Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei ʻoe i ke kani mua a kāu pēpē i hana ai i kona wā hānau? ʻO ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai kāu mea liʻiliʻi e kamaʻilio me ʻoe, e haʻi ana iā ʻoe i kona manaʻo. I ka wā mua, ʻo kēia mau uē a me nā mea liʻiliʻi a lākou e hana ai e like paha me kahi ʻōlelo maʻa ʻole iā ʻoe. Akā e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki ma mua o kou manaʻo, e aʻo ʻoe i kēia "ʻōlelo" a kāu pēpē, e hoʻomaopopo pono i kāna mea e pono ai, a e maʻa i ke kōkua ʻana iā ia.
Pehea lā e kamaʻilio mai ai nā pēpē me kākou?
Loaʻa i nā pēpē ka hiki ke uē mai ka manawa i hānau ʻia ai lākou. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, no nā mahina mua o ko lākou ola, ʻo ke uē ke ala nui a lākou e "kamaʻilio" ai me mākou a e hōʻike mai iā mākou i kā lākou mau pono. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa, uē kahi pēpē e haʻi iā ʻoe ua hewa kekahi mea, ke pilikia nei lākou.
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, hiki i kahi pēpē ke uē no nā kumu aʻe:
- Inā ʻoe e pōloli ana.
- Inā pulu ka diaper, pono ʻoe e hoʻololi.
- Inā ʻoe e anu ana.
- Inā luhi loa ʻoe a hiamoe hoʻi.
- A i ʻole, hiki paha no kou makemake e ʻapo iā ia a aloha aku.
E noʻonoʻo, i kekahi manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka pilikia o kāu pēpē ma ke kani wale ʻana o kā lākou uē ʻana. Eia kekahi laʻana, ʻo ka uē e ʻōlelo ana "Pōloli au" he lohi iki paha, pōkole, a me ke ʻano mele. A ʻo ka uē e ʻōlelo ana "Manaʻo wau he hewa kekahi mea, ʻoluʻolu ʻole wau" he mea hoʻokaʻawale iki paha, ʻino, a hoʻopilikia. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, ke noho pū ʻoe me kāu pēpē, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kēia mau leo, e hoʻomaopopo i ka pilikia o kāu pēpē, a hana i ka mea kūpono nona.
Akā i kekahi manawa uē nā pēpē no ka mea he nui loa nā mea hou a puni lākou, nā walaʻau, a me ke kukui no ko lākou mau manaʻo liʻiliʻi e lawelawe. Kāhea mākou i kēia "overstimulation," ʻo ia hoʻi, ua kaumaha lākou i nā mea a puni lākou. A i ʻole, e uē paha nā pēpē me ke kumu ʻole. No laila, inā uē kāu pēpē a ua hoʻāʻo ʻoe i nā mea āpau e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu iā ia, mai hopohopo. E hoʻomanaʻo, uē lākou ʻoiai ke kaumaha lākou.
Ma waho aʻe o ka uē ʻana, hoʻohana nā pēpē i nā ala ʻē aʻe e haʻi aku ai i ko lākou mau manaʻo.
- Nā leo ʻē aʻe: ʻAkaʻaka ʻo Milk, hū mālie, a hana i nā leo hauʻoli.
- Nā hiʻohiʻona helehelena: Ke minoʻaka nani nei, ke kuʻekuʻe nei, ke nānā aku nei me ke kahaha.
- Neʻe kino: e lele hauʻoli ana, e ʻomi ana, a e milo ana i ou lā.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kēia mau hōʻailona liʻiliʻi e lawe mai iā ʻoe i ka hauʻoli nui, a ʻo ka pilina aloha ma waena ou a me kāu pēpē e ulu ikaika aʻe i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻO kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, e makaʻala pono i ke ʻano o ka pane ʻana o kāu pēpē i kou leo. Ke lohe ʻo ia i kou leo, makemake ʻo ia i ka meaʻai, ka mehana, a me ka pā aloha., hiki mai ka hōʻoluʻolu i ka noʻonoʻo. Ke uē nei kāu pēpē, e nānā i ka wikiwiki o kona mālie ʻana ke kamaʻilio ʻoe me ia. E nānā i kona hoʻolohe maikaʻi ʻana ke ʻōlelo mālie a aloha ʻoe. ʻOiai inā e nānā ana kāu pēpē i kahi ʻē, ke hoʻolohe pono nei ʻo ia i kāu mea e ʻōlelo nei. ʻAʻole anei he mea kupanaha i kekahi manawa e neʻe mālie lākou i ko lākou kino, hoʻololi i ko lākou helehelena, a hoʻoneʻe pū i ko lākou mau lima a me nā wāwae e kūlike me ke mele o kāu ʻōlelo?
