Ka Hana ʻino i ka Home? ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi.

Ke noho nei ʻoe me ka makaʻu, ke kaumaha, a me ka mehameha i loko o kou home ponoʻī, kahi e pono ai ʻoe e manaʻo i ka palekana loa ma ka honua? Ke noho nei ʻoe me kahi mea e hōʻeha iā ʻoe me kēlā me kēia ʻōlelo, ka mea e hoʻolei i nā mea ma ka papahele i kēlā me kēia hakakā, a i kekahi manawa e hāpai i ka lima a i ʻole ka wāwae? ʻAʻole kēia he pilikia āu e noho hoʻokahi nei. ʻO ka hana ʻino i ka home kahi pilikia nui e ʻeha nei ka poʻe he nui i ka leo ʻole ma Sri Lanka a puni ka honua, akā makaʻu lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana. No laila e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia me ke akea a me ke aloha i kēia lā.

He aha maoli ka hana ʻino i loko o ka home?

Ke noʻonoʻo kākou i ka hana ʻino i ka home, manaʻo pinepine kākou i ka hana ʻino kino a me ke kuʻi ʻana. Akā, ʻoi aku ia ma mua o kēlā. I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ia kekahi ʻano hana a ke kanaka e hoʻohana ai e hoʻoweliweli, kāohi, a hoʻopunipuni paha i kā lākou hoa (ʻo ka hapa nui o nā wāhine, akā hiki ke hana pū i nā kāne). He mea ia o ka mana a me ke kāohi.

Aia nā ʻano like ʻole o kēia. E nānā kākou i ke ʻano o lākou.

No ke aha i koʻikoʻi ai kēia kūlana?

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka mea, e like me ka mea i hōʻike ʻia e nā noiʻi, he mea kaumaha loa ia. E noʻonoʻo, he nui nā wahine e hele mai ana i ka lumi pilikia (ETU) o nā haukapila e hele mai e ʻimi i ka lāʻau no nā ʻeha i hana ʻia e ka hana ʻino i ka home. Akā, ehia o lākou e haʻi aku i ke kauka i ke kumu maoli? ʻO ka hapa pinepine, ʻōlelo lākou i nā mea e like me "ua paheʻe lākou a hāʻule i lalo o ke alapiʻi", "ua ʻeha lākou i ka wā e pāʻani ana me kā lākou keiki".

ʻAʻole wale kēlā, ua hōʻike ʻia he ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hōʻeha ʻia o ka wahine e kāna hoa ponoʻī a i ʻole ka hoa mua ma mua o ka malihini a i ʻole ka powa ma ke alanui. ʻO kēia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻino e pono ai mākou e hoʻomaopopo.

ʻO nā manaʻo kuhihewa e hoʻomau nei i kēia hana ʻino

No ke aha e ʻeha ai ka poʻe no nā makahiki me ka haʻalele ʻole ʻana i kēia mau pilina? ʻO kekahi kumu no kekahi mau manaʻo kuhihewa i loko o ke kaiāulu. He mea nui loa ka hoʻopau ʻana i kēia mau manaʻo kuhihewa no ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kēia pilikia.

• "He mau pilikia ʻohana kēia, ʻaʻole pono mākou e komo i loko." - ʻO kēia ka hewa nui loa. ʻAʻole loa he mea pilikino ka hana ʻino. He hewa ia. Inā e hana ʻino ʻia kekahi, he kuleana ko kākou ma ke ʻano he kaiāulu e komo i loko.
• "ʻAʻohe ona mana i ka wā e huhū ai ʻo ia, ʻo ia ke kumu e hahau ai ʻo ia." - He kuhihewa nō hoʻi kēia. Wahi a nā loea, ʻaʻole ka hana ʻino he nalowale ʻana o ka mana , akā he hoʻāʻo e kāohi i kekahi kanaka . Ua ʻike pono ke kanaka hana ʻino i kāna mea e hana nei. He manaʻo ia.
• "Inā ua pani ka wahine i kona waha, ʻaʻole e hiki mai kēia." - ʻAʻole loa ka hewa o ka mea i hana ʻino ʻia ka hana ʻino. ʻO ka hoʻāhewa ʻana i ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia ma kēia ʻano e hoʻolilo wale iā lākou i mea mehameha a kōkua ʻole. ʻAʻohe mea kuleana e hana ʻino i kekahi no kekahi kumu.

Pehea ʻoe e kōkua ai iā ʻoe iho a i ʻole kekahi āu i ʻike ai?

He mea koʻikoʻi loa ke kōkua ʻana i kekahi ma kēia kūlana.

Inā he mea i hōʻeha ʻia ʻoe e ka hana ʻino ...

1. ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole kēia kou hewa. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hilahila i kēia. ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi.

2. E kamaʻilio me kekahi āu e hilinaʻi ai.Hiki paha i kou hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, he hoahānau, a he kākāʻōlelo paha. Hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻoluʻolu nui ke kaʻana like i kāu mau kaumaha.

3. E hana i kahi Hoʻolālā Palekana . He mea nui loa kēia. Inā pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ka home i kahi pilikia, e mālama i nā mea āu e pono ai (nā palapala hānau, nā kāleka ID, nā kāleka panakō, nā palapala a nā keiki, nā lole koʻikoʻi, kekahi kālā) ma kahi maʻalahi ke hiki. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi palekana e hele ai.

4. E hoʻopaʻa i nā mea e hana ʻia ana. E mālama i kahi moʻolelo o nā lā, nā manawa, a me nā hanana o ka hana ʻino. Inā he mau ʻeha, e kiʻi i nā kiʻi inā hiki. Hiki i kēia mau mea ke lilo i mea nui loa i nā kaʻina hana kānāwai.

5. E noi i ke kōkua. Aia nā ʻoihana ma Sri Lanka e hiki ke kōkua me kēia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho i kahi hoʻopiʻi me ka Women and Children's Bureau o nā mākaʻi . Aia kekahi mau NGO e hāʻawi ana i nā lawelawe kānāwai a me ke aʻo ʻana. Inā ʻeha ʻoe, e ʻike koke i ke kauka a loaʻa ka lāʻau lapaʻau.

Pehea lā e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kahi mea āu i ʻike ʻole ai?

• Inā ʻike ʻoe a lohe paha i ka hana ʻino e hana nei, e hōʻike koke aku i nā mākaʻi (119). ʻO kāu kuleana ia.
• Inā kānalua ʻoe e loaʻa ana kēia ʻano pilikia i kahi hoaaloha a ʻohana paha, mai hoʻohilahila koke iā lākou ma ka nīnau ʻana iā lākou e pili ana i ia mea. Akā, e ʻōlelo mālie loa. E ʻōlelo i kekahi mea e like me, "Ke hopohopo nei au nou. Maopopo iaʻu he hewa kekahi mea. Inā pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio, eia wau ma ʻaneʻi."
• Ke hoʻoholo lākou e kamaʻilio, e hoʻolohe me ka hoʻohewa ʻole. Mai nīnau i nā nīnau e like me, "No ke aha ʻoe e noho pū nei me ia?" Akā, e nīnau, "Pehea ʻoe e pono ai i kaʻu kōkua?"
• Kākoʻo ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ka pilina . Hōʻike ka noiʻi ʻo ka poʻe i pakele i ka pilikia nui loa ma hope o ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi pilina hana ʻino. No laila e hoʻomau i ka launa pū me lākou i kēlā manawa a nānā i ko lākou palekana.