Cabanga nje, kungenzeka yini ukuthi umuntu angazi ukuthi ukhulelwe aze abe nomntwana? Kuzwakala njengendaba yethelevishini, akunjalo? Kodwa lokhu kungenzeka, kodwa akuvamile kakhulu. Esikhathini esiningi, ukukhulelwa kutholakala sekusondele ukubeletha, noma ngemva kokulaliswa esibhedlela ukuze kubelethwe umntwana . Kwezokwelapha, lokhu sikubiza ngokuthi 'ukukhulelwa okufihliwe' noma ukukhulelwa okuyimfihlo . Ungase umangale ukuzwa ngalokhu, ngakho ake sixoxe ngakho ngokucacile.
Ungazazi kanjani ukuthi ukhulelwe?
Kumama osevele enezingane, lokhu kungase kungenzeki. Njengoba enesicanucanu, ehlanza, ephelelwa yisifiso sokudla, eyeka ukuya esikhathini, futhi ekhuluphala okuhambisana nokukhulelwa, kunengqondo ukuzibuza ukuthi ubengeke azi kanjani.
Kodwa-ke, akuvamile ukuthi umuntu abhekane nesimo esinjalo. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kuyimfihlakalo ngisho nakodokotela. Kunezizathu eziningana ezithinta lokhu. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini.
Ngoba ngisebenzisa izithibelo zokubeletha
Uma usebenzisa amaphilisi okuvimbela inzalo, imijovo, noma ezinye izinhlobo zokuvimbela inzalo, ungase ucabange, "O, angisoze ngakhulelwa." Kodwa khumbula, alukho uhlobo lokuvimbela inzalo olusebenza kahle ngokuphelele . Ezinye izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo zingamisa nokuya esikhathini kwakho. Lokho kungenza kube nzima nakakhulu ukuthi ukhulelwe.
Uma ukuya kwakho esikhathini kungajwayelekile
Kwabaningi, uphawu lokuqala lokuthi bakhulelwe yilapho isikhathi sabo singafiki ngesikhathi. Kodwa uma umjikelezo wakho ungajwayelekile, okusho ukuthi kuvamile ukuthi kube sekwephuzile inyanga noma ezimbili, ungase ungacabangi ukuthi kuyinto enkulu. Ikakhulukazi uma unesifo esifana ne -PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) noma ungaphansi kokucindezeleka okukhulu, ungase ucabange ukuthi kuyinto evamile bese umane ungayinaki.
Ngoba kukhona amaconsi amancane egazi aphuma esithweni sangasese sowesifazane
Emasontweni okuqala okukhulelwa, lapho umbungu uzifakela odongeni lwesibeletho (ukufakelwa), kungase kube namaconsi ambalwa egazi. Abanye besifazane bacabanga ngephutha ukuthi lesi 'isikhathi esilula'. Futhi, abanye abantu bangase babe namabala ngisho nangesikhathi sokukhulelwa okunempilo. Ngakho lokhu kungadidaniswa nokuya esikhathini.
Uma ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa ekhaya kungalungile
Ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa ekhaya ngokuvamile kunemba, kodwa akulona iqiniso eliphelele elingu-100%. Uma ungayilandeli imiyalelo ngqo, noma uma uhlola kusenesikhathi kakhulu ekukhulelweni kwakho, izinga le- hCG ( i-Human Chorionic Gonadotropin ) emchameni wakho lingase lingabi phezulu ngokwanele ukunikeza umphumela 'Ongemuhle'.
Ukungabikho kwezimpawu zokukhulelwa ezivamile
Uma ungenazo izimpawu zokukhulelwa ezivamile abantu abaningi abazizwayo, njengesicanucanu, ukuhlanza, ukuzwela amabele, kanye nokukhathala okukhulu, cishe awucabangi ukuthi ukhulelwe, akunjalo? Abanye abantu bazizwa lezi zimpawu akuvamile. Ungase uzizwe unesicanucanu kancane, kodwa ungase ungasinaki, ucabanga ukuthi 'kuwukudla okunobuthi' noma 'i-gastritis.'
Ukwanda kwesisindo noma ukwehla kwamafutha esiswini
Akubona bonke abesifazane abakhuliswa isisindo futhi bakhule isisu ngendlela efanayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Uma ukhulu kancane, noma uma uzivocavoca njalo, ukukhuluphala kwakho kungase kungabonakali. Futhi, kwabanye besifazane, isisu singase singabonakali kuze kube kamuva kakhulu.
Uma ubunenkinga yokuba nezingane noma ngenxa yokuguga
Uma uke wazama ukuba nomntwana ngaphambilini kodwa wehluleka, noma uma odokotela bekutshelile ukuthi awukwazi ukuba nabantwana, ungase ucabange ukuthi, "Angisakwazi ukuba nabantwana manje." Futhi, uma ungowesifazane oneminyaka engama-40 noma engama-50, ungase uphambanise izimpawu zokukhulelwa (isib., ukuya esikhathini okungajwayelekile , ukukhathala) nalezo zokunqamuka kokuya esikhathini.
