Whakaarohia, he nui hoki tō hiahia ki te hokohoko tahi me tō pēpi, ki tētahi pāti i te whare o tētahi whanaunga, ki tētahi pāka rānei. Engari... ina haere tō pēpi ki reira, ka mataku koe kei riri ohorere ia, kei hamama, kei takoto ki runga i te papa, kei tangi, ā, ka titiro kē mai ētahi ki a koe, tika? Ehara i te mea māu anake tēnei wheako, engari he mea noa ki te nuinga o tātou hei mātua o ngā tamariki autism. Nā tēnei, he maha ngā mātua ka mutu te haere tahi me ā rātou tamariki. Engari me pērā tonu? Me kōrero tātou mō tēnei.
He aha te autism i te nuinga o te wā?
Tuatahi, kia mārama tātou ki tēnei. Ehara te autism i te mate. He āhuatanga whanaketanga io e pā ana ki te whanaketanga o te roro. Kia tika ake, ka kiia ko te Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Ko te kupu "spectrum" nā te mea ka rerekē te āhuatanga i waenga i te tangata me te tangata. Ka tino rerekē ngā tohu o tētahi tamaiti i tētahi atu.
He maha ngā wero nui mō ēnei tamariki:
- Te uaua ki te whakatū whanaungatanga pāpori : Ko ētahi e kore e pai ki te kōrero ki ētahi atu, ki te tākaro, me te titiro kanohi.
- Ngā uauatanga ki te kōrero: He iti noa iho te kōrero a ētahi tamariki, kāore rānei i te tino kōrero. Ko ētahi pea ka whakamahi kupu engari kāore i te tino mārama ki te tikanga.
- Ngā whanonga tāruarua: Te mahi i te mea kotahi anō, anō, anō. Hei tauira, te poipoi i ō ringaringa i te ara kotahi, te tākaro ki te taonga takaro kotahi i te ara kotahi.
Engari i runga ake i ngā mea katoa, ko te wero nui rawa atu mō te nuinga o ngā mātua ko ngā take e pā ana ki te aro o ēnei tamariki. Kia tirohia tata atu tēnei inaianei.
He aha rawa ēnei raruraru pāngarau?
He whakarāpopototanga noa iho, ka tangohia e tō tātou roro ngā kōrero (ngā tirohanga, ngā oro, ngā kakara) mai i ō tātou māia e rima (ngā kanohi, ngā taringa, te ihu, te arero, te kiri), ka tukatukahia, ka aro atu ki tēnā. Ka kiia tēnei tukanga he Tukatuka Āhua . He rerekē tēnei tukanga i roto i ngā tamariki whai autism. Nō reira, ka tino kaha pea tā rātou kite i ngā mea, kāore rānei i te tino kitea e te tangata noa.
E rua ngā huarahi matua ka taea ai tēnei.
| Momo tairongo | Hei whakarāpopototanga... | Ngā tauira ka kitea i Sri Lanka |
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| Tairongo nui | He nui ake te rongo a ngā pūmanawa i ngā mea i te mea noa , nō reira kāore e taea e rātou te pupuri. |
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| Te kore-aroaro | He iti iho tō rātou kare ā-roto i tō te tikanga , nō reira ka rapua e rātou aua kare ā-roto. |
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Kua mārama pea koe he aha i pā ohorere ai te manukanuka o tāu tamaiti i te toa hokohoko? Ehara i te mea he tamaiti kino ia. Ina pā mai ngā rama, ngā haruru, ngā mano tini, me ngā kakara ki tōna roro i te wā kotahi, kāore e taea e ia te whakahaere. I taua wā, ka hamama ia, ka tangi hei whakamama i te pēhanga e pā ana ki a ia.
Te āhua o te ao me ngā mea ka taea e tātou te mahi i Sri Lanka
He nui te mōhiotanga mō tēnei mea i ngā whenua pēnei i a Amerika me Ūropi. Ko ētahi wāhi pēnei i ngā whare pikitia, ngā papa tākaro, me ngā whare taonga e whakarite ana i ngā rā motuhake, i ngā wā rānei hei "Sensory-Friendly". I aua wā, ka whakaitihia ngā rama, ka whakaitihia te haruru, ka whakawhāitihia hoki te tokomaha o te tangata. Ka whakangungua hoki e rātou ngā kaimahi o reira ki te whakahaere i ēnei tamariki.
