Uma ubheka abantu abasizungezile emphakathini wethu, kungenzeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi kunabantu abahluke kakhulu komunye nomunye. Indlela abanye abantu abacabanga ngayo, indlela abaqonda ngayo ulwazi, kanye nendlela abaziphatha ngayo ihlukile kancane. Isizathu salokhu kungaba ukukhubazeka kwengqondo noma kokukhula (Intellectual or Developmental Disability – IDD). Kodwa kumelwe ukuthi uke wazizwa ukuthi kunzima kancane ukukhuluma nabantu abanjalo nokubaqonda, akunjalo? Namuhla sikhuluma ngendlela esibahlonipha ngayo abantu abanjalo futhi sibafaka emsebenzini wethu.
Kuyini Ukukhubazeka Kwengqondo Nokuthuthukiswa (ama-IDD)?
Kalula nje, lezi yizimo ezithinta ukufunda komuntu, amakhono olimi, kanye nokuziphatha kwakhe. Ngokuvamile ziqala ebuntwaneni futhi zingahlala impilo yonke. Kodwa lokhu akusona isifo. Kuyingxenye yokuphila kwakhe.
Cabanga nje, akuzona zonke iminwe yethu ezifanayo. Ngokufanayo, wonke umuntu one-IDD uhlukile. Ngisho nabantu ababili abanesimo esifanayo bangase babe nezinselele ezahlukene, izindlela ezahlukene zokuxhumana, kanye nokusekelwa okuhlukile.
Ithebula elingezansi libonisa izinhlobo eziningana zezinkinga ezinjalo.
| Igama Lokukhubazeka | Isingeniso esifushane |
|---|---|
| Isifo Sokungakwazi Ukugxila (ADHD) | Izimpawu zifaka phakathi ubunzima bokugxilisa ingqondo kanye nokuzulazula njalo. |
| Izinkinga ze-Autism Spectrum | Izinguquko ebudlelwaneni bezenhlalo, ekuxhumaneni, kanye nasezindleleni zokuziphatha. |
| Ukukhubazeka Kwengqondo | Isimo esithinta ukulawulwa kokunyakaza komzimba kanye nesimo somzimba. |
| Ukukhubazeka Kwengqondo | Ubunzima bokufunda nokuqonda amakhono okuphila kwansuku zonke. |
| Izinkinga Zolimi | Ubunzima bokuveza imibono noma ukuqonda lokho abanye abakushoyo. |
| I-Tourette Syndrome | Ukukhala okungalawuleki noma ukunyakaza komzimba (ukudlikiza). |
Ngakho-ke, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukubuza ngomusa umuntu okhubazekile ukuthi yiziphi izidingo nezifiso zakhe.
Ake sifunde ngokubandlululwa okubizwa ngokuthi 'i-Ableism'
Lokhu kungase kubonakale njengegama elisha, kodwa kusho into esiyaziyo sonke. I-Abilityism isenzo sokuphatha umuntu ngokungafanele noma ukumbukela phansi ngoba ekhubazekile. Abantu abacabanga ngale ndlela bakholelwa ukuthi umuntu okhubazekile akanakwenza izinto ezifanayo nezabanye nokuthi kudingeka 'aqanjwe'. Lokhu kungenziwa ngamabomu noma ngokungazi.
Okuphambene nalokhu ukubandakanywa . Kusho ukwamukela ukungezwani kwabanye njengoba kunjalo nokubakhuthaza ukuba bahlanganyele kukho konke abakhululekile kukho. Ngale ndlela, nabo bangajabula, babe nempilo enhle, futhi bafinyelele amandla abo aphelele.
Sibasiza futhi sibahloniphe kanjani laba bantu?
Kulungile, ake sibheke izinto ezilula esingazenza ukuze sibahloniphe laba bantu futhi sibafake. Khumbula, wonke umuntu uhlukile, ngakho into ebaluleke kakhulu ukubabuza ukuthi yini abayithandayo.
1. Qaphela nokukhubazeka okungabonakali.
Okunye ukukhubazeka akubonakali emehlweni ethu. Izinto ezifana ne-ADHD , i-autism , kanye nokukhubazeka kokufunda azibonakali. Ngakho-ke ungabuzi umuntu imibuzo engadingekile. Ungasho izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Awubukeki sengathi unokukhubazeka." Lokho kusho ukuthi ukukhubazeka kwabo akulona iqiniso, noma ukuthi akunandaba.
2. Hlonipha inqubo yabo
Abantu abaningi abanezimo ze-IDD bathanda ukusebenza ngendlela ejwayelekile nehlelekile. Kunciphisa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwabo. Ngakho-ke uma uhlela okuthile nabo, ubatshele kusengaphambili, futhi wenze izinguquko, bazozizwa bekhululekile kakhulu ukusebenza nawe.
