Kunye novuyo oluza engqondweni yakho xa ufumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe, umbuzo wokuqala oza engqondweni yakho ngulo "Uza kumzala nini umntwana?". Ukwazi olu suku kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe nakusapho lwakho. Ukwazi olu suku luncedo olukhulu ekulungiseleleni yonke into nasekulungiseleleni ngengqondo ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afike. Ngoko ke namhlanje, masithethe ngendlela yokubala umhla wokuzalwa, oko kukuthi, 'Umhla wokuzalwa' wakho.
Ngamafutshane, yintoni umhla wokugqibela wokuhlawula?
`Umhla wokuzalwa` ngumhla oqikelelweyo wokuzalwa komntwana wakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha iiveki ezingama-38, okanye malunga neentsuku ezingama-266, ukuba umntwana ongekazalwa akhule ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ke, `Umhla wokuzalwa kwakho` umiselwa ngokusekelwe kweli xesha.
Kodwa nantsi into ebaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka uyikhumbule . Olu 'suku lokuGqibela' luqikelelo nje . Ukuchaneka, malunga ne-4% kuphela yeentsana ezizalwa 'ngosuku lokuGqibela' lwazo. Uninzi lweentsana luzalwa ngaphambi okanye emva kwalo mhla. Ngoko ke olu alusosuku olumiselweyo njengoko lubekwe kwilitye.
Kutheni kubaluleke kangaka ukwazi umhla wokugqibela?
Ukwazi umhla oqikelelweyo kubalulekile ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo.
- Lungela: Uza kuba nexesha elaneleyo lokulungiselela izinto ezifana neempahla zomntwana, izinto eziyimfuneko, kunye nebhegi yesibhedlele oyifunayo.
- Yazisa usapho: Ukuba unabanye abantwana, oku kuya kubanceda balungiselele usuku ilungu elitsha eliza kujoyina usapho.
- Unyango lwezonyango: Olu suku lubaluleke kakhulu kugqirha wakho. Olu `suku olufunekayo` lusetyenziselwa ukucwangcisa iimvavanyo, iiskeni, njl.njl. ekufuneka zenziwe kwiiveki ezahlukeneyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kubalulekile nokuthelekisa inani leeveki ukuze ubone ukuba umntwana ukhula kakuhle na.
Siwubala njani lo mhla wokugqibela?
Kukho iindlela ezininzi onokuyiqonda ngazo le nto ekhaya. Kodwa khumbula, umhla ochanekileyo uza kunikwa emva kovavanyo lwe-'Ultrasound' olwenziwe ngugqirha wakho . Ngoku makhe sijonge iindlela eziphambili onokuzisebenzisa ekhaya.
| Indlela yokubala | Ungayenza njani loo nto? | Izinto ekufuneka uzikhumbule |
|---|---|---|
| Ngokwemini yokuqala yexesha lokugqibela lokuya exesheni (LMP) | Yongeza iiveki ezingama-40 (iintsuku ezingama-280) kusuku owaqala ngalo ukuya exesheni lakho lokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe. Abantu abaninzi basebenzisa le ndlela. | Le yeyona ndlela inokuthenjwa onokuyisebenzisa ekhaya, kodwa ukuba umjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni awuqhelekanga, olu balo lusenokuba luphantsi kancinci. |
| Ngomhla wokukhulelwa | Ukuba uyayazi imini yokukhulelwa ngokuqiniseka okupheleleyo, bala uye phambili iiveki ezingama-38 (iintsuku ezingama-266) ukususela ngaloo mini. | Le ndlela ayichanekanga kakhulu kuba isidoda singaphila ngaphakathi emzimbeni ukuya kuthi ga kwiintsuku ezi-5, ngoko ke kunzima ukuxela umhla ochanekileyo wokukhulelwa. |
| Ukuba uvela kunyango lwe-IVF | Ukuba ukhulelwe ngonyango lwe-In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), ungabala usuku ngokusekelwe kumhla wokudluliselwa kwe-embryo. Ugqirha wakho uza kukuchazela oku ngokweenkcukacha. | Le ndlela isebenza kuphela kwabo baye bafumana unyango lwe-IVF. Isigqibo sokugqibela senziwa ngugqirha. |
Yintoni omawuyenze ukuba awukhumbuli ixesha lakho lokugqibela lokuya exesheni (LMP)?
