Aleke wò ŋkekea le yiyim? Zã ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe nàtɔ vie nàde ŋugble le wò nuteƒekpɔkpɔwo ŋu egbea. Ne àte ŋui la, lé nuŋlɔti kple pepa eye nàŋlɔ nudzɔdzɔ ʋɛ aɖewo siwo dzi nàɖo ŋkui la ɖi. Na míakpɔ nusi nèŋlɔ ɖa.
Eyata nukae nye wò susu? Ðe wò ŋkekea yɔ fũ kple ɣeyiɣi nyuiwo ƒe akpa gãtɔa? Ðewohĩ nane si le abe, “Egbea nyo ŋutɔ! Tɔgbuinye ɖaa pittu viviwo tsɔ ɖua ŋdinu, mekpɔa ɣeyiɣi ɖe xɔ̃nyewo ŋu le suku, eye Eŋlisigbe me ɣeyiɣia vivina!” Alo ɖe wò susu nɔ nu siwo gblẽ la ŋua? Abe, “Tɔgbui ƒe nuɖaɖa na metsi megbe, bɔs la to ŋunye, eye xɔ̃nyewo nɔa nu ƒom tso television dzi wɔna aɖewo siwo tea ɖeɖi ame ŋu le ŋdɔnuɖuɣi. Gakpe ɖe eŋu la, Eŋlisigbe nɔ mía si! Yawoɖagbewo melɔ̃a nunye kura o!” Gɔmesese ɖedzesi aɖe le alesi nèɖea nudzɔdzɔ siawo gɔmee.
Nukae míedi be míagblɔ ne míegblɔ be Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame Kple Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame?
Kpuie ko la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame kple mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame nye mɔ vovovo eve siwo dzi woato abu xexeame ahabu eŋu. Wonye susu vovovowo le gɔmedzedzea me .
Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamela dia nuwo ƒe akpa si me kɔ ɣesiaɣi. Wokpɔa mɔ be nu nyuiwo ado tso eme eye woxɔe se be aɖaŋu kple tiatiawɔblɔɖe le yewo si be yewoakpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe nudzɔdzɔwo dzi wòanyo wu. Seselelãme aɖe le woƒe mɔnu si nye, “Mate ŋu akpɔ esia gbɔ,” le woƒe mɔnu la me.
Le go bubu me la, ame ɖekaɖeka siwo dina be yewoatsɔ susu aɖo vodadaawo ŋu alo akpɔ nusianu to ŋkubiãnya me lae nye amesiwo míeyɔna be “mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamelawo.” Zi geɖe la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeametɔ kpɔa mɔ be nuwo ava gblẽ eye eƒe susu nɔa kpododonuwo alo mɔxenuwo ŋu. Susu si nɔa anyi ɖaa be “ɖeko esia mava eme o” xɔa woƒe susu me zi geɖe.
Gake ele vevie be míade dzesii be ame aɖeke mebua mɔkpɔkpɔ alo mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame dzro ko ɣesiaɣi o. Mí katã míedzea anyi ɖe afi aɖe le spektrum la dzi. Nya nyuitɔ kekeakee nye be ne èbɔbɔ ɖe mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame me hã la, mehiã be nànɔ afima o! Mí katã míate ŋu asrɔ̃ alesi míatrɔ míaƒe nukpɔsusu eye míatu nukpɔsusu si me mɔkpɔkpɔ le wu ɖo. Enye aɖaŋu si woate ŋu asrɔ̃.
Nukatae nu nyuiwo ŋu bubu ɖea vi na wò nenema gbegbe ɖo?
Numekulawo kple dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunyalawo srɔ̃ nu tso ame siwo si mɔkpɔkpɔ nyui le ŋu ƒe geɖe. Le nusiwo ŋu woke ɖo nu la, mɔkpɔkpɔ nyui ƒe nɔnɔme me léle ɖe asi kpena ɖe ŋuwò be dzi nadzɔ wò , nàkpɔ dzidzedze le agbe me, eye nànɔ lãmesẽ me.
Bu viɖe siawo siwo le nuŋububu nyui me ŋu kpɔ:
- Susu ƒe Lãmesẽ : Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame wɔa dɔ abe akpoxɔnu si ate ŋu akpɔ tawò tso nɔnɔmewo abe blanuiléle ene me . Ne nɔnɔme mawo dzroa wò gɔ̃ hã la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ƒe susu ate ŋu anye ametakpɔnu vevi aɖe.
