Xa ubona umntwana wakho elele kamnandi kwaye ekhululekile ephethe ubhontsi wakhe emlonyeni, uziva wonwabile kancinci kwaye usoyika kancinci, "Hmm... bekungayi kuba ngcono ukuba oku kuyaqhubeka?", akunjalo? Le yingxaki eqhelekileyo ejongene nabazali kungekuphela nje eSri Lanka, kodwa kwihlabathi liphela. Ngoko masifumane okungakumbi ngale nto namhlanje.
Kutheni iintsana zithanda kangaka ukumunca iminwe yazo?
Enyanisweni, ukumunca ubhontsi okanye eminye iminwe ngumkhwa wemvelo abantwana abazalwa nawo kwasekuzalweni. Abanye abantwana banokubonwa bemunca iminwe yabo kwi-scan besesesibelekweni sikanina. Oku sikubiza ngokuba kukumunca okungenasondlo. Oku kuthetha ukuba asiyonto abayenzayo ukwanelisa indlala yabo.
Iintsana zenza oku ngezizathu ezininzi eziphambili:
- Ukhuseleko nentuthuzelo: Ukukhotha iminwe kubanika uluvo lokhuseleko nentuthuzelo. Kuvakala ngathi bakunye nonina. Basebenzisa le ndlela ukuzithuthuzela xa besoyika, bediniwe, okanye bekwiindawo abangazaziyo.
- Ukufunda ngehlabathi: Iintsana zifunda ngezinto ezibangqongileyo ngemilomo yazo. Nokuba yinto yokudlala abanokuyibamba ngezandla zabo, into yokuqala abayenzayo kukuyifaka emlonyeni wabo. Ngoko ke, ukumunca iminwe nezandla zabo kukwayinxalenye yenkqubo yokufunda.
- Ukunciphisa uxinezeleko: Khawuthelekelele, baziva bexinezelekile kancinci xa besiya kufumana inaliti okanye bedibana nomntu omtsha. Ngelo xesha, bazama ukunciphisa olo xinezeleko ngokumunca umnwe wabo.
Okumangalisayo kukuba, ezinye izifundo zifumanise ukuba abantwana abancancisa oobhontsi babo besebancinci baneenkqubo zomzimba eziqinileyo kwaye banomngcipheko omncinci wokufumana ezinye ii-allergies njengoko bekhula. Oku kungenxa yokuba bachaphazeleka ziintsholongwane eziqhelekileyo kwindawo yabo yemihla ngemihla ngeminwe yabo.
Ngaba kungcono ukuba ubhontsi okanye i-pacifier?
Abanye abazali bacinga ukuba ukunika umntwana i-pacifier okanye i-pacifier kungcono kunokumunca ubhontsi. Abanye bacinga ukuba i-pacifiers zingcolile kwaye ziphazamisana nokuncancisa. Makhe sijonge izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga kuzo zombini ezi zinto.
| Ingongoma | Isicoci | Ubhontsi |
|---|---|---|
| Ukuyeka lo mkhwa | Xa umntwana ekhula kancinci, singayisusa isuphu. Ngale ndlela, kulula ukuyeka lo mkhwa. | Kunokuba nzima ukuyeka lo mkhwa kuba umnwe uhlala usenomntwana. |
| Ucoceko | Ingasuswa kwaye icocwe lula ngokuyibilisa emanzini ashushu. | Izandla zingangcola ngalo lonke ixesha. Ekubeni umntwana echukumisa yonke into, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuba iintsholongwane zingene emlonyeni wakhe. |
| Impembelelo kumazinyo | Iibraces ezenziwe kakuhle azibeki uxinzelelo oluncinci kumazinyo. | Ukuqhwanyaza iminwe ixesha elide kunokubangela iingxaki ezifana nokuya phambili kwamazinyo kunye nezikhewu phakathi kwamazinyo. |
Ukuba uphakela isuphu, khumbula ezi zinto zilandelayo:
Ukuba ugqiba ekubeni umnike isobho umntwana wakho, qiniseka ukuba uyawalandela la macebiso okhuseleko.
- Mnike isuphu emva kokuba umntwana egqibile ukuncancisa. Musa ukumnika phakathi kokutya okanye xa umntwana elambile.
- Ungaze ubophe i-pacifier entanyeni yomntwana okanye kwibhedi yomntwana ngentambo. Inganamathela entanyeni yomntwana ize ibangele ukwenzakala okukhulu.
- Khetha imbiza yesuphu eneqhekeza elinye enokubiliswa kwaye ihlanjululwe.
