Akukho mntu uthanda ukuba nomhlaza. Ukuva nje elo gama kwenza umzimba wakho ungabi namandla kwaye uzive uloyiko olukhulu. Liyingxaki enkulu ebomini bakho. Ukususela kumhla ugqirha akuxelela ukuba unomhlaza, ubomi bakho bonke buyaguquka ngenxa yonyango. Luhambo olunzima kakhulu nolubuhlungu. Kodwa… emva kokuba konke oku kuphelile, kwaye uphumelele elo dabi likhulu kwaye wavuka, ungonwaba kakhulu ngezinye zezinto ezitshintshileyo ngaphakathi kuwe. Sibone abantu abasindileyo kumhlaza befumana amandla amatsha kunye nenjongo entsha ebomini.
Amandla angaqhelekanga owafumanayo emva komhlaza
Ukulwa nomhlaza akulula. Kufana nokunyuka intaba wedwa. Endleleni, uzifumana. Ufunda ukuba unamandla kangakanani kwaye unokukwazi ukumelana kangakanani.
UVicky Davis, osindileyo kumhlaza webele othethe ne-American Cancer Society, uthe umhlaza wamenza womelela ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Waqonda ukuba yintoni awayenokuyinyamezela ngexesha lonyango lwakhe. Ngalo mandla, waqalisa iqela lenkxaso ukunceda abanye abafazi abanomhlaza webele . Yayiyindawo apho abantu ababenamava afanayo babenokuhlangana khona baze babelane ngeengxaki zabo kunye nemingeni yabo, kwaye bakhuthazane.
Kukho elinye ibali elimnandi. UDeborah Spitalnik kunye nentombi yakhe uMolly Weingart bobabini babenomhlaza webele. Emva kokuba bobabini boyisile umhlaza baze baphila, banikwa ithuba lokujongana nomngeni abangazange bawucinge ebomini babo. Oko yayikukuthatha inxaxheba kwiVeki yeFashoni njengeemodeli. Kwaye kwakungengomboniso nje kuphela. Babeyimodeli yengqokelela yeempahla zangaphantsi ezenzelwe ngokukodwa abafazi ababejongene notshintsho emizimbeni yabo emva kotyando lomhlaza webele. Nangona bobabini babesoyika kancinci ekuqaleni, balwamkela olu celomngeni. Bathi amava ongezelelweyo amandla nexabiso elikhulu kubo, kunye nabanye abafazi ababukele umboniso kwaye babe namava afanayo.
Ukuba ulwe nomhlaza waza wasinda, unako ukwenza okungaphezulu kunokuba ucinga. Eso sesona sifundo sibalulekileyo oza kusifunda.
Imbono entsha ngobomi
Emva kokulwa nomhlaza nokuphola kuwo, izinto ezazibonakala ngathi ziingxaki ezinkulu kunye neengozi ezinkulu zisenokungabonakali zinkulu kuwe. Kuba ujongene nomngeni omkhulu ebomini bakho.
Kwaye uqala ukuqonda ukuba akukho sizathu sivakalayo sokulibazisa amaphupha akho okanye umsebenzi wakho . Ngoku uyazi ukuba ubomi bakho bunokutshintsha kangakanani kwimizuzwana embalwa xa ugqirha ekuxelela ukuba, “Unomhlaza.” Ngoko ke unokucinga ukuba namhlanje lolona suku lulungileyo lokuyisebenzisa kakuhle kwaye uqale ukusebenza ukuze amaphupha akho azaliseke.
Njengoko ugqiba unyango lwakho kwaye uqala ukuziva ungcono, jonga kwakhona uluhlu lwakho lweenjongo zobomi. Mhlawumbi ubusoloko ufuna ukuziqeqesha ukuze ubaleke i-marathon? Okanye mhlawumbi ubufuna ukuzama i-stand-up comedy? Mhlawumbi ubufuna ukuzithandela ukunceda ukuphucula iinkqubo zikarhulumente zezigulane ezinomhlaza . Khumbula, akukho suku lungcono kunanamhlanje lokuzama izinto ezintsha nezimangalisayo.
Ngoko ke, masenze ntoni ngoku? Masithathe inyathelo elitsha?
Le nkalipho intsha emva komhlaza ayisiyonto oyigcina engqondweni yakho. Ingasetyenziswa. Ungaqala kancinci. Nazi ezinye zezinto onokuzama.
| Izinto ezintsha onokuzizama | Ikunceda njani loo nto? |
|---|---|
| Ukuzithandela | Sebenzisa amava akho ukunceda abanye. Zibandakanye esibhedlele, kwikhaya labantu abadala, okanye nakweyiphi na imisebenzi yentlalo oyithandayo. Oku kuya kukunika ulwaneliseko olukhulu lwengqondo. |
| Ukufunda Isakhono Esitsha | Funda into oyithandayo, njengolwimi, isixhobo somculo, umzobo, okanye ukubhaka. Oku kuya kuhlaziya ingqondo yakho kwaye kukhulise ukuzithemba kwakho kwizakhono zakho. |
| Ukomelela komzimba | Qala into efana neyoga, ukuhamba, okanye ukuthatha iklasi yokudanisa. Iya kuqinisa umzimba wakho kwaye yakhe impilo-ntle yakho yengqondo. Kodwa ungalibali ukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngaphambi kokuba uqale inkqubo entsha yokuzilolonga. |
| Ukuhamba | Yiya kwindawo entle eSri Lanka ongazange uye kuyo. Nokuba luhambo olufutshane luya kukuzisela inkululeko enkulu nolonwabo. Iindawo ezintsha, abantu abatsha baya kongeza amava amatsha ebomini bakho. |
AWUKHO wedwa.
Olu hambo lunokuba lodwa ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa. Usapho lwakho, abahlobo, ingakumbi ugqirha wakho banawe. Ngamanye amaxesha kunamandla amakhulu ukuba nomntu onokuthetha naye ngeemvakalelo zakho, uloyiko lwakho, kunye namathemba akho. Ngoko ke musa ukugcina iimvakalelo zakho zivaliwe, thetha nomntu omthembayo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ungafuna iingcebiso zengqondo . Buza ugqirha wakho ngayo.
Ubunesibindi sokulwa nomhlaza kwaye uphumelele. Oko kuthetha ukuba ngoku unesibindi sokujongana nayo nantoni na kweli hlabathi. Themba loo mandla. Yenza ubomi bakho bonke bube luhambo oluhle.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Nangona ukulwa nomhlaza kuyinto enzima kakhulu, ungafumana amandla engqondo kunye nesibindi esitsha emva kokuba uphilile kuwo.
- Ngoku uza kuziva unamandla okujongana nezinto obukade ucinga ukuba azinakwenzeka okanye ziyoyikisa.
- Musa ukuwalibazisa amaphupha akho ebomini. Ngoku uyazi ukuba ubomi bakho bunokutshintsha kangakanani ngamazwi athi, "Unomhlaza." Ngoko ke qala ukusebenza namhlanje.
- Sebenzisa la mandla akho amatsha ukuzama izinto ezintsha. Funda into entsha, yiya kwindawo entsha, uncede abanye.
- Ukuba unako ukoyisa umhlaza , ungenza nantoni na eyenye. Kholelwa kuwe.
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