If yu de dil wit brɔst kansa , yu go mɔs dɔn yɛri tin dɛn lɛk, "Yu na pɔsin we de fɛt," ɛn "Stay strɔng ɛn fɛt dis fɛt." Yu go mɔs dɔn si dɛn slogan ya na T-shirt ɛn soshal midia post wit pink ribin. Dɛn min fɔ gi yu trɛnk ɛn kɔrej. Bɔt wetin yu rili tink we yu yɛri ɛn si dɛn wɔd ya? Yu tink se ɔlman lɛk di lɛbl "fighter"? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis smɔl mɔ opin wan.
Di gud aidia bihayn di wod "fighter".
Fɔs, wi nid fɔ ɔndastand se we pɔsin kɔl yu “wariɔ,” bɔku tɛm i kin gɛt gud tin fɔ du. Dɛn no aw i at fɔ liv wit kansa. So dɛn kin yuz dɛn wɔd ya fɔ gi yu maynd, fɔ ɛnkɔrej yu, fɔ mɛmba yu se nɔto yu wangren de.
Tink bɔt am, we yu luk pan kansa awareness program dɛm, dɛn kin yuz di wɔd “fight” bɔku. “Fight Against Cancer” ɛn “Let’s Fight” de tray fɔ pul di frayd ɛn nɔr ebul fɔ ɛp dis sik ɛn insted fɔ mek yu gɛt strɔng, fayn filin. Fɔ sɔm pipul dɛn, dis na rili pawaful tin we kin mek dɛn want fɔ du sɔntin. We yu si yusɛf as “faytman,” i de gi yu bɔku trɛnk fɔ fes tritmɛnt ɛn pas di tranga de dɛn. Natin nɔ bad wit dat.
Bɔt... wetin mek ɔlman nɔ lɛk dis ‘militant’ lɛbl?
Na di flip sayd na di stori. Nɔto ɔlman we de liv wit brɔst kansa lɛk di aidia fɔ bi "faytman." Bɔku rizin dɛn de fɔ dat.
- Di prɛshɔn fɔ bi strɔng ɔltɛm: If yu na "faytman," sosayti de ɛkspɛkt yu fɔ gɛt maynd ɛn pɔsitiv ɔltɛm. Bɔt yu tink se dat na tru na rial layf? Sɔm de dɛn de we yu kin fil bad, yu kin fred, ɛn yu kin want fɔ kray. Tritmɛnt we dɛn de gi (`Sɔm de dɛn de we di bɔdi kin taya bad bad wan bikɔs ɔf kemotɛrapi . If yu fil se yu wik wan pan dɛn de dɛn de, yu tink se dat min se yu de “lɔs di fɛt”? Dis prɛshɔn insɛf kin bi big lod sɔntɛnde.
- Dis nɔto fɛt we wi pik: Bɔku tɛm, fɛt na sɔntin we pɔsin kin go insay bay we i pik. Bɔt kansa nɔ tan lɛk dat. I nɔto sɔntin we ɛnibɔdi want fɔ gɛt; na sik we kin apin na di bɔdi. So fɔ sɔm pipul dɛn, we dɛn se dis na “fayt,” dɛn kin fil lɛk se dɛn dɔn put dɛn na fɛt ples we dɛn nɔ want.
- Di kɔnsɛpt fɔ “win” ɛn “lɔs”: Wit di wɔd “fayt” di wɔd dɛn “win” ɛn “lɔs.” If di kansa dɔn wɛl, dɛn kin se da pɔsin de “win di fɛt.” So, if pɔsin day pan kansa, yu tink se dat min se di pɔsin “lɔs di fɛt”? Yu tink se i “nɔ bin fɛt fayn”? Dis na aidia we nɔ fayn ɛn we de mek pɔsin fil pen. Pɔsin in layf kin dipen pan mɛrɛsin lɛk aw di tritmɛnt go wok fayn ɛn wetin na di kayn kansa, nɔto pan di “fayt spirit” we da pɔsin de gɛt.
- Fɔ mek di ɛkspiriɛns simpul: Di kansa joyn na kɔmpleks wan. Bɔku tin dɛn de we yu fɔ tink bɔt, lɛk pen, ɔpreshɔn (lɛk we dɛn pul di mama in mama), di bad tin dɛn we kin apin we dɛn de trit am, mɔni prɔblɛm, di impak we pɔsin kin gɛt pan famili, ɛn di we aw pɔsin kin fil bad. We yu bɔyl ɔltin to wan wɔd, “fayt,” sɔm pipul dɛn kin fil lɛk se di dip we di ɛkspiriɛns dɔn lɔs.
