Ke paʻakikī nei ʻoe i kekahi manawa ke launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe? A i ʻole makemake ʻoe e hana i nā mea like a hana i ka hana maʻamau like? Mai kou wā kamaliʻi mai, ua manaʻo ʻia ʻoe e kekahi poʻe he "ʻano ʻokoʻa iki" a "paʻakikī" paha? Ke hakakā nei paha ʻoe me kēia mau mea iā ʻoe iho. Akā, ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe ʻo ke kumu o kēia mau mea a pau he mea āu i noʻonoʻo ʻole ai, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻo Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)?
He aha maoli ka autism?
ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaopopo kākou i kēia. ʻAʻole he maʻi a he kīnā noʻonoʻo paha ka autism. I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, he ʻano ʻokoʻa ia e ulu ai nā aʻalolo i loko o ko kākou lolo. Ua like ia me ke kiʻekiʻe o kekahi poʻe, he pōkole kekahi, kākau kekahi me ko lākou lima ʻākau, kākau kekahi me ko lākou hema. Ua kapa ʻia ʻo ia he "spectrum" no ka mea, ʻokoʻa loa ke ʻano o kēia ʻano maʻi i kēlā me kēia kanaka. ʻOiai he mau hōʻailona iki paha kekahi poʻe, he paʻakikī paha kekahi i ka hana ʻana i nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā.
Hoʻopilikia nui ka autism i ʻelua mau wahi:
1. Kamaʻilio a me ka launa pū ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe: Hiki ke kū mai ka paʻakikī i nā mea e like me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā manaʻo o haʻi, nā helehelena o ka maka, ke ʻano o nā huaʻōlelo, ka launa maka ʻana, a me ka hoʻomaka ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana i nā pilina aloha.
2. Nā hana i kaupalena ʻia a hana hou ʻia: ʻO nā hōʻailona e komo pū ana me ka hana hou ʻana i nā mea like, ka paʻa ʻana i ka hana maʻamau like, ka hoihoi nui i kahi kumuhana kikoʻī (e like me nā kaʻaahi, nā dinosaur, nā mea uila), a me ka hypersensitivity a hyposensitivity paha i nā manaʻo e like me ka mālamalama, ke kani, a me ka hoʻopā.
No ke aha i hopu ʻole ai au i kēia i koʻu wā ʻōpiopio?
He nīnau kūpono loa kēia. I kēia mau lā, nānā pono nā kauka i kēia i ka wā o nā hoʻokolohua lapaʻau o nā keiki ʻōpio, ma kahi o 18 a 24 mau mahina paha. No laila, ʻike pinepine ʻia ka autism ma waena o nā makahiki 2-4.
Akā, ua ʻokoʻa loa ke kūlana i 20-30 mau makahiki i hala.
- ʻAʻohe ʻIke: I kēlā manawa, ua kakaikahi ka ʻike o ke kaiāulu e pili ana i ka autism. ʻO ka hopena, ua kapa hewa ʻia nā pilikia pili kanaka o ke keiki he "hilahila," ʻo ka monotony he "paʻakikī," a me nā pilikia aʻo he "naʻaupō."
- Nā Kuhihewa: I kekahi manawa, huikau nā hōʻailona o ka autism me nā kūlana olakino noʻonoʻo ʻē aʻe, e like me ka Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) a i ʻole Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD).
- Ka uhi maka ʻana : ʻO ke kanaka, ʻoiai kekahi me ke akamai maikaʻi a me nā mākau aʻo maikaʻi, e hoʻāʻo paha e hūnā i ko lākou ʻano hilahila pili kanaka a hoʻohālike i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hana "maʻamau." Ua kapa ʻia kēia he 'ka uhi maka ʻana.' ʻO ke ʻano kēia, ʻaʻohe mea nui ka nui o ke kaumaha a lākou e ʻike nei ma loko, ʻaʻole ia e ʻike ʻia ma waho.
Inā ʻoe i noho mālie loa, noho kaʻawale, a i ʻole e kau wale ana i nā puke i kou wā kamaliʻi, ua ʻike paha nā mākua i kou mau pilikia i loko.
Nā kumu e kānalua ai he autism kou ma ke ʻano he makua
I ka manawa pinepine, hoʻomaka kahi pākeke e noiʻi i kēia me kahi hanana. Malia paha ke ʻike ʻia kāu keiki ponoʻī me ka autism, e noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ke heluhelu ʻoe i kēlā mau hōʻailona, "ʻAuē, ʻo wau nō ia." A i ʻole ke hele ʻoe e ʻike i kahi kauka noʻonoʻo no kekahi pilikia ʻē aʻe, e ʻike paha ʻo ia i kēia mau hōʻailona.
