Ukutyelela i-OB/GYN kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo ngamanye amaxesha. Yinto eviwa ngumntu wonke. Ngoko ke, ukuba ungumntu otshintshe isini okanye umntu ongengowasetyhini kwaye ucinga ngokukhulelwa, kubaluleke kangakanani ukufumana ugqirha oqondayo iimfuno zakho kwaye akuhloniphe? Ukukhulelwa kufuneka kube lixesha elimnandi nelinomdla ebomini bakho. Nokuba akusoloko kumnandi, kufuneka uzive ngathi usendaweni apho unokuthi uthethe khona kwaye ube yinxalenye yokhathalelo lwakho. Ngoko ke, makhe sijonge indlela yokufumana i-OB/GYN ehlonipha ubuwena bakho kwaye ikuxhase.
Masifumane uncedo kwi-intanethi kuqala.
Ngoku kukho inani elikhulayo leewebhusayithi kunye namaqela eendaba zoluntu azinikele kuluntu lwe-LGBTQ+, anikezela ngolwazi lwezempilo. Oku kunokukunceda ufumane amagama kunye nolwazi loqhagamshelwano lwabantu ababonelela ngeenkonzo ezahlukeneyo. Ingakumbi xa kuziwa ekukhulelweni kwabantu abatshintshe isini, ungakhangela ngokukodwa ugqirha wezifo zabesifazane, ikliniki yokuzala, okanye iziko lokubeleka.
Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzizama:
- Khangela kuGoogle: Kulula kakhulu. Zama ukukhangela amagama anje "i-OB/GYN enobuhlobo nabantu abatshintshe isini eSri Lanka" okanye " ukhathalelo lokukhulelwa oluhambelana nabantu abatshintshe isini". Ezinye izibhedlele kunye neekliniki ziya kuthumela ulwazi malunga noku kwiwebhusayithi zazo.
- Jonga iiwebhusayithi zezibhedlele kunye neekliniki: Ezinye zezibhedlele ezinkulu zabucala eSri Lanka zinewebhusayithi ezikhankanya iinkonzo ezikhethekileyo ezizibonelela kuluntu lwe-LGBTQ. Ukuba iwebhusayithi inolwazi malunga neentsapho ze-LGBTQ okanye abantu abatshintshe isini, olo luphawu oluhle kakhulu.
- Buza umboneleli wakho weinshorensi: Ukuba uneinshorensi yezempilo, ungafowunela inkonzo yabathengi babo uze ucele uluhlu lweengcali zezifo zabesifazane ezinceda abantu abatshintshe isini sabo.
Buza abantu obathembayo.
Nangona i-intanethi iluncedo, ngamanye amaxesha ukuthetha ngomlomo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumana impendulo. Buza abahlobo bakho, usapho, okanye umntu omthembayo ukuba bamazi ugqirha onolu hlobo lokuqonda.
Nazi ezinye iindlela:
- Buza abanye oogqirha: Usenokuba sele ubazi abantu abafana nogqirha wakho (GP) okanye ugqirha wengqondo abaziqondayo ezi mfuno, njengoogqirha bezifo zabesifazane. Kuba oogqirha ababonelela ngolu hlobo lweenkonzo ezikhethekileyo badla ngokuba nolwalamano oluhle omnye komnye.
- Joyina Amaqela Oluntu: Ungafumana ulwazi ngamaqela e-LGBTQ+ kwimidiya yoluntu efana ne-Facebook. Kwakhona, buza nabanye abazali abatshintshe isini abakhe badlula kolu lwazi. Amava abo aya kuba luncedo kuwe.
Uyazi njani ukuba le yindawo efanelekileyo kuwe?
Kusekho indlela ende ekufuneka ihanjwe ukuqinisekisa ukulingana kwezempilo kubantu abaguqula isini, abangengobantu ababhinqileyo, okanye abanezinye iimpawu zesini. Kodwa imeko ingcono kakhulu ngoku kunangaphambili. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokulinganisa ukuba indawo ikulungele na kwaye iyakuxhasa.
Uvavanyo lokuqala olungcono kukusebenzisa isimelabizo osithandayo xa uzazisa. Ukuba wonke umntu kubasebenzi, ukususela kugqirha, kubahlengikazi, ukuya kumgcini weposi, ukubiza ngegama olithandayo, kulungile oko.
| Oko uza kukubona kwikliniki yenkxaso | |
|---|---|
| Iifomu zokungenisa | Ezi zisebenzisa ulwimi olungathathi cala ngokwesini, zingaphelelanga kwisini kuphela. Kusenokubakho indawo eyahlukileyo yegama kunye nezimelabizo ozikhethileyo. |
| Ukuziphatha kwabasebenzi | Uthetha nawe ngentlonelo nokuqonda. Ubiza igama lakho nesimelabizo osithandayo. |
| Uvavanyo lwezonyango | Baza kucinga ngendlela okulungele ngayo. Umzekelo, ugqirha unokucebisa ukuba wenze i-ultrasound yesisu endaweni ye-ultrasound ye-transvaginal. |
I-Testosterone kunye nempilo yengqondo
Kodwa kwabanye abantu, ukuyeka i-testosterone kunokubangela okanye kuyenze mandundu i-dysphoria yesini . Olu luxinzelelo olukhulu lweemvakalelo olubangelwa kukungalingani komzimba womntu kunye nobuntu bakhe besini. Ukuba ukhe waba nale meko ngaphambili, kubalulekile ukuthetha nogqirha wakho malunga nokufumana inkxaso yempilo yengqondo ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe.
