Xa ugqirha wakho ekuxelela ukuba unomhlaza webele, usenokuziva usoyika, wothukile, kwaye ulusizi. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Usenokuba nemibuzo emininzi efana nokuthi, "Kutheni oku kwenzeke kum?" kunye nokuthi "Ndenze ntoni ngoku?" Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa kulo mlo. Kukho oogqirha abanetalente kunye namaqela ezempilo ukukunceda nokukukhokela kolu hambo. Inyathelo lokuqala nelibaluleke kakhulu kolu hambo kukudibana nogqirha ogxile kumhlaza, okanye oko sikubiza ngokuba yi-"Oncologist." Ngoko ke, namhlanje siza kuthetha ngendlela yokujongana nale ntlanganiso yokuqala ibalulekileyo, into onokuyilindela, kunye nendlela yokulungiselela ngcono.
Kwenzeka ntoni kwintlanganiso yokuqala?
Ngosuku lokuqala odibana ngalo nogqirha wakho we-oncologist, uza kukuchazela ngokucacileyo imeko yakho. Mhlawumbi uza kufumana iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakho emininzi ngaloo mini. Izinto eziphambili eziza kuxoxwa ngazo zezi:
- Uhlobo lomhlaza wakho: Ugqirha uza kukuchazela ukuba loluphi uhlobo lomhlaza webele onalo, apho ukhoyo, nokuba usasazeke na.
- Iindlela zonyango: Baza kuxoxa nawe ngeendlela zonyango ezifanelekileyo kwimeko yakho. Oku kuthetha ukuthetha ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo ezifana notyando, i-chemotherapy , kunye ne-radiotherapy.
- Imbono: Oku kuthetha ukuba ugqirha wakho unokuthetha ngamathuba akho okuchacha okanye okulawula isifo sakho (`Ukuxela kwangaphambili`). Le yinto eyahluka ukusuka kumntu ukuya komnye. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezichaphazela esi sifo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukumamela ngononophelo yonke into ethethwa ngugqirha. Ukuba kukho into ongayiqondiyo, ungoyiki ukubuza kwakhona. Eli lixesha lokwenza izigqibo ngobomi bakho.
Nazi izinto eziphambili ezichaphazela amathuba akho okubuyela esimeni:
- Inqanaba kunye neBanga loMhlaza: Ngamafutshane, ubungakanani bomhlaza , nokuba usasazeke na kwamanye amalungu omzimba (Inqanaba), kunye nokubonakala kunye nesantya sokukhula kweeseli zomhlaza (Ibanga).
- Impilo yakho iyonke: Nokuba unezinye izifo, ezifana nesifo seswekile kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu.
- iminyaka yakho.
- Indlela umzimba wakho osabela ngayo kunyango .
Wonke umntu wahlukile. Izibalo ezikwi-intanethi zisekelwe kwidatha evela kumawaka ezigulane. Ngoko ke ungoyiki ngabo. Ngugqirha wakho kuphela onokukunika umbono ongcono ngemeko yakho.
Silungiselela njani le ntlanganiso?
Ukuze ufumane okuninzi kule ntlanganiso ibalulekileyo, licebo elihle ukuza ulungiselele. Kuya kukunceda wenze yonke into ngendlela eyiyo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba ungaza nezi zinto nawe.