E nānā i ka papa ma lalo. Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kēia mau mea pū kekahi?
| Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kēia? (Kou ʻike) | Pehea e pili ai ka autism iā ia (kumu kūpono) |
|---|---|
| He mea luhi loa nā hanana pilikanaka e like me nā pāʻina keʻena a me nā male ʻana. E luhi ʻoe no nā lā ma hope o kou hoʻi ʻana mai. | He nui ka mana o ka lolo e pono ai e hoʻomaopopo i nā ʻano hana lima a haʻi, nā ʻano ʻōlelo, a noʻonoʻo i ka mea e ʻōlelo ai. He mea luhi loa kēia no ka noʻonoʻo. |
| Makemake au e hele i ke ala like i ka hana, ʻai ma ka hale kūʻai like, a hoʻolālā i koʻu lā ma ke ala like. Inā he loli koke, manaʻo nui wau i ka hopohopo a me ke kaumaha. | Hāʻawi nā hana maʻamau i kahi manaʻo palekana a me ke kūpaʻa. Hiki i nā loli i manaʻo ʻole ʻia ke hoʻolilo i ke ao nei i mea ʻole ka mana. |
| ʻAʻole pili i ka nui o kāu kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kahi kumuhana (e like me ka mōʻaukala, ka papahana kamepiula, kahi mea kani), makemake mau ʻoe iā ia ʻoiai ke manaʻo nei kekahi poʻe he "luuluu." | Ua kapa ʻia kēia he "Nā Makemake Kūikawā." Loaʻa i ka poʻe me ka autism ka hiki ke nānā nui i kahi kumuhana kikoʻī. |
| Ua like nā kukui ʻālohilohi, nā mele nui, a me nā kānaka e kamaʻilio ana ma ka hale kūʻai nui me he mea lā he ʻeha poʻo. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kū i ka manaʻo o nā lepili ma kekahi mau lole e hamo ana i koʻu kino. | Ua kapa ʻia kēia he sensory overload. Ke hiki ʻole i ka lolo ke hoʻoponopono pono i nā manaʻo (nā ʻike, nā leo, ka hoʻopā) e komo mai ana i loko, e huikau ka noʻonoʻo. |
ʻAe, pehea ʻoe e loaʻa ai kahi hōʻoia?
ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ka ʻike ʻana i ka autism i kahi pākeke ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi keiki ʻōpio, no ka mea, ua aʻo mua ʻoe i nā ʻano like ʻole e noho ai me kou mau pilikia a hūnā iā lākou.
Nā mea e hana ai
1. E ʻike i ke kauka: ʻO ka mea mua a me ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ke kamaʻilio me kāu kauka ʻohana (GP). Hiki iā ia ke kuhikuhi iā ʻoe i kahi kauka noʻonoʻo a i ʻole psychologist i loea i kēia wahi.
2. Nā hoʻokolohua loiloi ponoʻī ma ka pūnaewele: Aia nā nīnau loiloi ponoʻī autism ma ka pūnaewele i hoʻolālā kūikawā ʻia no nā pākeke. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i kēia mau mea iā ʻoe iho. Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i kēia wale nō ke lilo i ala 100% maopopo e hoʻoholo ai inā he autism kou. Eia nō naʻe, he wahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi lākou. Hiki i nā hopena o kēia mau nīnau ke kōkua iā ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka.
3. Ke kaʻina hana hōʻoia: Ke nānā ke kauka iā ʻoe,
- Nānā lākou i kāu ʻano a me ke ʻano o kāu ʻōlelo ʻana.
- Nīnau lākou i nā nīnau he nui e pili ana i kou ola o kēia manawa, kāu hana, a me kou pilina.
- ʻO kou wā kamaliʻi ka mea nui loa. Nīnau lākou e pili ana i nā mea e like me kou ʻano i kou wā liʻiliʻi, i kou hoʻomaka ʻana e kamaʻilio, pehea ʻoe i pāʻani ai, a inā he mau hoaaloha kou.
- Inā he mau mākua kou, he mau kaikaina, a i ʻole kekahi mea i ʻike iā ʻoe mai kou wā kamaliʻi, makemake paha ke kauka e kamaʻilio pū me lākou, no ka mea, e hoʻomanaʻo paha lākou i nā mea āu i ʻike ʻole ai.
ʻAʻole paha e maʻalahi kēia huakaʻi, akā, he mea hōʻoluʻolu nui ia ke ʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
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- ʻAʻole wale ka autism kahi mea e hoʻopilikia ai i nā keiki. Hiki ke ʻike ʻia i ka wā makua. Inā manaʻo ʻoe pēlā, ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi.
- ʻAʻole kou "kuleana" no kou ʻano ʻē i ka launa pū ʻana, ka luhi, a me nā pilikia naʻau. Hiki ke lilo i ʻano hana ʻokoʻa o kou lolo.
- ʻO ka hana mua i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hōʻailona, ʻo ia ke kamaʻilio me kāu kauka . Mai hilinaʻi wale i nā hoʻokolohua pūnaewele.
- ʻAʻole he "lepili" ka maʻi autism i kau ʻia ma luna ou. He kī ia no ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā ʻoe iho, ka ʻike ʻana i kou mau ikaika, a me ke aʻo ʻana e noho me kou mau pilikia.
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