Unomsebenzi obalulekileyo ekufuneka uwenze, kodwa ingqondo yakho ithi, "Owu... masiwenze kamva." Njengoko sele uza kuqalisa ukufundela uvavanyo, uthatha ifowuni yakho. Kukho umsebenzi eofisini, kodwa uqala ngobusuku bokugqibela. Lo mkhwa uvakala uqhelekile kuwe, akunjalo? Uninzi lwethu lucinga ukuba bubuvila nje. Kodwa eneneni, oku kulibazisa , okanye oko sikubiza ngesiNgesi, yingxaki enzulu yengqondo. Asikobuthathaka bobuntu, yinto enxulumene nendlela ingqondo yethu esebenza ngayo. Ke namhlanje, masithethe ngesizathu sokuba sizibazise, zithini izizathu zako, kwaye singawoyisa njani lo mkhwa.
Kutheni kukho izinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo phakathi koko kusengqondweni noko kwenziwa ngezandla?
Enye yeempawu eziphambili zokulibazisa yinto esiyibiza ngokuba yi-"Intention-Action Gap." Ngamafutshane, ngumsantsa ophakathi koko siceba ukukwenza noko sikwenzayo ngokwenene. Sifuna ukwenza into ethile, kodwa asiyenzi.
Khawucinge nje, uzimisele kakhulu ngokuhlwanje ukuvuka kusasa kusasa uze uzilolonge. Kodwa xa i-alamu ikhala kusasa, uyayimisa uze ulale kwakhona. Yiyo leyo `(Intention-Action Gap)`.
Oku kungaphezulu nje kokukruquka. Kuphenjelelwa kakhulu ziingcinga neemvakalelo zethu, oko kukuthi, iinkalo zethu '(zeNgqondo)' kunye 'nezeMvakalelo'.
- Ukungazithembi izakhono zethu: Xa sicinga ukuba, "Andiyi kukwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi kakuhle," siyakuphepha ukuwuqala.
- Ukoyika ukungaphumeleli: Abanye abantu abayiqali kwaphela iprojekthi kuba besoyika ukuba abanye baza kucinga ntoni xa bema phakathi.
- Ukufuna ukugqibelela : Abanye abantu bafuna ukwenza yonke into ngokuchanekileyo ngokupheleleyo, ngaphandle kweziphene. Xa bevakalelwa kukuba abayi kukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ukuya kuthi ga kweli nqanaba lokugqibelela, olo xinzelelo lubenza bahlehlise ukuqala umsebenzi.
Umntu onomkhuba wokulibazisa izinto unokuhlala ejongene neengxaki ezinje.
| Iimpawu zomntu ohlala ehlehlisa izinto | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Ubunzima bokugqiba umsebenzi | Ukuqala imisebenzi emininzi kodwa ndingakwazi ukuyigqiba ngokufanelekileyo. |
| Ukungxama okuphezulu | Isilingo sokwenza into eyonwabisayo (umz., ukujonga imidiya yoluntu) ngelixa usenza umsebenzi obalulekileyo. |
| Ukungazikhuzi Kakuhle | Ukungakwazi ukuzibekela imithetho ethile nokusebenza ngayo. |
Umngeni Wokusilela Ukuzilawula
Ukulibazisa kudla ngokubonwa njengokungakwazi ukuzibamba okanye "ukusilela ekuzilawuleni." Kodwa akukokuswela amandla okuzimisela okanye ubuchule. Le ngxaki ivela xa amanqanaba ethu oxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba ephezulu kunesiqhelo.
' Ukuzilawula' kuthetha nje ukukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zethu, iingcinga zethu, kunye nokuziphatha ngendlela ehambelana neenjongo zethu zexesha elide.
Umzekelo, ukufunda xa uviwo lusondela kunzima kwaye kuyadinisa. Ngelo xesha, ukubukela imuvi okanye ukuthetha nomhlobo kulula kakhulu kwaye kumnandi ngakumbi. Apha, 'ukuzilawula' kuthetha ukubeka ecaleni oko kukunika ulonwabo olukhawulezileyo nokugxila kumsebenzi onzima kodwa obalulekileyo wexesha elide wokufunda. Abantu abahlehlisayo abanalo olu buchule. Bagxila ngokulula koko kukunika ulonwabo olukhawulezileyo.
Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kwimfundo. Xa ukuzilawula kunye nokuzithemba kuncipha, ukuzibamba kuyaphazamiseka nangakumbi.
Iziphumo eziyingozi zokusukela ulwaneliseko olukhawulezileyo
Ingqondo yethu isoloko izama ukusigcina sonwabile. Ngoko ke, xa senza into enzima okanye ekruqulayo, ingqondo yethu isishukumisela ukuba senze into esenza sonwabe kwaye siphumle ngelo xesha. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-'(Behavioral Delay)'. Ngelo xesha, ubeka ecaleni umsebenzi obalulekileyo uze uthabathe ifowuni yakho, ujonge imidiya yoluntu , okanye umamele ingoma ufuna olu lonwabo lwexeshana.
Nangona oku kukuzisela uvuyo ngelo xesha, kwenzeka ntoni? Umsebenzi owuhlehlisayo usekhona. Ixesha ekufuneka uwugqibe liyancipha. Ekugqibeleni, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, kunye nexhala elibangelwa yiloo msebenzi ziyanda.
