Njengoko ujonge umntwana wakho osandul’ ukuzalwa ngothando, ngaba wakha waphawula ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala egobile ebholeni? Abanye oomama nootata abatsha banokuziva besoyika kwaye bekrokrela xa bebona umntwana wabo egobile ebholeni ngeengalo nemilenze. "Kutheni umntwana wam enje? Akakhululekanga?" bayabuza. Kodwa eneneni, uninzi lwexesha, oku akuyonto yokoyika. Yinto yendalo kakhulu. Masithethe ngayo kwaye siphendule nayiphi na imibuzo onokuba nayo.
Ngaba singayiqonda into yokuba umntwana osandul’ ukuzalwa unjani?
Khawucinge nje, umntwana wakho ebesesiswini sikanina kangangeenyanga ezilithoba, kwindawo encinci kakhulu, efudumeleyo, nekhuselekileyo. Emva kokuphuma, eli hlabathi litsha kakhulu kulo. Izandi ezintsha, amavumba amatsha, izinto ezintsha, iimvakalelo ezintsha... Kufuneka liqhele zonke ezi zinto. Ngoko ke, lizama ukuhlala 'kwindawo yosana' okwethutyana. Yiyo loo nto iintsana zihlala zibonakala zigobile kwaye zigobile.
Ukongeza kule ndlela yokuma, iintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa zinezinye izenzo ezininzi ezizenzekelayo ezingenakukwazi ukuzilawula. Ezi sizibiza ngokuba yi-'reflexes'.
- Ukumunca : Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba xa ubeka umnwe okanye ingqayi yebhotile kufutshane nomlomo womntwana wakho, uya kuqala ukumunca ngokuzenzekelayo. Eli likhono elingaphakathi elimnceda ukuba asele ubisi.
- Ukubamba i-reflex: Ukuba ubeka umnwe wakho esandleni somntwana wakho, jonga ukuba usibambe kangakanani. Oku kukwayindlela yokuzibamba.
- I-Startle/Moro reflex: Xa umntwana ekhwankqiswa sisandi okanye intshukumo ekhawulezileyo, umntwana uya kothuka, alahle iingalo nemilenze yakhe emacaleni, alahle intloko yakhe ngasemva, aze azitsale kwakhona. Oku kuqhelekile kakhulu.
Kwiintsuku zokuqala, umntwana akanakuzilawula ezi zinto. Kodwa kancinci kancinci, ekuhambeni kweenyanga ezimbalwa, ezi mpendulo ziyancipha aze azi ngakumbi izinto azenzayo.
Kutheni iintsana zikhotha izandla ngolu hlobo?
Nangona umntwana wakho engakwazi ukuthetha, unxibelelana nawe ngomzimba wakhe. Oku sikubiza ngokuba "lulwimi lomzimba." Olu xhawulano luyinxalenye yolo lwimi.
Isizathu esiphambili yindlala . Ewe, usenokuba uqhelene nomntwana wakho okhala kakhulu xa elambile. Kodwa nangaphambi kokuba aqale ukukhala, ukunika imiqondiso emincinci. Xa umntwana wakho esondela ekulambeni, ungazibona izandla zakhe ziqina.
Ngexesha elizayo xa uncancisa umntwana wakho, qwalasela oku. Emva kokuba umntwana esele ubisi aze ahluthe , izandla zakhe ezimbini ebezibambe ziya kukhululeka kancinci kancinci kwaye zibe lula. Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana ngoku usempilweni kwaye uzele.
| Isizathu | Inkcazo |
|---|---|
| Izizathu eziqhelekileyo nezendalo | Ukubonisa indlala, ukuqhela indawo esibelekweni, kunye nendlela yokuzibamba engaphakathi. |
| Izizathu zokuba nexhala | Ukubambelela rhoqo kwezandla kancinci kakhulu phantse imini yonke, ingakumbi xa kuhamba nezinye iimpawu (ukuqina, ubuthathaka kwimilenze). |
Ngaba kukho amaxesha apho kufuneka ulumke khona?