| Oko ufanele ukuphathe | Kutheni kunjalo? (Ukubaluleka) |
|---|---|
| Imbali yakho yezonyango | Ukuba nembali yotyando lwakho lwangaphambili, ezinye izifo, kunye namanyathelo owathathayo ukususela ngomhla owaqala ngawo iimpawu zakho (oogqirha obabonileyo, iimvavanyo owakha wazenza) malunga nomhlaza webele kunokunceda ugqirha wakho ukuba abe nomfanekiso opheleleyo ngawe. |
| Zonke iirekhodi zakho zonyango | Thatha iikopi zazo zonke iiskeni zakho (ii-X-ray, ii-CT scans, ii-MRIs), iingxelo ze-biopsy, njl. Ezi zibalulekile ukuze ugqirha ayiqonde ngokuchanekileyo imeko yakho. |
| Onke amayeza owathathayo | Kungcono ukuphatha uluhlu lwazo zonke iipilisi, iipakethi, kunye neebhotile zamayeza owaselayo. Oku kuquka amayeza athengiswa ngaphandle kwemvume kagqirha, iivithamini, kunye nezongezo. Oku kuya kunceda ugqirha wakho ukuba ajonge idosi yakho aze abone ukuba kukho naziphi na iingxaki ngamayeza amatsha. |
| Incwadi yokubhalela okanye ifowuni | Usenokungakhumbuli kwangoko yonke into ethethwa ngugqirha, ingakumbi amagama ezonyango kunye neenkcukacha malunga nonyango. Ngoko ke yiza nencwadi yokubhala kunye nepeni ukuze uzibhale phantsi. |
| Ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo | Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Musa ukuhamba wedwa. Hamba nomyeni, umfazi, umntwana, okanye umhlobo othembekileyo. Loo mntu unokumamela oko kuthethwa ngugqirha, akukhumbuze ukuba uyalibala, aze abe ngamandla akho engqondo ngeli xesha linzima. |
Imibuzo ebalulekileyo omele uyibuze ugqirha wakho
Okukhona usazi ngakumbi ngesigulo sakho, kokukhona kuya kuba lula kuwe ukumelana naso. Ngoko ke, bhala phantsi imibuzo onayo engqondweni kwangaphambili. Emva koko awuyi kuyilibala xa usoyika. Nazi ezinye zemibuzo ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyibuze.
| Umbuzo omele uwubuze | Kutheni lo mbuzo ubalulekile? |
|---|---|
| "Luhlobo luni lomhlaza webele endinalo kanye kanye?" | Ukuqonda imeko yakho yempilo ngokuchanekileyo. |
| "Uphi umhlaza? Ingaba usasazeke nakwezinye iindawo?" | Ukwazi ukusasazeka kunye nobunzima (inqanaba) lesi sifo. |
| "Lithetha ukuthini 'inqanaba' lalo mhlaza?" | Ukuqonda indlela yokucwangcisa unyango kunye nohlobo lwesifo. |
| "Zeziphi iindlela zonyango endinazo? Luluphi unyango olucebisayo?" | Ukuthatha inxaxheba ngokukhutheleyo ekwenzeni izigqibo malunga nonyango lwakho. |
| "Ndifanele ndiqale unyango nini?" | Ukuqonda ixesha kunye nokungxamiseka konyango. |
| "Zithini iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga kunye neengozi zonyango ngalunye?" | Ukuzilungiselela ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. |
| "Unyango luza kuyichaphazela njani ubomi bam bemihla ngemihla (umsebenzi, imisebenzi yasekhaya)?" | Ukulawula ubomi bakho nokwenza utshintsho olufunekayo. |
| "Ndingangena kwisilingo seklinikhi?" | Ukuze ufunde ngeendlela zonyango zamva nje neziphucukileyo ezikhoyo. |
| "Zeziphi iinkonzo zenkxaso ezikhoyo ezindinceda ndiphile nesi sifo?" | Ukufumana uncedo lwengqondo kunye nolunye uncedo. |
| "Ngubani ekufuneka ndithethe naye xa ndinengxaki?" | Ukunxibelelana nomntu ofanelekileyo xa kukho ingxaki okanye xa kuvela ukurhanelwa. |
Musa ukuziva ngathi kufuneka ubuze yonke le mibuzo ngaxeshanye. Buza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe kuqala. Thetha ngokukhululekileyo nogqirha wakho. Mxelele zonke izinto oza kukoyika kunye namathandabuzo akho. Khumbula, le yimfazwe yakho, kodwa uneqela lezonyango eliza kukunceda.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Usuku lokuqala lokubonana nogqirha wakho we-oncologist lubaluleke kakhulu. Ukulungiselela kakuhle kuya kukunceda uqonde kakuhle imeko yakho kunye nonyango lwakho.
- Zisa zonke iirekhodi zakho zonyango, amayeza owasebenzisayo (kunye neepakethi/iibhotile zamayeza), kunye noluhlu lwemibuzo ofuna ukuyazi.
- Musa ukuhamba wedwa. Ukuhamba nelungu losapho okanye umhlobo othembekileyo kuya kukunika intuthuzelo nenkxaso enkulu.
- Musa ukumfihlela ugqirha wakho nantoni na. Vulela yonke imibuzo yakho kunye noloyiko lwakho. Ukufumana ulwazi olufanelekileyo linyathelo lokuqala lokujongana nesi sifo.
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