Ngaba wakha waba nomntwana okhala ngaphandle kwesizathu? Usenokudideka ukuba kungenxa yokuba elambile okanye yinto enye. Kuya kufuneka ujongane nale ngxaki de umntwana wakho akwazi ukuthetha izinto ezifana nokuthi "Mama, ndilambile" okanye "Ndifuna loo nto yokudlala." Kodwa ungandikholelwa ukuba bendingakuxelela loo nto nangaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho akwazi ukuthetha, kukho indlela yokukuxelela into ayicingayo? Yiloo nto siyibiza ngokuba yi-'Baby Sign Language'.
Yintoni uLwimi lweZandla losana?
Ngamafutshane, le yindlela yokufundisa abantwana abancinci ukuba bakuxelele ngeemfuno zabo, iimvakalelo zabo, kunye noko bakubonayo ngokusebenzisa izandla ezilula ngaphambi kokuba bafunde ukuthetha. Oku kulula kakhulu kunolwimi lwezandla olusetyenziswa ngabantwana abangevayo.
Enyanisweni, akukho namnye kuthi okwenzayo oku engaqondanga. Khawucinge nje, sifundisa umntwana ukuba aphakamise isandla sakhe athi "tata bai" akunjalo? Loo nto ikwaluphawu. Kwaye kunjalo nangendlela le. Okwenzekayo apha kukuba sifundisa imiqondiso embalwa elula yesandla yokutsho xa umntwana efuna "ubisi", "olungaphezulu", okanye "ndilambile".
Umzekelo, intombazana eneminyaka eli-10 ubudala egama linguSophia yaya kwi-aquarium nonina. Yabona iipenguin zidada emanzini yaza yenza uphawu lwesandla "lweentlanzi." Xa umama wayo wayilungisa waza wenza uphawu lwesandla "lwentaka," intombi yakhe yenza uphawu lwesandla "lweentlanzi." Emva koko, xa umama wayo wenza imiqondiso emibini eyahlukeneyo "yentaka" kunye "nokubhukuda," intombi yakhe yaqonda yaza yenza uphawu lwesandla "lwentaka." Jonga, hayi indlela okumangalisa ngayo ukukwazi ukuba nencoko nomntwana oneenyanga ezili-10 malunga nokuba ipenguin yintlanzi okanye yintaka.
Ngaba oku kuya kulibazisa amandla omntwana okuthetha? - Uloyiko olukhulu koomama abaninzi!
Olu lolona loyiko lukhulu kubazali abaninzi, ingakumbi ootatomkhulu noomakhulu kwilizwe lethu. Usenokuba ukhe weva intetho ethi, "Ukuba uqhele ukucela izinto ngezandla zakho, umntwana wakho uya kuba livila lokuthetha." Kodwa uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba le yintsomi epheleleyo . Enyanisweni, okuchaseneyo kuyinyani.
Khawucinge nje, umntwana oqala ukukhasa uza kuzama ukuma aze ahambe emva koko, kodwa akayi kuhlala ekhasa, akunjalo? Yiyo loo nto kunjalo. Xa umntwana eveza izimvo zakhe ngemiqondiso aze afumane iimpendulo ezivela kunina nakuyise, uziva evuya kakhulu kwaye enomdla. Xa eqonda ukuba, "Ah... bayayiqonda into endiyithethayo," ukhangela indlela engcono nelula yokuziveza. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza oko kukuthetha ngamazwi. Ngoko ke, ulwimi lwezandla aluyonto ithintela indlela yokuthetha , kodwa yinto eyilibazisayo.
Njengoko uphando lufumanise, ulwimi lwezandlaAbantwana abafunda ulwimi lwezandla bayazi amagama amaninzi xa beneminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Kwakhona, kuvavanyo olwenziwe beneminyaka esi-8 ubudala, i-intelligence quotient (`IQ`) yabantwana abafunda ulwimi lwezandla yayiphezulu ngama-12 amanqaku kunabanye abantwana. Nangona kunjalo, into ephambili ekufuneka siyiqonde apha kukuba oku akukokwandisa 'IQ' yomntwana okanye ukumenza abe ngu-Einstein.
"Injongo ephambili yoku kukuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabazali nomntwana nokwenza elo xesha libe lixesha elihle nelikhululekileyo kubo bobabini. Umntwana ufumana ithuba lokuveza iimfuno zakhe, oko akucingayo, oko afuna ukukwabelana nathi. Kwenza ubomi bube lula kakhulu" - UDkt. Linda Acredolo.
Ziziphi iingenelo eziphambili zoLwimi lweZandla loSana?
