Nu naupai i nih chuan heng thil chi hrang hrangte hi i hre chiang tawh ngei ang. Kawngpuiah emaw, bus-ah emaw, i chhungte inah emaw pawh ni se, i hriat loh pawhin i pum a khawih thut a, ‘Naute chu a tha em?’ tiin a zawt a. A nih loh leh office-ah chuan mi zawng zawngin, ‘Tunlai hian washroom-ah i kal fo tawh ngei ang, a dik em?’ tih ang chi zawhna an zawt vek a ni. Heng thute i hriat hian tlem chuan i rilru a hahdam lo va, i mualpho a, i thinrim hial a ni lawm ni? Hengte hi a tithinur tak zet a, i privacy a nghawng bawk. Mahse nu naupai tam tak chuan hei hi an hmachhawn a ni.
Zawhna tul lo tak takte hian a tibuai che em?
Hmeichhe naupai tam tak chuan miin zawhna a zawh chuan eng ang mi mal pawh ni se, a chhan a ngai niin an ngai. Mahse chutiang chu a ni lo. I naupai chungchang chipchiar zawng zawng mi zawng zawng hnena hrilh vek tur hian tih tur i nei lo. I duh ang zat, i duh chuan sawi turin dikna i nei vek a ni.
Chuti a nih chuan mi pakhatin zawhna nuam lo tak a zawh che chuan engtin nge i tih ang?
- Inbiakna chu divert rawh: Miin, "Naute hi Caesarean section hmanga nau neih a ni em?" Chu chuan zawhna chu pumpelh tûrin a ṭanpui ang che a, inbiakna chu zawhna zawttu hnênah a hruai kir leh ang.
- Zawhna hmangin chhang rawh: Hei pawh hi tactic ropui tak a ni. Mi pakhatin, "Naute chu natural takin i nei em?" I zawt mai thei, " Chu chu zawhna mak tak a ni, engvangin nge hriat i duh? " Hei hian an zawhna chu a dik lo tih an hrechhuak ang. Chutiang mimal zawhna chu an zawt leh tawh lo mai thei.
A pawimawh ber chu eng ang pawhin lungawi lo mah la, i sawi duh loh zawng sawi tur i tih tur i ni lo tih hriat reng hi a ni. Chhungkaw member a nih pawhin i duh loh chuan chipchiar taka sawi a ngai lo.
Labour room horror story i ngaihthlak loh theih loh
Mi thenkhat tan chuan zawhna tul lo hi a thinrim ber a ni. Mahse mi dangte tân chuan thurâwn ṭûl lo, a bîk takin nau neih chungchânga thawnthu hlauhawm tak takte chu a tithinur ber a ni. I naupai tih i hriat veleh mi zawng zawngin nau neih chungchang an hriat tawh emaw, an tawn tawh zawng zawng emaw zinga hlauhawm ber chu an sawi tan ta che a ni lawm ni?
Hetiang hunah hian huaisenna engemaw chen i khawlkhawm a ngai a, zahawm takin inbiakna chu i titawp a ngai a ni.
I sawi thei ang: ""Thil tam tak i hre tih ka hria a, zawhna ka neih chuan ka zawt ngei ang che. Mahse naupai apiang, nau neih apiang hi a danglam vek. Chuvangin ka thil tawn tur chu keimah ngeiin ka en duh a ni."
A nih loh leh, direct deuh deuhin thil engemaw i sawi thei ang: " Lawmthu ka sawi tak meuh meuh a, mahse tunah hian heng thawnthu hlauhawm tak takte hi ka hre duh lo. " Hei hi a khauh deuh angin lang mah se, i rilru hriselna i ngaihtuah hian hetiang thutlukna khirh tak tak siam hi a pawimawh hle
Engtin nge mi zawng zawngin an pum khawih an bansan theih ang?
