Ina tirohia e koe tō mahinga o ia rā, ka mahia e koe ētahi mea me te tino harikoa, kāore? Engari ka mahia e koe ētahi atu mea me te tumanako ki tētahi atu mea, pērā i te utu, te whakamoemiti rānei. Whakaarohia, ki te mahi koe i te nuinga o te mahi me te kore e tumanako ki tētahi utu o waho, engari nā te mea he aroha noa koe ki tēnā, ko te tikanga kei te akiakihia koe e te mea e kiia nei ko te Hihiri ā-roto . E ai ki ngā tohunga hinengaro koinei te kounga pai rawa atu o te hihiri e āwhina ana i a koe kia angitu i te ao.
He aha tonu te hihiri ā-roto?
Ka mea tātou, 'Kāore he hihiri i ahau ki te mahi i tēnei' ina kore e taea e tātou te mārama he aha tātou i hiahia ai ki te mahi i tēnei. Koinei te hihiri. Koinei te take me whanonga tātou i roto i tētahi huarahi motuhake mō tētahi whāinga motuhake.
Ki te kī ngāwari, ko te hihiri ā-roto ko te hihiri ki te mahi i tētahi mea e ahu mai ana i roto i a koe. Ka tīmata me te hiahia pono ki tētahi mahi, ki tētahi kaupapa rānei. Tirohia tētahi pēpi nohinohi. Kei te ngana tonu ia ki te ngaungau, ki te hopu, ki te kuru, ki te whiu i ngā mea ka taea e ia te hopu, kāore? Kāore anō kia kōrerotia e tētahi ki a ia tētahi mea mō taua mea. Nō roto mai.
I a koe e pakeke ana, ka whiwhi koe i tēnei wheako nā te harikoa o te mahi i tētahi mea, ina mahi koe i tētahi mea hei rapu i ngā wero hou, hei wheako i tētahi mea hou, hei ako i tētahi mea, hei whakawhānui i ō pūkenga. Ka haere tātou ki te hararei, ki te māra, ki te tākaro kēmu papa, ki te mātaki kiriata, ki te pānui pukapuka nā tēnei momo hihiri ā-roto.
Ina mahi koe me te hihiri ā-roto, ka piki ake tō whakapono ki a koe anō, ka kite koe kei te hanga rerekētanga koe i te ao, ā, ka kite koe he nui ake te kaupapa o tō ao.
He aha te pūtaiao kei muri i tēnei?
I puta tuatahi mai te ariā o te hihiri ā-roto i roto i tētahi rangahau i te tau 1985 nā ngā tohunga hinengaro a Richard Ryan rāua ko Edward Deci. I whakawhanakehia e rāua tētahi ariā e kīia nei ko te Ariā Whakatau-Whaiaro (SDT) . Ko te tirohanga whānui i taua wā ko te pai o te mahi a te tangata ina oatitia he mea o waho ki a rātou, pērā i te utu, te whakamoemiti rānei. Engari i tino whakahē tēnei ariā hou i taua tirohanga.
I kī a Ryan rāua ko Deci, ko te hihiri ā-roto e ahu mai ana i te hiahia ā-roto o te tangata kia whakapai ake, kia pai ake ai. Mā tēnei hihiri ā-roto koe e āwhina ki te whakanui ake i ngā hua o tāu mahi, tae atu ki ngā wheako kua riro i a koe i a koe e mahi ana.
E ai ki tēnei ariā whakatau-whaiaro (SDT), e toru ngā matea hinengaro ā-roto o te tangata. Koinei ngā mea e akiaki ana i a tātou mai i roto.
1.Mana motuhake: Koinei te kare ā-roto kei a koe te mana whakahaere i āu mahi. E pai ana ki a tātou katoa te whai wāhi ki te whakatau me pēhea me te wā e mahi ai i tētahi mea.
2. Pūkenga: Koinei te kaha ki te mahi i ngā mahi e tika ana mō ngā pūkenga, ngā mōhiotanga, me ngā wheako o te tangata. Arā, e pai ana tātou ki te mahi i ngā mea e whakaaro ana tātou "Ka taea e au te mahi pai i tēnei."
3. Te Hononga: Ko te hononga me te tikanga ka puta mai i tētahi mahi. Ina whai kaupapa nui ake tā tātou mahi, ina whakaaro tātou he wāhanga nui tātou o te hapori, ka nui ake tō tātou hihiri ki te mahi.
Ka tino kitea te hihiri ā-roto o te tangata ina honoa ēnei āhuatanga e toru.
