Ukuze ingane yakho iphephe: Ake sifunde ngotshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa (Ukusetshenziswa Kotshwala Ekukhulelweni Nasezinkingeni Zotshwala Zengane Esanda Kuzalwa)

Sawubona! Namuhla sizokhuluma ngesihloko esibalulekile komama abaningi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi sibangela ukwesaba okuncane kanye nemibuzo eminingi. Okusho ukuthi, ukuphuza utshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi uke waba nemibuzo efana nokuthi 'Kulungile yini ukuphuza kancane ngezikhathi ezithile?', 'Ngiphuze ngingazi, ngenzenjani manje?'. Ake sixoxe ngakho konke lokhu ngokucacile nangokulula.

Kungani ukuphuza utshwala kuyingozi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?

Kalula nje, uma uphuza utshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, lolo tshwala luzongena egazini lakho futhi ludlule ngqo kwi-placenta luye enganeni yakho. Cabanga ngakho sengathi ingane yakho iphuza noma yini oyiphuzayo. Kodwa inkinga iwukuthi, nakuba umzimba wakho ukwazi ukusingatha utshwala, umzimba wengane yakho osakhula, ikakhulukazi isibindi sayo, awukwazi ukubuphatha nhlobo. Ngakho-ke lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu enganeni.

Lokhu kungabangela ingane ukuthi ibe nezimo ezibizwa ngokuthi i-Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD) . Lesi akusona isimo esisodwa, kodwa yiqembu lezimo ezihlangana ngamazinga ahlukene. Esibi kakhulu salezi yi -Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) . Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi 'ukuphuza kancane kulungile'. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, akukho tshwala 'ephephile' ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngisho nokuphuza okuncane kungabeka ingane engozini.

Yiziphi izingozi ezingaba khona enganeni?

Manje ake sibone ukuthi lolu tshwala lungaba namuphi umphumela enganeni. Empeleni lokhu kubi kakhulu kunalokho ocabanga ngakho.

• Izinkinga zomzimba: Izinguquko esimweni sobuso bomntwana (isibonelo, udebe oluphezulu olugobile, ukuncipha kwesikhala esiphakathi kwamehlo), izinkinga zenhliziyo, izinkinga zezinso, ukubona nokukhubazeka kokuzwa, kanye nezinkinga ngamathambo namalunga zingaba khona. Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ingase ibe nesilinganiso sokukhula esinciphile, okusho ukuthi ingane ingazalwa inesisindo esiphansi.
• Imiphumela ebuchosheni nasesimisweni sezinzwa: Lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu. Utshwala bungalimaza ubuchopho bomntwana obusakhula. Lokhu kungaholela ekukhubazekeni kwengqondo, ekukhubazekeni kokufunda, ezinkingeni zenkumbulo, kanye nokuntuleka kokunaka.
• Izinkinga zokuziphatha kanye nezenhlalo: Ezinye izingane zingase zibonise ukusebenza ngokweqile, ukulawula okungekuhle kwemizwa, kanye namakhono angemahle okuxhumana nabantu. Lezi zinkinga zingase ziqhubeke zize zibe ngabantu abadala.
• Ezinye izingozi: Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphuza utshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwandisa ingozi yokuphuphuma kwesisu, ukuzalwa kwengane isishonile, kanye ne-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana.

Uma ngicabanga ngakho, akekho kithi ongathanda ukuthi into efana nale yenzeke kumntwana omncane esimlindile, akunjalo? Yingakho kudingeka sikhathazeke kangaka ngalokhu.

Kulungile yini ukuphuza kancane ngezikhathi ezithile?

Lona umbuzo abantu abaningi abawubuzayo. 'Angiphuzi kakhulu, kulungile yini ukuphuza ingilazi encane yewayini noma ubhiya ngezikhathi ezithile?' Empeleni, lokhu kuyinto eyingozi kakhulu ukuyenza.

Cabanga nje, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi utshwala obuphuzayo buncane kangakanani, budlula kalula ku-placenta buye enganeni yakho. Inkinga iwukuthi, nakuba umzimba wakho ungawohloka futhi uqede lobu tshwala, umzimba omncane womntwana wakho, ikakhulukazi isibindi sakhe, awukwazi. Ngakho-ke utshwala buhlala emzimbeni womntwana wakho isikhathi eside kunasesibelethweni sakho. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, utshwala bungalimaza ubuchopho bomntwana wakho obusakhula kanye nezinye izitho zomzimba.

Ukuphuza ngokweqile kwenzeka lapho uphuza iziphuzo ezingaphezu kwezine ngesikhathi. Lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kodwa-ke, lokho akusho ukuthi amanani aphansi noma aphakathi nendawo aphephile. Cha, akunjalo. Akukho 'mkhawulo ophephile' wotshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngakho into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuyeka ukuphuza ngokuphelele.

