibuhlungu kakhulu. Eli lixesha elinzima kungekuphela nje kwisigulana, kodwa nakuwe nakusapho lonke olumnyamekelayo. Umntu omthandayo akasekho, kodwa kunzima ukunyamezela ingcamango yokuba umntu omaziyo uyatshintsha kancinci kancinci. Luhlobo oluthile losizi.
Ngoko ke, ukuba wena okanye umntu okwintsapho yakho une-Alzheimer's okanye olunye uhlobo lwe-dementia, masithethe ngezinto ezinokukunceda ukwazi ukumelana nexesha langoku nelizayo.
Wenza ntoni emva kokuba uxilongiwe?
Eli candelo lenzelwe ngokukodwa umntu osandul’ ukuxilongwa. Nangona ingqondo yakho isasebenza kakuhle, kukho izinto onokuzenza.
Yenza oko unako, xa unako.
Oogqirha badla ngokuxelela izigulana ezisandula ukuxilongwa ukuba zinesifo, “Ngelixa usakwazi ukucinga kakuhle, masithethe ngento onokuyenza. Emva koko ungazikhethela indlela ofuna ukuyichitha ngayo iminyaka embalwa ezayo.” Ngale ndlela, ukwenza izigqibo wedwa okanye ngoncedo losapho lwakho kunokukunika amandla amaninzi engqondo.
Umzekelo, kubalulekile ukuba nezinto ezifana neencwadi zomhlaba, amaxwebhu epropathi, kunye nemiba yezomthetho zicwangciswe kwangaphambili. Kukwabubulumko ukulungiselela into efana 'nemiyalelo kwangaphambili', uxwebhu olubhaliweyo oluchaza indlela ofuna unyango lwakho lwenziwe ngayo kwixesha elizayo. Thetha nogqirha wakho ngale nto.
Ingaba kukho uhambo obusoloko ufuna ukuluthatha? Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokucinga ngalo kwaye ulucebe.
Hlalani kunye nonke.
Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive ulusizi, maxa wambi ude udandatheke, emva kokuxilongwa ukuba une-dementia. Kodwa musa ukuzama ukuzihlukanisa okanye ukuhlala egumbini lakho. Endaweni yoko, chitha ixesha nosapho kunye nabahlobo . Yiya kwiinkonzo zonqulo, uhambe, okanye uye kuthenga. Ezi zinto ziya kukuthuthuzela.
Ukuba uziva uphantsi koxinzelelo ebomini kwaye awukwazi kwenza nto, qiniseka ukuba ubonana nogqirha . Angakunika amayeza (amayeza okudakumba), iingcebiso, okanye zombini.
Yiba nolwazi oluhle ngale nto.
Okukhona unolwazi oluthe kratya ngesi sifo kwaye ufumana inkxaso engaphezulu, kokukhona kuya kuba lula ukuhlala usempilweni kwaye ukhuselekile. Kubalulekile ukuba izigulane kunye neentsapho zazo zihlale zinxibelelana rhoqo noogqirha bazo, kunye neengcali ezifana nabasebenzi bezentlalo kunye nabacebisi.
Izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzinyamekele isigulana
Ukuba ungumnakekeli womntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, ezi nkcukacha ziya kuba luncedo kakhulu kuwe.
Yiba nomonde nobubele.
Njengoko isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo siqhubeka, umsindo oqhumayo notshintsho lobuntu lunokuxhaphaka. Khawuthelekelele umama wakho ekhwaza kwaye ekuthethisa ngequbuliso. Khumbula ukuba le ndlela yokuziphatha ayijoliswanga kuwe okanye ngabom . Asinguye yena, sisifo sakhe esithethayo.
Umntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo usenokungaziqondi izinto kuba nje uthethe kakhulu okanye uzama ukunyanzela into ethile. Ngoko ke, ukuba uziva ngathi uphelelwa ngumonde, cela omnye umntu ukuba amnyamekele okwethutyana aze aphumle.
Enye into ebalulekileyo kukuba, “Musa ukuthetha ngaye ngokungathi akakho.” Kwanakwinqanaba lokugqibela le-dementia, isigulane sinokuziva ngathi kukho umntu othetha ngaye. Oku kunokumenza abe nomsindo, abe nenzondo, mhlawumbi ade abe nexhala lokuba kukho umntu omenzakalisayo.
Lowo ukhathalayo kufuneka aqale azikhathalele.
Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Xa unyamekela umntu omthandayo, uxakeke kakhulu kangangokuba ungaphoswa kubuthongo bakho, ukutya, kunye nokuzilolonga. Kodwa kufuneka utye kakuhle, ulale kakuhle, kwaye uzikhathalele.
Kuqhelekile ukuziva unetyala, njengokuthi, "Owu, kuza kwenzeka ntoni kumama ngaphandle kwam?" okanye "Ndim ndedwa omaziyo utata, ndiza kuphuma njani?" Kodwa cela uncedo kwamanye amalungu osapho, izalamane, kunye nabamelwane . Endaweni yokuziva unetyala ngokuhambahamba, khumbula ukuba unokumnyamekela kakuhle umntu omthandayo kuphela ukuba usempilweni kwaye wonwabile.
| Apho ungafumana khona uncedo | Iinkonzo ezikhoyo |
|---|---|
| Izibhedlele zoLuntu / Izibhedlele ezisisiseko | Iingcebiso zonyango, iikliniki zabantu abadala, kunye neenkonzo zokunika iingcebiso. |
| Iindawo zonqulo (itempile, icawa, ikovil) | Intuthuzelo yengqondo, inkxaso yoluntu, kunye namaqela enkxaso. |
| Imibutho yabantu abadala kuluntu | Iinkqubo zentlalo, kunye neenkqubo ezibonelela ngokuphumla kwabo banyamekela abantu abagulayo. |
| ISebe leeNkonzo zoLuntu | Ulwazi malunga noncedo kunye nesikhokelo sikarhulumente. |
Ungalibali iinkumbulo ezilungileyo.
Khupha i-albhamu yeefoto endala. Beka ingoma endala abayithandayo uze uyimamele. Ukukhumbula izinto zakudala ezinje kunokuba ngamava athuthuzelayo nadibanisayo kumntu onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo nakuwe njengomnakekeli wakhe. Uza kumangaliswa yindlela umntu omthandayo akhumbula ngayo, nokuba sele ekwinqanaba lokugqibela lesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo.
Njengakwezinye izifo, kukho iintsuku ezilungileyo nezimbi. Xa unemini embi, cinga, "Ingomso liza kuba ngcono." Xa usiva igama elithi dementia, wonke umntu ucinga ngomntu ohlala ebhedini yakhe. Kodwa eneneni, kukho izinto ezininzi onokuphila ngazo nangona emva kokuba uxilongiwe.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- I-Dementia sisifo esiqhubekekayo, ngoko ke lungela utshintsho oluqhubekayo.
- Nceda isigulana senze izigqibo ezibalulekileyo malunga nekamva laso, kwasekuqaleni kwenkqubo yokuxilonga.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yengqondo ukuba isigulana kunye nomnakekeli babe nolwalamano nabanye abantu.
- Njengomnakekeli, beka impilo yakho phambili . Ungabonelela ngononophelo olufanelekileyo kuphela xa usempilweni.
- Musa ukuthatha utshintsho oluye lwenzeka kwisigulana ngokwakho. Yiba nomonde nobubele. Qonda ukuba yinxalenye yesifo ngokwaso.
- Ngalo lonke ixesha, xa kukho ingxaki, cela ingcebiso kugqirha wakho.
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