Ingaba umntwana wakho omncinci uphefumla ngequbuliso? (Isiphonso Esibambe Umphefumlo) Masithethe ngale nto!

Ngaba umntwana wakho omncinci ukhe abambe umphefumlo wakhe ngequbuliso? Umele ukuba uzive usoyika kakhulu ngelo xesha, akunjalo? Yinto ephazamisayo ngokwenene ukuyibona. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, namhlanje siza kufunda ngqo ngale 'spelingi yokubamba umphefumlo' okanye ngokwezonyango `(Spelingi Ebamba Umphefumlo)`. Siza kuthetha ngezinto ezininzi ezifana nokuba yintoni kanye kanye, kutheni isenzeka, kunye nento omawuyenze ukuba iyenzeka.

Kuthetha ukuthini oku kuphefumla?

Ngamafutshane, ukubamba umphefumlo wakho kuxa umntwana omncinci ebamba umphefumlo wakhe ixesha elifutshane xa enomsindo, ekhathazekile, esoyika, okanye ebuhlungu . Khawuthelekelele, ukuba umntwana wakho ucela ithoyizi uze ungamniki, usenokucaphuka kakhulu aze ngequbuliso akhale aze abambe umphefumlo wakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kubamba umphefumlo kunokubangela ukuba umntwana alahlekelwe zingqondo . Enyanisweni, ukubona umntwana ebambe umphefumlo wakhe ngolu hlobo ngamava othusayo kumama okanye kutata. Uloyiko olufika engqondweni ngelo xesha alunyamezeleki. Kodwa eyona nto ithuthuzelayo onokuyithetha kukuba ukubamba umphefumlo wakho akuyongozi kumntwana . Uninzi lwexesha, luhlala ngaphantsi komzuzu . Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba le meko iphela ngaphandle konyango olukhethekileyo njengoko abantwana bekhula. Ngoko ke akukho nto yokukhathazeka ngayo.

Ngaba kukho iintlobo zokuphefumla?

Ewe, kukho iintlobo ezimbini zokuphefumla. Masibone ukuba ziyintoni na.

1. Isiphonso Esibamba Umphefumlo EsiyiCyanotic

Olu lolona hlobo luxhaphakileyo. Okwenzekayo apha kukuba umntwana ukhala kakhulu , oko kukuthi, xa ekhala kakhulu okanye ekhala kakhulu okanye ekhathazekile, ngequbuliso ubamba umphefumlo wakhe. Emva koko ubuso nemilebe yomntwana ziqala ukuba luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka . Ngokungathi akafumani ioksijini eyaneleyo. Igama elithi `(Cyanotic)` lithetha "ukujika ube luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka". Khawuthelekelele, xa uthatha umntwana wakho uye evenkileni aze acele ithoyizi, ungamniki. Emva koko ulala phantsi aze akhale kakhulu, aze ngequbuliso abambe umphefumlo wakhe aze ajike abe luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi `(Cyanotic breath-holding spell)`. Oku kudla ngokubangelwa ngumsindo omkhulu okanye ukukhungatheka .

2. I-Pallid Breath-Holding Spell

Okwenzekayo kukuba ubuso bomntwana bujika bube mhlophe ngequbuliso. Ngokungathi ulahlekelwe ligazi elincinci. Ngaphambi kokuba oku kwenzeke, umntwana usenokukhala kancinci , okanye angakhali konke konke . `(Pallid)` lithetha "mhlophe". Eli `(Pallid breath-holding spell)` lidla ngokwenzeka xa umntwana ethuka ngequbuliso okanye eziva iintlungu . Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana uwela ngequbuliso ngelixa edlala, okanye ebetha intloko yakhe ndaweni ithile, okanye esoyika ingxolo enkulu, oku kunokwenzeka. Emva koko unokuguquka abe mhlophe ngequbuliso aze abambe umphefumlo wakhe ngaphandle kokulila.

Kubalulekile: Kuzo zombini iimeko, nokuba umntwana uluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye umhlophe, ngamanye amaxesha unokuphulukana neengqondo ukuya kuthi ga kumzuzu . Kuyoyikisa ukubona loo nto. Kodwa ubuyela kwiingqondo emva kwexesha elithile.

Enye into kukuba, kunqabile kakhulu, oko kukuthi, kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga , umntwana unokuba nokuxhuzula okuncinci okufana "nokuxhuzula" ngokuphefumla oku. Kodwa ungoyiki oku. Nokuba ukuxhuzula kwenzeka ngolu hlobo, akuyi kubangela monakalo wexesha elide kumntwana. Kwakhona, oku akumbeki umntwana emngciphekweni wokuba nesifo sokuxhuzula (njengesifo sokuxhuzula) kamva. Khumbula oko. Oku kuphefumla kudla ngokubonwa kubantwana abasempilweni . Le meko inokubonwa ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwiminyaka eyi-6 ubudala . Nangona kunjalo, ixhaphake kakhulu kubantwana abaphakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 neenyanga ezili-18 (unyaka onesiqingatha) . Ngamanye amaxesha oku kunokwenzeka nakwiintsapho . Oko kukuthi, ukuba abazali babenale nto besebancinci, kukho ithuba elincinci lokuba nomntwana abe nayo.