- Nuteɖeamedzi Nu: Nukpɔsusu nyui naa ŋusẽ wò be nànɔ te ɖe agbe me nyaƒoɖeamenuwo, alo nuteɖeamedzi nu . Ne kuxi aɖe do mo ɖa la, le esi teƒe be wò susu natsi dzodzodzoe la, edia mɔ bubu si dzi wòato alé ŋku ɖe nɔnɔmea ŋu.
- Agbenɔƒe didi: Ðewohĩ awɔ nuku na wò, gake numekukuwo ɖee fia be nuŋububu nyuie ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu gɔ̃ hã be nànɔ agbe didi wu. Enye dɔwɔnu wɔnuku aɖe na agbe si me lãmesẽ le, si me dzidzɔ le.
- Enye Aɖaŋu si Woate Ŋu Asrɔ̃: Nu nyuitɔ kekeakee nye be, ne wò tamebubu ƒe nɔnɔmewo nye mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame le ŋutinya me gɔ̃ hã la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame nye nusi nàte ŋu asrɔ̃ ahana hehe ɖokuiwò be nàxɔ.
“Menye tamebubu dzro aɖe koe mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame nye o, ke enye nu vevi aɖe si ana ame nanɔ lãmesẽ me.”
Aleke mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamelawo kple mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamelawo bua nudzɔdzɔwoe?
Menye akpa nyuia kpɔkpɔ alo mɔkpɔkpɔ be nu nyuiwo ado tso eme koe nye mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame o. Eku ɖe alesi míewɔa dɔ tso nudzɔdzɔ siwo dzɔ xoxo ŋu heɖea wo gɔmee ŋu.
Bu eŋu ale: Ne nu nyui aɖe dzɔ, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamelawo gblɔna be yewo ŋutɔ yewoƒe agbagbadzedzewo kple aɖaŋuwo gbɔe wòtso. Wokpɔa woƒe ŋusẽ be wonye yewo ɖokui ƒe akpa siwo nɔa anyi ɖaa, siwo li ke. Wobua alesi dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ sia ate ŋu aʋu ʋɔtruwo na nu nyui bubuwo hã ŋu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne èto dodokpɔ aɖe me la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ate ŋu asusu be, “Medo le esi mewɔ dɔ sesĩe ta. Mete ŋu ɖoa nusiawo gbɔ, eye esia akpe ɖe ŋunye makpɔ dɔ nyui aɖe emegbe.”
Le go bubu me la, ne nuwo meyi abe alesi woɖoe ene o , alesi amewo wɔa nui la toa vovo. Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamelawo mebua fɔ wo ɖokui o. Wokpɔa kpododonuwo be wonye ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe ƒe nu . Ne nane gblẽ la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeametɔ tsɔe do ƒome kple nɔnɔme aɖe koŋ tsɔ wu be wòatsɔe do ƒome kple ame ŋutɔ ƒe kpododonu si le dzɔdzɔme nu. Esi wometsɔa kpododonu siawo dea wo ɖokui me o ta la, wobi ɖe megbedede tso dziɖeleameƒo me wu mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeametɔwo sã.
Bu kpɔɖeŋu sia ŋu kpɔ: Nimal kple Supun siaa tea sukua ƒe basketball-ha la kpɔna. Wo dometɔ aɖeke mewɔa lãɖeɖea o. Dzi ɖe le wo ame evea siaa ƒo, gake woƒe nuwɔna to vovo.
Nimal nye ame si si mɔkpɔkpɔ nyui le. Esusu be: "Ame bibi geɖe nɔ dodokpɔwo me, eye teƒe ʋɛ aɖewo koe nɔ anyi. Mesrɔ̃e sesĩe eye mese le ɖokuinye me be meƒoe nyuie! Hehenala la gblɔ nya nyuiwo nam. Mawɔ dɔ tso nuto siwo ŋu wòyɔ ŋu eye makpɔ fefe ɖesiaɖe le ƒe sia me. Ema ana mɔnukpɔkpɔ nyuitɔm le ƒe si gbɔna me."