Yeyiphi imibuzo omele uyibuze ugqirha wakho?
Ukubuza imibuzo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ufumane ukuba ugqirha wakho ufanelekile na kuwe. Zama ukubuza eminye imibuzo efana nale.
| Imibuzo ekufuneka uyibuze |
|---|
| Yintoni wena nabasebenzi eniyenzayo ukuze umntu otshintshe isini okanye ongengowesibini azive ekhululekile xa efika ekliniki? |
| Ngaba uyaziqonda iimfuno zempilo zamadoda atshintshe isini, abo bathatha unyango kunye nabo bangaluthathiyo unyango lweehomoni? |
| Ndingaqalisa nini ukuthatha i-testosterone kwakhona emva kokubeleka okanye ukuncancisa? |
| Ngaba wena nabasebenzi bakho nifumene uqeqesho olukhethekileyo kwimpilo yentlalo-yokuziphatha eguqukayo? |
| Bangaphi abantu abakhulelweyo abatshintshe isini okhe wasebenza nabo ngaphambili? |
Khawucinge nje, masithi ugqirha akasebenzanga nabantu abanjalo. Oko akusoloko kuyingxaki. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuhlonipha, ukufunda, nokuzimisela ukuziqhelanisa noko kufunekayo.
Izinto ugqirha anokuzibuza kuwe
Ugqirha wakho uhlala ethetha ngeevithamini zokukhulelwa, uvavanyo lwemfuza, kunye namayeza omele uwathathe. Ugqirha oqonda iimfuno zakho unokubuza imibuzo efana nale:
- Ungathanda ukufunda njani ngokuzala umntwana?
- Ngaba ujonge ukuncancisa umntwana wakho? Ukuba akunjalo, ungathanda ukufunda ngobisi lwefomyula?
- Ngaba usebenzisa isidoda seqabane lakho, okanye udinga isidoda esinikelwa ngumxhasi?
- Ngaba unalo iqabane okanye olunye usapho okanye abahlobo abakuxhasayo?
- Ngaba kukho icebo lokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo emva kokubeleka?
Khumbula, "I-Testosterone ayilohlobo lolawulo lokuzalwa." Le yinto edla ngokungachazwa ngokucacileyo. Ngoko ke, thetha nogqirha wakho malunga nolawulo lokuzalwa emva kokubeleka.
Sifanele sithethe nini ngokuzala kwexesha elizayo?
Kungumbono omhle ukuthetha ngocwangciso lwakho losapho kwangethuba, ingakumbi ukuba usebenzisa unyango lweehomoni. Akukabonakali ukuba unyango lwe-testosterone luya kuchaphazela umgangatho weqanda lakho okanye lunciphise amathuba akho okukhulelwa kamva. Nangona kunjalo, lunokumisa ukuya kwakho exesheni kwaye lufihle naziphi na iimpawu zeengxaki zokuzala.
Ukuba unengxaki yokukhulelwa okanye unemibuzo malunga nonyango lweehomoni, thetha nogqirha wakho wezifo zabesifazane. Angakuthumela kwi -endocrinologist yokuzala . Aba ngoogqirha abaqeqeshwe ngokukodwa ukunceda abantu bakhulelwe. Banokuqonda okuhle kakhulu indlela iihomoni kunye ne-testosterone ezisebenza ngayo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Xa ukhulelwe njengomntu otshintshe isini, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba neqela lezonyango elikuqondayo nelikuhloniphayo.
- Funa uncedo kwi-intanethi, abahlobo abathembekileyo, kunye nabanye oogqirha ukuze ufumane ugqirha wezifo zabesifazane onokukuxhasa.
- Ungayiqonda indlela ekunika ngayo inkxaso engakumbi ekliniki ngokujonga iifomu zabo zokubhalisa, indlela abasebenzi abaziphethe ngayo, kunye nendlela abakuhlola ngayo.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe, thetha ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho malunga nokuyeka i-testosterone kunye nemiphumo yengqondo enokubangelwa yiyo (i-Gender Dysphoria).
- Musa ukoyika ukubuza ugqirha wakho imibuzo. Ugqirha olungileyo ngumntu okuhloniphayo, omamela imibuzo yakho, nozimisele ukufunda.
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