Kutheni abantwana abancinci benomkhwa wokubamba umphefumlo wabo?

Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyithethe kukuba abantwana abaze babambe umoya wabo ngabom . Oko kukuthi, abakwenzi oko ngenxa yokoyika 'ukoyikisa umama' okanye 'Ndifuna ukwenza into endiyifunayo'. Le yinto abangenakuyilawula . Kufana nokusabela kwendalo okuvela emizimbeni yabo. Ukuthetha inyani, oogqirha abakakwazi ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni kanye kanye imbangela . Oko kukuthi, kunzima ukuthi, 'Owu, nasi isizathu'. Nangona kunjalo, kufunyenwe ukuba ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abane -anemia yokunqongophala kwesinyithi, ebangelwa kukungabikho kwesinyithi, banokuphefumla oku rhoqo. Oko kukuthi, kunokubakho unxibelelwano oluncinci phakathi kwesi simo kunye namanqanaba aphantsi esinyithi emzimbeni. Ukuba kukho imeko enjalo, ukuba inyangwa ngokufanelekileyo, kunokwenzeka ukunciphisa ukuphefumla oku. Ke ngoko, licebo elihle ukubona ugqirha uze uthethe ngale nto.

Ndingenza ntoni xa umntwana wam ebambe umoya wakhe?

Le yeyona ngxaki inkulu abazali abaninzi abanayo. Lixesha eloyikekayo kakhulu, akunjalo? Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukungaxhalabi. Makhe sibone ukuba senze ntoni ngexesha elinjalo.

Ukuba oku kwenzeka okokuqala...

Ukuba le yeyokuqala umntwana wakho ephefumla ngolu hlobo, kubalulekile ukufuna ingcebiso kagqirha . Oku kuthetha ukumsa umntwana wakho kugqirha wabantwana. Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, olu hlobo lokuphefumla alunabungozi. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho ahlolwe . Oku kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba akukho ngxaki imbi ikhoyo. Ugqirha unokwenza uvavanyo lwegazi olulula.

Xa umntwana ebambe umphefumlo wakhe...

Kwangoko nje umntwana wakho eyeka ukuphefumla, yenza oku kulandelayo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka:

• Ngokukhawuleza, beka umntwana wakho phantsi kwindawo ethe tyaba nekhuselekileyo . Oku kungaba sebhedini yakhe okanye phantsi. Kodwa ukuba umlalisa phantsi, mlalise ngelaphu elicocekileyo. Kungcono ukuba ungajika intloko yakhe ijonge ecaleni.
• Ukuba kukho izinto ezibukhali (ezifana nezinto ezibukhali, iziqwenga zeglasi) okanye izinto eziqinileyo (ezifana namatye, iziqwenga zomthi, itafile kunye nemilenze yesitulo) ezijikeleze umntwana, zisuse . Oku kungenxa yokuba ukuba umntwana ulahlekelwa zingqondo, angabetha umzimba wakhe aze enzekalise .
• Hlala usondelelene nomntwana wakho . Musa ukumshiya yedwa. Ukuba kufutshane nawe kubalulekile kumntwana nakuwe. Ukuzola kwakho kuya kuvakala kumntwana.

Ukuba umntwana ulahlekelwa zingqondo...

Ukuba umntwana ulahlekelwa zingqondo ngelixa ebambe umphefumlo wakhe, hayi bo! Kodwa khumbula ezi zinto:

• Zama ukuhlala uzolile kangangoko unako. Ukuba uyoyika, izinto zingaba nzima nangakumbi. Zixelele, 'Umntwana wam akayi kwenzakala, oku kuza kuphela emva kwexesha elithile,' utshilo ugqirha.
• Jonga umlomo womntwana wakho ukuba akukho kutya okanye ezinye izinto ezinokunamathela (ezifana namathoyizi). Ngamanye amaxesha, into ethile emlonyeni inokubangela ukukrwitshwa ukuba iyakrwitshwa. Ukuba kukho into ethile emlonyeni, yisuse ngononophelo.
• Okubaluleke kakhulu: Ukuba umntwana ujika abe luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye uyeka ukuphefumla ixesha elingaphezu komzuzu , fowunela i-ambulensi ka-1990 ( Suwaseriya ) ngokukhawuleza okanye umse esibhedlele esikufutshane ngokukhawuleza. Oku kufanele kuthathwe njengengxamiseko .

Emva kokuba ndiphefumle...

Emva kokuba umntwana ephefumula aze abuyele esiqhelweni,

• Mgobe umntwana ngothando uze umthuthuzele . Yithi, 'Konke kulungile ngoku, nyana/ntombi, akukho nto yokoyika, uMama/Tata ulapha.'
• Qiniseka ukuba uyamazisa umntwana wakho ukuba oku akulona ityala lakhe , kuba abanye abantwana basenokoyika ukuba le yinto abayenzileyo kwaye banokuziva benetyala.

