Ugqirha womntwana wakho: Yonke into malunga nogqirha wezingane!

Xa umntwana wakho ezelwe, okanye xa umntwana ekhula, ngenxa yezifo ezincinci, sonke sifuna ugqirha ogxile ebantwaneni, akunjalo? Yiloo nto siyibiza ngokuba yingcali yabantwana, okanye nje yingcali yabantwana. Kweli nqaku, siza kuthetha ngayo yonke into ngaba gqirha babantwana, njengokuthetha nje nomhlobo.

Ngubani lo gqirha wabantwana?

Ngamafutshane, ugqirha wezingane ngugqirha ogxile kwimpilo yeentsana, abantwana abancinci, abantwana abancinci, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abantu abadala abancinci ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka engama-21 ubudala. Banyamekela impilo yomntwana ukususela ekuzalweni kwakhe. Basebenza ukuthintela, ukuxilonga, kunye nokunyanga iingxaki zomzimba, zokuziphatha, kunye nophuhliso ebantwaneni. Abanye oogqirha bezingane banyanga bonke abantwana ngokubanzi. Abanye bagxile ekunyangeni abantwana abaneemeko ezithile.

Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukufunda ukuze ube ngugqirha wabantwana?

Khawucinge nje ukuba kuthatha umgudu nexesha elingakanani ukuze ube yingcali enjalo! Olu asilulo uhambo olulula.

Zithini iziqinisekiso zemfundo?

Okokuqala, kufuneka bagqibe isidanga seminyaka emine. Ngeli xesha, bafunda izifundo ezisisiseko ezinxulumene nezonyango, ezifana nebhayoloji kunye nekhemistri .

Emva koko, kufuneka bafunde iminyaka emine kwisikolo sezonyango. Kulapho bafunda khona izifundo zonyango ezinzulu ezifana ne -anatomy kunye ne-physiology . Bafumana noqeqesho kumasebe ahlukeneyo kwizibhedlele. Oku kuquka unyango lwabantwana, unyango olungxamisekileyo, i-neurology, i-psychiatry, kunye ne-radiology. Oogqirha abaninzi bakhetha icandelo abafuna ukulijonga ngeli xesha loqeqesho.

Uqeqesho luthatha ixesha elingakanani?

Xa ugqirha egqiba ekubeni ngugqirha wabantwana, kufuneka badlule kwinkqubo yokuhlala yabantwana yeminyaka emithathu. Ngeli xesha, bafumana uqeqesho olongezelelekileyo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zabantwana, njengeentsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa, iintsana ezikwiyunithi yokhathalelo oluphezulu lweentsana , ii-general pediatrics, kunye nee-developmental-behavioral pediatrics . Ngeli xesha, kufuneka bafumane ulwazi, izakhono, kunye namava afunekayo ukunyanga iimeko ezahlukeneyo ebantwaneni. Khawuthelekelele ukuba loluphi uxanduva!

Emva kolu qeqesho lokufunda, abanye oogqirha babantwana bayaqhubeka nokusebenza njengoogqirha babantwana ngokubanzi. Abanye baqhubeka bechwephesha ngakumbi kwiinkqubo "zobudlelwane". Oku kubavumela ukuba bafunde ngezinye izifundo ezizodwa kwizonyango zabantwana. Umzekelo,Kukho iindawo ezifana ne-Neonatology, i-Pediatric Cardiology, i-Adolescent Medicine, i-Child Abuse, kunye ne-Pediatric Surgery . Ezi nkqubo zoqeqesho ezongezelelweyo zingathatha eminye iminyaka emibini ukuya kwemithandathu.

Ngoko ke, ukuze ube ngugqirha wabantwana, kufuneka ugqibe ubuncinane iminyaka elithoba yemfundo. Oko kuthetha iminyaka emine yokufunda isidanga sokuqala, iminyaka emine yesikolo sezonyango (ezinye iiyunivesithi zidibanisa ezimbini ukuze zenze iminyaka emithandathu), uze emva koko iminyaka emithathu yoqeqesho lokuhlala ebantwaneni. Ukuba wenza ezinye izifundo ezizodwa, kuthatha eminye iminyaka emibini ukuya kwemithandathu. Bonke aba gqirha babantwana kufuneka babe neeyure ezingama-12,000 ukuya kwi-14,000 zamava esigulana ngexesha loqeqesho lwabo.

