Ingabe ukhona umuntu oseduze nawe onesifo sokulahlekelwa yingqondo ekuqaleni? (Early-Onset Dementia) - Ake sixoxe ngalokhu

Ingabe umyeni wakho, umkakho, noma othile oseduze nawe useqalile ukukhohlwa izinto ezincane cishe eneminyaka engu-50? Ingabe manje usukhohlwa izinto ezifana neziqondiso, izinsuku ezibalulekile, njll. obuzikhumbula kahle? Lokhu kumelwe kube yinto ekukhathazayo futhi ekwesabisayo ngempela. Namuhla sikhuluma nge -Early-Onset Dementia , isimo esibangela ukulahlekelwa yinkumbulo usemncane, okungukuthi, ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-65.

Kalula nje, kuyini i-Early-Onset Dementia?

I-dementia yisimo lapho ubuchopho bulahlekelwa khona kancane kancane ikhono labo lokucabanga ngokucacile, ukuxhumana ngempumelelo, nokukhumbula ulwazi. Ngokuvamile kuthinta abantu abadala, kodwa kungathinta nabantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engu-65. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi i-dementia yasekuqaleni . Kungenzeka kubantu abaneminyaka engu-30, kodwa kuvame kakhulu kubantu abaneminyaka engu-50.

Cabanga nje, uma isimo esinjengalesi senzeka usemncane, izinselele obhekene nazo zihluke kakhulu. Ngoba kuleyo minyaka:

• Lowo muntu angase abe nomsebenzi.
• Ungase ube nezingane zesikole ezithembele kuwe.
• Kungase kube nezibopho ezinkulu zezimali, njengemali mboleko yokwakha indlu noma ukuqasha imoto.

Ngakho-ke, lapho unakekela umuntu onjengalona, ​​kufanele kunakwe kakhulu impilo yomndeni, umsebenzi, izindaba zomthetho nezezezimali. Futhi, izinguquko zokuziphatha kanye nokushintshashintsha kwemizwelo okuhambisana nalesi simo kungaba nomthelela omkhulu emndenini, ebudlelwaneni bomphakathi kanye nasemsebenzini.

Udinga kanjani usizo ngemisebenzi yansuku zonke?

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, othandekayo wakho angase akuthole kunzima ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe yansuku zonke eyedwa. Ngaleso sikhathi, usizo lwakho luzoba usizo olukhulu. Ithebula elingezansi libala ezinye zezimo lapho usizo lwakho lungase ludingeke khona.

Khumbula lezi zinto lapho unakekela

• Ukuphepha kuza kuqala: Ngaphambi kokuba othandekayo wakho enze noma yini eyedwa, hlola indawo ezungezile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi iphephile futhi ayinazo izingozi ezingaba khona. Isibonelo, qiniseka ukuthi isitofu segesi sivaliwe futhi iminyango ivaliwe.
• Thola ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezibacindezelayo: Qonda ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezibakhathaza kakhulu nezibabangela ukucindezeleka. Isibonelo, uma ukuya esitolo ukuyothenga ukudla abakudingayo ngesonto kubacindezela kakhulu, yenzani uhlu lwezinto zokuthenga ndawonye.
• Ungacabangi ukuthi “abakwazi”: Ungacabangi ukuthi umuntu onesifo sokulahlekelwa yingqondo akanakwenza okuthile. Okokuqala, bheka ukuthi angakwenza yini ngokuphephile. Siza kuphela uma engenakukwenza.
• Yakha isignali yokucela usizo: Khuluma nabo bese udala igama noma isignali elula abangakhumbula ukuyisho lapho bedinga usizo lwakho ngempela.
• Khuluma njalo: Khuluma njalo ukuze ubone ukuthi indlela obasiza ngayo isasebenza yini kubo, ukuthi banezinkinga ezintsha yini, nokuthi ungabasiza kanjani ngokuqhubekayo.

Ungazihlela kanjani izindaba zomthetho nezezimali?

Lena yingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu. Uma isimo sezokwelapha sesiqinisekisiwe ngudokotela , kubalulekile ukuthi nobabili nihlangane nommeli bese nibhala i-Power of Attorney (POA) . Lo mbhalo ukunika wena, noma umuntu omqoka njengomuntu omthandayo, igunya elisemthethweni lokwenza izinqumo zezimali, zempahla kanye nezomuntu siqu egameni lakhe.

