Isivakashi esisha esincane sizofika empilweni yakho maduze. Yebo, uzoba ubaba! Kanye naleyo njabulo, kunemibuzo eminingi efika engqondweni, njengokuthi "Ngenzenjani manje?", "Yimiphi imithwalo yemfanelo yami?", akunjalo? Ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzizwe wesaba kancane. Lokho kujwayelekile kakhulu. Awuwedwa kulolu hambo. Obaba abaningi banale mizwa. Ngakho-ke, ake sixoxe ngokuthi ungaba kanjani umyeni nobaba osekelayo noqondayo kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa komkakho.
Umthwalo wakho njengobaba
Uma sikhuluma ngokukhulelwa, ukunaka kwawo wonke umuntu kugxile kumama ozayo. Wonke umuntu ukhuluma ngezinguquko emzimbeni wakhe, izinguquko zamahomoni, kanye nesimo sakhe sengqondo. Futhi akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho, ngoba nguyena othwala umthwalo wale nqubo yonke. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, njengobaba ozayo, ungase uzizwe sengathi "Anginandaba nanoma ubani." Lokho kuyinto eyenzeka kubantu abaningi.
Isixazululo esingcono kakhulu salokhu ukuzibandakanya ngokushesha okukhulu . Uma ujoyina ohambweni kusukela ekuqaleni, kuzoba yisikhuthazo esikhulu kumkakho futhi uzoyeka ukuzizwa ushiywe ngaphandle. Khumbula, lo ngumdlalo weqembu. Indima yakho nayo ibaluleke kakhulu.
Ingabe sesikulungele izinguquko ekhaya?
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, hhayi umzimba womkakho kuphela kodwa nekhaya lakho liqala ukushintsha kakhulu. Kungase kube nzima ngaye ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya enaniyenza ndawonye, kodwa manje akasakwazi ukuyenza yedwa. Cabanga nje, umkakho, owayevame ukuhlanza indlu nokuhlanza ingadi, manje usenenkinga yokugoba ukuze athathe okuthile.
"Qonda ukuthi imisebenzi ayeyenza manje isinzima kuye. Ngisho noma ethanda, akanawo amandla okuyenza njengoba ayevame ukwenza. Ngakho-ke kufanele uzinikele futhi usize ngemisebenzi yasekhaya."
Futhi, uzoqala ukwengeza izinto eziningi ezintsha ekhaya lakho. Izinto ongakaze uzicabange, njenge-crib, itafula lokushintsha, i-nursing rocker, i-bassinet, i-swing, i-stroller, kanye nesihlalo semoto, zizongezwa ekhaya lakho. Uma ulungiselela igumbi elihlukile lengane yakho, ukuyihlobisa nakho kuwumsebenzi omkhulu. Lungela izingxoxo ezinde ngezinto ezifana nokukhetha umbala wezindonga nokufanisa amakhethini. Njengoba omama abakhulelwe bengathandi iphunga lopende, lowo msebenzi uzoba ngowakho ngokuphelele. Kungase kudingeke ushintshe umbala kathathu noma kane. Ngaleso sikhathi, kwenze ngaphandle kokuthukuthela, futhi ukwenze ngokumomotheka. Ukuhlanganyela kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu kuye.
Kuzoba nezinguquko ekamelweni lokulala futhi. Uzoba nobusuku obuningi bokungalali ngenxa yokungakhululeki komzimba wakhe. Kuzodingeka aye endlini yangasese kaningi. Ngaleso sikhathi, okudingeka ukwenze nje ukubekezela futhi umvumele enze kanjalo. Yenza indawo embhedeni yomcamelo omkhulu awusebenzisayo. Angase akhethe ngisho nokulala esihlalweni esingaphansi kwengalo kunokuba alale embhedeni. Futhi, uma ubhema endlini, udinga ukuyeka namuhla . Ukubhema intuthu kagwayi kuyingozi kakhulu enganeni.
Joyina nathi ohambweni oluya emtholampilo.
Esikhathini esidlule, kwakungavamile kakhulu ukuthi obaba bavakashele udokotela noma baye egumbini lokubelethisa. Kodwa izikhathi sezihlukile manje. Ngisho nodokotela bayakwazisa obaba abaya emtholampilo (ukuqashwa kokunakekelwa kwangaphambi kokubeletha). Ngokuvamile, uma kungekho zinkinga, kuba nokuqokwa kwekliniki okungaba ngu-15 phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Izinsuku zekliniki zivame ukuba kanye ngenyanga kuze kube amasonto okuqala angu-28, bese kuba kathathu kuya kane kuze kube yisonto lama-36, kanye kanye ngesonto enyangeni edlule.