"Akukho 'inani eliphephile' lotshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngisho nomthamo omncane ungaba yingozi enganeni yakho."

Kuthiwani uma ngiphuza ngaphambi kokuba ngithole ukuthi ngikhulelwe?

Lokhu kuyinto omama abaningi ababhekana nayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi sekuphele amasonto ambalwa uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe. Kungenzeka ukuthi uphuze utshwala phakathi naleso sikhathi ungaqapheli. Ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngakho. Eqinisweni, uma uphuze kancane kanye noma kabili ngaphambi kokuthi uthole ukuthi ukhulelwe, ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngakho. Ezimweni eziningi, kungase kungabi nomthelela omkhulu.

Kodwa, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukungaphuzi elinye ithonsi lotshwala kusukela ngesikhathi uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe kuze kube sekupheleni kokukhulelwa kwakho. Yilokho okungcono kakhulu ongakwenzela wena nomntwana wakho.

Uma unokungabaza noma ukukhathazeka ngalokhu, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela wakho. Angakunikeza iseluleko osidingayo.

Kuthiwani uma nginenkinga ngotshwala?

Kulungile, manje ake sixoxe ngento ebucayi kancane. Mhlawumbe unenkinga ngokuphuza kwakho. Okusho ukuthi, unenkinga yokulawula ukuphuza kwakho, noma uphuza okungaphezu kwalokho ocabanga ukuthi ukuphuza. Noma, ucabanga ukuthi, 'Ngingase nginenkinga yokuphuza.'

Esimweni esinjalo, sicela ungabi namahloni noma wesabe ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngalokhu. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma udokotela azi imininingwane yokuthi uphuze utshwala obungakanani ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nokuthi ubuphuze nini, angathola umbono oqondile wemiphumela engaba khona enganeni futhi enze izivivinyo ezidingekayo.

Futhi, udokotela wakho angakusiza ukuthi uyeke ukuphuza utshwala. Khumbula, lokhu ukwenza ngenxa yakho kanye nosana olungenacala olusesibelethweni sakho. Ukucela usizo akulona uphawu lobuthakathaka, kuwuphawu lwamandla.

Lapho singathola khona usizo

Ukuyeka utshwala kungaba nzima kwabanye abantu. Kodwa awuwedwa. Kunezindlela nezindawo zokuthola usizo.

• Udokotela wakho: Umuntu wokuqala okufanele ukhulume naye udokotela womndeni wakho noma udokotela wezifo zabesifazane. Bangakunikeza isiqondiso osidingayo, futhi bangakudlulisela nasenkonzweni efanele yokwelulekwa.
• Amaqembu okweluleka nokusekela: Kukhona abeluleki abangochwepheshe abangakusiza ukuthi uyeke ukuphuza utshwala futhi ubhekane nezinkinga zengqondo ezihambisana nakho. Ungathola futhi induduzo enkulu nesikhuthazo ngamaqembu okweseka lapho abantu ababhekene nenkinga efanayo behlangana khona.
• Izikhungo zezinga likazwelonke: Amanye amazwe anezikhungo zezinga likazwelonke zokuvimbela utshwala nezidakamizwa. (Isibonelo, kunezikhungo ezifana neNational Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) e-United States.) Ungabuza nodokotela wakho ngezindawo ezihlinzeka ngolwazi nezinsizakalo ngalokhu eSri Lanka.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi, ungalindi isikhathi eside ucele usizo. Thatha lezo zinyathelo ukuze ube nekusasa elinempilo kuwe kanye nengane yakho.

Yiziphi izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu esifuna ukuzithatha ekhaya kule ndaba?

Kulungile, ngakho-ke, kukho konke esikhulume ngakho, nazi ezinye izinto okufanele uzikhumbule:

• Akukho silinganiso 'esiphephile' sotshwala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ngisho nesilinganiso esincane singalimaza ingane.
• Kusukela ngesikhathi uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe, into engcono kakhulu nephephile ongayenza ukuyeka ukuphuza utshwala ngokuphelele.
• Utshwala lungadala izinkinga ezinkulu zempilo yengane impilo yayo yonke, njenge- Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD) .
• Ngisho noma ubuphuza utshwala ngaphambi kokuba uthole ukuthi ukhulelwe, ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngakho, futhi yeka ngokuphelele manje.
• Uma unenkinga yokulawula ukuphuza kwakho utshwala, ungabi namahloni futhi ufune usizo kudokotela noma kumeluleki ofanelekayo. Kuzoba usizo olukhulu kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

Ikusasa elinempilo lomntwana wakho lisezandleni zakho. Uma ukuthola kunzima ukulidlula wedwa lolu hambo, ungangabazi ukucela usizo. Umntwana ophilile kumama onempilo!

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