Yu mɛmba di de we di dɔktɔ tɛl yu se yu pikin gɛt ɔtizm? Yu go mɔs fil lɛk se di wan ol wɔl dɔn kam krach pan yu. Wantɛm wantɛm, yu layf, yu drim dɛn, yu plan dɛn, ɔltin chenj. Dis nɔto jɔs fɔ yu, bɔt fɔ ɛvri mama ɛn papa we dɔn go tru dis ɛkspiriɛns. Bɔt dis nɔto di ɛnd fɔ wan waka, bɔt na di biginin fɔ wan nyu, spɛshal waka. Tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt lɔv, strɔng famili rilayshɔn as yu de go tru dis nyu waka.
Ɔtizm na sɔntin we kin afɛkt di wan ol famili.
Dɔktɔ dɛn se ɔtizm nɔ kin afɛkt di pikin nɔmɔ, bɔt i kin afɛkt di wan ol famili . Jɔs lɛk aw ston na pɔnd kin rɔf, we dɛn ad ɔtistik pikin to di famili kin gɛt ripɛl ifɛkt pan di mama, papa, brɔda ɛn sista dɛn, grani ɛn granpa, ɛn ɔda fambul dɛn. Pan ɔl we ɔl famili difrɛn, sɔm prɔblɛm dɛn de we ɔlman kin gɛt. Di kayn we aw dɛn prɔblɛm ya kin difrɛn difrɛn wan fɔ di kayn we aw di pikin gɛt ɔtizm. Bɔt di prɔblɛm dɛn we wi de gɛt, bɔku pan dɛn na di sem.
Di fɔs prɔblɛm: Fɔ chenj wetin mama ɛn papa dɛn de op fɔ
Aw many drim wi gɛt fɔ wi pikin? Dɛn go go skul ɛn stɔdi fayn, go kampus, gɛt gud wok, mared ɛn liv gladi gladi... Wi gɛt tawzin drim lɛk dis na wi maynd. Bɔt we wi kam fɔ no se wi pikin gɛt ɔtizm, dɛn op ya kin chenj bɔku. I tan lɛk se yu plan fɔ go na Itali ɛn kɔmɔt na di plen ɛn yɛri "Wɛlkɔm to Ɔland."
Yu kin vɛks wantɛm wantɛm, yu kin fil bad . Yu kin tink se, "A bin want fɔ go na Itali! Wetin mek yu briŋ mi kam ya?" Bɔt if yu at pwɛl bɔt Itali, yu nɔ go ɛva ebul fɔ si di fayn fayn tin dɛn we de na Ɔland, di tulip dɛn, di winda mil dɛn.
Ɛn na so dis waka de du. Sɔntɛm i nɔ go bi di layf we yu bin de imajin. Bɔt dis layf difrɛn, i spɛshal, ɛn i fayn . Fɔ si da fayn fayn tin de, wi nid fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin.
Chalenj Tu: Fɔ fred brɔda ɛn sista dɛn
If ɔda pikin dɛn de apat frɔm di pikin we gɛt ɔtistik, wan pan di big tin we mama ɛn papa kin fred na, "Dɛn go lɛf di ɔda pikin biɛn? I go lɔs mi atɛnshɔn?" Na nɔmal tin fɔ fil lɛk yu nɔr gɛt tɛm fɔ luk afta yu ɔda pikin dɛm, wit tin dɛm lɛk tɛrapi ɛn fɔ go to dɔktɔ, we yu de rɔn fɔ yu ɔtistik pikin.
Bɔt i sɔprayz fɔ no se risach dɔn sho se bɔku tɛm, brɔda ɛn sista dɛn we gɛt ɔtizm pikin dɛn kin ajɔst bɛtɛ pan dɛn maynd ɛn filin.Dɛn kin lan fɔ tek di wok ɛn sho sɔri-at kwik pas ɔda pipul dɛn.
Bɔt dat nɔ min se wi fɔ fɔgɛt bɔt dɛn. I rili impɔtant fɔ gi dɛn di chans fɔ spɛn tɛm wit wi wan.
| Prɔblɛm dɛn we brɔda ɛn sista dɛn kin gɛt | Wetin wi kin du as mama ɛn papa |
|---|---|
| Fɔ tink se dɛn mama ɛn papa nɔ de pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn. | Spend wan de insay di wik yu wan wit da pikin de (e.g., mama de spɛn tɛm wit di ɔtistik pikin we papa de ple wit di ɔda pikin). |
| Fɔ fil shem ɔ fred fɔ di we aw yu brɔda ɛn sista de biev we yu padi dɛn kam na os ɔ na skul. | Alaw yu pikin fɔ tɔk opin wan bɔt aw i de fil. Mek dɛn ɔndastand se na nɔmal tin fɔ mek yu fil da we de. |
| Fɔ vɛks wae dɛn nɔr kin ebul fɔ du de tin wae dɛn want bikɔs ɔf dɛn brɔda ɛn sista wae gɛt ɔtistik. | Rɛspɛkt di we aw yu pikin de fil. Ɛksplen se, "Yu nɔ de tɔk dat bikɔs yu na bad pikin." Ɛp dɛn fɔ dil wit dɛn filin dɛn de. |
Sɔmtɛm, usay ɔtistik pikin nɔ kin ebul fɔ kɔntrol insɛf, dɛn brɔda ɛn sista dɛn kin ebul. Dat bond na so strɔng.