3. Dala indawo ezolile
Abantu abanezimo ezifana ne-autism bangakuthola kunzima ukuhlangana nabantu. Bangase bangakwazi ukubhekana nomsindo omkhulu ezindaweni ezinabantu abaningi. Ngakho-ke, uma kungenzeka, khetha indawo ethule, engenamsindo kakhulu lapho ukhuluma nabo noma usebenza. Bakuthola kulula ukukhuluma ubuso nobuso kunokuba nabantu abaningi bakhulume ngesikhathi esisodwa.
4. Bafake engxoxweni.
Abantu abakhubazekile bavame ukubandlululwa emphakathini njengabantu abangabonakali. Ungakwenzi lokho. Uma ukhuluma nabo , babheke emehlweni, baphendukele kubo bese ukhuluma. Uma ubabuza umbuzo, bavumele baphendule. Uma benomsizi wabo, khuluma ngqo nomuntu okukhulunywa ngaye, hhayi nomsizi kuphela.
5. Khumbula lezi zinto lapho uxhumana
- Khuluma ngolimi olulula nolucacile. Ungabadeleli. Khuluma ngezwi elivamile, usebenzisa imisho elula. Ungasebenzisi izinkulumo ezihlambalazayo njengokuthi "Kuyana amakati nezinja," ngoba bavame ukuthatha izinto ngokoqobo .
- Sho into eyodwa ngesikhathi. Uma ubuza imibuzo noma unikeza iseluleko, yinikeze eyodwa ngesikhathi. Esikhundleni sokuthi, “Ungagijimi,” sho lokho ofuna ukukwenza ngokucacile, njengokuthi “hamba ngokushesha.”
- Lalela ngesineke. Abanye abantu bakhuluma kancane. Banike isikhathi sokucabanga nokwakha amagama abo. Kungabathatha isikhathi ukuqonda lokho okushoyo. Ngakho ungabajahi.
- Uma ungaqondi, khuluma iqiniso. Uma ungaqondi ukuthi uthini, mcele ukuthi akuphinde. Noma umcele ukuthi angakusho ngenye indlela. Uma ungakuqondi ngemva kokuzama izikhathi ezimbalwa, ungazenzi sengathi uyaqonda. Sho into eqotho njengokuthi, " Ngiyaxolisa , ngiyazi ukuthi okushoyo kubalulekile, kodwa angikwazanga ukukuqonda."
6. Hlonipha ukuziphatha nemikhuba ehlukene
Abantu abaningi abane-autism banenkinga yokubheka abanye emehlweni. Uma othile ebabheka emehlweni, ungakuthathi njengento eqondene nawe. Uma umuntu one-Tourette Syndrome ebanga umsindo ngokuzumayo ngenkathi ukhuluma naye, linda aze aqede ukukhuluma bese uqhubeka. Ngeke bakwazi ukulawula lezo zinto. Abazami ukukuhlambalaza.
7. Ungacabangi ngakho njengento edinga 'ukulungiswa' noma 'ukwelashwa'.
Khumbula, ukukhubazeka akusibo ubuthakathaka. Kungaba yingxenye yobuntu babo.
Iningi labantu liyajabula ngezimpilo zabo. Abakuboni ukukhubazeka kwabo njengenkinga edinga ukulungiswa. Ngakho-ke ungabenzi bazizwe "bengalungile" noma ubenze bazizwe bengakhululekile ngokusho izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Uyisibonelo esihle kakhulu."
8. Sebenzisa amagama afanele
Esikhundleni sokuthi "umuntu okhubazekile", yithi "umuntu okhubazekile"Kuyinhlonipho kakhulu ukuthi “Ngingumuntu.” Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ulimi lomuntu kuqala . Kusho ukuthi siyamhlonipha umuntu njengomuntu ophelele, hhayi nje ngokukhubazeka kwakhe. Kodwa abanye abantu, isibonelo, abantu abane-autism, bakhetha ukubizwa ngokuthi “umuntu one-autism” kunokuba babizwe ngokuthi “umuntu one-autism.” Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ulimi lomuntu kuqala . Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukubabuza ukuthi, “Ungathanda ukubizwa kanjani?”
Ngokwenza ngokunakekela nangesineke ngale ndlela, singabasekela kangcono abangani bethu, izihlobo, kanye nezakhamuzi zethu ezikhubazekile ekukhuleni.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Mhloniphe njalo umuntu, futhi ungamgwebi ngokusekelwe ekukhubazekeni kwakhe.
- Sicela ubuze ukuthi yiziphi izinto abazithandayo zokuxhumana kanye nokusekelana.
- Sebenzisa ulimi olubeka umuntu phambili, njengokuthi “umuntu okhubazekile,” ngaphandle uma bekhetha okuhlukile.
- Khumbula ukuthi ukukhubazeka okuningi akubonakali emehlweni, ngakho ungahluleli muntu ngokubukeka kwakhe.
- Yiba nesineke, uhloniphe imikhuba yabo kanye nezindlela zokuxhumana.
- Uma usola ukuthi othile emndenini wakho unalesi simo noma udinga ukwesekwa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngaso.
Ukukhubazeka kwentuthuko, impilo yengqondo , i-abilityism, i-ADHD, i-autism, ukuqwashisa ngomphakathi, inhlonipho
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