Ngaba umntwana wakho omncinci uyabamba umoya xa enomsindo? (Isiphonso Esibamba Umphefumlo) - Masithethe ngale nto!

Ngaba umntwana wakho omncinci ucaphuka ngequbuliso, abe nexesha elinzima, okanye uyoyika kakhulu aze akhale aze abambe umphefumlo wakhe? Ngamanye amaxesha oku kubamba umphefumlo kunokuba nzima kangangokuba angade alahlekelwe zingqondo. Ndiyayiqonda indlela umama okanye utata amele ukuba uyoyika ngayo xa ebona into efana nale. