Uma igumbi lomntwana wakho lihlotshiswe kahle futhi izingubo ezincane zibekwe kahle ekhabetheni, uzizwa ujabule kakhulu ngakolunye uhlangothi lwenhliziyo yakho. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngakolunye uhlangothi lwenhliziyo yakho, uzizwa wesaba futhi ukhathazekile, akunjalo? "O, ngizobuyela kanjani emsebenzini? Ngizomshiya kanjani umntwana? Ubani ozondla umntwana ngaphandle kwami? Ingabe ngizokwazi ukubhekana nakho kokubili?" Cishe kunemibuzo eminingi enjalo engqondweni yakho. Ngempela, ukubuyela emsebenzini ngemva kokuba ngumama kuyinselele enkulu. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, awuwedwa. Le mizwa ivamile kubo bonke omama abadlula kulolu hambo. Ake sibone ukuthi singabhekana kanjani nale nselele ngokunakekela okukhulu nenjabulo.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze: thola usizo oluthembekile
Akukho okufana nokuthula kwengqondo ukuthi unomuntu ongamethemba ukuthi uzonakekela ingane yakho uma uya emsebenzini. Ngaleyo ndlela, ungagxila emsebenzini wakho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. Ngakho-ke lesi isinyathelo sakho sokuqala nesibaluleke kakhulu.
Cabanga ngokuthi yiziphi izinketho zakho. Mhlawumbe umama wakho, umamezala wakho, noma othile oseduze nawe angakusiza. Leso yisibusiso esikhulu. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu onalelo thuba. Kulezo zimo, kuzodingeka uthole isikhungo sokunakekela izingane noma umnakekeli othembekile .
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi, ungashiyi lokhu kusesha kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina . Qala ukubheka okungenani inyanga ngaphambi kokuthi uhlele ukuya emsebenzini. Ngoba, noma ungathola isihlalo semoto esihle ngomzuzu wokugcina, ngeke uthole umuntu omethembayo ukuthi anakekele ingane yakho ubusuku bonke.
Ngaphambi kokukhetha othile, yenza ucwaningo lwakho. Buza ngomsebenzi wakhe wangaphambilini. Bheka ukuthi kukhona yini kubangani bakho abake basebenzisa izinsizakalo zakhe. Uma kuyinkulisa, iya lapho ukhulume nabanye abazali. Kubalulekile ukuzinika isikhathi sokwenza lezi zinto.
Ungabhukudi ngokushesha, ngena emanzini kuqala.
Ukuba sekhaya nengane yakho izinyanga bese kuba sehhovisi usuku lonke ngokuzumayo kuyinguquko enkulu engqondweni nasemzimbeni wakho. Kufana nokugxumela emanzini ajulile ngokuzumayo. Ngakho-ke, uma ukwazi, jwayela le mpilo entsha ngokushesha okukhulu.
Kalula nje, khuluma nomphathi wakho ubone ukuthi angakunika yini ithuba lokusebenza isikhathi esingesisodwa emasontweni ambalwa okuqala esikhundleni sokusebenza isikhathi esigcwele. Noma, buza ukuthi ungasebenza ekhaya usuku olulodwa noma ezimbili ngesonto.
Omunye umqondo omuhle ukuqala ukubuyela kwakho emsebenzini ngosuku olufana noLwesine , kunokuba uqale ngosuku lokuqala lwesonto.Khetha. Cabanga, bese kufanele usebenze izinsuku ezimbili kuphela. Bese uthola ithuba lokuchitha impelasonto nomntwana futhi. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ujwayele isimiso esisha ngaphandle kwengcindezi enkulu. Lokhu kuzonciphisa ukucindezeleka okuzwayo kakhulu.
Yiziphi izinto eziza kuqala emndenini wakho? Cabanga ngakho.
Awunaso isikhathi sokwenza konke kahle njengoba wenzile ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afike. Lelo yiqiniso. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukucabanga ngalokho okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe nomndeni wakho bese wenza uhlu lwezinto eziza kuqala .
"Ingabe indlu idinga ukungabi nasici nsuku zonke? Ingabe udinga ukupheka ukudla okusha njalo ebusuku?" Zibuze le mibuzo. Mhlawumbe, noma indlu ingcolile kancane, kufanelekile ukuchitha imizuzu engama-30 eyengeziwe udlala nengane yakho .
| Okubalulekile | Lokho ongakwenza |
|---|---|
| Izinto okumele zenziwe | - Ukondla nokunakekela umntwana ngesikhathi. - Ukwenza umsebenzi obalulekile emsebenzini. - Ukuthola ukuphumula okudingayo. |
| Izinto ezingase zingashiywa ngaphandle | - Ukugcina indlu ihlanzekile futhi ikhazimula nsuku zonke. - Ukupheka izitsha ezintsha njalo ebusuku (akukho okubi ngokuletha ukudla esitolo ngezinye izinsuku). - Ukuya kuyo yonke imicimbi yomphakathi. |
Lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele wenze lutho. Kodwa, njengoba isikhathi sakho namandla akho kulinganiselwe, udinga ukukusebenzisa ngendlela enenzuzo kakhulu. Esikhundleni sokuzama ukwenza konke wena, yabelana ngomsebenzi nomyeni wakho.
Xhumana nomphathi wakho ngaphambi kokuya emsebenzini.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubuyisela ingqondo yakho emsebenzini ukubekela eceleni isikhathi sokukhuluma nomphathi wakho cishe amasonto amabili ngaphambi kokuba ubuyele emsebenzini.
Kungani lokhu kubalulekile?
- Thola ulwazi ngomsebenzi: okwenzekile ngenkathi ungekho, okudingeka kwenziwe uma ubuya (proj ECT)s) Ungazi kusengaphambili ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Ngemuva kwalokho ungazilungiselela ngokwengqondo.
- Yakha ukwethembana: Umphathi wakho angase abe nokukhathazeka okuthile. "Ingabe ngeke akwazi ukugxila emsebenzini wakhe njengoba esenengane?", "Ingabe uzofika sekwephuzile ahambe kusenesikhathi?", "Ingabe kuzodingeka anakekele ingane bese esula emsebenzini?" Lezi yizinkinga ezivamile.
Ngakho-ke, ungakhuluma naye ngalokhu obala kusengaphambili . Uma uthi into efana nokuthi, "Ngikulungele ukubuyela emsebenzini, futhi ngiyakwethemba ukuthi uzokwenza indima yakho," kuzomsiza anqobe noma yikuphi ukungabaza angase abe nakho futhi kwakhe ukukwethemba okukhulu. Le ngxoxo elula izokwenza kube lula kakhulu ngawe ukuqhubekela phambili.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukubuyela emsebenzini ngemva kokuthola umntwana kuyishintsho elikhulu, futhi ukulungiselela kusenesikhathi kunganciphisa kakhulu ukucindezeleka okuzwayo.
- Awuwedwa kulolu hambo. Ungesabi ukucela usizo nokusekelwa. Usizo lomuntu omethembayo lubalulekile.
- Ungazami ukwenza konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, ungazami ukwenza konke kuphelele. Khetha okubaluleke ngempela kuwe nomndeni wakho.
- Ungalinganisela umsebenzi wakho kanye nempilo yomndeni. Akuyona into eyenzeka ngobusuku obubodwa, kuyinqubo. Zinike isikhathi. Ungakwenza lokhu!
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