He aha kaʻu e hana ai i kēlā manawa?
Mai ka manawa i hānau ʻia ai kāu pēpē, hoʻomaka ʻoe e "kamaʻilio" kekahi i kekahi. Hoʻopili maka ʻoe, hoʻololi i nā leo, a hoʻopili me ka pā aloha. Aʻo koke nā pēpē e pili ana i ke ao nei ma o ko lākou mau manaʻo - nā maka, nā pepeiao, ka ihu, ke alelo, ka ʻili. No laila, mai poina e hana i kēia mau mea e pili ai me kāu keiki liʻiliʻi ma kēia ʻano:
- E kamaʻilio me kāu pēpē i nā manawa a pau e hiki ai. ʻOiai inā ʻaʻole maopopo iā ia nā huaʻōlelo āu e ʻōlelo nei, ʻo kou leo mālie, aloha, a lokomaikaʻi e lilo ia i kumu nui o ka palekana a me ka hōʻoluʻolu nona. E haʻi aku ia iā ia, "Eia wau ma ʻaneʻi, ʻaʻohe ou mea e makaʻu ai."
- Aʻo nā pēpē e pili ana i ke ola a me ke aloha ma o kēlā me kēia pā a lākou e manaʻo ai. No laila e ʻapo, e hoʻoluliluli, a e hoʻopā mālie iā lākou me ke aloha nui. A laila e manaʻo kāu keiki liʻiliʻi he wahi hōʻoluʻolu a palekana kēia ao.
- E pane i kāu keiki hānau hou i kēlā me kēia manawa e uē ai ʻo ia, ʻo ia hoʻi, e hele a ʻike i kāna mea e ʻōlelo nei. ʻO kahi mea a nā mākua he nui e manaʻo nei, "Auē, inā wau e hāpai mau iā ia a ʻapo iā ia, e hānai ʻia anei ʻo ia?" Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke "hāpai" i kahi keiki hānau hou ma ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ia i ka nānā nui a me ke ʻapo ʻana. ʻO ka pane koke ʻana i ka wā e uē ai lākou e hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi manaʻo hohonu o ka palekana, o kekahi e mālama ana iā lākou a nānā i kā lākou mau pono.
I kekahi manawa, ʻoiai ua hānai ʻoe i kāu pēpē, hoʻololi i kona diaper , hoʻomehana iā ia, ʻapo iā ia, a hoʻokō i kāna mau pono āpau i ʻike ʻia, e uē nō paha ʻo ia. Mai hopohopo no ia mea, a i ʻole e manaʻo he makua hāʻule ʻoe. Hiki i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi ke hoʻonāukiuki nui ʻia e nā mea a puni iā ia, a luhi paha ʻo ia i ka lā, a i ʻole pono paha ʻo ia e uē me ke kumu ʻole.
- E hoʻāʻo e hōʻoluʻolu i kāu pēpē. ʻAʻole like ke ʻano o ka mālie o nā pēpē a pau. Hoʻomaha kekahi mau pēpē ke lūlū mālie ʻia lākou, no ka laʻana, ke lūlū mālie ʻia lākou i mua a i hope, me he mea lā e holo ana lākou i kahi ʻūlū, a i ʻole ke hele wāwae ʻoe a puni ka lumi. Makemake nā pēpē ʻē aʻe i nā leo hoʻomau, e like me ke mele lohi, ka walaʻau keʻokeʻo, a i ʻole ke kani mālie o ka mīkini hoʻomaʻemaʻe.E liʻuliʻu iki kou manawa e ʻike ai i ke ʻano hana kūpono loa no kāu pēpē i kēia mau manawa paʻakikī. E hoʻomanawanui a hoʻāʻo.
Ke uē nui nei kaʻu pēpē?
Hiki i nā pēpē he nui ke ʻike i kahi wā o ka hoʻoluhi a me ka uē pinepine ʻana i ka manawa like o ka lā, ʻoi aku hoʻi i ke ahiahi. He mea maʻamau kēia no nā pēpē he nui, a kapa mākou ia he " wā hoʻoluhi."
ʻOiai he mea maʻamau no kēlā me kēia pēpē hānau hou ke uē a me ka ʻūhū iki, inā he pēpē olakino, me ka ʻole o kekahi maʻi ʻē aʻe, e uē nui ana no nā hola he 3 i ka lā, ʻoi aku ma mua o 3 mau lā o ka pule, no ka liʻiliʻi he 3 pule i ka lālani, kapa mākou i kēlā ʻano ma ke ʻano lapaʻau he `(Colic)`. ʻO nā pēpē me `(Colic)` e uē pinepine i ke ahiahi, a he mea paʻakikī iki ka hōʻoluʻolu iā lākou.
