Uma sicabanga ngomdlavuza, sivame ukucabanga ngomuntu osekhulile. Kodwa ubuwazi ukuthi umdlavuza yisifo esingazi budala? Namuhla ngizokutshela indaba yomuntu owabhekana nomdlavuza wamathumbu ngokungalindelekile, esemncane, wanqoba leyo nselele. Lena akuyona indaba nje, yisifundo esisifundisa okuningi ngempilo, ngempilo, nangodokotela.
Umlingiswa oyinhloko wale ndaba uneminyaka engu-16 ubudala. Uma sikhuluma iqiniso, utholakale enomdlavuza wamathumbu ezinsukwini ezingu-8 ngemuva kokuzalwa kwakhe kweminyaka engu-16.
Ukuthi konke kwaqala kanjani
Kwakungo-1987. Ngolunye usuku, waphawula ukuthi kwakukhona amabala egazi ezimpahleni zakhe zangaphansi. Lokhu kwakuyinto engavamile futhi eyesabekayo enganeni efunda isikole. Kamuva, ngesikhathi ewasha izingubo, unina naye wakubona lokho. Ngaphandle kokulibala, unina wamthatha esikoleni waqonda ngqo kudokotela. Udokotela wabathumela esibhedlela ngokushesha ukuze bayohlolwa izinto ezidingekayo.
Izindaba ezafika ngemva kokubuya kwemiphumela yokuhlolwa zazimbi kakhulu. Odokotela batshela abazali bakhe ukuthi ngisho nangemisebe kanye ne-chemotherapy, wayengeke aphile ngaphambi kukaKhisimusi. Lokho kwakuzoba izinyanga ezintathu. Kodwa phakathi nakho konke lokho, mhla zingama-21 kuMandulo, wahlinzwa. Kwathatha amahora ayi-12. Ngokumangalisayo, waze wavuswa ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa! Odokotela basusa isimila ekugcineni kwekholoni lakhe. Kodwa ngokumangazayo, amangqamuzana omdlavuza ayengakasabalali kwezinye izingxenye zomzimba wakhe, njengoba babelindele.
Lapho imiphumela yokuhlolwa emisha ibuya ngemva kokuhlinzwa, imiphumela yayihluke ngokuphelele. Odokotela bathi wayengadingi ukwelashwa ngemisebe noma nge-chemotherapy ngoba umdlavuza osele wawusunyamalele. Kusukela ngalolo suku kuqhubeke, waziwa ngokuthi "i-Miracle Kid."
Yiziphi izimpawu eziyisixwayiso zomdlavuza wamathumbu amakhulu?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele siyifunde kule ndaba ukungazinaki izimpawu umzimba wethu osinikeza zona. Uphawu lokuqala esilubonile kule ndaba kwakuyigazi esitulweni. Kunezinye izimpawu ezifana nalezi. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini.
Okubalulekile: Uma unesinye noma ngaphezulu salezi zimpawu, akusho ukuthi unomdlavuza. Kungaba esinye isimo, njenge-hemorrhoids. Kodwa-ke, ungalokothi uzishaye indiva lezi zimpawu. Bona udokotela wakho ngokushesha okukhulu ukuze uthole iseluleko.
| Isibonakaliso | Incazelo elula |
|---|---|
| Ushintsho emikhubeni yokuzilungisa | Uhudo oluqhubekayo, ukuqunjelwa, noma ukushintsha kokunamathela kwendle. |
| Igazi esitulweni | Indle emnyama noma indle enemigqa yegazi (lokhu kwakuyisibonakaliso esiyinhloko endabeni). |
| Ubuhlungu besisu noma ukungakhululeki | Ukungakhululeki okuqhubekayo njengokuqunjelwa, izinhlungu zesisu, kanye nokuzizwa usuthi. |
| Ukwehlisa isisindo ngaphandle kwesizathu | Ukwehlisa isisindo ngendlela engakholeki ngaphandle kokunciphisa ukudla noma ukuzivocavoca. |
| Ukukhathala okuvamile | Ukukhathala okukhulu kanye nobuthakathaka obungapheli ngisho noma uphumule. |
Ukuhlinzwa kwe-colostomy kanye nokuphila okusha
Ngenxa yokuthi umdlavuza wawuseduze ne-rectum, walimaza imisipha kuleyo ndawo. Ngenxa yalokho, odokotela kwadingeka benze ukuhlinzwa okubizwa ngokuthi i-colostomy .
