Ukuba ngumama noma ubaba kungenye yezinto ezijabulisa kakhulu empilweni, akunjalo? Kodwa-ke, sidinga futhi ukulungela kancane ukwamukela leyo njabulo. Ikakhulukazi ngokwezimali. Uma sazi izindleko okuzodingeka sizikhokhele isivakashi esisha esizofika endlini kusenesikhathi futhi sizihlelele kahle, sizoba nokuthula kwengqondo. Ngakho-ke namuhla, ake sixoxe ngohlobo lwezindleko okuzodingeka sizikhokhele umuntu omusha emndenini wakho, nokuthi singazilungiselela kanjani.
Yiziphi izinketho esinazo eSri Lanka?
Okokuqala, sidinga ukuqonda ukuthi eSri Lanka, uma silindele umntwana, kunezindlela ezimbili eziyinhloko ongakhetha kuzo. Enye uhlelo lwezibhedlela zikahulumeni . Enye izibhedlela ezizimele . Izindleko ezihilelekile kulezi ezimbili zihlukile kakhulu.
1. Uma ukhetha isibhedlela sikahulumeni...
Uhlelo lwezempilo lukahulumeni eSri Lanka lusezingeni eliphezulu ngempela. Uma ukhetha isibhedlela sikahulumeni, uzothola konke okuvela emitholampilo yokubeletha, ukuhlolwa, ukubeletha, ukuhlala esibhedlela, kanye nemithi edingekayo mahhala ngokuphelele . Lokhu kuyimpumuzo yangempela.
Noma kunjalo, kungase kube nezindleko ezithile ezingaqondile . Cabanga ngale ndlela.
- Izindleko zokuhamba ukuya nokubuya emitholampilo.
- Ngezinye izikhathi, izinto ezifana nokuskena okumele kwenziwe ngaphandle ngenxa yokungasebenzi kahle komshini esibhedlela.
- Uma ufisa, uma uhlangana nodokotela osebenza esibhedlela sikahulumeni bese uthumela i-imeyili kuye, kuzodingeka ukhokhe imali ethile ngalokho.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi insizakalo yezokwelapha kanye nokunakekelwa okutholayo esibhedlela sikahulumeni kuphezulu kakhulu. Akudingeki ukhathazeke kakhulu ngemali.
2. Uma ukhetha isibhedlela esizimele...
Uma ukhetha isibhedlela esizimele, kuzodingeka uchithe imali ethile. Kodwa ungalindela nezinsiza ezithile, njengegumbi elilodwa, ukunakwa okwengeziwe, njll. Lapha, izindleko zingahlukaniswa zibe izingxenye eziningana eziyinhloko.
Indlela yokuhlukanisa izindleko esibhedlela esizimele
Kunzima ukunikeza impendulo eqondile ezindlekweni eziphelele zesibhedlela esizimele. Kuyahlukahluka kuye ngesibhedlela osikhethayo, idolobha, udokotela , nanoma yiziphi izinkinga ezingase zivele ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Ake sithole umbono oqondile ngalezi zindleko.
| Isigaba Sezindleko | Izinto ezivame ukufakwa kanye nomqondo ongemuhle |
|---|---|
| Izindleko Zokukhulelwa | Lokhu kufaka phakathi izimali zokudlulisa idatha, ukuskena kwe-ultrasound, ukuhlolwa kwegazi, kanye nokunye ukuhlolwa kwelebhu, okungabiza izinkulungwane zama-rupee ngenyanga. |
| Izindleko Zokulethwa | Lena yindleko enkulu kunazo zonke. Izibhedlela eziningi ezizimele zinamaphakheji ahlukene okubeletha okuvamile kanye nokuhlinzwa ngokuhlinzwa (ukuhlinzwa ngokuhlinzwa). Leli phakheji lihlanganisa izinto ezifana nezimali zesibhedlela, izimali zegumbi lokuhlinzwa, kanye nezimali zokunakekela abahlengikazi. Kodwa-ke, ngokuvamile izimali zodokotela (VOG, isazi sokudambisa izinzwa, udokotela wezingane) azifakwanga kuleli phakheji. Kufanele zikhokhwe ngokwehlukana. Lokhu kungabiza cishe ama-Rs. 200,000 kuya kuma-Rs. 500,000 noma ngaphezulu. |
| Izindleko Zangemva Kokubeletha | Izindleko zokuvakashela udokotela ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana, kanye nezindleko zokuthola imijovo edingekayo yomntwana ngasese, zenezelwa kulokhu. |
Kubalulekile ukuthi uma ukhetha isibhedlela esizimele, ushayele isibhedlela kusengaphambili bese ubabuza ngokucacile ngamaphakheji abo, ukuthi yini efakiwe nokuthi yini engekho. Futhi, xoxa ngalokhu nodokotela wakho.