- Ukungakhali kakhulu: Ukuba unokubonisa ukuba umntwana wakho ulambile, ulele, okanye ufuna ukudlala ngaphandle kokulila, kuya kuba nzima kangakanani na uxinezeleko kumntwana wakho nakuwe? Imeko yasekhaya nayo iya kuba noxolo ngakumbi.
- Ubudlelwane phakathi komzali nomntwana buyaqina: Xa uqonda oko umntwana wakho akucingayo kwaye uqonda oko umntwana wakho akuthethayo, kwakheka ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabo bobabini.
- Izakhono zokuthetha kunye nesigama ziyanda: Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqala ukuthetha. Ngenxa yokuba uthetha ngento umntwana wakho ayibonisayo (umz., "ibhola"), ufunda ngokukhawuleza ulwalamano phakathi kwamagama nezinto.
- Inceda ekuphuhliseni ingqondo: Ekubeni abantwana befumana ithuba lokukhumbula izinto nokuqonda iingcamango (ezifana nokuthiya ipenguin) besebancinci, yinto ekhuthaza kakhulu uphuhliso lwengqondo yomntwana.
Kulungile, ngoko ke singayiqala njani le nto?
Oku kulula kakhulu. Ungakwenza oku ngeendlela ezimbini.
1. Ukusebenzisa uLwimi lweZandla oluQhelekileyo: Umzekelo, ungasebenzisa iimpawu ezilula kuLwimi lweZandla lwaseMelika (ASL). Inzuzo yoku kukuba ukuba omnye umntu onyamekela usana lwakho (ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, ootitshala besikolo sokunyamekela abantwana) uyazazi ezo mpawu, kuya kuba lula kumntwana wakho ukunxibelelana naye.
2. Ukuzenzela iimpawu zakho: Le yindlela elula nethandwa kakhulu. Endaweni yokufunda zonke iimpawu encwadini, ungenza iimpawu ezilula onokuziqonda wena nomntwana wakho. Umzekelo:
- Ubisi: Ukuvula isandla ngesandla sakho, ngokungathi usenga inkomo.
- Ukutya : Ukudibanisa iminwe kunye nokuyizisa emlonyeni.
- Okunye: Ukucofa iminwe yezandla zombini kunye.
- Ukulala:Ukubeka iintende zakho kunye nokubeka intloko yakho kwicala elo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ngalo lonke ixesha usenza uphawu, kufuneka ubize igama elihambelana nalo ngokucacileyo . Ngale ndlela, umntwana uya kufunda uphawu kunye negama.
| Izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ekufuneka uzikhumbule xa uqalisa |
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| 1. Musa ukwenza oku kube sisifundo, kwenze kube ngumdlalo: Musa ukunyanzela umntwana wakho. Sebenzisa ezi mpawu xa usenza imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla (xa uncancisa, utyisa). |
| 2. Musa ukucela umntwana wakho ukuba enze umboniso phambi kwabanye: Musa ukumnyanzela umntwana wakho ngokuthi , "Ndibonise olo phawu luka-Anti." |
| 3. Musa ukuthelekisa umntwana wakho nabanye abantwana: Wonke umntwana ufunda ngesantya esahlukileyo. Yiba nomonde. |
| 4. Mncome umntwana wakho xa ezama: Ukuba umntwana wakho uzama ukwenza isenzo esithile, nokuba asigqibelelanga, phendula ngokuncuma nokumanga. Loo nto iyamkhuthaza kakhulu. |
| 5. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokucinga: Xa umntwana wakho ejonge into ethile, mnike ixesha elincinci lokubonisa ukuba yintoni na ngaphambi kokuba umxelele ukuba yintoni na. Endaweni yokumnika yonke into kwangaphambili, mnike ithuba lokuveza iimfuno zakhe. |
Ukuba unenkxalabo okanye uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana wakho ulibazisekile ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho yakhe, kungcono ukuthetha nogqirha wabantwana ngaphandle kokukhathazeka.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- ``Ulwimi Lwezandla Lwabantwana`` yindlela elula neyonwabisayo yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aziveze ngaphambi kokuba akwazi ukuthetha.
- Oku akuyi kulibazisa intetho yomntwana wakho, kuya kumnceda ngokwenene.
- Eyona nzuzo iphambili kukuba inciphisa uxinzelelo kumntwana wakho nakuwe, kwaye iqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwenu.
- Xa uqala oku, soloko ubiza igama elihambelanayo ngokucacileyo xa usenza isenzo.
- Musa ukumnyanzela umntwana. Gcina oku njengomdlalo wothando, kungekhona isifundo.
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