- Isiciko sembiza yesuphu masibe sikhulu kunomlomo womntwana. Kufuneka sibe nemingxunya emincinci yokungenisa umoya.
- Ungaze wongeze ubusi okanye iswekile kwisuphu. Oku kwandisa umngcipheko wokubola kwamazinyo.
Zithini iingozi ukuba umnwe uyaqhubeka nokukrazuka?
Abantwana badla ngokuyeka lo mkhwa phakathi kweminyaka emi-2 ne-4, ngaphambi kokuba amazinyo abo asisigxina aqale ukuphuma. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana uyaqhubeka nokuncanca ubhontsi wakhe emva kweminyaka emi-4 okanye emi-5, kunokubakho iingxaki ezithile.
- Iingxaki zamazinyo: Le yeyona ngozi iphambiliNjengoko uqhubeka nokumunca ubhontsi wakho, amazinyo angaphambili omhlathi wakho ongasentla asenokutyhalela phambili. Oku kunokubangela ukuluma okuvulekileyo ngaphambili. Oku kuthetha ukuba amazinyo angaphambili awadibani xa uvala umlomo wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuba le meko iba mandundu, usenokufuna utyando kamva.
- Iingxaki zokuthetha: Xa kukho izikhewu phakathi kwamazinyo angaphambili, kunokuba nzima ukubiza oonobumba abathile. Usenokuvuza amathe xa uthetha.
- Iingxaki zesikhumba: Amaqhuqhuva kunye namaqhuqhuva anokuvela eluswini lomnwe oluhlala lulunywa. Usulelo lwesikhumba lunokwenzeka nakwiinzipho.
Ndingakunceda njani uyeke lo mkhwa?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba, ungazami ukuyiyeka le nto ngokumohlwaya okanye ngokumthethisa umntwana. Oko kuya kumenza umntwana adandatheke ngakumbi aze axhomekeke kulo mkhwa.
Ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala akakawuyeki lo mkhwa, ungazama ezi zinto zilandelayo:
1. Fumana unobangela: Okokuqala, bona xa umntwana wakho emunca ubhontsi wakhe. Ingaba kuxa ekruqukile? Xa esoyika? Xa elele? Ukuba uyifumana unobangela, kuya kuba lula ukufumana isisombululo.
2. Thetha nomntwana: Ngamazwi alula umntwana awaqondayo, mfundise into ngothando, njengokuthi, "Nyana, ukuba utsala umnwe wakho ngolo hlobo, amazinyo akho aya kuwa kwaye uncumo lwakho oluhle luya kunyamalala."
3. Phazamisa: Kwangoko nje umntwana ezama ukufaka umnwe wakhe emlonyeni wakhe, mnike ithoyizi anokuyenza ngezandla zombini (umz., ukudlala ngodongwe, ukuzoba).
4. Mncome kwaye umnike umvuzo: Mncome kakhulu umntwana wakho xa engamunci ubhontsi wakhe. Mnike isipho esincinci esifana nokuthi, "Shh... unyana wam akamunci ubhontsi wakhe namhlanje, kulungile oko."
5. Uncedo lukagqirha wamazinyo: Ukuba konke okunye akuphumeleli, bonana nogqirha wamazinyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ugqirha unokucebisa isixhobo somlomo. Izixhobo ezifana nePalatal Crib zisebenza ngokususa imvakalelo yokufaka umnwe emlonyeni wakho. Oku kuya kunceda ukuyeka lo mkhwa.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukunyamezela. Lo mkhwa awunakuyekiswa ngobusuku obunye. Ukuzama ngothando nangomonde yeyona ndlela iphumelelayo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Kwiintsana ezininzi, ukuncancisa iminwe yinto eqhelekileyo, ethuthuzelayo nezenzekela ngokwendalo. Musa ukuyoyika kakhulu kwasekuqaleni.
- Uninzi lwabantwana luya kuyiyeka ngokwemvelo le ndlela ngaphambi kokuba amazinyo abo asisigxina avele, malunga neminyaka emi-4 ubudala.
- Kubalulekile ukunceda ngothando ukuyeka lo mkhwa, kuba unokubangela umonakalo emazinyweni ukuba lo mkhwa uyaqhubeka emva kweminyaka emi-4-5.
- Ukumohlwaya okanye ukumoyikisa umntwana wakho kunokwenza lo mkhwa ube mbi ngakumbi. Endaweni yoko, mncome aze amkhuthaze.
- Ukuba ingxaki iyaqhubeka okanye ubona naluphi na utshintsho kumazinyo akho, qiniseka ukuba ubonana nogqirha wamazinyo. Kukho unyango olukhethekileyo loku.
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