Oku kufana nomjikelo. Umsebenzi kunzima ukuwenza, ngoko ke uyalibazisa -> kuba uyalibazisa, uphelelwa lixesha kwaye uxinzelelo luyanda -> kuba uxinzelelo luyanda, umsebenzi uba nzima nangakumbi ukuwenza -> ngoko ke uyalibazisa kwakhona.
Ukuze uqhawule lo mjikelo, kufuneka uziqhelise ukulawula imood. Qala kancinci. Khetha umsebenzi omnye onzima ngosuku uze uwugqibe nangona kunjalo. Ukukhululeka kunye nomvakalelo wokufezekisa owuvayo xa ugqibile kuya kukushukumisela ukuba wenze okuseleyo.
Ingaba izibalo zakho zexesha azichanekanga?
Esinye isizathu esiphambili sokuba sizilibazise kukuba sinembono ephosakeleyo ngexesha elithathwayo ukugqiba umsebenzi. Sicinga ukuba, "Owu... lo msebenzi mncinci, singawenza ngeeyure ezimbini." Kodwa eneneni, kungathatha usuku. Ngenxa yokuba silithatha kancinci ixesha elithathwayo ukugqiba umsebenzi, siwuhlehlisa kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela.
Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukuqala ukusebenza kwiintsuku ezimbalwa okanye iveki ngaphambi kwexesha ocinga ukuba kufuneka usebenze ngalo. Oku kunokuba nzima ekuqaleni. Kodwa emva kwexesha elithile, uya kuqaphela ukuba kumnandi kangakanani ukukwazi ukusebenza ngaphandle koxinzelelo lomzuzu wokugqibela.
Ngaba awuwuthandi loo msebenzi? Okanye ngaba unzima kuwe?
Inyaniso kukuba, asizilibazisi ukwenza izinto esizithandayo, akunjalo? Ngaba sizilibazisa ukuya kubukela imuvi nabahlobo, okanye ukuya kuhambo? Hayi. Sizilibazisa ukwenza izinto esingaziqhelanga, ezingasilungelanga, ezidinisayo, nezikruqulayo .
Kungokwemvelo ukuzama ukuphepha olu hlobo lwemisebenzi. Kodwa ebomini, asisoloko sifumana ukwenza izinto esifuna ukuzenza. Ngoko ke isisombululo sale nto kukubeka ecaleni ixesha elahlukileyo lokugqiba imisebenzi esingayithandiyo.
Zinyanzele ukuba uthi, "Kulungile, andiwuthandi lo msebenzi konke konke. Kodwa ndiza kuwenza ukususela ngentsimbi yesi-4 ukuya kweyesi-5 emva kwemini." Xa ezo yure ziphelile, nokuba umsebenzi awukagqitywa ngokupheleleyo, uza kuziva uphumelele kakhulu. Loo mvakalelo uza kukunika amandla okwenza eminye imisebenzi.
Ngaba nawe ucinga ukuba, "Ingaba kukho sizathu sokwenza oku?"?
Le yingongoma ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba sivakalelwa kukuba isenzo esisithathayo asizukusizisela iziphumo esizifunayo, asiyi kukhuthazeka ukuba sithathe eso senzo. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-`(Control Attribution)`.
Umzekelo olula kukufundela uviwo. Umfundi okholelwa ukuba, "Ukuba ndifunda nzima, ngokuqinisekileyo ndiza kufumana iziphumo ezilungileyo" ufunda kwangethuba. Nangona kunjalo, umfundi ocinga ukuba, "Nokuba ndifunda kangakanani na, akunamsebenzi, andizukukhumbula nantoni na" uyalibazisa kuba engakholelwa ukuba kukho unxibelelwano phakathi kwesenzo sakhe (ukufunda) kunye nesiphumo (amanqaku amahle).
Ngoko ke, ukuba uhlala uhlehlisa izinto, musa ukuzithatha njengento yokudinwa. Kusenokuba nesizathu esinzulu saloo nto. Ukuba lo mkhwa unempembelelo enkulu kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, emsebenzini, okanye kwimfundo, ungathandabuzi ukufuna uncedo lweengcali. Ungathetha nogqirha wakho wosapho ngale nto, okanye ubone umcebisi wezempilo yengqondo . Baza kuyiqonda imeko yakho, bafumane unobangela wale ngxaki, baze bakunike ulwalathiso olufunekayo ukuze uyoyise.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukulibazisa asikokuba bubuvila, yindlela entsonkothileyo yokuziphatha ebangelwa zizizathu ezinzulu zengqondo ezifana noloyiko, uxinzelelo, kunye nokuthanda ukugqibelela.
- Zama ukuqonda isizathu sokuba uhlehlise izinto. Nokuba kukungayithandi loo msebenzi, ukoyika ukungaphumeleli, okanye ubunzima bokulawula ixesha lakho.
- Yahlulahlula imisebenzi emikhulu ibe ziinxalenye. Endaweni yokuzama ukunyuka intaba enkulu ngaxeshanye, yithathe inyathelo ngenyathelo.
- Beka bucala ixesha elithile losuku lemisebenzi ongayithandiyo okanye oyifumana inzima, kwaye wenze loo msebenzi kuphela ngelo xesha.
- Ukuba le meko kunzima ukuyilawula kwaye ichaphazela ubomi bakho kakhulu, ungathandabuzi ukuthetha nogqirha wakho okanye ingcali yezempilo yengqondo.
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