Tɔd prɔblɛm: I go afɛkt mared
Dis na tɔpik we rili sɛnsitiv. We dɛn no se pikin gɛt ɔtizm , i kin put bɔku prɛshɔn pan ɛni mared. Bɔku tɛm, mama ɛn papa dɛn kin dil wit dis tin difrɛn we.
Bɔku tɛm, pan ɔl we mama dɛn kin fil bad we dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ bia, dɛn kin du sɔntin kwik kwik wan . Dɛn kin bigin fɔ luk fɔ us tritmɛnt dɛn fɔ du fɔ di pikin, udat di dɔktɔ dɛn fɔ fɛn, ɛn ɔl wetin dɛn go du fɔ di pikin. Bɔt bɔku papa dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn pan dɛn yon wok . Sɔm nɔ kin want fɔ gri wit dis tin, ɔ dɛn kin tray fɔ rɔnawe pan am.
We dɛn tu ya de tink difrɛn we, di fɔs krak krak dɛn na di mared kin bigin fɔ apia. Di mama lɔs pɔsin fɔ sheb in sɔri-at wit. Di bɛst we fɔ sɔlv dis na fɔ fɛn tɛm fɔ una ɔl tu , ilɛksɛf una bizi. I kin bi fɔ tɔk fɔ 15 minit afta di pikin dɛn dɔn slip, ɔ sidɔm togɛda ɛn drink wan kɔp ti. I impɔtant bak fɔ fɛn tɛm fɔ yusɛf.
"Ivun if yu get 15 minit to tek shawa yu wan, i fayn. Fain di rait taim to du somtin smol, laik somtin we yu bin de enjoi, laik rid buk, lisin to sing."
Chalenj Fo ɛn Fayv: Famili Gladi ɛn Sɔshial Layf
Yu tink se tin dɛn we wi bin de du ɔltɛm, lɛk fɔ go vaykashun, fɔ go na famili program, ɔ fɔ go na wi padi in pati, na big prɔblɛm naw? Pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtistik nɔr kin lɛk fɔ chenj dɛn ɛvride rutin . So dɛn tin ya kin rili at fɔ dɛn.
Bɔt di sɔlv fɔ dis nɔto fɔ stɔp dɛn tin dɛn de, bɔt fɔ chenj dɛn fɔ fit wi pikin .
- Yu de go na trip? Go na ples we yu sabi ɛn we yu kin go ɛvride. Da we de, yu pikin go yus to am. If yu de go nyu ples, sho yu pikin pikchɔ dɛn bɔt di ples bifo tɛm ɛn ɛksplen wetin de apin de.
- Fɔ go na pati? Una kɔmɔt de smɔl ali bifo ɔlman kam. Da we de, yu pikin kin yus to di tin dɛn we de arawnd am bifo di krawd kam. Go insay tu motoka dɛn. If yu pikin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ de de, wan pan dɛn kin kɛr am go na os.
- Yu de go na do fɔ go it? We yu kɔl rɛstɔrant ɛn mek ples fɔ rɛzɛv, aks fɔ tebul na kɔna usay yu nɔ go ambɔg ɔda pipul dɛn.
We yu pikin de biev difrɛn we bifo ɔda pipul dɛn, dɛn kin luk yu ɛn yu pikin strenj wan. I at fɔ bia. Bɔt as tɛm de go, yu go lan fɔ ignore am. "Ova taim, yu go fil laik se yu de gro nyu skin anda yu skin." If pɔsin luk yu strenj wan, yu go gɛt di trɛnk fɔ smayl ɛn se, “Natin nɔ de fɔ wɔri bɔt, ɔltin de ɔnda kɔntrol .”
Wi famili no nid fo bi laik di "perfect family" fo nyuspepa. Wi famili kin spɛshal lɛk aw wi want am. Wit dɛn pikin ya, wi kin gɛt gladi-at na di say dɛn we strenj pas ɔl na layf.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Ɔtizm nɔto prɔblɛm we yu de gɛt yu wan, i kin afɛkt di wan ol famili, na joyn we ɔlman kin go tru togɛda.
- Na nɔmal tin fɔ fil bad bɔt di tumara bambay we yu bin de imajin. Bɔt we da sɔri-at de dɔn, tray fɔ si di fayn fayn tin dɛn we de insay dis nyu, spɛshal waka.
- Pe atɛnshɔn mɔ to yu ɔda pikin dɛn. Mek dɛn tɔk. Dɛn strɔng pas aw yu tink.
- Protɛkt yu mared-os. Lisin to unasɛf, ɔndastand unasɛf, ɛn mek tɛm fɔ unasɛf.
- Nɔ giv ɔp pan gladi gladi famili tɛm dɛn. Chenj dɛn fɔ fit yu famili.
- Nɔ wɔri bɔt wetin ɔda pipul dɛn de tink. Natin nɔ bad fɔ mek yu famili gladi na "difrɛn" we.
- If yu fil se ɔl dis tu bɔku fɔ bia, duya tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɔ pɔsin we de gi yu advays . We yu aks fɔ ɛp, dat de sho se yu gɛt trɛnk.
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