Ilungu elitsha liza kujoyina usapho lwakho , akunjalo? Okanye mhlawumbi sele ungumama onothando womntwana omncinci. Umbuzo omkhulu oza engqondweni yethu kule mihla ngulo, 'Ngoobani oogqirha abalungileyo kwimpilo yam nakwimpilo yomntwana wam?' Sonke sifuna ukufumana unyango olufanelekileyo kuthi nakumntwana wethu. Ngoko ke namhlanje, masithethe ngoogqirha ababini ababaluleke kakhulu. NgooGqirha babantwana kunye noGqirha wooMama .
Ngubani lo gqirha wabantwana?
Ngamafutshane, ugqirha wabantwana ngugqirha womntwana wakho. Lo ngugqirha oxilonga aze anyange zonke iingxaki zempilo zomzimba, zengqondo, nezokuziphatha komntwana wakho ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwiminyaka eli-18 ubudala. Aba gqirha baqeqeshwe ngokukodwa ukuxilonga nokunyanga iintlobo ngeentlobo zezifo zabantwana, ukusuka kumkhuhlane oqhelekileyo ukuya kwizifo ezinzulu ngakumbi.
Aba gqirha baphumelele kwisikolo sezonyango baza bagqiba iminyaka emithathu yokufunda ngokukodwa kwi-pediatrics, ngoko ke banolwazi olunzulu ngempilo yabantwana.
Ugqirha wabantwana angakunceda njani wena nomntwana wakho?
Umntwana wakho kufuneka abone ugqirha wezingane rhoqo ade abe neminyaka emibini ubudala, aze emva koko abe kanye ngonyaka ade abe neminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Emva koko, ukutyelela rhoqo ngonyaka kudla ngokwanela. Kwakhona, ugqirha wezingane ngumntu wokuqala omele uthethe naye ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo .
| Imisebenzi ephambili yogqirha wezingane | |
|---|---|
| Uvavanyo lomzimba | Ukujonga ukukhula komntwana, ubunzima bakhe, ubude bakhe, njl. |
| Ukunika ugonyo | Ukunika umntwana zonke izitofu zogonyo ezifunekayo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. |
| Uvavanyo lokukhula kwembali | Ukujonga ukuba ukukhula komntwana, ukuziphatha kwakhe, kunye nezakhono zakhe (iziganeko zophuhliso) ziyenzeka na kwiminyaka efanelekileyo. |
| Ukuxilongwa kunye nonyango lwesifo | Ukuchonga nokunyanga izifo zomntwana, usulelo, ukwenzakala, kunye nezinye iingxaki zempilo. |
| Ingcebiso kubazali | Ukukunika ulwazi oludingayo malunga nempilo yomntwana wakho, ukhuseleko lwakhe, ukutya kwakhe kakuhle, kunye nokuqina komzimba wakhe. |
| Ukudluliselwa kwiingcali | Ukuba kuvela imeko efuna unyango olukhethekileyo kumntwana, thumela umntwana kwingcali efanelekileyo. |
Ngubani ke lo gqirha wotyando?
Ingcali yokubelekisa-ugqirha wabasetyhini (okanye i-VOG, njengoko sibabiza njalo kwintetho yemihla ngemihla) ngugqirha ogxile ekukhulelweni, ekubelekeni, nakwinkqubo yokuzala yabasetyhini. Lo gqirha unokunyamekela impilo yakho, kungekuphela nje ukususela kumhla okhulelweyo de umntwana azalwe, kodwa nasemva koko.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba lo gqirha ngumntu oyintloko oza kukhusela impilo yakho neyeyomntwana wakho ongekazalwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho.
Iyintoni indima kagqirha wokubelekisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Ugqirha wakho wokukhulelwa (OB/GYN) uya kuba luncedo olukhulu kuwe kulo lonke ixesha lokukhulelwa kwakho.
- Ukubeka esweni impilo yakho neyomntwana wakho: Iiskeni eziqhelekileyo (ii-ultrasound), imilinganiselo, kunye nezinye iimvavanyo zenziwa ukujonga impilo yakho neyomntwana wakho.
- Chonga iingozi zempilo: Jonga iimeko ezifana noxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu, isifo seswekile , kunye nosulelo olunokuchaphazela ukukhulelwa, kwaye unikezele ngonyango olufunekayo.
- Inika iingcebiso: Inika iingcebiso malunga nokutya okufanelekileyo, umthambo, amayeza, kunye neendlela zokuhlala usempilweni.
- Inceda kwiingxaki zokukhulelwa:Ifundisa amayeza okunyanga izinto ezinje ngesicaphucaphu sasekuseni, iintlungu zomqolo nemilenze, kunye neentlungu zesifuba ezifunyanwa ngabantu abaninzi.
- Ukulungiselela ukuzala: Uza kufundiswa ngento eyenzekayo ngexesha lokuzala nendlela yokuhlangabezana nayo.