Yintoni eyenziwa ngugqirha wabantwana?

Ngoku makhe sijonge ukuba yintoni kanye kanye eyenziwa ngugqirha wabantwana. Imisebenzi yabo ibanzi. Baqala ekuhloleni iintsana ezisandula ukuzalwa ukuya ekuphatheni abantwana abanezifo ezihlala ixesha elide. Iingcali zabantwana zibonelela ngononophelo lokuthintela, zixilonge kwaye zinyange izifo, usulelo kunye nokwenzakala.

Nazi ezinye zezinto eziphambili abazenzayo:

• Ukutyelela rhoqo umntwana ophilileyo okanye umntwana ophilileyo. Uyakhumbula ukuxilongwa 'komntwana ophilileyo' okufumanayo ukususela ngomhla umntwana wakho azalwa ngawo? Ezo zizinto ezinjalo.
• Ukuqhuba uvavanyo lomzimba.
• Ukujonga ukukhula komntwana wakho ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo, nangokwentlalo. Abajongi nje kuphela ubude nobunzima bomntwana, kodwa bajonga noncumo lwakhe, intetho yakhe, kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe.
• Ukuchonga nokunyanga izifo, ukwenzakala, kunye nezinye iingxaki zempilo.
• Ukunika imijovo. Lo ngumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kubo, kuba unokukhusela abantwana kwizifo ezininzi eziyingozi.
• Ukunika amayeza.
• Ukumamela iingxaki zabazali nokuphendula imibuzo yabo. Musa ukoyika ukubuza nayiphi na imibuzo onokuba nayo, nokuba mincinci kangakanani na.
• Ukunika abazali iingcebiso ngempilo.
• Ukuthunyelwa kwezinye iingcali, ukuba kuyimfuneko. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba ufuna uncedo lomnye ingcali, baya kukubonisa loo nto.

Umntwana wakho ufanele aye nini kugqirha wabantwana?

Utyelelo lokuqala lomntwana wakho kugqirha wabantwana kufuneka lube kwiiyure ezingama-48 ukuya kuma-72 emva kokuba ebuyile esibhedlele. Utyelelo lwesibini kufuneka lube phakathi kweeveki ezimbini ukuya kwezine ubudala. Ngexesha lonyaka wokuqala womntwana wakho, kufuneka ubonane nogqirha kwiinyanga ezimbini, ezine, ezintandathu, ezisithoba, kunye nezili-12 . Emva kokuba umntwana wakho egqibe unyaka omnye, kukho utyelelo kwiinyanga ezili-15, ezili-18, nezingama-24 . Emva koko, thatha umntwana wakho uye kugqirha wabantwana ubuncinane kanye ngonyaka.Kulungile ukubonisa.

Ukongeza kwezi intsuku, ukuba umntwana wakho uyagula, okanye ukuba unamathandabuzo, ungabona ugqirha nangaliphi na ixesha.

Kutheni le nto ezi ntlanganiso zoogqirha zibaluleke kangaka?

Kutheni le nto olu tyelelo "lomntwana ophilileyo" lubaluleke kangaka? Lubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yomntwana wakho. Ngexesha lotyelelo, ugqirha wezingane womntwana wakho uza kuvavanya impilo yakhe yonke yomzimba neyeemvakalelo. Baza kujonga ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula kakuhle na. Kwakhona, ugqirha wezingane womntwana wakho uza kumnika naziphi na izitofu ezifunekayo ukuze amkhusele kwiintsholongwane ezahlukeneyo. Ngexesha lotyelelo "lomntwana ophilileyo" lomntwana wakho, eli lithuba elihle lokuba uthethe nogqirha wakho malunga neenkxalabo zakho kunye nemibuzo onokuba nayo malunga nempilo yomntwana wakho.

Ungamfumana njani ugqirha wezingane olungileyo?

