Masithethe ngeelekese ezifunyanwa ngabantwana ngeHalloween. Icebiso elibalulekileyo kubazali!

Ngoko ke, njengoko kusondela elinye ixesha leeholide, ingakumbi ngosuku olufana neHalloween olubhiyozelwa kumazwe aseNtshona, abantwana bethu abancinci bafumana zonke iintlobo zeelekese, akunjalo? Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana bafumana iilekese ezinjalo kwimibhiyozo eyahlukeneyo kunye nemibhiyozo yokuzalwa kwilizwe lethu. Ngoko ke, njengomama okanye utata okhathaleleyo ngempilo yabantwana babo , usenokuba uzibuza, "Owu, ulawula njani oku kutya kumnandi? Ngaba kufuneka umvumele umntwana wakho atye kangangoko afuna? Okanye kufuneka ubeke umda?" Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo koku. Kodwa masithethe ngale nto kancinci, iya kukunceda ukhethe indlela ekufaneleyo.

Kutheni kufuneka sicinge kangaka ngale nto imnandi kangaka?

Ngamafutshane, ukuba nento eninzi kakhulu ayilunganga. Ubumnandi buyinto enye enjalo.

• Umonakalo onokwenzeka emazinyweni: Ukutya iilekese rhoqo, ingakumbi itshokolethi kunye netofi, kunokubangela ukubola kwamazinyo . Ukuba amazinyo akho anombala emncinci, kunokuba yingxaki enkulu kumntwana wakho.
• Iziphumo zempilo: Xa kutyiwa iswekile eninzi ngaxeshanye, inqanaba leswekile egazini linokunyuka ngequbuliso lize lehle. Oku kunokwenza umntwana azive ediniwe kwaye ediniwe . Kwakhona, ukutya iswekile eninzi ekuhambeni kwexesha kunokukhokelela ekutyebeni okungeyomfuneko emntwaneni , kwaye kunokukhokelela kwizifo ezifana ne-`(Type 2 Diabetes Mellitus)` kwixesha elizayo.
• Imikhwa yokutya : Ukuba umntwana ufumene iincasa ezimnandi esemncinci, umdla wakhe wokutya okunempilo njengemifuno neziqhamo unokuncipha .

Kodwa anditsho oku ukuze ndikoyikise, kulungile? Ukuba ndiyaqonda nje kancinci. Ukutya incasa encinci ngosuku lwemibhiyozo akuyonto inkulu, yindlela esiziphatha ngayo eyona nto ibalulekileyo.

Ngaba kufuneka senze ezi zinto ngaphambi kokuba sikhethe "iTrick-or-Treat"?

Lisiko labantwana ukuya kwindlu ngendlu ngeHalloween baze baqokelele iilekese ezibizwa ngokuba yi "Trick or Treat". Nangona kungekho nto ikhethekileyo kweli lizwe lethu, usenokuqokelela iilekese ezininzi ezinje xa usiya kwitheko lokuzalwa okanye kwimibhiyozo yoNyaka oMtsha, akunjalo? Ngoko ke, zama ezi zinto ngaphambi kokuba uhambe.

• Nika umntwana wakho isidlo esimnandi: Ngaphambi kokuba aye kwindawo aza kuqokelela kuyo iilekese, mnike ukutya okunesondlo ukuze azalise isisu sakhe . Oku kuya kunciphisa umnqweno wokutya iilekese xa elambile. Cinga ngako, xa ulambile, uziva ufuna ukutya nantoni na efikayo.
• Thetha kwangethuba: Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha nomntwana wakho ngeelekese kwangethuba.
• "Nyana/ntombi, uza kufumana itshokolethi eninzi namhlanje. Kodwa asiyi kuyitya yonke ngaxeshanye, kulungile?"
• "Masihambe siye ekhaya sibone ukuba nifumene malini. Emva koko wena nomama/utata ningathetha nize nigqibe ekubeni niza kutya njani kancinci."

Ngale ndlela, ukufikelela kwisivumelwano esincinci kwangaphambili kunokunciphisa iingxaki ezininzi ezinokubakho kamva.

Uzilawula njani iilekese ozizise ekhaya?

Kulungile, ngoku ubuyile ekhaya uphethe ibhegi yeelekese. Wenza ntoni ngoku?