Thusawi leh zawhna tul lo ang lo takin taksa, a bik takin pum khawih hi a nuam lo zawk a, mimal chanchin bawhchhiatna nasa tak a ni. Ṭhian emaw, chhungte emaw tih chu a pawi lo nia i hriat pawhin, kawtthlera mi hriat lohin a tih chuan tuar a har hle.
Hemi chungchangah hian eng nge i tih?
- Taksa lama inhlat tak vawng reng rawh: A châng chuan i pum chu i ngaihtuah aiin mi dangte nên a inhnaih zâwk thei bawk. I lu chu hla takah awm mah se, i pum hian hmun a pe tam zawk che a ni. Chuvangin, midang nena in awm dun hian tumruh takin tlem tal inhlat tum ang che.
- I rilru put hmang leh i dinhmun thlak danglam: I dinhmun, i nungchang , i mitmeng... heng zawng zawng hian ' respect my privacy ' tih thuchah a thawn thei a ni. I taksaah i inrintawk a, i chak chuan mi dangte chuan chu thuchah chu an hre thin. Tichuan chhan awm lova i taksa khawih duhna chu a tlem zawk hle.
- Direct takin awm rawh: Heng zawng zawng karah pawh hian mi pakhatin i pum a khawih tum a nih chuan, muangchangin mahse nghet takin, " Khawngaihin chutiang chu ti suh, ka rilru a ti na hle. " He thu hi sawi hlau ngai suh.
| Hun buaithlak tak a ni | Chhanna i pe thei |
|---|---|
| Mimal zawhna tul lo tak tak zawh | "Engvangin nge chutiang lam chu hriat i duh?" "Hlim takin naute kan nghak a. I details chu eng nge ni?" |
| Nau neih chanchin hlauhawm tak tak sawi | "Ka lawm e, mahse chutiang thusawi chu ka hre duh lo." "Experience zawng zawng hi a danglam vek a, keimah ngeiin ka experience hmachhawn hi ka duh ber a ni." |
| Zawh lova pum khawih | "Ka ngaidam che, khawngaihin chutiang chu ti suh. Ka tan chuan a nuam lo." |
Office-ah hian engtin nge heng thilte hi i hmachhawn thin?
Office-a nitin i tawn thinte nena hetiang thil hi mi hriat lohte nena hmachhawn a harsa zawk. A chhan chu i ti na thei lo a, mahse an privacy pawh i humhim a ngai a ni.
Hetah hian a tha ber chu i professionalism vawng reng hi a ni . I hnathawhnaah leh i inbiaknaah professional taka i awm chuan midangte chuan thawhpui naupai angin an hmu ang che, thawhpui naupai angin an hmu ang che. Tichuan tul lo taka fiamthu leh inbiakna te chu nasa takin a tlahniam ang.
Tin, nitin i tawn thin mi pawh nise, i ramri kawhhmuh hlau suh. Direct mahse polite tak tak, " Khawngaihin chutiang chu sawi/ti suh, ka tan chuan a nuam lo, " tih ang chi sawi hi inlaichinna vawng reng tur leh rilru thlamuanna vawng reng turin a tha hle.
Heng zawng zawng nen hian naupai laia i chanvo bik (entir nan, chawlh hahdamna hun remchang, in atanga hnathawh theihna hun remchang) te chu i bânsan a ngai lo. An pahnih hian balance turin dikna i nei vek!
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- I taksa chu i ta a ni. A ramri siam turin dikna famkim i nei a ni.
- Mimal zawhna zawh apiang chhan tur i nei lo. Inbiakna chu pumpelh la, a nih loh leh i duh lohna chu sawi chhuak rawh.
- Thu hlauhawm tak tak emaw, thurawn duh loh emaw chu zahawm takin mahse nghet takin hnawl hlau suh.
- I posture leh physical distancing hmangin i personal space humhim rawh.
- "Khawngaihin chutiang chu ti suh" tih hi a pawi vek a, i rilru hriselna atan a pawimawh hle.











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