Uma ilungu lomndeni, njengomzali noma othandekayo, litholakala linesifo i-Alzheimer's, akulula ukumnakekela. Ikakhulukazi uma uhlala kude nalo, mhlawumbe kwelinye izwe noma esifundeni, ibanga lingaletha izinselele eziningi ezengeziwe. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Ngokuhlela okuhle kanye nosizo lobuchwepheshe banamuhla, ungahlala uxhumene nomuntu omthandayo futhi uthathe ukulawula imisebenzi yansuku zonke yokunakekela. Ake sixoxe ngalokhu ngokuningiliziwe.
Okokuqala, gcina konke kuhlelekile.
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ongazenza njengomsizi osebenza kude, ngaphezu kokunikeza usizo lwezezimali, ukuhlanganisa yonke imininingwane yezokwelapha, amadokhumenti omshwalense, kanye namadokhumenti asemthethweni ngendlela ehlelekile.
Kalula nje, setha uhlelo oluku-inthanethi lokukhokha izikweletu zomuntu omthandayo. Isibonelo, ungakhokha ibhili lakho likagesi, ibhili lamanzi, njll. ku-inthanethi. Kubalulekile futhi ukuba nemibhalo ethile yezomthetho ehlelekile. Ikakhulukazi, uma ungakwazi ukwenza izinqumo, bheka ukuthi ngabe ulungiselele okuthile kusengaphambili, njenge-"power of attorney" noma "i-proxy yezempilo" egunyaza omunye umuntu ukuthi akwenzele izinqumo zezempilo noma zezezimali. Nakuba lokhu kungavamile kakhulu eSri Lanka, kufanelekile ukukhuluma nommeli futhi uqaphele lo mqondo. Ngoba lezi zinto kungaba nzima ukuzenza lapho ukugula kuba kubi kakhulu.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuhlela konke kusenesikhathi ukuze ukwazi ukwenza izinto ezidingekayo ngaphandle kokwethuka uma kunesimo esiphuthumayo.
Udinga ukuhlola njalo ukuthi izinto zihamba kanjani.
Isifo i-Alzheimer's siyisifo esiqhubekayo . Ngakho-ke isimo sothandekayo wakho kanye nokunakekelwa akudingayo kungashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Zinike isikhathi sokumvakashela kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka, mhlawumbe njalo emavikini ambalwa noma ezinyangeni ezimbalwa. Uma wenza kanjalo, qiniseka ukuthi unaka kakhulu noma yiziphi izinguquko zengqondo.
Ezigabeni zokuqala zalesi sifo, lapho izimpawu zingakabi zimbi kangako, bangase bakwazi ukuphila bodwa. Ngaleso sikhathi, unganikeza ukwesekwa komphakathi, ubasize ngezinto ezifana nokubona udokotela, kanye nokuthola umshwalense. Njengoba lesi sifo siqhubeka, bangase badinge usizo lokushayela, ukukhokha izikweletu, kanye nokwenza imisebenzi yansuku zonke. Ekugcineni, bangadinga ukuqasha umsizi wesikhathi esigcwele ekhaya noma bathuthele esikhungweni sokunakekelwa njengekhaya labagugile.
Cabanga ngalezi zinto ukuze uhlole ukuthi hlobo luni lokunakekelwa azoludinga uma ufika ekhaya.
| Okufanele ukuhlole | Izinto okufanele uzinake |
|---|---|
| Ukudla nekhishi | Ingabe kukhona ukudla esiqandisini? Ingabe konakele? Ingabe usesimweni sokuziphekela? |
| Amadokhumenti namabhili | Ingabe kunenqwaba yezincwadi nezikweletu ezingakavulwa? Ingabe usuzikhokhile izikweletu zakho ngesikhathi? |
| Ukuhlanzeka komuntu siqu | Ingabe ugeza kahle, uhlanza umzimba wakho, futhi ugqoka kahle? |
| Ukuphepha kanye nenkumbulo | Uyalahleka uma uphuma endlini, ungakwazi ukuthola indlela yakho? Uyakhohlwa ukucima isitofu sikaphethiloli nokuvala iminyango? |
Ake sibone ukuthi indawo yasekhaya iphephile yini?
