Uma unomdlavuza webele, kufanele utshele indawo yakho yokusebenza? Ake sixoxe ngalokhu.

Uma udokotela ekutshela ukuthi unomdlavuza webele, izinto eziyinkulungwane cishe zifika engqondweni. Imibuzo mayelana nokwelashwa, umndeni, imali, ngisho nomsebenzi wakho ifika engqondweni, akunjalo? Umbuzo omkhulu ofika engqondweni yakho konke lokhu uthi, "Ngitshele ihhovisi lami? Ngitshele umphathi wami? Ngitshele abangani bami?" Lesi yisinqumo esikhulu kakhulu. Nguwe kuphela ongenza lesi sinqumo, futhi kufanele sibe yisinqumo onomuzwa wokuthi sikulungele.

Uyafuna ukusho lokhu noma cha? Isinqumo singesakho ngokuphelele.

Kalula nje, lolu ulwazi lwakho lwezokwelapha lomuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke akukho mthetho othi kufanele utshele noma ubani ngalo. Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kungaba yinzuzo kuwe ukwazisa indawo yakho yokusebenza ngalokhu.

Cabanga nje, udinga ukuthatha izinsuku zokuphumula ukuze uyokwelashwa, mhlawumbe udinga izikhungo ezifana nokusebenzela ekhaya. Esimweni esinjalo, uma utshela umphathi wakho noma i-HR ngalokhu, kuzoba lula kakhulu ukuthola lezo zikhungo. Futhi, uma abangane bakho abakhulu besehhovisi, ukubatshela kungakunika amandla amaningi engqondo nenduduzo.

Kodwa, uma ufuna ukukugcina kuyimfihlo, yilungelo lakho lelo. Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi uma besho lokhu, abanye bazobabheka ngesihawu, noma bacabange ukuthi abalungile emsebenzini wabo. Ngakho-ke uma kunjalo, kungcono ukukugcina kuyimfihlo.

Manje ake sibheke okuhlangenwe nakho kwabesifazane abaningana abenze lesi sinqumo. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuthi wenze isinqumo esifanele isimo sakho.

Indlela abesifazane abahluke ngayo kule nselele

1. "Ngitshele umphathi wami nabangane abambalwa abaseduze kuphela" - indaba kaNilmini

UNilmini wayenomdlavuza webele wesigaba sesi-3. Wayehlelelwe ukuqala ukwelashwa ngamakhemikhali. Wayazi ukuthi uma eseqalile ukwelashwa, ukubukeka kwakhe kuzoshintsha, izinwele zakhe zizowa, futhi kuzoba nezinsuku lapho engeke akwazi ukuza emsebenzini. Ngakho wanquma ukwazisa indawo yakhe yokusebenza ngalokhu.

"Ngaqale ngatshela umphathi wami oqondile. Ngemva kwesonto, ngathumela i-imeyili kubangani bami abaseduze ehhovisi ngabatshela imininingwane." Wanikeza nomphathi wakhe imvume yokutshela lonke iqembu. Ngemuva kwalokho kwakungadingeki ukuthi atshele wonke umuntu indaba ngokuphindaphindiwe.

Ujabule kakhulu ngesinqumo sakhe. "Umphathi wami nabanye abangane babenomusa kakhulu futhi beqonda kimi. Ngazizwa ngijabule ngokubatshela, futhi abanye babo bangixoxela ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo komdlavuza . Ukuzwa lezo zindaba kwanginika amandla amaningi."

Abangani bakaNilmini basehhovisi bahlangana ndawonye baze balungiselela nokudla kwakhe phakathi nezinsuku ayesebenzisa i-chemotherapy. Lokho kwaba usizo olukhulu nasemndenini wakhe. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu onendawo lapho angathola khona lolu hlobo lokusekelwa.

2. "Angitshelanga muntu ehhovisi" - Indaba kaDeepa

UDeepa ungowesifazane ophethe i-ejensi yakhe ye-PR. Lapho ethola ukuthi unomdlavuza webele, wawugcina uyimfihlo.