- Ukuzala umntwana: Xa ixesha lifika, uza kunceda ekuziseni umntwana wakho emhlabeni.
- Ukhathalelo emva kokubeleka: Emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe, impilo yakho iya kuhlolwa ide ibuyele esiqhelweni.
Basebenzisana njani aba gqirha babini?
Khawucinge ukuba uye esibhedlele ukuyokuzala umntwana . Apho, uhlala ubuzwa ukuba ukhethe na ugqirha wabantwana womntwana.
- Emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe: Kwangoko nje umntwana ezelwe, ugqirha wezingane esibhedlele okanye ugqirha wezingane omkhethileyo uza kuza aze kumhlola umntwana.
- Ukuba umntwana uzelwe ngaphambi kwexesha: Ukuba umntwana uzelwe ngaphambi kwexesha, umntwana uya kungeniswa kwiYunithi yoKhathalelo oluNzulu lweZifo eziSandulelayo (i-NICU) . Oogqirha kunye nabongikazi abaziingcali apho baya kumnyamekela kakuhle umntwana ade aphile ngokwaneleyo ukuba abuyiselwe ekhaya.
- Ukwabelana Ngolwazi: Emva kokuba uphumile esibhedlele, uza kunika ugqirha wakho wabantwana zonke iirekhodi zempilo yomntwana wakho ukususela ekuhlaleni kwakhe esibhedlele. Emva koko kuya kufuneka ubone ugqirha wakho wabantwana kwiintsuku ezi-2-3 emva kokuba umntwana wakho ephumile esibhedlele kwaye ngamaxesha athile emva koko.
Ugqirha wakho wokuzala uza kusebenza njengeqela nabahlengikazi kunye nabanye oochwephesha bezempilo ngexesha lokubeleka kwakho. Ungacela omnye ugqirha kwiqela leqela loogqirha bakho ukuba abelekise umntwana wakho. Kungcono ukubuza ugqirha wakho ngale nto kwangethuba.
Ungakhetha njani ugqirha olungileyo?
Ukukhetha ugqirha olungileyo sisigqibo esibaluleke kakhulu oza kusenza. Kububulumko ukuqala ukukhangela ugqirha wabantwana kwiinyanga ezi-2-3 ngaphambi kokuba ube nomntwana. Ungabuza ugqirha wakho wokubelekisa, usapho, kunye nabahlobo.
Izinto ekufuneka uziqwalasele xa ukhetha ugqirha wezingane olungileyo
| Izinto ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe | Imibuzo omele uzibuze yona |
|---|---|
| Amava kunye negama | Ingaba lo gqirha unegama elihle? Lungakanani uqeqesho lwakhe kunye namava akhe? |
| Ukuhlonela izimvo zakho | Ngaba ugqirha uyazihlonipha izimvo zam malunga nokuncancisa nokugonywa? |
| Unxibelelwano | Uyayiphulaphula ngenyameko into endiyithethayo? Ngaba uyazicacisa izinto ngokucacileyo? |
| Iimeko ezingxamisekileyo | Ufowunela njani xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo, ebusuku? Ngubani omnye oza kukubona xa kungekho gqirha? |
| Ukulula nokufikeleleka | Ingaba itshaneli ikufutshane neziko/isibhedlele? Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukufumana idinga? |
Izinto ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe xa ukhetha ugqirha ofanelekileyo wokubelekisa
| Izinto ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe | Imibuzo omele uzibuze yona |
|---|---|
| Ukuzimisela ukuzala | Ngaba ugqirha uza kundixhasa ekubelekeni kwam endikufunayo (umz., ngokwendalo, ngaphandle kwamayeza entlungu)? |
| Iindlela zonyango | Kweziphi iimeko apho kwenziwa khona utyando lwe-cesarean (C-sections) okanye i-episiotomies (ukusikwa kwilungu lobufazi)? |
| Ulawulo lweentlungu | Ungayilawula njani intlungu ngexesha lokubeleka? Ziziphi iindlela onokukhetha kuzo? |
| Abanye oogqirha | Ngubani omnye oza kukubona xa ugqirha engekho? Ndingambona loo gqirha kwangethuba? |
| Uluvo lomlingane wakho | Ucinga ntoni umyeni/iqabane lam ngalo gqirha? Ngaba ukhululekile ukuthetha nalo gqirha? |
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ugqirha wezingane yingcali ejongana nempilo yomntwana wakho ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya ekufikeni kwakhe ebudaleni.
- Ingcali yokubelekisa yingcali ejongana nempilo yakho ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukuzala, nasemva kokubeleka.
- Zombini ezi zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kuhambo lwakho nolomntwana wakho lwempilo.
- Xa ukhetha ugqirha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha umntu oziva ukhululekile kuye, umntu okuqondayo, nomntu onokumthemba.
- Ungaze woyike ukuxoxa nogqirha wakho ngayo nayiphi na imibuzo, uloyiko, okanye amathandabuzo onawo.
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