Urugendo rwawe rw'amezi 18 rw'umwana urwaye: Ese twagombye kubimenya?

Bishobora gutera ubwoba gato kujyana umwana wawe w'amezi 18 kwa muganga, sibyo? Ariko iyi ni amahirwe meza yo kumenya byinshi ku buzima bw'umwana wawe n'imikurire ye. Reka turebe ibiba muri uku gusura kwa muganga, n'icyo wakwitega.

Ni iki kibaho mu gihe cyo gusura kwa muganga?

Ubwa mbere, umuganga cyangwa umuforomo azapima ibiro by'umwana wawe, uburebure bwe, n'umuzenguruko w'umutwe we . Azandika ibi bipimo ku mbonerahamwe yihariye yitwa 'imbonerahamwe y'imikurire'. Uku niko bazagenzura niba umwana wawe akura neza.

Hanyuma, ikizamini gito (`(Ikizamini cyo gusuzuma)`) gishobora gukorwa kugira ngo gifashe kumenya ibitaragenze neza cyangwa indwara nka `(Autism)` hakiri kare. Ibi biramutse bigaragaye hakiri kare, umwana ashobora guhabwa ubufasha akeneye vuba.

Hanyuma umuganga azakubaza ibibazo bimwe na bimwe, akakubwira ibibazo byawe, kandi akaguha inama z'uko umwana wawe ameze muri iyi minsi. Reka turebe icyo ibyo bivugaho, si byo se?

Ku bijyanye n'ibiribwa n'ibinyobwa

Umwana wawe azaba arya amafunguro atatu y'ingenzi n'udushya 2-3 ku munsi. Kuri iyi myaka, ni ukuvuga nyuma y'umwaka, umuvuduko w'iterambere ry'abana bato ugabanuka gato, bityo ubushake bwabo bwo kurya nabwo bushobora kugabanuka. Ntugatangare. Ubu bashobora kuba bashobora kunywa ku gikombe no kurya ku kiyiko, ariko bashobora kuba bagikunda kurya n'intoki (bakarya intoki) .

Ku bijyanye n'uburyo bwo kunyara no kwituma

Reba niba agatambaro k'umwana wawe kamaze igihe kirekire cyumye kurusha uko bisanzwe. Ariko, abana benshi bato ntibatozwa ubwiherero kugeza bamaze gukura gato, akenshi bari hagati y'imyaka 2 na 3. Niba umwana wawe afite impiswi, afite impatwe, cyangwa afite ikibazo cyo kwituma, menya neza ko wabibwiye muganga.

Ku bijyanye n'ibitotsi

Abana bato muri iki kigero bakunze gusinzira amasaha agera kuri 12-14 ku munsi, harimo no gusinzira. Ku mezi 18, abana benshi bazaba baretse gusinzira mu gitondo .

Ibyerekeye iterambere ry'umwana (intambwe z'iterambere ry'umwana)

Ku mezi 18, abana benshi bato bagomba kuba baratangiye gukora ibi bikurikira:

• Uretse amagambo "mama" na "papa", bagerageza kuvuga amagambo atatu cyangwa arenga .
• Asobanukiwe kandi agakurikiza itegeko ryoroshye (icyerekezo cy'intambwe imwe) nta bimenyetso na bimwe (urugero, "Kura umupira").
• Iyo babonye ikintu kidasanzwe cyane, bagutunga urutoki.
• Bifasha mu kwambara; urugero, guterura amaboko cyangwa guterura amaguru.
• Mu gihe uri gukora umukoro wo mu rugo.Kukwigana .
• Kugerageza kurya n'ikiyiko.
• Shyiraho ikaramu gusa.
• Akina n'ibikinisho mu buryo bworoshye; urugero, gusunika imodoka.
• Kugenda wenyine nta muntu umufasha.
• Yinjira mu ntebe cyangwa kuri sofa nta muntu umufashije.

Icy'ingenzi: Niba umwana wawe atarimo kugera kuri kimwe cyangwa byinshi muri ibi bikorwa by'iterambere , cyangwa niba yaratakaje ubumenyi yari asanzwe afite, menya neza ko wabibwiye muganga wawe.