Futhi, funa usizo lommeli ukuze ulungiselele amadokhumenti abalulekile omthetho, njengencwadi yokugcina yefa.

Izinkinga ezihlobene nomsebenzi kanye nemali

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, njengoba amakhono okukhumbula nokucabanga ehla, kuba nzima ukuqhubeka nokusebenza. Lokhu kungaholela ekudingekeni ushiye umsebenzi wakho. Lokhu kuyisithiyo esikhulu kwezezimali zomndeni. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuhlela kusengaphambili izinto ezinjengalezi:

• Buza umqashi wakho: Ingabe kungenzeka ukuthatha umhlalaphansi kusenesikhathi nokuthi inkampani inikeza noma yiziphi ezinye izinhlelo zokusiza abasebenzi?
• Izibonelelo zikahulumeni: Hlola ukuthi uMnyango Wezinsizakalo Zezenhlalakahle waseSri Lanka uyabanikeza yini noma yiziphi izibonelelo noma usizo kubantu abanezimo ezinjalo zezokwelapha. Lungisa amarekhodi ezokwelapha adingekayo kahle.
• Thola ulwazi mayelana ne-EPF/ETF: Buza ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukukhipha imali kwi-Employees' Provident Fund (EPF) noma kunoma yisiphi esinye isikhwama kusenesikhathi ngenxa yezizathu zezokwelapha. Thola amadokhumenti adingekayo kudokotela wakho.
• Nciphisa izindleko: Khuluma ngezidingo zezimali zomndeni kusenesikhathi futhi uxoxe ngezindlela zokunciphisa izindleko ezingadingekile.

Lokhu kuwuthinta kanjani umndeni, ikakhulukazi izingane?

Kungaba yinselele enkulu uma kukhona izingane ezincane ekhaya uma utholakala unalesi simo. Izingane zingase zibe nemizwa ehlukene ngalolu shintsho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi luvela kunina noma kuyise.

• Izingane ezincane: Zingase zesabe futhi zikhathazeke, zibuze, "Kungani umama/ubaba ekhohlwa izinto?"
• Intsha: Ingase futhi ibe nemizwa efanayo futhi ikhathazeke ngokuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe ekhaya.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma ngokwethembeka nomndeni wonke, kuhlanganise nezingane, ngalesi sifo nokuthi yini ongayilindela esikhathini esizayo. Chaza amaqiniso kuwo wonke umuntu ngendlela efanelana nobudala bakhe. Ngisho noma kungase kube buhlungu ukufunda iqiniso ekuqaleni, izingane zizozizwa zikhululekile kakhulu lapho ziqaphela ukuthi lesi yisona sizathu sokushintsha kokuziphatha komama/baba wazo.

Ngakho konke lokhu, uzinakekela kanjani?

Ukuzinikela okwenzayo ukuze unike othandekayo wakho impilo engcono akunakulinganiswa. Kodwa, kuwumthwalo wemfanelo omkhulu. Nawe ungase uzizwe uthukuthele, udabuke futhi ucindezelekile ngezinye izikhathi. Kuyinto evamile kakhulu. Cishe wonke umuntu okhathalela umuntu onjengalona uhlangabezana nale mizwa.

• Ungazami ukwenza konke wedwa:Yamukela iqiniso lokuthi awukwazi ukwenza konke wedwa. Uma othile ezinikela ukusiza, yamukela. Futhi ungesabi ukuthi "cha" uma ungakwazi.
• Khuluma ngemizwa yakho: Ungagcini imizwa yakho ivaliwe ngaphakathi. Khuluma nomngane omethembayo noma ilungu lomndeni ngakho. Uma kukhona amaqembu okusekelana ahlanganisa abantu abaye badlula kokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo, ukujoyina nawo kungaba yindlela enhle yokukusiza uzizwe ungcono.
• Phefumula kakhulu: Ukuzivocavoca kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokunciphisa ukucindezeleka. Hamba ngezinyawo, ugijime, wenze into oyithandayo. Kuzokusiza ulale kangcono futhi kukwenze uzizwe uqabulekile.
• Yaziswa: Funda okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ngalesi simo kanye nezinguquko ezingase zenzeke esikhathini esizayo. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi ulungiselele kangcono ikusasa. Khuluma nodokotela wakho ngalokhu futhi uthole ulwazi olunembile.