Ngaba wakha waphawula ukuba umntwana wakho ngamanye amaxesha wenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunabanye abantwana? Mhlawumbi uyathandabuza ukwenza abahlobo abatsha, okanye mhlawumbi unengxaki yokuqonda imbonakalo yobuso babanye abantu. Okanye mhlawumbi uthetha ngento yokudlala efanayo okanye ngesihloko esifanayo (ezifana needayinaso, oololiwe, imidlalo yekhompyutha) ngomdla omkhulu nangokungapheliyo. Njengomzali, kuqhelekile ukuba uzive usoyika kancinci, ukhathazekile, kwaye udidekile xa ubona ezi zinto. "Kutheni umntwana wam ekuphela kwakhe onje?" Usenokuba uzibuza. Ngoko ke, namhlanje siza kuthetha ngemeko ebizwa ngokuba yi -Asperger's Syndrome , enokubonisa ezi mpawu, kodwa abantu abaninzi abazi ngayo.
Yintoni kanye kanye i-Asperger's?
Ngamafutshane, i-Asperger's Syndrome yimeko ewela phantsi koluhlu olubanzi lweengxaki ze -autism spectrum . Ngokwezonyango, siyibiza ngokuba yi -Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Nangona i-Asperger's yayithathwa njengemeko eyahlukileyo ngaphambili, ukusukela ngo-2013 ikwahlulwe phantsi kwesambulela esikhulu se-ASD.
Ibizwa ngokuba yi-"spectrum" ngesizathu esithile. Cinga ngomnyama. Kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo zemibala, kodwa awukwazi ukubona ngqo apho umbala omnye uphela khona kwaye omnye uqala khona, akunjalo? Kunjalo nange-ASD. Asinguye wonke umntu onesi sifo ofanayo. Abanye abantu baneempawu ezincinci kakhulu, ngelixa abanye benezinye ezingaphezulu.
Kodwa into ekhethekileyo nge-Asperger's kukuba luhlobo oluncinci lwe-ASD spectrum. Aba bantwana badla ngokungabonisi ukulibaziseka kulwimi okanye kwizakhono zengqondo. Enyanisweni, ngamanye amaxesha inqanaba labo lobukrelekrele linokuba phezulu kunomndilili. Yiyo loo nto abanye abantu bebona lo mntwana njengomntwana oqhelekileyo oziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo kancinci (umntwana oqhelekileyo we-Neurotypical ).
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzazi ezi mpawu, kuba emva koko singamnika umntwana inkxaso nonyango aludingayo ngokukhawuleza.
Zithini iimpawu zesifo sika-Asperger?
I-Asperger's syndrome izibonakalisa ngokwahlukileyo kumntu ngamnye. Kodwa kukho iimpawu ezifanayo. Abantwana abanale meko banezakhono ezikhethekileyo kwezinye izinto, kwaye bajongene nemingeni nakwezinye izinto. Makhe sijonge zombini.
| Amandla aKhethekileyo kunye namandla (Iimpahla ezinokubakho) | Ubunzima kunye nemingeni enokubakho |
|---|---|
| Amandla amangalisayo okugxila kwinto enye kunye nokunyamezela. | Uvakalelo oluphezulu ekukhanyeni, ingxolo enkulu, iincasa ezithile kunye namavumba athile. |
| Ukuba nezakhono ezibalaseleyo ekuqondeni iipateni ezahlukeneyo. | Ubunzima bokuqonda nokulandela indlela ethethwa ngayo incoko. |
| Ukunika ingqalelo engakumbi nakwiinkcukacha ezincinci zento. | Ubunzima bokuqonda izakhono zonxibelelwano ezingezizo ezomlomo ezifana neentshukumo zomzimba kunye nembonakalo yobuso. |
| Ukuba nolwazi olunzulu kunye nenkumbulo malunga nento ethile enomdla kuyo. | Ukudibana kwamehlo akuvumelekanga okanye akukhululeki xa uthetha. |
| Ngokubanzi ithembekile kakhulu kwaye icacile . | Ukulibaziseka okuncinci okanye ukungakhathali kwizakhono zokuqhuba. |
| Ukuzimisela ukusebenza ngokwenkqubo nemithetho ebekiweyo . | Kunokwenzeka ukuba ube neengxaki ezifana nokuxhalaba kunye nokudakumba. |
Izinto onomdla kuzo kunye nemikhwa ethile
Aba bantwana banokuba nomdla ongaqhelekanga kwisifundo esinye, esifana nendawo, imbali, okanye umdlalo wevidiyo. Baza kuthetha ngayo kangangeeyure ezininzi. Bakwanobuthathaka kakhulu kutshintsho lwesiqhelo.Abathandi ukutshintsha yonke into abayenzayo. Bathanda ukuya esikolweni ngendlela efanayo yonke imihla, batye ukutya okufanayo, baze basebenze ngexesha elinye. Le ndlela ivakala ngathi ikhuselekile kubo. Banokucaphuka kakhulu xa itshintsha.