Èkpɔ emaa? Nimal ƒe susu nɔa nɔnɔmea koŋ ŋu, ke menye eya ŋutɔ ƒe asixɔxɔ ŋu o. Mekpɔa esia be enye nɔnɔme si anɔ anyi ɖaa o. Ekpɔ mɔ be yeawɔ ƒuƒoƒoa le ƒe si gbɔna me eye wòle ɖoɖo wɔm ɖe alesi yeawɔe ŋu xoxo.
Supun dina be yeawɔ mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame. Esusu be: “Mewɔ nuku o be nyemete ŋu ɖo afima o—nyee nye fefewɔla vɔ̃ɖitɔ kekeake le dodokpɔwo me, eye ɖewohĩ hehenala la melɔ̃am o. Naneke medzea ŋunye gbeɖe o. Ðeko wòle be malɔ̃ ɖe edzi be menye fefewɔla nyui aɖekee menye o.” To vovo na Nimal la, Supun bua kpododonua le eɖokui si. Ebua fɔ eɖokui eye wòsena le eɖokui me abe gotagome ŋusẽwo (hehenala, agbe) le dɔ wɔm ɖe ye ŋu ene. Nusi gavloe wue nye be wɔna ɖeka sia nana wòkea ɖi eƒe kamedefefe ƒe ŋutete bliboa.
Fifia, ègblɔ nam be: amekae anya nɔ dziɖeleameƒo ɣeyiɣi didi wu? Amekae ate ŋu ana hehee ahagate kpɔ ake? Eye amekae anya na ta? Ŋuɖoɖoa me kɔ, alo?
Aleke mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame tua wò tenɔnɔ ɖe nɔnɔme sesẽwo nu ɖoe ?
Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ƒe tamebubu nana míebua nudzɔdzɔ siwo ɖea dzi le ame ƒo la be wonye ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe ƒe nɔnɔme , si naa míexɔe se be míate ŋu aɖu wo dzi. Esia doa ŋusẽ míaƒe tameɖoɖo kplikpaa be míagate kpɔ ake tsɔ wu be míana ta. Enaa míaƒe taɖodzinuwo kple drɔ̃ewo nɔa agbe eye wòdoa ŋusẽ míaƒe tameɖoɖo kplikpaa. Esia wɔe be ame siwo si mɔkpɔkpɔ nyuiwo le la sena le wo ɖokui me be yewokpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe yewoƒe nɔnɔmewo dzi wu, eye bubu si le yewo ɖokui ŋu hã dea ŋgɔ ŋutɔ. Wodzraa wo ɖokui dzixɔse vavãtɔ ɖo.
Le go bubu me la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ƒe tamebubu ʋãa mí míebua dziɖeleameƒo kple gbegbe be enye ame ŋutɔ tɔ. Ena wodzena abe nusiwo woatsɔ awɔ dɔe tegbee ene tsɔ wu be woanye nudzɔdzɔ siwo va yina. Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ƒe nukpɔsusu doa ŋusẽ nɔnɔme aɖe ƒe akpa gbegblẽwo , eye zi geɖe la, etsyɔa nu nyui ɖesiaɖe dzi. Ne nuwo meyi abe alesi wokpɔ mɔe ene o la, susu sia nana wòsesẽna ŋutɔ be woanɔ te ɖe enu.
Ðe mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame nye nusianu kpɔkpɔ to ŋkumeɖobolo siwo ƒe amadede nye rose me koa? (Mɔkpɔkpɔ Nyuitɔ) .
Ao, menye nenemae wòfia o. Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame mefia be woatsɔ ŋkumeɖobolo siwo ƒe amadede nye rose akpɔ nusianu alo awɔ abe ɖe agbe nye glitoto ene o. Mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamelawo meŋea aɖaba ƒua agbemekuxiwo dzi o, eye womewɔna abe ɖe nusianu de blibo ene hã o. Ke boŋ woƒe susu nɔa nu nyui siwo le nɔnɔme ɖesiaɖe me la nyanya kple afɔɖeɖe siwo woate ŋu aɖe atsɔ ana nuwo nanyo ɖe edzi la nyanya ŋu.