Nangona oku kuqhelekile kwiimeko ezininzi, kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga, kunokuba luphawu lwengxaki yemithambo-luvo. Enye yezi meko yi -cerebral palsy .
Ngamafutshane, le yimeko eyenzeka xa kukho umonakalo kwinxalenye yengqondo elawula intshukumo. Oku kuchaphazela amandla omntwana okushukumisa umzimba wakhe, ukulawula izihlunu, ukuma, kunye nokulinganisela.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ebamba izandla zakhe ngokuqinileyo, phantse imini yonke, nangona elele , kwaye ubonakalisa ezi mpawu zilandelayo, kubalulekile ukufuna iingcebiso zonyango .
- Ukuziva ubuthathaka emzimbeni
- Ulawulo olubi lwemisipha
- Ukubuyela umva kwenzeka kancinci kakhulu .
- Ukuqina okanye ukuqina okungaqhelekanga kwiingalo nasemilenzeni
Ukuba unesikrokro sokuba umntwana wakho unezinye zezi mpawu, nceda ungenzi zigqibo ngokusekelwe kulwazi olukwi-intanethi. Nxibelelana nogqirha wezingane ngoko nangoko uze ucele ingcebiso. Ngugqirha wakho kuphela onokuxilonga imeko ngokuchanekileyo aze akuxelele inyaniso.
Ungamnceda njani umntwana wakho ukuba aphumle?
Nokuba le yindlela eqhelekileyo yomntwana wakho, ungamnceda aphumle aze ahlole ihlabathi ngokumchukumisa. Zama ezi zinto zilula.
1. Hlikihla izandla zomntwana wakho: Beka ubhontsi wakho phakathi kwesandla sakhe uze umhlikihle kancinci, ngothando ngendlela ejikelezayo. Qala embindini uze uye kancinci kancinci ngasezinyaweni zeminwe. Emva koko uya kuzama ngokwemvelo ukusasaza iminwe yakhe. Musa ukuyinyanzela.
2. Yazisa ukuchukumisa: Emva kokuba umntwana wakho evule izandla zakhe, chukumisa izinto ezahlukeneyo ngezandla zakhe. Mvumele achukumise izinto ezahlukeneyo njengethoyi ethambileyo, ilaphu elirhabaxa kancinci, ikhaphethi. Oku kuya kuvuselela imithambo-luvo yakhe kunye nemisipha.
3. Khuthaza ukuthwala ubunzima: Xa umntwana wakho ekhasa okanye ezama ukuhlala phantsi, mkhuthaze ukuba abeke izandla zakhe phantsi phambi kwakhe aze azibeke ubunzima kuzo. Oku kuqinisa izihlunu ezandleni zakhe.
4. Mfundise ukubamba: Mnike amathoyizi ayithandayo, ngobukhulu obahlukeneyo nangemibala eyahlukeneyo. Emva koko uya kululela isandla sakhe ukuze awathathe. Xa umnika amathoyizi obukhulu obahlukeneyo, uya kufunda ukulungisa isandla sakhe ngokobukhulu ngabunye.
5. Umdlalo othi 'Nika-uthabathe': Emva kokunika ithoyizi, yicele kwakhona ngothando. Sebenzisa amagama alula anje ngokuthi "Ndinike ibhola, nyana/ntombi." Nokuba akayiniki ekuqaleni, uza kuqhela lo mdlalo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Kuqhelekile kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba iintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa zibambe izandla zazo emlonyeni wazo. Ngumkhwa kwaye yindlela ezizalwa ngayo ukuba zijonge indawo ezazikuyo esibelekweni.
- Ukugoba amanqindi omntwana kunokuba luphawu lokuqala lwendlala . Jonga ukuba amanqindi ayaphumla na emva kokuba isisu sigcwele kwaye usele ubisi.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala eqinisa amanqindi akhe aze aqinise amanqindi akhe kakhulu , kwaye ehamba nezinye iimpawu ezifana nokuqina okanye ubuthathaka kwimilenze yakhe, isenokuba yimeko efuna unyango.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye uloyiko , eyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza kukubona ugqirha wakho ngoko nangoko uze ucele ingcebiso, ngaphandle kokuqikelela.
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