Kule mihla, ngenxa yeendleko zokuphila, kuye kwaqheleka ukuba abazali bobabini baye emsebenzini. Ngoko ke xa oko kusenzeka, ukunyamekela umntwana omncinci ekhaya ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Abanye abazali abanethamsanqa bafumana uncedo kootatomkhulu noomakhulu. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu onethuba elo. Ngoko ke, isisombululo esilungileyo kubantu abaninzi ngamaxesha anjalo kukunikela umntwana wabo kwiziko lokugcina abantwana , okanye njengoko sonke sisazi, 'i-Day Care' . Kodwa xa unikela umntwana wakho kwindawo engaziwayo ukuba anakekelwe njengamehlo akho omabini, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba izinto ezininzi zifike engqondweni, kwaye ungaziva usoyika kwaye ukrokrela. Ngoko ke, ukuba ucinga ngento efana nale, masithethe ngale nto ngokucacileyo namhlanje.
Yintoni iziko lokunyamekela abantwana emini?
Ngamafutshane, iziko lokugcina abantwana liziko elinyamekela abantwana abancinci ngelixa abazali babo besemsebenzini. La ngamashishini adla ngokuba ngamashishini aqhutywa kwisakhiwo esahlukileyo. Apha, abantwana bahlulwe ngokwamaqela ngokweminyaka yabo. Oko kuthetha ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka eli-1 ukuya kwemi-2 ubudala kwindawo enye, kunye nabantwana abaneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwemi-3 kwenye. Konke oku kuqhutywa ngumlawuli kunye nabasebenzi abambalwa abaqeqeshiweyo.
ESri Lanka, amaziko anjalo kufuneka abhaliswe kurhulumente kwaye asebenze phantsi kwemithetho nemigaqo ethile. Kukho imigangatho yezinto ezifana nokhuseleko lwabantwana, ucoceko, kunye nendawo. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ayizizo zonke iindawo ezisebenza ngokwemigangatho. Ke ngoko, njengabazali, kubalulekile ukuba siphande kakuhle ngale ndawo ngaphambi kokuba sinike umntwana wethu kuyo.
Ziziphi iintlobo zeendawo zokugcina abantwana ezifumanekayo?
Nangona sithi 'i-Day Care', kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokunyamekela abantwana. Ayizizo zonke iintsapho ezifanelekileyo kwindlela efanayo. Kufuneka ukhethe eyona ilungileyo ngokusekwe kwiimfuno zakho kunye nohlobo lomntwana wakho. Makhe sijonge iintlobo eziphambili.
| Indlela yokhathalelo | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Unyango oluseziko | Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-'Day Care' okanye 'Preschool'. Kwisakhiwo esahlukileyo, iqela elikhulu labantwana likhathalelwa ngaxeshanye. Umsebenzi uqala ngexesha elimiselweyo kwaye uphela ngexesha elimiselweyo. Ngokwesiqhelo ubhaliswa kwaye usebenza ngokwemigaqo nemigaqo. |
| Ukhathalelo losapho/lwasekhaya | Oku kubandakanya omnye umntu onyamekela abantwana abaninzi ekhayeni lakhe. Le nkqubo ixhaphake kakhulu eSri Lanka. Ekubeni abantwana bebambalwa, umntwana unokufumana ingqalelo engakumbi. Kodwa nalapha, kufuneka silumke ngakumbi malunga nokhuseleko kunye nokucoceka kwendawo. |
| Ukhathalelo lwasekhaya | Oku kuthetha ukuba sizisa 'umnakekeli womntwana' okanye 'umnakekeli' ekhayeni lethu. Le yindlela entle yokugcina umntwana ekhayeni lakhe, kwindawo ayiqhelileyo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunokuba kubiza kakhulu. Kwakhona, ukufumana umntu othembekileyo kuyingxaki. |
Zithini iingenelo zokunakekelwa kakuhle emini?
Kukho iingenelo ezininzi zokuthumela umntwana wakho kwiziko lokunyamekela abantwana elilungileyo nelisemgangathweni.
- Ukuphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo: Umntwana ufunda ukudlala, ukwabelana, nokusebenza njengeqela nabanye abahlobo abaninzi abaneminyaka efanayo. Oku kukhuthaza kakhulu izakhono zentlalo zomntwana.
- Amathuba okufunda ngokusesikweni: Ngabasebenzi abaqeqeshwe kweli candelo, imisebenzi, izinto zokudlala, kunye neenkqubo ezifanelekileyo ngokweminyaka kunye noncedo ngophuhliso lobuchopho ziyaphunyezwa.
- Uzinzo nokuthembeka: Olu hlobo lweziko ludla ngokuvulwa unyaka wonke (ngaphandle kweeholide ezicwangcisiweyo). Nokuba abasebenzi bayagula, kukho omnye umntu oza kuthatha indawo yabo, ukuze abazali abasebenzayo benze umsebenzi wabo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
- Iinkonzo ezongezelelweyo: Ezinye iindawo ezilungileyo zibonelela ngeeklasi zomculo, ubugcisa, njl. Zikwabonelela ngovavanyo lwempilo .
Ngokukodwa, uphando luye lwaqinisekisa nokuba iziko lokugcina abantwana elisemgangathweni linceda ekuphuhliseni izakhono zolwimi zomntwana, izakhono zokuqonda, kunye nokukwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhle nabanye.
