Ngaba wakha wavakalelwa kukuba unyango alufani kuwo wonke umntu? Ngamanye amaxesha, kunokuvakala ngathi singoobani, sihlala phi, kwaye imeko yethu yezemali zonke zichaphazela unyango esilufumanayo. Le yingongoma ebucayi, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha ngayo. Kuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokuba sempilweni.
Ngamafutshane, njengakwamanye amazwe amaninzi kwihlabathi liphela, abanye abantu kunye namaqela entlalontle kwilizwe lethu banengxaki yokufumana unyango olungcono kunabanye. Zininzi izizathu zoku. Ngamanye amaxesha kungenxa yezizathu zemali. Ngamanye amaxesha, inokubangelwa kukucalula okungaziwayo kwinkqubo yokhathalelo lwempilo ngokwayo. Makhe sithethe ngale nto nzulu kancinci.
Izizathu eziphambili ezichaphazela ukungalingani kwezempilo
Kukho izinto ezibalulekileyo ezibangela la mahluko, okanye ukungalingani, ekufikeleleni kunyango. Ukuqonda ezi zinto kunokusinceda siyiqonde ngcono imeko.
| Isizathu | Impembelelo |
|---|---|
| I-inshurensi yezempilo kunye nokukwazi ngokwezimali | Nangona unyango lukarhulumente eSri Lanka lusimahla, unyango kwizibhedlele zabucala lubiza imali eninzi. Kwabo bangenayo i-inshorensi okanye abo baneengxaki zemali, ukubona iingcali kunye nokufumana uvavanyo oluyimfuneko kunokulibaziseka. |
| Ubunzima bokufikelela kwiindawo eziluncedo | Iinkonzo zonyango ezikhethekileyo, oomatshini banamhlanje, kunye nezibonelelo ezifumaneka kwizixeko ezinkulu ezifana neColombo azifumaneki kwiindawo zasemaphandleni ezikude. Ke ngoko, abantu kwezo ndawo kufuneka bahambe imigama emide ukuze bafumane iinkonzo ezisemgangathweni. |
| Umahluko kumgangatho wonyango | Ngamanye amaxesha, abasebenzi bezonyango banokuthi bengazi bakhethe ngenxa yenkangeleko yesigulana, intetho yaso, okanye imeko yaso ekuhlaleni. Oku kunokukhokelela kwizinto ezifana nokungasimameli kakuhle isigulana kunye nokunciphisa iimpawu zaso. |
| Iingxaki zonxibelelwano nokuqonda | Unxibelelwano oluhle kunye nokwakha ukuthembana phakathi kogqirha kunye nesigulana kubalulekile. Ezinye izigulana zisenokungakwazi ukuchaza iingxaki zazo okanye ukuqonda oko kuthethwa ngugqirha. Oku kunokuchaphazela nonyango. |
Ubunzima bokufikelela kwiinkonzo
Khawucinge nje, ukuba umntu ohlala kwisixeko ufuna ukubona ingcali, akunzima kangako. Kodwa, kumntu ohlala kwindawo ekude kakhulu? Kusenokufuneka abeke bucala usuku lonke aze athathe iibhasi ezininzi ukuze aye esixekweni. Ngenxa yobunzima obunjalo, abantu abaninzi abanamdla wokufuna unyango kwasekuqaleni kwesigulo.
Amaxesha amaninzi, abantu baya kugqirha kuphela xa iimpawu zinzima kwaye zinzima. Ngelo xesha, isifo sisenokuba sihambele phambili kakhulu.
Kwakhona, ayinguye wonke umntu onogqirha wosapho abambiza ngokuba ngowabo. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abaninzi baya kwicandelo lezonyango zangaphandle (OPD) okanye kwicandelo lonyango olungxamisekileyo (ETU) xa begula. Oku kuyayithintela indlela yokukhusela kunye nolawulo lwempilo oluhlala ixesha elide.
Umgangatho woNyango kunye 'noBucala obungaqondiyo'
Oku kuyinkimbinkimbi ngakumbi. "Ukukhetha ngokungaziyo" yingcamango esiyidalayo ngomntu othile ngokungazi. Oku kunokwenzeka nakwicandelo lezonyango. Umzekelo, ngamanye amaxesha abafazi abanakukwazi ukuchaza iintlungu okanye iimpawu kunamadoda.