"Bengingafuni ukutshela ozakwethu ngalokhu. Bengingafuni ukuthi bangizwele, bakhathazeke ngokungadingekile. Futhi, bengingafuni ukuthi bacabange ukuthi angikwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wami kahle," kusho yena.

Akazange ngisho atshele amakhasimende akhe. "Ebhizinisini lami, uma ngingakwazi ukwenza okuthile, kunezinkulungwane zabantu abangakwenza. Bengingafuni amakhasimende ami angishiye."

Ukukugcina kuyimfihlo kanjena kwamsiza yena mathupha.

Utshele abangani bakhe abaseduze ngalokhu empilweni yakhe yangasese kuphela. Ngenxa yokuthi wayengakhulumi ngakho emsebenzini, kwakungadingeki abhekane nokubukeka okudabukisayo nemibuzo engavamile evela kwabanye. Uma ebheka emuva eminyakeni edlule, uthi isinqumo asenzayo sasifanele yena.

3. "Ngikhulume ngokukhululekile ngakho konke" - indaba kaSanduni

Ngesikhathi uSanduni ezwa ngomdlavuza webele, wayesebenza njengomqondisi wokumaketha enkampanini encane esafufusa. Njengoba kwakukhona umlando womdlavuza webele emndenini wakhe, wayehlala ekhathazekile ngokuhlolwa. Wayesevele etshele ithimba lakhe ngalokhu.

Ngakho-ke, ngokushesha nje lapho etholakele ukuthi unesifo, waya ngqo ku-CEO wakhe wamtshela. "Ngazizwa ngixakile kancane, kodwa angizange ngizizwe nginesizungu ngemva kokukusho," usho kanje.

Umphathi wakhe wanikela ngokumsiza . "Wayenomusa kakhulu. Wayengazi ukuthi ngidingani, waze waletha nesikhwama sokudla endlini yami. Lokho kwakuyinto enkulu kimi."

Watshela lonke iqembu, "Sisebenze njengeqembu elincane. Ngakho-ke bengifuna ukwabelana nabo ngalokho okwakwenzeka empilweni yami."

Ngemva kokuhlinzwa, lapho ezwa ukuthi umdlavuza ususakazekile, kwadingeka ukuthi athole ukwelashwa ngamakhemikhali. Wathatha ikhefu lokukhubazeka ngoba wayelindele ukuthi ukwelashwa kuzothatha cishe unyaka.

"Umphathi wami waze wangikhokhela umshwalense wezempilo ngesikhathi ngingekho. Lapho ngibuya emsebenzini, wanginika isikhundla esisha ngoba wayazi ukuthi nganginenkinga yokusebenza kahle njengoba nganginjalo ngaphambili ngenxa yezinkinga zengqondo kanye nokukhathala enganginakho ngemva kokwelashwa."

USanduni uthi ukukhuluma obala kanje kwamsiza ukuba aqede ukucindezeleka kwengqondo kokukhathazeka ngokuthi "abantu bazocabangani."

Usenza kanjani isinqumo esikufanele kakhulu?

Lezi zindaba zibonisa ukuthi isimo nezinqumo zomuntu ngamunye zihluke kangakanani. Ukuze sikusize wenze isinqumo, ake sibheke isifinyezo sezinzuzo nezimbi.

Ekugcineni, indaba kaChristina, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, ibaluleke kakhulu. Njengoba ayezisebenzela, wayengenabo ozakwabo ayengabatshela. Kodwa watshela iziguli zakhe lokhu. Wenza kanjalo ukuze abonise abanye ukuthi kubalulekile ukwamukela ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza konke wedwa futhi uzinike isikhathi sempilo yakho.

Uthi, " Akukho lutho olunjengomklomelo wokuba namandla ." Lokho kusho ukuthi ukucela usizo lapho udinga khona akusikho ubuthakathaka. Uma ungasho ukuthi udinga usizo, akekho ongakusiza. Ngakho cabanga ngesimo sakho, cabanga ngesiko lakho lomsebenzi, bese wenza isinqumo esizwakala sikulungele. Xoxa nodokotela wakho ngohlelo lwakho lokwelashwa kanye nanoma yisiphi isikhathi sokuphumula osidingayo kuqala.