Kāore rānei tāu tama e noho noa i te wāhi kotahi? E ara ake ana ia i ngā wā katoa, e hikoi haere ana i roto i te akomanga, ā, e amuamu ana te kaiako kei te whakararuraru ia i ētahi atu tamariki? Pērā anō hoki i te kāinga, kāore ia e noho noa i te wāhi kotahi i a ia e kai ana, e oma ana, e pekepeke ana... I ētahi wā ka whakaaro pea koe, 'He nui rawa te whanoke o tēnei tamaiti.' He whanoke noa iho tēnei, he āhuatanga rānei me aro atu tātou? Koinei tā tātou e kōrero ai i tēnei rā. I roto i ngā kupu hauora, ka tapaina tēnei āhuatanga ko te Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, te ADHD rānei hei whakarāpopototanga.
He aha te ADHD?
Ko te ADHD tētahi o ngā mate hinengaro e kitea whānuitia ana i te tamarikitanga. He mate e pā ana ki te whanaketanga me te mahi a te roro, ehara i te he o te tamaiti, o te matua rānei. He mea nui kia mārama ki tēnei i te tuatahi.
Kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau e rua te nui ake o te kitea o tēnei mate i roto i ngā tama i ngā kōtiro. E whakapono ana ētahi kaipūtaiao he take mōrearea pea te noho hei tama mō te ADHD. E whakapono ana ētahi he iti ake te tūponotanga kia kitea ngā kōtiro nā te mea he ngawari ake te kite i ō rātou tohu, ā, he ngāwari hoki te ngaro atu.
He aha ngā rerekētanga o ngā tohu i waenga i ngā tama me ngā kōtiro?
Ae, he rerekē ngā tohu o te ADHD i runga i te ira tangata. He mea tino nui tēnei.
Ko te nuinga o te wā, ko ngā tama tāne he tino pukumahi . Arā, he tino whanoke, he koretake, kāore e taea te noho mārire, ā, ka mahi i tā rātou e pai ai (he hiahia nui). Koia te take e kitea ngāwari ai rātou he hunga peia i roto i te akomanga me te hapori.
Engari ki te mea he ADHD ngā kōtiro, he uaua ki te nuinga o rātou te aro (kore aro). Ko te tikanga he tino ata noho rātou, kāore e whakararuraru i tetahi i roto i te akomanga, engari kāore ō rātou hinengaro i hea. Kei te ngaro tonu rātou i roto i ngā ao moemoeā.
Me titiro tātou ki tēnei ripanga kia mārama ake ai tātou ki tēnei rerekētanga .
| Ngā āhuatanga e kitea ana i roto i ngā tama (Hyperactive/Impulsive) | Ngā āhuatanga e kitea ana i ngā kōtiro (Kāore e aro) |
|---|---|
| He tino uaua te noho ki te wāhi kotahi. Kei te takaro tonu ahau ki ōku maihao me ōku waewae. | He ngāwari te tahuri ke i te aro. Ahakoa te haruru iti noa iho ka taea te whakararuraru. |
| Kāore e taea e au te tatari mō taku wā. E kino ana ahau ki te tatari i te rārangi. | Kei te moemoeā tonu ahau. Kāore e taea e au te whakarongo ki ngā mea e whakaakona ana i roto i te akomanga. |
| Ka peke whakarere atu rātou ki ngā kōrero me ngā kēmu a ētahi atu. | He uaua te whai i ngā tohutohu. Ki te kōrero mai koe i ētahi mea i te rarangi, e kore au e mahara ki aua mea. |
| Ka ngana rātou ki te whakautu i tētahi pātai i mua i te mutunga o te pātai. | Kāore e taea e au te whakaoti i taku mahi i runga i te tikanga tika. He paru tonu taku tēpu me taku rūma. |
| E oma tonu ana, e pekepeke ana, e piki ana i runga i ngā tūru me ngā tēpu. | Ka wareware tonu ahau i ngā mea. Ka ngaro tonu aku pukapuka, pene, me ngā pepa mahi kāinga. |
Engari he mea nui kia maumahara anō hoki ki tēnei. Tērā pea ētahi tama e ata noho, e kore e aro, ko ētahi kōtiro ia he hihiko rawa. Nō reira, kāore ēnei āhuatanga e kitea e te katoa i te huarahi kotahi.
Me pēhea te tautuhi tika i te ADHD?
He mahi uaua tēnei. Nā te mea, he tino pōrearea ngā tamariki katoa, inā koa i te wā taitamariki, he uaua ki te aro tonu, ā, he ngoikore hoki te roa o te aro. Nō reira, he uaua ki ngā mātua te wehewehe i waenga i te pōrearea noa me te ADHD.
Ko te mea nui ko te nui o te pānga o ēnei whanonga ki te oranga o te tamaiti i ia rā .