Muganga azakuramo umwana wawe imbere yawe kandi amusuzume neza . Ibi bizaba birimo gupima amaso, gupima amenyo, kumva umutima n'ibihaha, no kwita ku bushobozi bw'umwana wawe bwo gukora imitsi n'imyitwarire ye.

Ni ngombwa kubona inkingo zawe ku gihe muri iki gihe. Inkingo zirinda abana bato indwara zikomeye, bityo ni ngombwa kuzihabwa ku gihe. Ariko, gahunda y'inkingo ishobora gutandukana gato bitewe n'ibiro bya muganga. Bityo rero vugana na muganga wawe ku byo witeze.

Iyo bibaye ngombwa, muganga ashobora kandi gutegeka ko hakorwa ibizamini kugira ngo arebe niba hari urugero rw'ibinure mu maraso cyangwa niba nta ndwara yo kubura amaraso .

Ujye uzirikana ibi bintu kugeza umwana wawe yujuje imyaka 2.

Noneho reka turebe ikindi ugomba kwitondera kugeza igihe umwana wawe azasuzumirwa ubutaha, ni ukuvuga imyaka 2.

Witondere ibyo kurya n'ibyo kunywa.

• Ha umwana wawe amata yuzuye kugeza agize imyaka 2. (Ntukamuhe amata make cyangwa amata adasize amavuta keretse muganga wawe abikubwiye ukundi.)
• Mu gihe utanga amata n'umutobe w'imbuto 100%, tanga ukoresheje igikombe. Ntugatange umutobe w'imbuto urenze 120 ml ku munsi. Irinde gutanga ibinyobwa birimo isukari (nk'isukari).
• Irinde gutanga ibiryo birimo isukari nyinshi, umunyu, amavuta, n'intungamubiri nkeya .
• Komeza gutanga ibiryo bitandukanye bifite intungamubiri . Tanga ibiryo bikungahaye kuri feri nk'ibishyimbo, inyama, amafi, imboga n'imbuto.
• Reka umwana ahitemo ibyo kurya, ingano, n'igihe azarya.
• Ingaruka zo kubyimba, nko kunywa ibiryo bishyushye, imizabibu yose, imboga mbisi, imbuto z'ubunyobwa, imbuto zikomeye, cyangwa bomboIrinde kubitanga. Ni byiza ko ubikatamo uduce duto hanyuma ukabiteka neza.

Reka dufashe umwana muto kwiga.

• Abana bato biga neza iyo bakorana n'abandi kandi bagasuzuma ibidukikije . Shaka umwanya buri munsi wo kuganira, gusoma ibitabo, kuririmba indirimbo, no gukina n'umwana wawe.
• Gabanya igihe umwana wawe amara kuri televiziyo, mudasobwa, telefoni, tableti - kitarenze isaha imwe ku munsi. Hitamo porogaramu nziza kandi nziza zo kureba hamwe n'umwana wawe. Kuganira kuri videwo ni byiza, kuko bimufasha kubona abavandimwe bari kure.
• Tegura ahantu ho gukinira hatekanye. Nanone, ha umwana wawe umwanya uhagije wo gushakisha ibidukikije no kwiruka hirya no hino (gukina umukino urimo gukorwa).

Reka dutekereze kandi ku kwita ku buzima n'umutekano bya buri munsi.