Masibone ukuba zingaphi ezifumanekayo kuqala.

Bala iilekese umntwana wakho azifumeneyo kunye naye. Ungenza oku kube ngumdlalo omncinci. "Owu... jonga ukuba zingaphi itshokolethi uNimal azifumeneyo!" Emva koko umntwana uya kuba nombono wokuba zingakanani na izinto anazo.

Uzigcina phi ezi?

Le yingxaki ebaluleke kakhulu.

• Musa ukugcina esi sidlo simnandi kwigumbi lokulala lomntwana wakho nangasiphi na isizathu . Cinga nje, umntwana omncinci anganyamezela njani ibhokisi yetshokholethi phambi kwamehlo akhe? Kunokuba sisilingo esingenakuphikiswa kuye.
• Eyona nto ingcono kukugcina ezi lekese kwindawo apho umntwana angenakuzibona rhoqo kwaye angakwazi ukuzifikelela lula. Mhlawumbi kwikhabhathi ephezulu ekhitshini.

Ngaba ubeka imida okanye uvumela umntwana wakho azikhethele?

Oku ngokwenene yinto ekufuneka uyithathele isigqibo ngokusekelwe kwindlela umntwana wakho aziphethe ngayo kunye nendlela atya ngayo.

• Kukho abantwana abatya enye okanye ezimbini baze bagcine ezinye ukuze bazithengele kamva. Ukuba kunjalo, kulungile ukubavumela benze izigqibo ezithile. Kodwa kulungile ukubabeka esweni.
• Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho uluhlobo oluzama ukutya yonke into ayifumanayo ngaxeshanye, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ubeke umda omncinci.

"Kulungile, nyana, masitye ezi tshokolethi zimbini kunye nale tofi yanamhlanje. Siza kutya ezinye ngomso, kulungile?" Thetha ngothando, kwaye ubandakanye umntwana wakho kwisigqibo. Ngaleyo ndlela, akayi kuziva ngathi ubeke umqathango omkhulu.

Ukuphumla kancinci ngosuku lwemibhiyozo

Ngeziganeko ezikhethekileyo ezifana neHalloween okanye imihla yokuzalwa, kulungile ukutya iilekese ezingaphezulu kunesiqhelo. Kodwa kufuneka kube ngaphakathi kwemida. Emva koko thetha nomntwana wakho ngendlela yokutya iilekese eziseleyo ngezixa ezincinci kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo. Mhlawumbi enye okanye ezimbini ngosuku.

Okubaluleke kakhulu: Musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba angatyi ukutya kwakhe okuphambili (isidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini, nesidlo sangokuhlwa) ngenxa yolu bumnandi. Kulungile ukutya iqhekeza lelekese xa isisu sakho sigcwele, kodwa ukutya iilekese xa ulambile akulunganga.

Ngaba nathi singaba ngumzekelo?

Xa sifundisa abantwana imikhwa emihle, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubona ukuba siyazenza na ezo zinto.

• Ukuba nguwe ngokwakho otya iilekese ezininzi, akulunganga ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba “angazityi,” akunjalo? Ngoko ke, ukuba nawe utya iilekese, zitye ngokulinganisela.
• Enye imfihlo encinci: Indlela elungileyo yokunciphisa inani leelekese ozizisa ekhaya kukuzithenga ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Oku kuya kunciphisa isilingo kuwe nakusapho lonke sokuzitya ngeze.
• Ukuba uneelekese ezininzi ezisele emva kwepati, zinike abantu ongabaziyo, okanye uzilahle ukuba kuyimfuneko. (Nangona oku kubuhlungu kancinci, ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko xa ucinga ngempilo.)

"Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndinezinto ezaneleyo" – masixelele umntwana oku

Le yinto ebaluleke kakhulu: ukufundisa umntwana ukumamela umzimba wakhe .

• "Nyana, ungathanda enye itshokolethi? Okanye uzele?"
• "Ukuba uziva uhluthi okanye ukhathazekile ngelixa usitya, kulungile ukuyeka?"

Ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukutya kuphela ngomlinganiselo awudingayo (ukutya ngononophelo) ngale ndlela kuya kuba sisifundo esibalulekileyo ebomini bakhe bonke.