Ungakhathazeki. Abantu abaninzi abakhumbuli lo mhla ngqo. Loo nto ayiyongxaki. Xa usiya kugqirha, uza kwenza iskeni ye-'Ultrasound' aze alinganise ubungakanani bomntwana, aze akuxelele ukuba ukhulelwe ixesha elingakanani kwaye nini 'Umhla Wokuzalwa'. Umhla ugqirha awunikayo ngowona mhla uchanekileyo.
Ngaba umhla wokugqibela onikwe ngugqirha ungatshintshwa?
Ewe, kuqhelekile. Ngamanye amaxesha "Umhla Wokuzalwa" onikwa kwiskeni yakho yokuqala unokuba ziintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphandle kwiskeni ezilandelayo. Oku kungenxa yokuba ugqirha kusenokufuneka enze utshintsho oluncinci kumhla wokuzalwa owanikwa ekuqaleni ngokusekelwe kwinqanaba lokukhula komntwana kamva.
Khawucinge nje, ucinga ukuba uneeveki ezisi-8 ngokusekwe kwi-LMP yakho. Kodwa ukuba iskeni ibonisa ukuba umntwana uneeveki ezisi-7 ngokusekwe kubukhulu bakhe, ugqirha wakho unokurhoxisa 'Umhla Wokuzalwa' wakho malunga neveki. OkuKuqhelekile kakhulu, ungakhathazeki ngayo.
Ukukhulelwa kudla ngokuthathwa njenge "sexesha elipheleleyo" xa kufikelela kwiiveki ezingama-37 . Ngoko ke umntwana wakho unokuzalwa ngaphambi 'koMhla wokuGqibela', oko kuthetha ukuba nanini na phakathi kweeveki ezingama-37 nezingama-40.
Ingaba umhla wokuzalwa wahlukile kumawele?
Ewe, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile. Xa ukhulelwe amawele okanye amawele amathathu (amaninzi), i-'Due Date' ibalwa ngendlela efanayo naleyo yabanye. Oko kukuthi, ngokusekelwe kwi-LMP kunye ne-'Ultrasound' scan.
Kodwa umahluko apha kukuba xa kukhulelwa amawele, abantwana badla ngokuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha . Yiyo loo nto oogqirha bedla ngokuceba ukuzala abantwana kwiiveki ezingama-36 okanye ezingama-37. Ngoko ke, nokuba ubala njani umhla wakho wokuzalwa, ugqirha wakho uza kukuxelela ukuba ulindele ukuba abantwana bazalwe kwangethuba.
Ukukhulelwa kungahlala njani iiveki ezine nangona sele kudlule iiveki ezimbini ukususela ekukhulelweni?
Lo ngumbuzo abantu abaninzi abanawo. Kulula kakhulu. Ukukhulelwa akuqali ngomhla owakhawula ngawo , kuqala ngomhla wokuqala wexesha lakho lokugqibela lokuya exesheni (LMP) .
Khawuthelekelele ukuba umjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni uthatha iintsuku ezingama-28. Ukuvuthwa kweqanda kudla ngokuqala malunga nosuku lwe-14. Ukukhulelwa kwenzeka emva koko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuze kube lula ukubala kwaye njengomkhuba oqhelekileyo, oogqirha babala ukususela kusuku lokuqala lwenyanga yakho. Ngoko ke xa ixesha lakho liphela kwaye ufumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe, nangona ubukhulelwe malunga neeveki ezimbini kuphela, sele uneeveki ezi-4 ukhulelwe .
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Umhla wokuzalwa komntwana wakho luqikelelo nje oluqikelelweyo . Bambalwa kakhulu abantwana abazalwa ngaloo mini.
- Ungabala umhla wokuzalwa kwakho ekhaya ngokusekelwe kwixesha lakho lokugqibela lokuya exesheni (i-LMP), kodwa umhla ochanekileyo nothembekileyo uya kunikwa emva kokuhlolwa
Ultrasoundngugqirha wakho . - Ukwazi umhla wokuzalwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela ukufika komntwana kunye nokwenza uvavanyo lwezonyango olufunekayo ngexesha elifanelekileyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
- Ungakhathazeki ukuba umhla wakho wokuzalwa utshintsha ngeentsuku ezimbalwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kuqhelekile kakhulu .
- Ukuba unemibuzo malunga nokukhulelwa kwakho, ukukhula komntwana wakho, kunye nomhla wokuzalwa kwakho, thetha ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho ngayo loo nto.
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