Iyini le colostomy?
Kalula nje, lokhu kuhilela ukukhipha ingxenye yamathumbu amakhulu nokudala imbobo ehlukile esiswini (esiswini) ukuze indle idlule. Isikhwama esikhethekile sinamathiselwe kulo mbobo ukuze kuqoqwe indle. Abantu abaningi bayesaba lapho bezwa ngalokhu. Bacabanga ukuthi, "O, ngingaphila kanjalo?"
Lowo kwakuwumbuzo omkhulu kakhulu insizwa kule ndaba eyayinawo ngemva kokuhlinzwa. "Ngingamthola yini umuntu ozongithanda kanje? Ngingamthola yini umuntu ofuna ukuba nezingane nami?" Lokhu kwakuyizinto ezinkulu ayezesaba engqondweni yakhe.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, waqaphela ukuthi abanye abantu bacabanga kakhulu ngalesi simo, kodwa kwabanye akuyona inkinga nhlobo. Into ebalulekile ukuthi kungenzeka ukuphila impilo yomndeni evamile nejabulisayo ngalesi simo . Okudingekayo nje ukuqonda nothando.
Isifundo esikhulu esingasifunda kule ndaba ukuthi
Lesi yiseluleko umuntu oxoxa le ndaba asinikeza wonke umuntu.
"Sicela unakekele umzimba wakho kahle. Ungakwenza lokho hhayi ngokudla kahle nokugwema ukubhema, kodwa nangokubona udokotela wakho njalo . Ngokuya njalo, unethuba lokuthola noma yiziphi izinkinga kusenesikhathi, ngaphambi kokuba zibe zimbi kakhulu."
Muva nje, ngemva kweminyaka eminingi, uye kobonana nodokotela ofanayo owamhlinza. Ukuze nje aqinisekise ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle, wenze izivivinyo ezithile. Imiphumela isifikile. Impilo yakhe inhle kakhulu! Akukho okufanele akhathazeke ngakho. Kodwa uyazi ukuthi udinga ukuqhubeka nokuqhubeka nalokhu kuhlolwa.
Watshela nodokotela, "Ngemva kokuthatha umhlalaphansi, ngidinga ukuthola omunye udokotela engingamethemba futhi ngithembele kuye!"
Ngaphambi kokuba aqede le ndaba, usho into efana nale: "Ngiyabonga, Dokotela, ngakho konke. Ngokunginika ithuba lokujabulela impilo. Ngeke wazi ukuthi ngikukweleta malini."
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Lalela umzimba wakho: Ungalokothi ungazinaki izimpawu ezingavamile njengegazi esitulweni sakho, ubuhlungu besisu, noma ukwehla kwesisindo okungachazeki.
- Funa iseluleko sezokwelapha ngokushesha: Uma unemibuzo nganoma yisiphi isibonakaliso, bona udokotela wakho ngokushesha, kunokuba ufune i-inthanethi. Ukutholwa kusenesikhathi kwenza ukwelashwa kube lula kakhulu.
- Ukuhlolwa kwempilo njalo: Ngisho noma ungenazo izinkinga zempilo, kubalulekile ukuhlolwa njalo kwezokwelapha njengoba ukhula. Kuyitshalomali olwenzayo kuwe.
- Ungayeki ukuphila: Isimo esifana nomdlavuza noma i-colostomy akusona ukuphela kwempilo. Ngokunakekelwa kwezokwelapha okufanele kanye nomqondo oqinile, ungaphila impilo evamile nejabulisayo.
- Udokotela othembekile: Ukuba nodokotela ongakhuluma naye ngokukhululekile futhi umethembe kungenye yamandla amakhulu ozoba nawo ohambweni lwakho lwezempilo.
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