Kakaɖedzi vavãtɔ le mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamelawo si , si dona tso dzadzraɖo me. Wose egɔme be dodokpɔ sesẽ aɖe me toto bia nusɔsrɔ̃ vevie, abe alesi wonyae be basketball-ha wɔwɔ bia be woatsɔ wo ɖokui asrɔ̃e ene.
Kpuie ko la, mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame nye nuwɔna. Eku ɖe dadasɔ nyui didi le tamebubu nyui kple nu ŋutɔŋutɔ siwo wotu ɖe gɔmeɖoanyi dzi dome ŋu.
Ðe mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ƒe asikaka ame ŋu hiã ŋutɔŋutɔa?
Togbɔ be mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ƒe tamebubu ate ŋu axe mɔ na wò—eye ele vevie be nànya be yeate ŋu atrɔ susu ma hã—mefia be ehiã be nàtutu susu gbegblẽ ɖesiaɖe ɖa keŋkeŋ o.
Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, biabia be “Nukae gblẽ?” kpena ɖe mía ŋu míedea dzesi nya aɖe pɛpɛpɛ. Afɔku siwo ate ŋu ado mo ɖa ŋu bubu ate ŋu akpɔ tawò ŋutɔŋutɔ tso nuveviwɔame si mehiã o me.
Bu eŋu ale: Nɔviwòŋutsu le text message ɖom ɖe wò esime wòle ʋu kum yina afi aɖe. Wò dzɔdzɔmeŋutete manyomanyo, si nye nuxlɔ̃ame, xlɔ̃ nu wò be: “Esia mele dedie o!” Emegbe èbia tso esi be wòadzudzɔ, menye le eƒe dedienɔnɔ ta ko o, ke le wò dedienɔnɔ ta. Le ɣeyiɣi sia me la, èle mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame ƒe susu (“Ne eɖo nyatakakawo ɖe amewo to asitelefon dzi esime míele ʋu kum la, míate ŋu adze afɔku”) kple nuwɔna si me kakaɖedzi le (“Menya be nane li mate ŋu awɔ atsɔ atɔ te esia.”) ƒo ƒui.
Mí katã míetoa teƒe sesẽ siwo wòdze abe naneke mezɔna nyuie o ene. Ne dzi ɖe le ƒowò la, anyo be nàlɔ̃ ɖe wò seselelãmewo dzi ahadzro nu si gblẽ la me. Nuƒoƒo kple amesi dzi nèka ɖo ate ŋu aɖe wò susu ƒe agba dzi akpɔtɔ eye wòakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàgbugbɔ wò susu aɖo nu nyui siwo ate ŋu adzɔ ŋu. Nu vevitɔ kekeakee nye be màgaku ɖe kuxia ŋutɔ ŋu o. Ne èkpɔ esia gbɔ la, tamebubu gbegblẽ gɔ̃ hã ate ŋu anye nusi aʋã wò nàyi ŋgɔ.
Aleke nàwɔ azu mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame geɖe wu?
Ne èkpɔe be le dzɔdzɔme nu la, yele mɔ kpɔm na nukpɔsusu si me mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame le wu la, àte ŋu ana hehe ɖokuiwò be nàde dzesi nu nyuiawo. Nu ʋɛ aɖewo siwo nàte ŋu ate kpɔe nye esi:
- De dzesi nu nyuiawo eye nàkpɔ ŋudzedze ɖe wo ŋu. Le ŋkeke ɖesiaɖe ƒe nuwuwu la, tsɔ miniti 10 de ŋugble eye nàde dzesi nu ʋɛ aɖewo siwo ŋu nèda akpe ɖo. Ŋlɔ wo ɖe agbalẽ me alo zã dɔwɔnu aɖe si ʋãa ame le wò fon alo tablɛt dzi. Nu suesuesuewo gɔ̃ hã le vevie—abe ame aɖe si le alɔgbɔnu kom na wò egbea ene.
- He wò susu be wòaxɔe ase be yeate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe nu nyui siwo ado tso eme dzi. Srɔ̃e be nàgblɔ nu siwo koŋ nàte ŋu awɔ be nàkpɔ dzidzedze la na ɖokuiwò. Le kpɔɖeŋu me: “Ne mesrɔ̃ nu la, mate ŋu axɔ dzesi nyui.” “Ne mesrɔ̃e la, maƒo ha nyuie le kɔnsɛt la me.” “Ne meva ge ɖe lɔlɔ̃nu faa dɔwɔlawo ƒe ƒuƒoƒo ma me la, mado go xɔlɔ̃ yeyewo.”