Umzekelo omhle woku sisiganeko esajongana nomdlali wetenisi odumileyo kwihlabathi liphela uSerena Williams emva kokubeleka umntwana wakhe. Waba neempawu zokuqhekeka kwegazi emiphungeni yakhe (Pulmonary Embolism). Wayesazi ngaloo nto kuba wayenembali yezonyango. Kodwa xa waxelela abahlengikazi ngayo, abazange bayithathe nzulu ekuqaleni. Kwakungenxa yokuqhubeka kwakhe egxininisa ukuba kwenziwe uvavanyo oluyimfuneko kwaye ubomi bakhe busindiswa. Kamva wathi, "Akukho mntu undiphulaphuleyo. Bendingafa."
Oku kubonisa indlela ekunokuba yingozi ngayo ukungamameli kakuhle oko kuthethwa sisigulana, nokuba singoobani.
Umahluko kunyango lweentlungu
Enye imeko engathandekiyo kukuba iintlungu zezinye izigulana azithathelwa ngqalelo. Umzekelo, abanye abantu banokuba nengcamango ephosakeleyo yokuba "abantu basemaphandleni banokuyinyamezela ngcono intlungu." Ngenxa yesi simo sengqondo, ezinye izigulana zisenokungafumani amayeza entlungu afunekayo.
UTinu, umfazi wasemzini, ebesoloko ezama ukufumana unyango kangangeminyaka ukuze alawule iintlungu zakhe ezibuhlungu ezibangelwa yi-fibromyalgia (imeko echaphazela umzimba wonke) kunye ne-chronic lymphocytic leukemia (CLL). Uthi xa ecela amayeza eentlungu, udla ngokuphathwa njengomntu osebenzisa iziyobisi. Uye wayeka nokuya esibhedlele.
Amava anje anokuphelisa ukuthembana phakathi kwezigulana kunye nenkqubo yezempilo.
Senza ntoni? Amanyathelo okuphathwa ngokulinganayo
Ukufumana izisombululo kwezi ngxaki akuyonto inokwenziwa ngumntu omnye. Le yinto ekufuneka itshintshe njengenkqubo. Nangona kunjalo, zikho izinto nathi njengezigulane esinokuzenza.
- Nxibelelana kakuhle nogqirha wakho: Cacisa zonke iimpawu zakho nemibuzo yakho. Musa ukufihla nantoni na. Ukuba awuyiqondi into ethethwa ngugqirha, ungabi nazintloni zokuphinda ubuze.
- Yiba ngummeli wakho: Ukuba uziva ngathi awuphulaphulwa, yitsho ngendlela enobubele kodwa eqinileyo. Ungatsho into efana nale, "Gqirha, le ntlungu imbi kakhulu kum. Ndiyoyika kakhulu ngale nto."
- Fumana uluvo lwesibini: Ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga nonyango lwakho, akukho nto imbi ngokubona omnye ugqirha ukuze akunike ingcebiso.
- Yaziswa: Yaziswa kangangoko unako ngemeko yakho yempilo. Oku kuya kukunceda uxoxe ngayo nogqirha wakho kwaye ubuze imibuzo efanelekileyo.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwakha ukuthembana nentlonipho phakathi koogqirha nezigulana. Ugqirha olungileyo uhlala ezama ukubonelela ngenkonzo engcono kakhulu kuye wonke umntu, kungakhathaliseki imvelaphi yesigulana okanye imeko yaso ekuhlaleni.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukungalingani kwezempilo yingxaki yokwenyani kwilizwe lethu nakwihlabathi liphela. Izinto zoqoqosho nezentlalo ziyayichaphazela le nto.
- Njengesigulane, thetha nogqirha wakho malunga neempawu zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye awonelisekanga lunyango olufumanayo, ungaze ungathandabuzi ukufuna uluvo lwesibini lwezonyango.
- Ukuzifundisa ngemeko yakho yempilo kuya kukunceda ufumane unyango olungcono kwaye wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
- Unyango olufanelekileyo lulungelo elibalulekileyo kuye wonke umntu. Kubalulekile ukuba sonke siqaphele kwaye sithathe amanyathelo ngalo.
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