Ezinye izinto onokuzinika endaweni yeelekese

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba usoloko unika abantu abacela iilekese kuwe, okanye nomntwana wakho iilekese. Nazi ezinye zeengcinga:

Izinto ezimnandi ezingezizo zokutya

• Izitikha ezintle
• Izinto zokudlala ezincinci (ezincinci ezifana neemoto, oonodoli)
• Iitattoo zexeshana (abancinci bayazithanda ezi)
• Iseti yamazinyo obuxoki okudlala ngawo (alungele ukwenza imigibe)
• Iibhotile ezincinci zokwenza iibhola zesepha
• Izinto zokudlala ezincinci (umz., idekhi yamakhadi)
• Ezi zinto zihlala zifumaneka lula kwiivenkile ezithengisa izinto zepati.

Ukutya okunempilo

• Ipakethi yama-pretzels amancinci
• Iipakethi ezincinci zomxube wendlela (ungazenzela ekhaya)
• Iibhokisi ezincinci zeerayisi
• Isithambisi esingenaswekile (esi sikwafumaneka nakwiivenkile ngoku, kodwa asilunganga njengoko kufanele ukuba sinjalo)
• Iibhokisi ezincinci zeenkozo ezityiwa ngaphandle kobisi

Lumka ngezinto eziyingozi kubantwana abancinci!

Ungakulibali oku. Ingakumbi xa unika abantwana abancinci kakhulu (abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-3 ubudala), lumka ngezinto abanokuziva bexinezelekile.

• Iitofi ezincinci eziqinileyo
• Iziqwenga ezincinci ezinokuphuma kwiithoyi
• Amantongomane athile

Cinga kabini phambi kokuba unike izinto ezinje.

Okokugqibela, khumbula: olu lusuku olunye kuphela ngonyaka!

Ngoku, emva kwayo yonke le nto, usenokuba ucinga, "Wow, le yingxaki enkulu." Kodwa ungacingi njalo.

IHalloween, uNyaka oMtsha, iKrisimesi, kunye neentsuku zokuzalwa ziza kuphela ngenani eliqingqiweyo leentsuku ngonyaka. Ukuba usapho lwakho lutya ukutya okunempilo ixesha eliseleyo, "impazamo" encinci ngosuku olunye okanye ezimbini ayizukwenza mahluko mkhulu.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukulinganisela . Kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kokunika umntwana wakho iilekese ngalo lonke ixesha nokumnika into encinci ngosuku olukhethekileyo. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba onwabe kancinci ngeentsuku ezinje kwaye ulawule ngobulumko.

Okokugqibela, khumbula oku.(Umyalezo oya nawo ekhaya)

Kulungile, masikukhumbuze ngezinto ezimbalwa esithethe ngazo esicinga ukuba zibalulekile kuwe:

• Ukulungiselela yinto yokuqala: ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho atye iilekese ezininzi, thetha naye uze umnike ukutya okulula.
• Thetha ngemida: Misela imida efanelekileyo ngokusekelwe kwiminyaka yomntwana wakho kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe. Bandakanya umntwana wakho kwisigqibo.
• Iilekese: Zigcine kude nokubonwa nokufikeleleka ebantwaneni.
• Yiba ngumzekelo: Indlela olawula ngayo izinto zakho ezithandekayo ngumzekelo omhle kumntwana wakho.
• Cinga ngezinye iindlela: Akunyanzelekanga ukuba unike abantu iilekese rhoqo. Unganika nabantu ukutya okunempilo okanye izipho ezincinci ezingezizo zokutya.
• Jonga umfanekiso opheleleyo: Ukuba usempilweni phantse unyaka wonke, ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngesidlo esimnandi esincinci ngosuku olukhethekileyo.

Ngoko ke, nokuba ngulo Halloween okanye nawuphi na omnye umbhiyozo, nonke nifanele nikwazi ukonwabela iilekese nomntwana wenu ngendlela eyonwabisayo neqondakalayo! Emva koko umntwana uya konwaba, nawe uya konwaba!

Incasa emnandi, impilo yabantwana, iHalloween, ukutya kwemikhosi, iswekile, iingcebiso zobuzali, imikhwa enempilo