Angizizwa sengathi ingane iyazabalaza
Ngokuvamile, umama uqala ukuzwa umntwana enyakaza esibelethweni cishe emavikini angu-18-20. Kodwa-ke, uma i-placenta inamathele odongeni lwangaphambili lwesibeletho (i-placenta yangaphambili), lokhu kunyakaza kungase kungabonakali kakhulu. Ngisho nalapho, akungabazeki ukuthi ukhulelwe.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi, ngenxa yezizathu zengqondo njengokwesaba ngokweqile, ingcindezi, noma amahloni, umuntu angaphika ngokungazi iqiniso lokuthi ukhulelwe. Lesi isimo sengqondo esinamandla esibizwa ngokuthi i-Denial.
Ziyini izimpawu zalesi simo?
Eqinisweni, isici esiyinhloko sokukhulelwa okuyimfihlo ukungabikho kwezimpawu zokukhulelwa ezivamile noma ukungaziphathi kahle kwazo. Kodwa uma unokungabaza okuncane, qaphela lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo. Ake sizibheke etafuleni.
| Izimpawu ezingaba khona | Indlela yokucabanga ngendlela engafanele |
|---|---|
| Ukungahambi kahle kokuya esikhathini noma ukopha okungajwayelekile | "Kungaba ukucindezeleka" / "Kungaba yi-PCOS" / "Ngisanda kuba nesikhathi esifushane" |
| Isicanucanu noma ukuhlanza | "Ubuthi bokudla" / "I-Gastritis iba yimbi kakhulu" |
| Ukukhathala | "Mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi ngimatasa kakhulu" / "Ngidinga ukulala kancane" |
| Ukuvuvukala kwesisu/ubuhlungu besisu | "Umoya uvalelekile" / "Cishe awugayi" |
| Ubuhlungu bebele noma ukuvuvukala | "Kungenzeka ukuthi kungenxa yokuthi isikhathi sami sokuya esikhathini sizofika maduze." |
Uma unalezi zimpawu futhi ukwazi ukukhulelwa, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela wakho ngakho.
Ziyini izingozi zalesi simo?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umama nomntwana babone udokotela phakathi nokukhulelwa, bahlolwe ngokufanele, futhi balandele imiyalelo (ukunakekelwa kwangaphambi kokubeletha). Ekukhulelweni okungaqondakali, lokhu kunakekelwa akunakwa nhlobo, okungabeka umama nomntwana engozini enkulu.
- Izingozi kumama:
- Ukubeletha umntwana ngaphandle kwesibhedlela, ngaphandle kokuqashwa ngudokotela.
- Ukuthola umntwana ngokuzumayo kuyinto ebuhlungu kakhulu, engaholela ezinkingeni zempilo yengqondo (isib. ukucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha).
- Ukwehluleka ukuqaphela izimo ezifana nomfutho wegazi ophakeme nesifo sikashukela esingase senzeke ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
- Izingozi enganeni:
- Ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi .
- Isisindo esiphansi sokuzalwa .
- Ingozi eyengeziwe yokuzalwa kwengane isishonile .
- Ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi izingane zisengozini enkulu yokunganakwa ngemva kokuzalwa.
Uma ubelethela ekhaya noma kwenye indawo ngokuzumayo, shayela ngokushesha isevisi ye-ambulensi ka-1990 bese uya e-Emergency Treatment Unit (ETU) yesibhedlela esiseduze.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma unemibuzo?
Uma unokungabaza okuncane, njengokuthi, 'Ingabe ngikhulelwe?', ungakushayi indiva.
Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukubona udokotela wakho bese ukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngalokhu. Uzokuhlola futhi, uma kudingeka, enze ukuhlolwa komchamo, ukuhlolwa kwegazi, noma ukuskena nge-ultrasound ukusiza ukuqinisekisa lokhu ngokuphelele.
Udokotela wakho angakuthumela futhi ukuze uthole ukwelulekwa ngempilo yengqondo. Ungesabi lokho. Kuzokusiza ukuthi ubhekane nokushaqeka kokuthola ukuthi ukhulelwe futhi kukulungiselele ukuba ngumama omuhle enganeni yakho.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukukhulelwa Okungaqondakali kuyinto engenzeka ngempela, kodwa akuvamile kakhulu.
- Ukukhulelwa kungafihlwa ngenxa yezici ezifana nokuya esikhathini okungajwayelekile, ukusetshenziswa kwezithibelo zokubeletha, kanye nokungabikho kwezimpawu zokukhulelwa ezivamile.
- Ungazinaki ngisho nezimpawu ezincane njengokucasuka nokukhathala, ikakhulukazi uma ukhulelwe.
- Uma unokungabaza, into engcono kakhulu nephephile ongayenza ukubonana nodokotela ngokushesha .
- Ukuthola ukunakekelwa okufanele ngaphambi kokubeletha kubalulekile ekuvikeleni impilo kamama neyomntwana.
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