Uma othandekayo wakho esahlala ekhaya, qaphela izingozi ezingaba khona ekhaya uma uhamba. Susa izinto ezingambangela ukuba ashelele futhi awe, njengokuphonsa omata kanye nezintambo zokwelula ezikhululekile . Uma enenkinga yokuhamba, cabanga ngokufaka izihlalo zabakhubazekile.
Kumuntu onenkumbulo ebuthaka, ukuxinana endlini kungaba yinto edidayo. Ngakho-ke , susa amaphepha angadingekile, izinto ezindala, kanye nezinqwaba zezinto bese uzihlela . Kodwa gcina izinto azithandayo nezigcina izinkumbulo. Ngisho ne-albhamu yezithombe enezithombe zomndeni wakhe izomsiza ukuthi amomotheke nsuku zonke.
Ukubaluleka kokuhlala uxhumene
Njengoba ungeke ukwazi ukuphuma nsuku zonke uyolungisa ukudla, ukunikeza imithi ngesikhathi, nokwenza eminye imisebenzi yasekhaya, into elandelayo engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuthola umnakekeli wendawo omethembayo..
Hlala uxhumene nalo mnakekeli. Khuluma ngezinguquko nezinselele zosuku. Futhi, cela umakhelwane omuhle noma isihlobo esiseduze ukuthi sihlole ngezikhathi ezithile futhi sikwazise ukuthi sithola ukunakekelwa esikudingayo. Lokhu kuzokunikeza ukuthula okukhulu.
Qaphela futhi ulwazi lwezokwelapha.
Thola imvume ebhaliwe evela kothandekayo wakho ukuze wabelane nawe ngolwazi lwakhe lwezokwelapha. Zazise kudokotela wabo oyinhloko kanye nodokotela wezinzwa. Bhala phansi ukuthi yimiphi imithi abayithathayo, imithamo yabo, kanye nemiphumela yabo emibi . Funda kabanzi ngesifo i-Alzheimer kanye nokwelashwa kwaso. Xoxa ngakho konke lokhu nodokotela wakho.
Masihlale sixhumene sisebenzisa ubuchwepheshe.
Ngosizo lomnakekeli noma umngane onolwazi oluthile lwezobuchwepheshe, ungakhuluma nomuntu omthandayo ngocingo lwevidiyo. Ungasebenzisa isofthiwe efana ne-Skype noma i-FaceTime. Kodwa khumbula, njengoba isifo siqhubeka futhi inkumbulo iphela, kungadingeka umkhumbuze ukuthi ukhuluma kuphi nokuthi obani amalungu omndeni wakho. Yiba nesineke nothando phakathi nalesi sikhathi.
Jabulelani isikhathi senu ndawonye.
Ungase ukwazi ukuza kanye kuphela emavikini ambalwa noma kanye ezinyangeni ezimbalwa. Kungase kube nezinto eziningi ongazenza ngalolo suku, njengokuya esitolo, ukubona udokotela, noma ukulungisa indlu. Yebo, lezo zinto zibalulekile. Kodwa okubalulekile futhi ukuthi ukhona, futhi kuyithuba lokuthi nichithe isikhathi ndawonye .
Yenza uhlelo ngaphambi kokuba ufike. Ngaleyo ndlela, ungonga isikhathi sezinto eziphuthumayo futhi ube nesikhathi sokujabulela isikhathi ndawonye. Kuye ngesigaba sokugula kwakhe, ningenza izinto ezifana nokubuka i-movie ndawonye, ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ukudlala umdlalo wamakhadi, noma ukulalela izingoma zakhe ezindala azithandayo. Lezo zinkumbulo zibalulekile kini nobabili.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Nakuba ukunikeza ukunakekelwa ukude kungaba yinselele, kungenziwa ngempumelelo ngokuhlela okuhle.
- Thola wonke amadokhumenti akho ezokwelapha, ezezimali, kanye nawezomthetho kusengaphambili. Thola usizo kothile omaziyo uma kudingeka.
- Hlola njalo isimo somuntu omthandayo. Cela usizo kumnakekeli omethembayo noma umakhelwane.
- Hlala uxhumana nodokotela wabo njalo. Qaphela imithi abayiphuzayo kanye nesimo sabo.
- Uma ubavakashela, qiniseka ukuthi ubeka eceleni isikhathi sokuchitha isikhathi esihle nabo, ngaphezu komsebenzi. Lokho kuxhumana ngokomzwelo kubaluleke kakhulu.
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