Ngaba kukho iingenelo kunye neengxaki?
Ewe, ewe. Njengamacala omabini engqekembe, le ndlela inokuba neengenelo kunye neengxaki. Ixhomekeke kakhulu kumgangatho weziko olikhethileyo.
| Iingcali | Iingxaki |
|---|---|
| Ilungele abazali abasebenza ngexesha leeyure zeofisi eziqhelekileyo (8am - 5pm). | Kunzima ukufumana indawo efanelekileyo kwabo basebenza ngokutshintshana kunye nabo basebenza ngeempelaveki. |
| Ukuba nendawo esesikweni nehlelekileyo. | Uninzi lwexesha, kufuneka uhlawulele inani elithile leeyure (umz., ngosuku). Awunalo ukhetho lokukhetha inani leeyure ozifunayo. |
| Kukho imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo kunye namathuba okufunda. | Ngenxa yabantwana abaninzi kangaka, umlinganiselo wengqwalasela yobuqu efunyanwa ngumntwana ngamnye usenokuba mncinci. Kusenokungabi lula ngamaxesha onke ukunikel’ ingqalelo kwizinto anomdla kuzo umntwana kunye nemikhwa yakhe. |
| Ukuthembeka nokuzinza. | Ukuba abasebenzi batshintsha rhoqo, umntwana usenokuqhelana nomntu omnye aze akhe ubuhlobo, kodwa loo mntu akasekho. |
Isilumkiso esibalulekileyo: Amaziko okugcina abantwana angaphantsi komgangatho anokwenza umonakalo omkhulu kunokuba ancede umntwana wakho. Iindawo ezinjalo zinokubangela ukuba izakhono zolwimi zingabi semgangathweni, iingxaki zokuziphatha , kunye nokungakulungeli ukuya esikolweni.
Ungayikhetha njani indawo yokunyamekela abantwana efanelekileyo emini?
Kulungile, ngoku unokuqonda okungcono. Ngoko ke singayikhetha njani indawo efanelekileyo yomntwana wethu? Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda.
1. Ngokuqinisekileyo hamba uye kubona: Musa ukwenza isigqibo ngokusekelwe kwinto ethethwa ngumntu. Zibekele usuku uze uye kuloo ndawo ngokwakho. Jonga indlela oziva ngayo, ucoceko, kunye nocwangco xa ungena.
2. Jonga iimpelesi:Nikela ingqalelo kwindlela abasebenzi apho abathetha ngayo nabantwana kwaye babaphatha ngayo. Ngaba banobubele kwaye banobuhlobo? Basabela njani xa umntwana ekhala? Ezi zinto zibaluleke kakhulu.
3. Buza malunga nokubhalisa: Musa ukoyika ukubuza imibuzo efana nale, "Ngaba le yindawo ebhalisiweyo ngurhulumente?", "Ngaba abasebenzi bakho banalo naluphi na uqeqesho ekunyamekeleni abantwana?"
4. Buza abanye abazali: Ukuba kunokwenzeka, thetha nabanye abazali abambalwa abasele bethumela abantwana babo kuloo ndawo. Amava abo aya kuba luncedo kuwe.
5. Cinga ngeemfuno zakho: Thelekisa izinto ezifana nohlobo lomsebenzi wakho, iiyure zakho ezikhoyo, kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwakho, kwaye ukhethe indawo ekufaneleyo wena nomntwana wakho.
Ukuba unomntwana oneemfuno ezizodwa...
Ukuba umntwana wakho unezidingo ezikhethekileyo, kufuneka ucinge kabini ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe indawo. Ukwandisa inani leeyure umntwana wakho azichitha kwindawo yokugcina abantwana akuyi kuyiphucula indlela akhula ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, kungcono ukunika umntwana wakho ixesha lokufunda ukulawula indlela aziphatha ngayo ekhaya ade abe nonyaka omnye ubudala. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungcono ukuthetha nogqirha wabantwana ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo.
Okokugqibela, kukho into ebaluleke ngaphezu kwako konke oku.
Khumbula, nokuba umntwana wakho uya kwi-daycare okanye akahambi, eyona nto ibalulekileyo echaphazela uphuhliso lomntwana yimeko yasekhaya. Uthando nenkathalo kamama notata, ixesha abalichitha nabo, kunye neencoko abanazo zibaluleke ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukukhetha iziko lokugcina abantwana emini lomntwana wakho sisigqibo esibalulekileyo osenzayo njengomzali. Ngoko ke, musa ukungxama, phanda ngononophelo uze wenze isigqibo.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe indawo, qiniseka ukuba uyityelela le ndawo kwaye uyijonge ngamehlo akho, indlela abasebenzi abaziphethe ngayo, kunye nokucoceka kwayo.
- Qinisekisa ukuba indawo oyikhethileyo ibhalisiwe kurhulumente kwaye abasebenzi baneziqinisekiso noqeqesho olufunekayo.
- Nangona iziko lokunyamekela abantwana elisemgangathweni ophezulu linezibonelelo ezininzi ekukhuleni komntwana, iziko elikumgangatho ophantsi linokumenzakalisa umntwana.
- Nokuba umntwana wakho uya kwi-daycare okanye akayenzi, ungaze ulibale ukuba uthando, inkathalo, kunye nemeko-bume yasekhaya oyinikayo inefuthe elikhulu ekukhuleni nasekuphuhliseni komntwana wakho.
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