Te rerekētanga i waenga i te hihiri ā-roto me te hihiri ā-waho
Ko te hihiri ā-waho ko te wā e mahi ana koe i tetahi mea hei painga mō waho. Hei tauira, te whakaae a te hapori, te whiwhi moni nui ake. I roto i ngā ākonga, ko te whiwhi māka pai, te tū motuhake i roto i ngā hoa, me te karo i te whiu koia ngā hihiri ā-waho e tino kitea ana.
Whakaarohia, ko ētahi tamariki e ako ana ehara i te mea he aroha ki te kaupapa, engari he wehi kei whiua rātou e ō rātou mātua. E whakaatu ana ngā rangahau, ina mahi noa ngā tamariki mō ngā take o waho, ka ngaro haere te hiahia.
| Momo hihiri | Ngā tauira |
|---|---|
| Te hihiri ā-roto (Te hiahia e puta mai ana i roto) |
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| Te hihiri o waho (Te tumanako ki tētahi mea o waho) |
Ahakoa he rerekē ēnei ariā e rua, i ētahi wā ka taea e rāua te noho tahi. Arā, ka mahi pea koe i tētahi mea hei oranga ngākau māu, hei painga hoki mō waho. Hei tauira, ka ako pea koe i te reo Hapanihi nā te mea kei te hiahia koe ki te ako mō Hapanihi, ā, ka whakaaro pea koe ka āwhina i a koe ki te whiwhi whakatairanga i te tari.
Engari kia maumahara, i ētahi wā he nui ake te kaha o te hihiri ā-roto i te hihiri ā-waho. Ko te take, he rite te hihiri ā-roto ki tētahi mīhini e rere ana i a ia anō me te kore wahie. Engari i ētahi wā he mea nui te hihiri ā-waho. Whakaarohia, he mahi tāu hei whakaoti i te tari, engari kāore he hiahia ōu. I taua wā, ko te wehi 'ki te kore koe e mahi i tēnei, ka ngaro tō mahi' (te hihiri ā-waho) te mea e akiaki ana i a koe ki te whakaoti i taua mahi.
Me pēhea tātou e whakawhanake ai i tēnei hihiri ā-roto?
Anei ētahi huarahi hei whakanui ake i tēnei hihiri ā-roto.
- Me mahi kia ngahau: Tāpirihia he ngahau ki tāu mahi. Mā tēnei ka āwhina i a koe kia aro nui atu ki taua mahi.
- Werohia koe anō: Whakatakotoria he whāinga iti, ka taea te whakatutuki. Kaua e rapu i te utu mai i waho, engari tirohia hei whai wāhitanga ki te ako i tētahi mea hou.
- Kimihia te tikanga o tāu mahi: Whakaarohia te uara ka riro i ētahi atu i aku mahi, me te kaupapa nui ake ka tutuki i a ia.
- Ki te kore koe e hiahia, meatia te mea e arohaina ana e koe: Ki te kore koe e hiahia, mahia tetahi mea e arohaina ana e koe, ā, kua roa nei koe e hiahia ana ki te mahi.
- Āwhina i ētahi atu: Ka nui te harikoa o te hinengaro ka puta mai i te āwhina i tētahi hoa, i te mahi tūao rānei. Mā tēnei ka hanga i tō hihiri ā-roto.
Mena kua roa te kore hiahia me te hoha e pā ana ki a koe, ā, he nui te pānga ki tō oranga o ia rā, he mea nui kia kōrero koe ki tō tākuta mō tēnei mea, nā te mea i ētahi wā he tohu pea tēnei nō tētahi atu mate hinengaro.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ko te hihiri ā-roto ko te mahi i tetahi mea hei whakatutuki i te ahuareka me te koa e puta mai ana i roto, me te kore e tumanako ki tetahi mea o waho.
- Ko te hihiri o waho ko te mahi i tetahi mea mō ngā take o waho, pēnei i te utu, te whakamoemiti, te karo rānei i te whiu.
- He mea tino nui te hihiri ā-roto mō te oranga angitu me te oranga harikoa.
- Ina tutuki ngā āhuatanga e toru, arā, te mana motuhake, te pūkenga, me te whanaungatanga, ka piki ake tō tātou hihiri ā-roto.
- Ka taea e koe te whakawhanake i tēnei pūkenga mā te tāpiri i te ngahau ki tāu mahi, te wero i a koe anō, me te āwhina i ētahi atu.











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