Kāore rānei tāu tamaiti e noho noa i te wāhi kotahi? He maha ngā wā ka whakaaro koe kāore rātou e aro ki tetahi mea, kāore hoki e whakarongo ki a koe? Kāore rānei rātou e riri ohorere mō ngā mea iti rawa? Nā tēnei whanonga, kua whakapaetia pea koe e ngā whanaunga, e ngā hoa, e te kura rānei, e mea ana, "Kāore tō tamaiti i te pai te whanonga." Mena kua pāngia koe e ēnei wheako, ka tino pā tēnei kōrero ki a koe. Nā te mea i tēnei rā ka kōrero tātou mō ētahi o ngā mea kei roto i ngā hinengaro o ngā mātua o ngā tamariki e noho ana me te ADHD, te mate aro nui rānei, engari kāore i taea e rātou te kōrero ki te hapori.
Ehara taku tamaiti i te "tamaiti kino"!
Ko ētahi tamariki e pāngia ana e te ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) he uaua ki te noho ki te wāhi kotahi, arā, he tino hihiko rātou. Ko ētahi e whakaaro ana kei te mahi rātou i ngā mea me te kore e aro, arā, he tino ohorere rātou. Tērā pea ka uaua ki ēnei tamariki te whai i ngā tohutohu me te whakahaere i ō rātou kare ā-roto. Ināianei, ina he te whanonga a te tamaiti me ēnei āhuatanga, ka whakaaro tātou kei te ngana ā-taurangi ia ki te whakapataritari i a tātou, ki te kore rānei e whakarongo mai ki a tātou. Engari ehara tēnā i te pono.
Kei te ora tonu ēnei tamariki me te huringa o te mahi a te roro. Ehara i te mea nā rātou i whiriwhiri.
E mea ana tētahi whaea , "He tino mamae ki ahau ina titiro mai ētahi atu mātua ki ā mātou tamariki, ka tapaina rātou he 'tamariki kino.'" He ADHD ā rāua tamariki tokorua. E mea ana ia, ina pōuri ohorere tētahi tamaiti pēnei i a ia, ka riri, ka hamama (he hinganga), kei te ngana tonu rātou ki te kōrero mai ki a tātou i ō rātou kare ā-roto. Engari kāore rātou e mōhio me pēhea te mahi. Kia ako rātou i taua tikanga, ka huri aua tamariki i ngā huarahi kāore e taea e rātou te whakaaro.
Kāore te ADHD e puta mai i ngā "hē a ngā mātua"!
Koinei tētahi o ngā whakaaro hē nui rawa atu o te hapori. Ina kite koe i te whanonga hē a te tamaiti, he tokomaha e tohu ana i te whaea me te pāpā. Tērā pea kua rongo koe i ngā kōrero pēnei i te "kāore i tika te whakatipu i te tamaiti," "tino atawhaitia rawatia," me te "kāore he whiu."
Engari e ai ki ngā tohunga ko te pūtake matua o te ADHD ko ngā ira tuku iho . Arā, he mea tuku iho. Kua tino whakapumautia inaianei ehara tēnei mate i te he o te whaea, o te pāpā rānei.
He mea tino nui te kōrero mō tētahi whaea o tāna tama tekau mā tahi tau te pakeke e raru ana i te ADHD, te autism, me te manukanuka .
"He tokomaha te hunga e whakaaro ana ko te ADHD he tapanga e hoatu ana ki ngā tamariki i roto i te huarahi kino. Engari ehara i te raruraru mātua. Koinei te whakaaro hē nui rawa atu mō te ADHD."
E mea ana tētahi atu whaea, "He nui te whakama o te mātua ki tēnei. E whakaaro ana te tangata, 'Mehemea kua hē tāu mahi.' I mea mai tētahi atu whaea ki ahau, 'Mehemea i tukua e koe ia kia mātaki pouaka whakaata i a ia e tamariki ana.' I whakaaro ahau, 'Kāore he tikanga o tēnā.'"
He āhuatanga tūturu te ADHD.
Ehara tēnei i te kata, ehara hoki i te mea tito noa. Kua whakaaetia tēnei e ngā tākuta me ngā umanga hauora o te ao katoa he mate hauora tūturu. Engari kei te ruarua tonu ētahi tāngata mō tēnei.
I tonoa e tētahi whaea tāna tama he ADHD tōna ki tētahi puni. Ahakoa i hoatu e ia ngā tohutohu ki ngā kaiwhakahaere mō te whakahaere i te āhua o tāna tama, kāore tetahi i te puni i whakapono ki te ADHD. Nā reira, he maha ngā uauatanga i pā ki tāna tama i te puni.
Nō reira, ki te ako te hunga kāore e mārama ki tēnei āhuatanga, ka taea e rātou te titiro aroha ki aua tamariki. Kātahi ka rongo ngā tamariki, "E mārama ana ngā pakeke ki ahau, kei tōku taha rātou." He mea tino nui taua whakawhirinaki ki a rātou.
| Ngā whakaaro hē i roto i te hapori | Meka hauora |
|---|---|
| He "whanonga kino" āta whakaarohia tēnei. | Kāo, he tohu tēnei i puta mai i te panoni o te mahi a ngā neurotransmitters i roto i te roro. |
| Nā te hapa a ngā mātua tēnei i puta ai. | Kāo, ko te nuinga o te wā ka puta te ADHD i ngā āhuatanga ira me te taiao. Ehara i te he o ngā mātua. |
| Ka taea e koe te whakatika mā te patu, te riri, me te whiu. | Ehara i te mea ka kino noa te whakaaro nui o te tamaiti ki a ia anō te whiu, engari kāore hoki e whakaora i ngā tohumate. Ka taea hoki e ia te whakakino ake i te āhuatanga. |
| He mangere ēnei tamariki, ā, kāore e aro. | Ehara i te mea nā te hoha tēnei, engari nā te uaua o te roro ki te aro me te whakarite i ngā mahi. |
Kāore e taea te whakatika i tēnei āhuatanga mā te whiu.