Ngaba zikho iindlela zokuthintela oku kuphefumla?

Akukho ndlela yokuthi, "Ukuba wenza oku, awusayi kuphinda uphefumle." Kuba, njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili, oku akuyonto eyenziwa ngabantwana ngabom. Yindlela eqhelekileyo yokusabela. Nangona kunjalo, kukho izinto onokuzama ukuzinciphisa rhoqo kwezi zinto zokuphefumla. Ungathetha nogqirha wakho ukuze ufumane iingcebiso ezithe vetshe ngale nto. Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ephefumla xa ekhala okanye ekhathazekile, kukho izinto onokuzenza ukunciphisa ixhala lakhe kunye nokucaphuka . Umzekelo:

• Musa ukuvumela umntwana adinwe kakhulu . Musa nokumvumela ukuba alambe kakhulu .Musa ukubanika. Kuba xa bediniwe kwaye belambile, abantwana bayacaphuka, babe nomsindo, baze baphelelwe ngumonde. Ngoko ke banike ukutya nokulala ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
• Xa uchaza okanye ukhalimela umntwana wakho, sebenzisa iindlela zokuqeqesha ezizolileyo . Zama ukuchaza izinto ngendlela enothando kodwa eqinileyo, ngaphandle kokukhwaza okanye ukubetha. Kubalulekile ukumisela imida yokuziphatha komntwana wakho.
• Chonga iimeko kwangaphambili apho umntwana wakho enokuba nomsindo khona, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka, ziphephe ezo meko (umz., ukuya kwindawo angayithandiyo) okanye umlungiselele ezo meko umntwana wakho.

Kubaluleke kakhulu: Kunzima kakhulu ukubona umntwana esokola ukuphefumla. Musa ukuvumela umsindo nokukhala komntwana wakho kungabonakali . Akulunganga ukubanika yonke into abayicelayo, ukuzenza ngathi awuboni yonke impazamo ayenzayo, kuba uyoyika ukuba uza kuyeka ukuphefumla. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kunokuchaphazela noqeqesho lomntwana wakho, kwaye banokulusebenzisa njengesixhobo. Ukuba unengxaki yokufumana eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuqeqesha umntwana wakho, thetha nogqirha wakho ngayo loo nto. Uya kukunika icebiso elihle.

Zixelele rhoqo ukuba ukubamba umoya wakho akuyongozi kwaye kuya kuziphelela njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula . Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba uloyiko lwakho kunye nexhala lokubamba umoya wakho kunzima kakhulu kuwe, ungakufumanisa kuluncedo ukuthetha nengcali yezempilo yengqondo . Banokukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokujongana nale meko kunye nendlela yokuzola. Kubalulekile nokunyamekela impilo yakho yengqondo.

Ngoko ke, ekugqibeleni, kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzikhumbule...

Kulungile, sithethe kakhulu ngale `(Isiphonso Esibamba Umphefumlo)` okanye abantwana abancinci ababambe umphefumlo wabo, akunjalo? Ndiyathemba ukuba oko kuye kwanciphisa uloyiko lwakho kancinci. Okokugqibela, masizikhumbuze kwakhona ngala manqaku:

• Ukubamba umphefumlo wakho asikokwenza ngabom kwabantwana. Abanakuyilawula loo nto. Ngoko ke musa ukumgxeka umntwana.
• Oku akunabungozi kwaye kudla ngokuthatha ixesha elingaphantsi komzuzu.
• Umntwana usenokuba ne-cyanotic okanye i-pallid . Ngamanye amaxesha, usenokulahlekelwa zingqondo .
• Kunqabile kakhulu ukuba kubekho ukuxhuzula okuncinci , kodwa akubanga monakalo wexesha elide, kwaye akusikhokeleli kwisifo sokuxhuzula.
• Ukuba oku kwenzeka okokuqala, qiniseka ukuba ubonana nogqirha. Khangela ukuba kukho ezinye izizathu.
• Hlala uzolile kwaye ulalise umntwana kwindawo ekhuselekileyo ngelixa ephefumla. Susa izinto ezibukhali kuloo ndawo.
• Ukuba umntu akaphefumli ixesha elingaphezu komzuzu, okanye ukuba ujika abe luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, mse esibhedlele ngoko nangoko (fowunela ku-1990).
• Ngulo mntwana.Yinto ephela yodwa njengoko ukhula (ngesiqhelo xa uneminyaka emi-5-6 ubudala).
• Musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho enze nantoni na engakhathaliyo ngenxa yokoyika oku. Ingqeqesho ibalulekile.
• Ukuba ukhathazekile kakhulu ngale nto, funa ingcebiso yezonyango okanye ingcali yezempilo yengqondo .

Ngoko ke, ukuba into efana nale yenzeke kumntwana wakho omncinci, musani ukoyika, yenzani ngobulumko. Xa niphatha umntwana wenu ngothando, ningalibali ukufuna iingcebiso zonyango ezifunekayo. Impilo entle kuni nonke!

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