Imajin se yu de na wan impɔtant mitin na di ɔfis. Bikɔs yu yɔŋ smɔl, nɔbɔdi nɔ de tek yu gud aidia dɛn siriɔs. Ɔ, bikɔs yu dɔn ol smɔl, dɛn de push yu na sayd, se, "O, yu tu ol fɔ du dis nyu teknɔlɔji, lɛ wi gi am to ɔda pɔsin." Sɔntɛm ivin na os, dɛn kin mek yu nɔ du sɔntin we yu want fɔ du, ɛn dɛn kin se, "O, yu dɔn tu ol naw, yu nɔ go ebul fɔ du dat." Dis diskrimineshɔn ɛn marginalization bikɔs ɔf di ej na wetin wi jɔs kɔl ‘ageism.’ Dis na sɔntin we bɔku pipul dɛn na wi sosayti kin du we dɛn nɔ kin no, bɔt i kin mek wi fil bad bad wan.
Bɔku we dɛn kin mit ‘Ageism’.
Dis, lɛk ɛni ɔda we aw pipul dɛn kin tink bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn, kin kam insay wi layf na say dɛn we wi nɔ kin ɛkspɛkt. Lɛ wi si aw dis go tan lɛk.
1. Ageism we pɔsin kin du fɔ insɛf
Dis kin mek wi sɔprayz smɔl. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn chenj ya nɔ kin bigin wit pɔsin we de na do, bɔt na wi. Yu go mɔs dɔn yɛri yu padi ɛn fambul dɛn de tɔk bɔt dɛn ej as dɛn de ol. "O, a don ol nau, a no fit du dat," "A go luk ugly wen a wear dis dres," dem se. In ɔda wɔd dɛn, dɛn kin stɔp di tin dɛn we dɛn kin du ɛn di we aw dɛn want fɔ liv bikɔs dɛn dɔn ol.
Fɔ gi mɔ ɛgzampul dɛn:
- We yu fɔgɛt sɔntin, yu de blem yusɛf bay we yu de se, "O, a dɔn ol naw, na 'senior mom moment '."
- Tink se, "A dɔn ol naw, so a nɔ ebul fɔ wɛr di rɔng klos, go di rɔng ples, du di rɔng tin."
- Fɔ tink se ej na in de mek yu gɛt ɛni sik. Pan ɔl we sɔm sik dɛn kin rili gɛt fɔ du wit di ej, nɔto ɔltin kin mek pɔsin ol. I bɛtɛ fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ fɔ no fɔ tru.
2. Wokples Ageism
Dis na sɔntin we kin afɛkt yɔŋ ɛn ol pipul dɛn. Bɔku tɛm, na di wokples, pipul dɛn kin gɛt bɔku bɔku we dɛn fɔ tink.
- Fɔ ol pipul dɛn: Dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ du wok we dɛn kin du fast fast we de yuz tɛknɔlɔji, dɛn nɔ kin lɛk fɔ du nyu tin dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin tink se dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du wok we nid fɔ wok tranga wan.
- Fɔ di wan dɛn we yɔŋ: Bikɔs dɛn yɔŋ, dɛn nɔ gɛt ɛkspiriɛns, dɛn nɔ no bɔku tin, ɛn dɛn tink se dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ gi dɛn big wok.
Sɔntɛnde, dis kin afɛkt mɔ. Fɔ ɛgzampul, di ej we pɔsin gɛt kin mek i nɔ ebul fɔ gɛt prɔmoshɔn, spɛshal wok , ɔ ivin wok.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat, dɛn nɔ fɔ no aw pɔsin ebul fɔ du am bay di ej we i ol, bɔt na di tin dɛn we i no, di tin dɛn we i sabi du, ɛn di ɛkspiriɛns we i gɛt.
3. Ageism insay Midia
Bɔku bɔku tin dɛn de na TV, fim, buk, ɛn ivin soshal midia usay dɛn kin provok ol pipul dɛn, sho se dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du natin, dɛn kin fɔgɛt, ɛn dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du ɛnitin. We wi si dɛn tin ya, dɛn bad bad tin dɛn de kin stɔp bak na pipul dɛn maynd na di sosayti.
Sɔm kɔmɔn ageist aydia dɛm we di midia kin mek:
- Ol pipul fɔgɛt ɔltin.
- Nɔs os na ples usay "no-can" pipul dɛn de liv.
- Di wan dɛn we dɔn ol kin de dɛn wan, dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ du natin, ɛn dɛn nid pɔsin fɔ ɛp dɛn.
Aw wi kin ansa di rayt we to sɔntin lɛk dis?
Di onli big tin na fɔ ebul fɔ no dis kayn diskrimineshɔn. We yu no bɔt am, dat go ɛp yu fɔ chenj di we aw yu de tink bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn. Bɔt fɔ tɔk bɔt dis kayn we aw ɔda pɔsin de biev kin tranga smɔl.