- Mègabu fɔ ɖokuiwò ne nuwo meva yi nyuie o. Ne nuwo meva yi abe alesi nèɖoe ene o la, se wò nuƒoƒo ɖekaɖeka ememetɔ. Le esi nàbu eŋu be, “Medo kpo nu le dodokpɔa me le esi nyemebi ɖe akɔntabubu me o ta” teƒe la, dze agbagba nàgblɔ be, “Medo kpo nu le esi nyemesrɔ̃ nu wòde edeƒe o ta. Nyemaɖe mɔ nenema nagadzɔ ake o.” Le esi nàbu eŋu be, “Viɖe aɖeke mele ŋunye tae wogblẽm ɖi o” teƒe la, dze agbagba be: “Mese nu si tae kaklã sia le veve sem, gake ɣeyiɣi zazã ɖe xɔ̃nyewo ŋu akpe ɖe ŋunye be nye dzi nadze eme.”
- Ne nane yi edzi nyuie la, tsɔ kafukafu na ɖokuiwò. Bu nusi nèwɔ be nu nyuia nado tso eme ŋu kpɔ. Ðe nèdzra ɖo nyuiea? Ðe nètsɔ ɖokuitsɔtsɔna na heheea? De dzesi wò ŋutetewo kple alesi wokpe ɖe ŋuwò nèkpɔ dzidzedzee. Mègavɔ̃ be yeagblɔ be, “Nyee wɔ esia!”
- Ðo ŋku edzi na ɖokuiwò be ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe koe kpododonuwo nɔa anyi. Ne nane gblẽ la, ɖo ŋku edzi na ɖokuiwò be ava yi—eye nàwɔ ɖoɖo be ema nava eme. Le kpɔɖeŋu me: “Nye dodokpɔa me tsonu menɔ abe alesi menɔ mɔ kpɔm na ene o, gake mate ŋu asrɔ̃ nu geɖe wu ahagbugbɔ dodokpɔa awɔ.”
- Lé ŋku ɖe ale si ame bubuwo ƒoa nu tso wo ɖokui ŋui ŋu. Ðe xɔ̃wòwo kple ƒowòmetɔwo le mɔ kpɔm na nu nyuiwo loo alo ɖe mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeamewo le wo sia? Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ɖe fofowò gblɔna be, “Metɔ dzo hot dogs, nuɖala dziŋɔ aɖee menye!” alo ɖe wògblɔna be, “Metɔ dzo hot dog-awo le esi nye susu nɔ avu la kpɔm wònɔ ʋetsuvi yome tim ta!”
Dze agbagba nàde numame siawo wò agbe me. Ðewohĩ asesẽ le gɔmedzedzea me, gake ne èsrɔ̃e la, àva de dzesi vovototo si le wo dome.
Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme
Abe alesi nàte ŋu akpɔe ene la, mɔkpɔkpɔ nyui nye susu si woate ŋu asrɔ̃. Esia fia hã be mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame nye nusi nàte ŋu aɖe asi le !
Dɔ sia xɔa ɣeyiɣi, eyata dzi megaɖe le ƒowò o. Ne èva le ŋugble dem le tamebubumɔnu eve siawo ŋu geɖe wu la, àva ke ɖe mɔ geɖe siwo dzi nàto atu mɔkpɔkpɔ nyui ɖo ŋu. Yi edzi nànɔ gbɔgblɔm na ɖokuiwò be, “Mate ŋu ava nɔ mɔ kpɔm na nu nyuiwo geɖe wu, eye mayi edzi anɔ ewɔm!”
Ðo ŋku edzi be afɔɖeɖe sue ɖesiaɖe le vevie. Agbagba ɖesiaɖe si nàdze be yeatrɔ yeƒe nukpɔsusua nana nètena ɖe dzidzɔ, dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ, kple nyonyo ƒe agbe ŋu wu . Eyata ɖe míadze mɔkpɔkpɔ nyui ƒe mɔzɔzɔ sia gɔme egbea? Esia le asiwò!