Kulungile, ngoku mhlawumbi uyazibuza, "Ndingamfumana njani ugqirha wezingane ofanelekileyo kumntwana wam?" Lo ngumbuzo obaluleke kakhulu.

Ubuza bani?

• Buza usapho lwakho, abahlobo, kunye nabanye abazali obathembayo. Mhlawumbi umama wakho, udadewenu, okanye umhlobo wakho osenyongweni uyamazi ugqirha wezingane olungileyo. Ngamava abo, banokukunika iingcebiso ezilungileyo.
• Buza ugqirha wakho we-Ob/Gyn ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho. Banokukunika neengcebiso ezilungileyo.
• Ukuba usandul’ ukufika kule ndawo, ungathanda ukubuza imibuzo kwi-social media. Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka wenze uphando lwakho ukuze ufumane ugqirha ofanelekileyo kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

Izinto onokuzibuza ekliniki

Wakuba unolwazi malunga noogqirha abambalwa, ungatsalela umnxeba kwiindawo abasebenza kuzo abo gqirha, njengekliniki okanye isibhedlele, uze ubuze izinto ezifana nezi:

• Ngaba ugqirha uyabamkela abaguli abatsha?
• Ngaba bayayamkela i-inshurensi yakho? (ukuba ikhona)
• Zinjani iibhili kunye namalungiselelo e-inshorensi?
• Ngaba kufuneka ndihlawule ugqirha ngoko nangoko?
• Zithini iiyure zeofisi? Ndingazenzela idinga ngeempelaveki okanye ngokuhlwa?
• Leliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokufowuna ukuze ubuze imibuzo ngokubanzi?

Izinto onokuzibuza xa ubona ugqirha

Ukuba wanelisekile ziimpendulo ozifumeneyo kwikliniki, ukuba kunokwenzeka, dibana nogqirha ubuso ngobuso. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Emva koko ungabuza imibuzo efana nale:

• Xa ufowunela iofisi, uthini umgaqo-nkqubo wabo malunga nendlela abaphendula ngayo iminxeba? (umz., kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukubuyela kuwe?)
• Ngaba kukho umongikazi eofisini onokuphendula imibuzo ngokubanzi?
• Ingaba ugqirha usebenza yedwa, okanye kwiqela nabanye oogqirha abaninzi? Ukuba kunjalo, ngaba ngamanye amaxesha uyambona omnye ugqirha?
• Uzicwangcisa njani iintlanganiso zamaxesha anje ukuba unesifo esiqatha? Ngaba ungenza idinga ngokukhawuleza?
• Ukuba umntwana wam ufuna unyango olukhethekileyo ngenxa yemeko yempilo, ngaba uza kulungelelanisa unyango nezinye iingcali?

Izinto omele uzicinge emva kokubona ugqirha

Emva kokudibana nogqirha wakho nokuthetha naye, zibuze le mibuzo:

• Ngaba ugqirha uthethe ngokucacileyo? Ngaba uchaze izinto ngendlela oyiqondayo?
• Ngaba wazama ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yakho?
• Ngaba uzive ngathi unomdla wokwenene kumntwana wakho? Ngaba uzive uqinisekile ngaye?

Khumbula, unelungelo lokukhetha okona kulungileyo kumntwana wakho. Ugqirha liqabane lakho kuhambo lwempilo yomntwana wakho.

Okokugqibela, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule...

Ngoko ke, Mama noTata, ugqirha wakho wezingane ufana nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni kuhambo lwempilo yomntwana wakho. Bakhona ukukunceda ubone umntwana wakho ekhula esempilweni kwaye onwabile.

• Ungalibali ukusa umntwana wakho kugqirha ngamaxesha amiselweyo. Olu vavanyo 'lomntwana ophilileyo' lubaluleke kakhulu.
• Nika abantwana imigonyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Oku kukhusela abantwana kwizifo ezininzi.
• Ungoyiki ukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngayo nayiphi na into encinci ecinga ngayo. Bakho ukuze bakuncede.
• Khetha ugqirha onokumthemba kwaye ofanelekileyo kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

Ndinqwenelela umntwana wakho ikamva eliphilileyo!

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