If dis no bi "battle", den wetin bi dis?
If yu nɔ lɛk di lɛbl "militant," yu kin yuz ɔda wɔd dɛn fɔ tɔk bɔt yu ɛkspiriɛns. Dis na yu disayd nɔmɔ. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin si dɛn ɛkspiriɛns dis we.
| Aw yu si sɔntin | Wetin dat min? (Wetin I Min) |
|---|---|
| Wan Joyn we Yu Go Du | Dis na joyn we nɔto fɔ win ɔ fɔ lɔs, bɔt fɔ go bifo, ilɛksɛf i at. Sɔm dez kin fayn, sɔm dez kin bad. Ɛvride na pat pan di waka. |
| Wan Kɔndishɔn we Dɛn De Manej | Lɛk dayabitis, dis na sik we dɔn bi pat pan mi layf ɛn a fɔ manej am. a noh nid foh "fayt" am, boht a geht foh lan foh liv wit am. |
| Wan Ɛkspiriɛns fɔ insɛf | Dis na mi yon tin. A kin tɔk bɔt dis as a want, na wit udat a want nɔmɔ. A no wan mek pipul si mi wear slogan fo di ohl wold fo si. |
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat yu gɛt rayt fɔ pik di wɔd dɛn we yu fil se go fayn fɔ tɔk bɔt yu ɛkspiriɛns. Yu nɔ nid ɛnibɔdi in rayt fɔ du dat.
Mek yu filin bi – dat na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl.
Di men tin we wi nid fɔ ɔndastand frɔm dis wan ol stori na dat, no rayt ɔ rɔŋ we nɔ de fɔ sho aw yu de fil.
- If yu fil lɛk “faytman,” if da filin de gi yu trɛnk, dat na fayn tin. Go pan yu joyn wit da trɛnk de.
- If yu stil fil vɛks we yu yɛri da wɔd de, if yu fil sɔri, da filin de 100% jɔstifay. Yu gɛt ɔl di rayt fɔ fil da we de.
Tɔk to yu tayt padi, yu fambul, ɔ dɔktɔ bɔt aw yu de fil. Sɔntɛnde, i kin fayn fɔ go to pɔsin we de gi advays to pɔsin we sabi du in wok. Di impɔtant tin nɔto fɔ fit lɛbl, bɔt fɔ fɛn we fɔ ɛp yu fɔ pas dis tranga tɛm.
Aw ɛksaktɔli wi, as pipul dɛn we de arawnd wi, fɔ ɛp?
If yu fambul ɔ padi gɛt bɔdi kansa, yu kin sɔpɔt am. Bɔt yu fɔ du am di we we go fayn fɔ dɛn.
- Bifo yu se, “Yu na pɔsin we de fɛt,” aks dɛn aw dɛn de fil. Lisin to aw dɛn de fil.
- Bifo yu ɛnkɔrej yu wit wɔd dɛn , ɛp fɔ praktis . Aks tin dɛn lɛk, “A kin mek yu it?”, “A kin kam na ɔspitul wit yu?”, “Yu nid ɛp fɔ du di wok na os?” Dɛn tin ya valyu pas ɛmti wɔd dɛn.
- Stɔp fɔ se, “Bi strɔng,” ɛn se, “I nɔ bad fɔ fil bad, a de wit yu.” Alaw dɛn fɔ fil ɔl di we aw dɛn de fil.
As tɛm de go, dis na yu joyn. Na yu disayd us nem yu want fɔ gi am. I kin bi “fayt,” i kin bi “jɔy,” ɔ i kin bi ɛnitin. Ɔltin fayn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Yu filin bɔt yu bɔdi kansa ɛkspiriɛns na tru tru wan. No rayt ɔ rɔŋ ansa nɔ de fɔ dɛn filin dɛn de.
- Pan ɔl we di wɔd "fighter" kin gi pawa to sɔm pipul dɛm, i kin strɛs ɔr nɔr kin kɔmfyut fɔ ɔda pipul dɛm.
- Yu gɛt fridɔm fɔ si di tin we apin to yu as “fayt,” “jɔn,” ɔ “situeshɔn we yu fɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol.”
- As di wan dɛn we de arawnd wi, i rili impɔtant fɔ lisin to di pɔsin ɛn gi am prɛktikal ɛp, pas fɔ put lɛbl pan am.
- Nɔ ɛva fred fɔ tɔk bɔt aw yu de fil to pɔsin we yu biliv ɔ yu dɔktɔ.
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