Uma ungakwazi, hamba nomkakho nsuku zonke zasemtholampilo, noma izinsuku eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokho kuzosiza kakhulu kuye. Uzothola nokuqonda okungcono okwenzekayo. Ungayeqi lezi zinsuku ezimbili zasemtholampilo ikakhulukazi.
| Ukuvakasha Okubalulekile Ngaphambi Kokubeletha | Kungani kubalulekile kuwe njengobaba? |
|---|---|
| Umtholampilo Wokuqala (Ukuqokwa Kokuqala) | Leli yithuba elihle lokukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngalokho okuzayo kanye nemicabango yakho nhlangothi zombili. Nobabili ningathola iseluleko enisidingayo ukuze nikhulelwe kahle. |
| Ukuskena kwe-Ultrasound (Ukuhlolwa kwe-Ultrasound) | Lokhu kuskena, okuvame ukwenziwa emavikini angama-20, yilapho abazali abaningi bebona khona ingane yabo okokuqala. Kuyisikhathi esikhethekile kakhulu. Ungathatha ngisho nesithombe esincane ukuze usifake ku-albhamu yengane. |
Emtholampilo, izinto ezinjengokuthatha amasampula omchamo negazi, ukuhlola isisindo sakho, ukukala umjikelezo wesinqe sakho, nokuhlola umfutho wegazi lakho zivame ukwenziwa. Ungamangali uma umkakho eqala ukukhala ngemva komtholampilo ngoba ekhathazekile ngokukhula kwesisindo sakhe. Kungumthwalo wakho ukumqinisekisa ngokuthi, "Cha, sithandwa, awukhuluphele. Kungenxa yengane." Futhi, ungase uzizwe ungakhululekile ngokuhlolwa kwangaphakathi kwesinqe ozokwenziwa. Ngisho noma kuwukuhlolwa okuvamile kwezokwelapha, kuvamile ukuba indoda izizwe ingajwayelekile uma ibona umkayo ekwenza lokho.
Usuku Olukhulu Kunazo Zonke - Ukubeletha (Isiphetho Esikhulu)
Ngesinye isikhathi, umkakho uzokwakha uhlelo lwakhe lokubeletha. Lokhu kusho ukuthi unecebo lokuthi ufuna izinto zihambe kanjani lapho umntwana ezalwa. Kungase kuhlanganise izinto ezifana nokuthi ufuna umntwana azalelwe kuphi, ukuthi ufuna ukuba nobani, ukuthi uzokwenzani ukuze kulawulwe ubuhlungu, nokuthi indima yakho izoba yini. Ukuya ekilasini lokubeletha ndawonye kungakusiza ufunde ukuthi ungamsekela kanjani ngalesi sikhathi.
Uma usuku olukhulu lufika, konke kungahamba ngokwecebo, noma kungashintsha ngokuphelele. Esikhathini esiningi, kuba ngowokugcina. Umama oqalayo angalindela ukuthi abelethe cishe amahora angu-12-24. Kuzodingeka ahlale ekhaya amahora ambalwa ngaphambi kokungeniswa esibhedlela. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, yiba naye ngangokunokwenzeka futhi umsize ahlale ezolile. Uma isikhathi sifika, ungesabi uye esibhedlela ngokuthula.
Njengoba ubuhlungu bukhula kancane kancane, kuba nzima kakhulu ukububekezelela. Ngisho nangemithi yobuhlungu , kuba ubuhlungu obukhulu. Ngemva kwamahora ambalwa, kungase kubonakale sengathi akukho lutho olwenzekayo kuwe. Kodwa mnike ukunaka kwakho okugcwele.
"Ukuletha ama-ice cubes, ukuletha amanzi abandayo okugeza ubuso bakhe, ukuhlikihla imilenze yakhe, ukuhlikihla umhlane wakhe... lezi zinto bezilokhu zenzeka isikhathi eside. Asikwazi ngisho nokucabanga ngobuhlungu abhekene nabo."
Uma ubuhlungu bungabekezeleleki, angase akuthethise futhi akutshele ukuthi uphume. Kodwa ungaphumi ngaleso sikhathi. Hlala naye kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni.
Ukuzalwa kwengane yakho kuyisenzakalo esikhulu esishintsha impilo yakho. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyithanda futhi uyisekela kangakanani, awuyena umlingiswa oyinhloko kule drama. Igama lakho libhalwe ngosonhlamvukazi abancane, phansi. Ngisho nomama usendimeni yokusekela. Ngoba, inkanyezi yangempela yale ndaba ingane yakho.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Njengobaba ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, nawe unomthwalo wemfanelo omkhulu. Zibandakanye kukho konke ngokushesha okukhulu.
- Lungiselela izinguquko ekhaya. Siza umkakho ngemisebenzi yasekhaya.
- Uma uya emtholampilo, hamba nomkakho. Kuzomnika amandla amaningi futhi kukusize uqonde izinto.
- Mnike ukwesekwa okungcono kakhulu kwengqondo nokomzimba akudingayo ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Ukubekezela kwakho nothando lwakho kuyoba usizo kakhulu kuye lapho esezinhlungwini.
- Lolu uhambo lweqembu. Ukubamba kwakho iqhaza kuzosiza ekwenzeni lolu hambo lube luhle kakhulu. Uma unemibuzo, khuluma nomkakho, futhi uma kudingeka, khuluma nodokotela wakho.
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