1. Tɔk to di rayt pɔsin, di rayt we.
If dis na famili mɛmba we de tɔk bɔt di ej, i go mɔs bi se i go fayn fɔ tɔk to dɛn prayvet wan . Bɔt if i de apin na di ɔfis, yu go nid fɔ tɔk to pɔsin we de ɔp ɔ yu dipatmɛnt fɔ di pipul dɛn we de wok (HR).
2. Stay wit kol at.
We wi de tɔk bɔt sɔntin lɛk dis, i kin izi fɔ mek wi vɛks. Di ɔda pɔsin kin tray fɔ difend insɛf bay we i se, "O, a bin jɔs de jok." Bɔt mɛmba se fɔ vɛks nɔ de sɔlv dɛn prɔblɛm dɛn ya. If i du dat, una ɔl tu nɔ go ebul fɔ tink klia wan ɛn tɔk bɔt dis kayn we aw pipul dɛn de biev. Tek dip briz ɛn ɛksplen di tin we apin wit kol at.
3. Bifo yu de aks pipul dɛn fɔ du sɔntin, una fɔ tɔk to una.
If yu go stret ɛn aks dɛn se, "Yu de diskriminayt mi bikɔs a dɔn ol!", di ɔda pɔsin go vɛks pan yu ɔ i nɔ go lisin atɔl. So, bifo yu aks am dairekt wan, stat di tɔk wit kwɛstyɔn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, yu kin aks se, "Yu kin ɛksplen to mi smɔl mɔ bɔt wetin yu bin min wit dat?"
Wetin rili wi want fɔ tɔk?
Okay, naw yu no wetin na ageism ɛn aw fɔ tɔk bɔt am. Bɔt wetin rili na di wɔd dɛn we wi fɔ tɔk? Na sɔm fayn we dɛn we yu go yuz dɛn.
| Di Situeshɔn | Wetin Yu Go Se |
|---|---|
| We pɔsin mek "joke" bɔt ej. | "Yu fit don tok am wit jok, bot wod laik dat fit de ambɔg pesin filin. Mek wi no jok abaut pesin ej, okay?" |
| We pɔsin se yu "tu ol" ɔ "tu yɔŋ" fɔ wok. | "Lɛ wi put mi ej na sayd fɔ smɔl tɛm. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt mi skil ɛn ɛkspiriɛns fɔ dis wok? A tink se a kin du dis fayn fayn wan." |
| We pɔsin jɔstify insɛf bay we i se, "A bin jɔs de jok." | "A no se yu no min to ofend. Bot tori laik dis de riinforce miskonsepshon abaut ej fo sosayti. Na im mek a bring dis op." |
| We gap de bitwin di yɔŋ wan dɛn ɛn di wan dɛn we gɛt ɛkspiriɛns na wan tim. | "Di no we wi get from expiriens and di nyu aidia we yong pipul get, na im bi rili valyu to di sakses of wi tim. Lɛ wi lisin to ɔlman in aidia ɛn wok togɛda." |
Mɛmba se if yu nɔ tɔk natin we pɔsin tɔk se i nɔ biliv Gɔd, dat kin mek da pɔsin de tink se wetin i tɔk rayt. Yu silɛns nɔto ɛndɔsmɛnt. So nɔ fred fɔ tɔk.
Dɔn bak, wan tin we wi fɔ mɛmba ɔltɛm na dat, no lɔ nɔ de we se pipul dɛn we gɛt ɛkspiriɛns nɔ go ebul fɔ tink bɔt nyu tin, ɔ yɔŋ pipul dɛn nɔ gɛt ɛkspiriɛns. We wi de luk pipul dɛn, wi ɔl fɔ lan fɔ pul di lɛbl we de sho dɛn ej ɛn luk dɛn abiliti ɛn talɛnt .
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Ageism na diskrimineshɔn bikɔs ɔf di ej. I kin afɛkt ɛnibɔdi, ilɛksɛf i yɔŋ ɔ i ol.
- Dis kin apin nɔto jɔs na di wokples, na di sosayti, insay di famili, bɔt i kin apin bak insay wisɛf we wi nɔ ivin no.
- Fɔ no agism na di fɔs tin we yu fɔ du. We dis kayn tin apin, nɔ sɛt mɔt, bɔt tɔk bɔt am wit kol at ɛn rɛspɛkt.
- Wi nɔ fɔ no di valyu we pɔsin gɛt bay di ej we i ol, bɔt na di tin dɛn we i ebul fɔ du, di tin dɛn we i no, ɛn di tin dɛn we i sabi du.
- If yu de fil strɛs, sɔri, ɔ wɔri bɔt tin dɛn lɛk dis, nɔ fred fɔ tɔk to yu padi we yu biliv, yu fambul, ɔ yu dɔktɔ . Yu maynd wɛlbɔdi impɔtant.
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