Ndingalufumana njani unyango kunye nenkxaso koku?
Ukuba unesikrokro sokuba umntwana wakho unale mpawu, eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukungaxhalabi uze uthethe nogqirha wezifo zengqondo ngayo.
Ukuchonga le meko kwangethuba kubalulekile kwikamva lomntwana. Abantwana abafumana inkxaso efunekayo kwasebuntwaneni banethuba elingcono kakhulu lokuphumelela esikolweni kwaye kamva ebomini babe ngabafundi abazimeleyo.
Xa ubona ugqirha wakho wosapho (GP), uza kukuthumela kwingcali, njengogqirha wabantwana, ugqirha wengqondo, okanye ugqirha wengqondo .
Ngenxa yokuba wonke umntwana one-Asperger's wahlukile, isicwangciso sonyango siya kwahluka ukusuka komnye umntwana ukuya komnye. Unyango lulungiselelwe iimfuno zomntwana. Oku kunokubandakanya olunye okanye ngaphezulu konyango olulandelayo:
- Uqeqesho lwezakhono zentlalo: Uqeqesho malunga nendlela yokuthetha nabanye, ukwenza abahlobo, nokusebenza njengeqela.
- Unyango Lokuziphatha Oluqondayo (i-CBT): Oku kukunceda ufunde indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo ezifana noxinzelelo kunye nokukhungatheka kunye nokujongana neemeko ezinzima.
- Imfundo yabazali: Abazali bakhokelwa kwindlela yokuqonda nokunceda umntwana wabo ngcono.
- Unyango lwentetho nolwimi: Lunceda ukuphucula izinto ezifana nencoko yabantu ababini.
- Unyango Lomsebenzi: Lunceda ukulawula izinto ezifana nokunganyamezelani komzimba kwaye lwenze imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ibe lula.
- Amayeza: Kwezinye iimeko, ugqirha angakunika amayeza okulawula ezinye iimeko ezinxulumene noko, ezinje ngokuxhalaba okanye ukudakumba.
Icebiso elincinci kubazali
Ukunyamekela umntwana onje kunokuba ngumceli mngeni ngamanye amaxesha. Kufuna umonde, uthando, uqeqesho kunye nokuqonda okuninzi. Nazi ezinye zezinto ezinokukunceda:
- Musa ukumfihla umntwana wakho eluntwini okanye umkhusele ngokugqithisileyo. Mvumele ajongane neemeko zentlalo. Baza kwenza iimpazamo baze bazive bengakhululekanga, kodwa baza kufunda kuzo.
- Xabisa ubuchule babo, izinto abanomdla kuzo, amahlaya abo, kunye namandla abo. Vuyani ngeempawu ezibenza bahluke kwabanye, ezibenza babe ngabakhethekileyo.
- Endaweni yokohlwaya ngoko nangoko xa kuvela ingxaki, zama ukuyithomalalisa loo meko. Zama ukuqonda isizathu sokuba umntwana akhathazeke.
- Nika impendulo eyakhayo nanini na xa kunokwenzeka. Xa enze into elungileyo okanye eziphatha kakuhle, mxelele. Oku kuya kumnika amandla amaninzi okwenza ezo zinto kwakhona.
- Sebenzisana nomntwana wakho ukuze uphuhlise izakhono zonxibelelwano. Mfundise izinto ezifana nendlela yokuthetha nendlela yokuqonda izinto ngokusebenzisa izimbo zomzimba (unxibelelwano olungenalo ilizwi) ngendlela elula nenothando.
Olu hambo akuyonto ufanele uyihambe wedwa. Kukho abantu abanokukunceda baze bakuxhase. Ungathetha nogqirha wakho uze ufumane ulwazi ngamaqela enkxaso yabazali okanye ezinye izixhobo ezikhoyo eSri Lanka. Ukuqonda yeyona nto inamandla amakhulu.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- I-Asperger's Syndrome luhlobo oluncinci lwe-autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Ayisiyongxaki yokukhubazeka kwengqondo okanye isifo sengqondo.
- Iimpawu eziphambili yimingeni kubudlelwane bezentlalo kunye nomdla onzulu nonzulu kwisifundo esithile.
- Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho unale mpawu, kubalulekile ukufuna ingcebiso kagqirha ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. Ukufunyaniswa kwangoko kukhokelela kwithuba elingcono lokuphumelela kumntwana wakho.
- Unyango luyinzame yeqela edibanisa uqeqesho lwezakhono zentlalo, unyango lokuziphatha kwengqondo (CBT), kunye nenkxaso yabazali.
- Xabisa umahluko womntwana wakho kunye nezakhono zakhe ezikhethekileyo. Mxhase ngomonde, uthando, nokuqonda.
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