Hiki i ke Colic ke lilo i mea kaumaha a luhi hoʻi no ʻoe a me kou ʻohana. E noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe, "He aha kaʻu hana hewa?" Akā ʻo ka nūhou maikaʻi, ʻo ka hapa nui o nā pēpē e pau ka colic i ka wā he 3 a 4 paha mahina. No laila, e hoʻoikaika.
Āhea wau e ʻike ai i ke kauka?
Inā he mau hopohopo a hopohopo paha kāu e pili ana i ka uē ʻana o kāu pēpē, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ke kauka. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka, ʻoiai ma kēia mau kūlana:
- Inā uē kāu pēpē no ka manawa lōʻihi, me ka hoʻōki ʻole.
- Inā he mea ʻē ke kani ʻana o ka uē ʻana o ka pēpē iā ʻoe, me he mea lā āu i lohe ʻole ai ma mua (e laʻa me ka nāwaliwali loa, a i ʻole ka ʻoi loa).
- Inā loaʻa i ka pēpē nā hōʻailona ʻē aʻe me ka uē ʻana. Eia kekahi laʻana:
- Inā ʻike ʻia ka pēpē ʻaʻole ʻeleu a pāʻani ʻole.
- Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e inu nui ana i ka waiū a i ʻole ʻoe e kānalua e inu i ka waiū.
- Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kuni (ʻoi aku ka mahana o ka rectal ma mua o 100.4°F a i ʻole 38°C).
- Inā pilikia ʻoe i ka hanu ʻana (hanu wikiwiki, hanu ʻana i ka umauma, polū nā lehelehe).
- Inā ʻoe e luaʻi (ʻoi aku ka ʻōmaʻomaʻo a melemele paha).
- Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maʻi pākī a i ʻole ka paʻa ʻana o ka ʻōpū .
- A i ʻole inā ʻoe e uē ana me he mea lā ua ʻeha maopopo ʻoe.
Inā he mau hopohopo ʻē aʻe kāu, ʻoiai inā manaʻo ʻoe he pilikia lohe a ʻike paha kāu keiki hānau hou, e kamaʻilio me ke kauka. Hiki ke hoʻāʻo ʻia nā keiki hānau hou no kēia mau mea inā pono. ʻO ka wikiwiki o ka ʻike ʻia ʻana o kahi pilikia, ʻo ka ʻoi aku ka holomua o ka mālama ʻana. E hoʻomanaʻo, he mea hōʻoluʻolu nui ke kamaʻilio me ke kauka a hoʻoponopono i nā kānalua āu e loaʻa ai.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia (Leka Lawe-Home)
ʻAe, no laila e hoʻomanaʻo hou kākou iā ʻoe i nā mea nui loa mai nā mea a mākou i kamaʻilio ai.
- ʻO nā uē a kāu keiki liʻiliʻi, ko lākou leo, ko lākou helehelena, ko lākou neʻe ʻana o ke kino - ʻo kēia mau mea a pau nā ala e kamaʻilio ai lākou me ʻoe, e haʻi ana iā ʻoe i ko lākou mau pono. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke lōʻihi e hoʻomaopopo i kēia "ʻōlelo", akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hana. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, e lilo ʻoe i "akamai" i ia mea!
- E pane koke i ka wā e uē ai kāu pēpē. ʻAʻole kēia e hōʻino iā lākou, akā e kōkua ia iā lākou e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe a manaʻo he wahi palekana ka honua.
- I kekahi manawa, e uē ana nā pēpē me ke kumu ʻole. I kēlā manawa, e hoʻāʻo i nā ʻano like ʻole e hōʻoluʻolu iā lākou me ka huhū ʻole, me ke ahonui. He mea waiwai nui kou pā aloha a me kou leo hōʻoluʻolu iā lākou.
- Inā he kānalua a hopohopo paha kāu e pili ana i ka uē ʻana o kāu pēpē a i ʻole kona olakino, mai kānalua e kamaʻilio me ke kauka. Mai hoʻokuke wale iā ia me he "mea ʻole." He mea nui hoʻi e hoʻomālielie i kou manaʻo.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo kou aloha, kou mehana, a me kou leo nā mea makamae loa o ke ao nei no kāu keiki liʻiliʻi. E hoʻomanaʻo mau i kēlā! ʻO ʻoe ke koa/heroine o kona ao!
Hānau hou ʻia , Kamaʻilio ʻana o nā Pēpē, Nā Kumu e Uē ai nā Pēpē, Colic, Nā Ala e Hōʻoluʻolu ai i nā Pēpē, Ola Kino o ka Pēpē , Nā Manaʻo no ka Mākua ʻana











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