• Reba ibimenyetso bigaragaza ko umwana wawe yiteguye gutangira kwitoza kubyara . Urugero, kugaragaza ko ashishikajwe n'ubwiherero, gufata igihe kirekire kumisha agatambaro ke, gukura ipantaro ye hejuru no hasi, nibindi. Zana intebe nto y'ipantaro hanyuma ujyane umwana wawe iyo ugiye mu bwiherero.
• Koza amenyo y'umwana wawe ukoresheje uburoso bworoshye n'umuti wo koza amenyo ungana n'ingano y'ibinyampeke . Niba utarabikora, teganya gahunda yo kubonana n'umuganga w'amenyo. Kugira ngo wirinde kwangirika kw'amenyo, muganga wawe cyangwa umuganga w'amenyo ashobora gusiga varnish ifite fluoride ku menyo y'umwana wawe inshuro 2-4 mu mwaka.
• Abana bato bari muri iki kigero barimo gushaka ubwigenge kandi barimo kugerageza imipaka wishyiriyeho. Bityo rero ni ngombwa gushyiraho amategeko amwe atunganye kandi ahoraho.
• Kurakara bikunze kugaragara muri iki gihe. Bishobora kuba bibi cyane cyane iyo ushonje cyangwa unaniwe. Gerageza kubihagarika mbere yuko bibaho - subiza umwana wawe inyuma cyangwa umukure ku kintu kimutera kwiheba.
• Ntugakubite umwana wawe. Abana bato ntibasobanukiwe isano iri hagati yo gukubita no kwitwara nabi ugerageza gukosora. Ushobora gukoresha "igihe gito cyo kuruhuka" kugira ngo uhane umwana wawe.
• Shyiraho gahunda ituje yo kuryama . Niba akangutse nijoro adashobora kongera gusinzira, muhumurize ko uriho, ariko ikiganiro kigufi cyane.
• Shyira umwana wawe mu ntebe y'inyuma y'imodoka mu mwanya werekeza inyuma kugeza igihe agereye ku buremere cyangwa uburebure busabwa n'uruganda rukora intebe z'imodoka.
• Siga SPF 30 ku ruhu rw'umwana wawe nibura iminota 15 mbere yo kujya gukina hanze.Siga amavuta yo kwisiga ku zuba hamwe na SPF ya 30 cyangwa irenga. Ongera ushyiremo buri masaha 2.
• Rinda umwana wawe umwotsi w'itabi unywa. Byongera ibyago byo kurwara indwara z'umutima n'iz'ibihaha. Umwotsi uva mu itabi ry'ikoranabuhanga na wo ni mubi.
• Hindura urugo rwawe ahantu hatekanye ku mwana wawe ufite amatsiko ushaka gukora kuri buri kintu cyose:
• Bika ahantu umwana ashobora kwangirika; imigozi; ibintu bishyushye, bityaye kandi byoroshye; n'ibintu by'uburozi (imiti, imiti yo mu rugo, nibindi) kure y'umwana.
• Shyira nimero za telefoni zihutirwa hafi yawe. Andika nimero y'Ikigo cy'Igihugu gishinzwe kurwanya uburozi (0112686143) .
• Koresha amarembo y'umutekano . Reba neza umwana wawe ku madarajya.
• Kugira ngo wirinde kurohama, funga imiryango y'ubwiherero, funga umupfundikizo w'intebe y'ubwiherero, kandi buri gihe ukurikiranire umwana wawe ahantu hose hari amazi (ndetse no mu gihe woga).
• Kugira ngo urinde umwana wawe ibikomere by'imbunda, ntubike imbunda mu nzu. Nubikora, komeza uyifunze, nta masasu arimo. Ugomba gufunga amasasu ukwayo. Ugomba gufunga imfunguzo kure y'abana bato.

Ibintu by'ingenzi cyane ugomba kwibuka (Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo)

Yego, rero gusura umwana w'amezi 18 kwa muganga ni ingenzi cyane. Biguha wowe na muganga wawe ishusho isobanutse y'ubuzima bw'umwana wawe, imikurire ye, n'imikurire ye . Wibuke ko iki gihe ari igihe abana bato biga ibintu bishya vuba kandi bagakunda gusura ibidukikije. Kubwibyo, ni ingenzi cyane kubakorera ahantu hatekanye kandi harangwa n'urukundo, kubagaburira ibiryo bifite intungamubiri, gukina na bo no kuganira na bo .

Niba ufite gushidikanya cyangwa ikibazo, ntugatinye kubaza muganga wawe. Ni byiza kumubwira ibitekerezo byawe.

Kugeza igihe umwana wawe azasuzumirwa ubutaha, ari na cyo kizamara imyaka 2, komeza witondere ibintu byavuzwe haruguru. Mwebwe n'umwana wanyu mugire amahirwe masa mu gihe kizaza cyiza!

Imikurire y'umwana , isuzuma ry'amezi 18, ubuzima bw'umwana, intambwe z'iterambere mu mikurire ye, inkingo, imirire myiza, umutekano w'umwana, (Gusura umwana mu gihe cy'amezi 18)