Izindleko zemithi namavithamini
Udokotela wakho uzokweluleka ukuthi uthathe amavithamini abalulekile njenge-folic acid kanye ne-iron ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
- Konke lokhu ukuthole mahhala esibhedlela sikahulumeni .
- Uma ufuna ukwelashwa ngasese , kuzodingeka ukhokhele lawa mavithamini kanye neminye imithi edingekayo ekhemisi.
Kodwa khumbula, ngemva kokuba udokotela wakho encome amavithamini athile ngaphambi kokubeletha, hlola ukuze ubone ukuthi ambozwe yini ngumshwalense wakho.
Izindleko ezingaphezu kwezindleko zezokwelapha
Manje ake sixoxe ngezindleko ezisetshenziswa ekulungiseleleni umntwana ngaphambi kokumletha ekhaya, ngaphezu kwezindleko zesibhedlela . Lokhu kuyizindleko abazali abaningi abangafuni ukuzenza.
Nazi ezinye izinto ezibalulekile kumntwana:
- Ibhedi lomntwana lokulala (Ibhedi lomntwana / Umbhede)
- Uma uhamba ngemoto, isihlalo semoto siyadingeka.
- Amanabukeni nama-Wipes
- Izingubo zezingane ezithile
- Ibhavu lomntwana
- Uma ungeyena umama oncelisayo, ubisi lwebhodlela kanye namabhodlela omntwana
- Isikrini somntwana - Lokhu akubalulekile, kodwa kuwusizo kakhulu.
Iseluleko esincane...
Uma uthenga lezi zinto, ungathenga ngisho nezinye ezisetshenzisiwe (ezenziwe kudala). Isibonelo, izingubo zezingane. Kodwa-ke, kungcono ukuthenga izinto ezihlobene ngqo nokuphepha, njengesihlalo semoto noma i-crib, ezintsha . Ngoba sidinga ukwazi ukuqiniseka ngezindinganiso zazo zokuphepha.
Izindleko Zokunakekela Ingane
Uma bobabili abazali besebenza, ukuthola umuntu ozonakekela ingane ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana nakho kuyindleko enkulu.
- Uma ubeka ingane yakho esikhungweni sokunakekela izingane, inkokhelo yanyanga zonke izoba ngeyalokho.
- Uma uthola umuntu ozohlala ekhaya futhi anakekele umntwana (uNanny/Umsizi), umholo okuzodingeka uwukhokhele lowo muntu.
Ngezinye izikhathi omunye wabazali, ngokuvamile umama, unquma ukuthatha ikhefu emsebenzini ukuze anakekele umntwana. Uma kunjalo, imali engenayo elahlekile ingabhekwa njengezindleko ezingaqondile ezingezwa kulezi zindleko.
Uma ubheka konke, ukuba nomntwana kuyinguquko enhle empilweni, kodwa futhi kuyisibopho esikhulu. Ngokwazi lezi zindleko kusenesikhathi nokuhlela ndawonye, ungamukela umntwana wakho omusha ngaphandle kokucindezeleka.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Hlela kusenesikhathi: Kuhle ukucabanga ngalezi zindleko bese uqala ukonga isikhashana ngaphambi kokuba ucabange nokuba nomntwana.
- Khetha inketho yakho: Nquma ukuthi uzoya esibhedlela sikahulumeni noma esizimele ngokusekelwe esimweni sakho sezezimali kanye nezintandokazi zakho. Qonda izinzuzo kanye nokungalungi kwakho kokubili.
- Cacisa: Uma ukhetha isibhedlela esizimele, qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ngezimali ezikhokhwayo, amaphakheji, kanye nezinto ezingafakwanga kusengaphambili. Khuluma nodokotela wakho ngalokhu ngokukhululekile.
- Nciphisa izindleko ezingadingekile: Bhala uhlu lwezinto ingane yakho ezidingayo. Beka izinto ezibalulekile kuqala. Ungathengi konke ngesikhathi esisodwa.
- Jabula: Ungazicindezeli ngokucabanga kakhulu ngalezi zindleko. Ngokuhlela okuhle, ungakwazi ukuphatha konke lokhu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuchitha lesi sikhathi esihle ujabule futhi unempilo.
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