- Kāore e taea te whakaoti i ngā mahi kura?
- He uaua ki te noho tahi me ētahi atu tamariki, me te kimi hoa?
- He maha tonu ō mahi mōrearea?
Mena ko te whakautu ki ēnei pātai he 'āe', tera pea he mea nui atu i te mahi whakakatakata noa iho.
He aha i iti ake ai te mōhiotia o ngā kōtiro?
Tērā pea he maha ngā take mō tēnei.
- Te tere o te tipu ake:Nā te tere ake o te tipu ā-hinengaro me te tipu ā-tinana o ngā kōtiro i ngā tama, ka kitea pea e rātou ā rātou ake huarahi hei whakatau me te whakahaere i ēnei tohumate.
- Ētahi atu āhuatanga hauora: He nui ake te tūponotanga o ngā kōtiro me ngā wāhine ki te pāngia e ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te manukanuka, te pouri rānei, me te ADHD. Mēnā koinei te āhua, ka ngaro pea i te tākuta te āhuatanga ADHD, ā, ko te āhuatanga kē atu anake ka rongoatia.
Ka aha mēnā ka kore e rongoatia?
Ki te kore e tātaritatia, e rongoātia hoki te ADHD, ka pā kino ki te heke mai o te tamaiti. Ka whakararuraru pea i te kura, ka raru pea i te mahi, ā, ka raru pea i roto i te oranga whānau me ngā whanaungatanga pāpori .
Tērā pea ka pā tēnei ki ngā tāne, nā te mea he iti ake te hiahia o ngā tāne ki te kōrero mō ō rātou raruraru hauora, ki te toro atu rānei ki te tākuta i ngā wāhine. Nō reira, ka mamae pea rātou mō te toenga o ō rātou oranga me te kore e whiwhi maimoatanga.
He maha ngā wā, ka kitea te mate o ngā kōtiro e pāngia ana e te ADHD i te pakeketanga. Ka mōhio noa ētahi tāngata kei a rātou te ADHD i muri i te tautuhi i te mate o tā rātou ake tamaiti ki te ADHD. Heoi, e whakaatu ana ngā rangahau he nui ake te tūponotanga o ngā wāhine e pāngia ana e te ADHD ki te pouri me te iti o te whakaaro ki a rātou anō i ngā tāne.
Nā, he aha tā tātou mahi? He aha ngā maimoatanga?
Mena he iti noa te whakapae kei te pāngia tō tamaiti e te ADHD, ko te mea pai rawa atu, ko te kōrero ki tō tākuta tamariki, ki tō tākuta whānau rānei mō tēnei mea. Māna e tuku tō tamaiti ki tētahi tohunga mēnā e tika ana.
Kāore e taea te "whakaora" katoa i te ADHD. Engari ka taea te whakahaere pai i ngā tohu. Mēnā ka tika te maimoatanga, ka taea e te tamaiti te ora i te oranga noa, i te oranga harikoa.
E rua ngā tikanga maimoatanga matua:
1. Whakaora Whanoke: He tikanga tino pai tēnei mō ngā tamariki kei raro iho i te 6 tau te pakeke. I konei, ka akona ngā mātua ki te whakahaere i ngā whanonga a tā rātou tamaiti. Hei tauira, te waihanga i tētahi mahinga o ia rā mā te tamaiti, te mihi atu ki a ia ina pai tana mahi, me te whakamārama mārama i ngā ture.
2. Te rongoā me te whakaora whanonga ngātahi: Mō ngā tamariki pakeke ake, ka whakamahia ngātahitia ēnei tikanga e rua. Ka āwhina te rongoā ki te whakataurite i te mahi a te roro, te whakapai ake i te roa o te aro, me te whakahaere i te manukanuka.
Ko te mea nui ko te mārama kāore koe i te mokemoke i tēnei haerenga. Kei konei tō tākuta me ētahi atu tohunga hauora hei āwhina i a koe me tō pēpi.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ehara te ADHD i te he o te tamaiti, o ngā mātua rānei. He mate hauora tūturu tēnei.
- He nui ake te tūponotanga o ngā tama ki te whakaatu i ngā āhuatanga hihiko rawa atu, ko ngā kōtiro ia he nui ake te tūponotanga ki te whakaatu i ngā āhuatanga kore aro.
- Ki te pāngia ana ngā mahi kura, ngā hoa, me te oranga o ia rā e te whanonga hē a tāu tamaiti, kaua e whakahaweatia he mea noa iho.
- Ki te mea he ruarua āu, kōrero tonu ki tō tākuta.
- Mā te maimoatanga tika (te whakaora whanonga me/ranei te rongoā) ka angitu te whakahaere i ngā tohumate ADHD me te ārahi i te tamaiti kia ora angitu.
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