Ehara i te mea onge te whakatārewatanga i te kura mō te raruraru whanonga a te tamaiti i roto i tō tātou whenua. E ai ki tētahi whaea i whakatārewatia tana tama mō ngā rā 10 i roto i te wā e toru marama te roa i a ia e kura tuatoru ana. I whakamārama ia ki te kura ko te hihiko me te whanoke o tana tama he wāhanga o tōna āhua ADHD, engari kāore rātou i mārama.
"Ko tāku hiahia kia aro nui ake ngā kura ki te kimi i te pūtake o te whanonga me te kimi otinga mōna, kaua ki te whiu. Kāore he mea e akohia ana e aua tamariki mā te whakatārewatanga," tana kī. E whakaaro ana ētahi kaiako mā te "papaki kaha i a rātou" ka whakakorea ēnei whanonga hē. Engari ka nui ake te pouri o te tamaiti.
Ko ngā tohutohu mātua e whai hua ana mō te katoa, kāore e whai hua mō ngā tamariki ADHD
Ahakoa i whakatipuhia tātou e ō tātou mātua i roto i te tikanga tawhito "me mahi i taku e kī atu ai", kāore aua tikanga e whai hua ana ina whakatipu ana i tētahi tamaiti ADHD. Me tino manawanui, me ngāwari hoki tātou i te wā e whakaako ana i te tamaiti. Me tino aro atu tātou ki te āhua o te tamaiti, me te kōrero ki a ia i roto i te huarahi e mārama ana ia.
Waihoki, ko ngā tohutohu e whai hua ana mō te tamaiti kāore he ADHD, kāore pea e whai hua mō ēnei tamariki. Tērā pea kua rongo koe i ngā tohutohu pēnei i te, "E kore taku tamaiti e tipu ake pērā," te "Whakamātauria he tūtohi whakapiripiri." Ahakoa he pai te whakaaro o tēnei tohutohu, kāore e rite ki ngā hiahia o te tamaiti whai ADHD.
He tino uaua te whakatipu i tētahi tamaiti ADHD.
He nui te wā me te kaha e pau ana i ētahi mātua ki te waihanga i tētahi mahinga auau mō ā rātou tamariki, te rangahau i aua mea, te kite i ngā tākuta, me te rapu mōhiohio i runga i te ipurangi.
"He tino hoha," te kī a tētahi whaea. "I ētahi wā ka tino taumaha rawa atu. Kei te whakaaro ahau kāore au i te mahi i taku mea pai mō taku tama, he tangata rahua ahau. He tino uaua ki te whakamanawanui i taua kare ā-roto."
"He haerenga hou ia rā. Ehara tēnei haerenga i te mea ngāwari - engari ka taea e tātou te wikitoria i tēnei," te kī a tētahi atu whaea.
Ko te mea pai rawa atu, mā te kōrero whakaora, me te rongoā kua tohua e te tākuta, ka taea te āwhina i tāu tamaiti ki te whakahaere i tōna ADHD. Waihoki, kua hangaia he Mahere Mātauranga Takitahi (IEP) hei whakatutuki i ngā matea ako a te tamaiti.Ka taea e koe te pātai ki te kura o tāu tamaiti mō tēnei. Ko te mea nui ko te kōrero ki tō tākuta whānau, ki te tākuta tamariki rānei mō ēnei mea katoa.
He arai hiriwa kei roto i ngā kapua pōuri katoa.
I waenganui i ēnei wero katoa, tera pea he mea whakamatautau te whakaaro ehara i te mea kino noa te ADHD. E kī ana ētahi mātua he pūkenga motuhake ā ā rātou tamariki nā te ADHD.
- Te whakaaro i waho o te pouaka
- Te titiro ki ngā mea i tētahi huarahi hou
- Te aro nui ki tētahi kaupapa e pārekareka ana
"Kāore he tangata e kōrero ana mō ngā mea pai mō te ADHD," te kī a tētahi whaea. "Nā te mea kāore tō tātou pūnaha mātauranga me te ao i hangaia hei manaaki i te hunga kei waho i te paerewa."
Nō reira, i a koe e mārama ana ki ngā wero o tāu tamaiti, kaua e wareware ki te maioha ki ōna pūkenga ahurei.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ehara te ADHD i te whanonga kino a te tamaiti, ehara hoki i te he o ngā mātua. He mate kua mōhiotia e te rata e puta mai ana i ngā huringa o te mahi a te roro.
- E kore te whiu e whakaora i tēnei mate. Engari, ko tā te tamaiti e hiahia ana ko tō aroha, tō māramatanga, me tō tautoko.
- Kāore e pai ngā tohutohu katoa e whai hua ana mō ngā tamariki noa mō te tamaiti ADHD. He mea nui kia kitea he tikanga e whai hua ana mō tāu tamaiti.
- Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe he hoha tēnei haerenga, kaua e whakama. Tonoa he āwhina. Kōrero ki tō tākuta, ki tō kaiwhakaora hinengaro rānei , kia whiwhi ai koe i te maimoatanga me ngā ratonga tohutohu tika.
- I a koe e titiro ana ki ngā wero o tāu tamaiti, kia mōhio koe ki ōna pūkenga me ōna kaha ahurei, ā, kia maioha hoki ki aua pūkenga.
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