Engari he uaua ki a tātou o Sri Lanka te tumanako ki ēnei momo whare motuhake i ngā wāhi katoa, kāore?Engari, ehara i te mea kāore e taea e tātou te mahi i tetahi mea. Me ngana tātou ki te waihanga i tētahi taiao e pai ana mō tā tātou tamaiti. Anei ētahi mea ka taea e koe te mahi:
Ko te whakamahere te taahiraa tuatahi.
Whakamahere pai i mua i te haere ki hea.
- Kōwhiria he wā kāore i te tino pukumahi: Ahakoa te haere ki te hūpāmakete, whiriwhiria he wā kāore i te tino pukumahi, pērā i te atatu i ngā rā wiki. Kaua e haere i te ahiahi i ngā mutunga wiki.
- Mauria mai ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e tāu tamaiti: Ki te pāngia tāu tamaiti e te haruru, mauria mai ngā taringa whakarongo whakakore haruru . Ki te pāngia rātou e te taiao, mauria mai ngā mōhiti kanohi me te pōtae. Tukua kia puritia e rātou tētahi taonga takaro tino pai, tētahi mea rānei e haumaru ai rātou, pērā i te paraikete.
- Whakamōhiotia tō tamaiti i mua i te wā: Kōrerotia ki tō tamaiti i mua i te wā te wāhi e haere ana koe. Ki te taea, whakaaturia ētahi whakaahua o te wāhi i runga i tō waea. Whakamāramahia noa, "Kei te haere mātou ki konei, ā, ka hoki wawe mai mātou me ēnei mea."
Tīmata iti.
Kaua e haereere nui i te wā kotahi. Tīmata ki ngā haerenga iti, pērā i te haere ki te toa e tata ana ki tō kāinga. Ki te pai, whakapaua he wā ki waho i te wā e whai ake nei. Hoatu he wā ki tāu tamaiti kia taunga haere ki te taiao.
Kaua e wehi ki te tono āwhina.
Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe ki te haere ki tētahi wharekai, ka taea e koe te waea atu i mua ki te kōrero ki te kaiwhakahaere o reira, me te whakamārama i te āhuatanga. Pātai atu, "He paku haruru tā mātou pēpi, me tono mai he tēpu i tētahi wāhi marino?" I te nuinga o te wā, ka koa rātou ki te āwhina.
Ki te mea kei te uaua te tamaiti, haere atu.
Ahakoa ēnei mea katoa, ki te mea he uaua ki a koe te noho tonu o tāu tamaiti ki reira, kāore he he o te haere. Kaua e manukanuka ki ngā whakaaro o ētahi atu. Ko te oranga hinengaro o tāu tamaiti te mea nui rawa atu.
Ko te mea nui ko te kōrero ki tō tākuta, ki tō tākuta tamariki, ki tō kaiwhakaora whanonga rānei mō te āhua o tāu tamaiti. Mā rātou koe e kōrero tika ki ngā raruraru pūoro o tāu tamaiti, me pēhea hoki te whakahaere i aua raruraru.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ehara te autism i te he nāu, ehara hoki i te he o tāu tamaiti. He āhuatanga tēnei e tika ana kia mārama.
- Ehara i te mea he kino tāu tamaiti e whakahihi ana i waho, engari nā te mea kāore e taea e ia te aro atu ki te taiao.
- Mā te whakamahere tupato me ētahi mahi tinihanga, ka taea hoki e koe te haereere angitu me tāu tamaiti.
- Kāore koe i te mokemoke i tēnei haerenga. Rapua he tohutohu hauora me te tautoko whakaora mēnā e tika ana.
- Hei mātua, he mea tino nui hoki tō hauora hinengaro. Tiakina koe anō hoki.
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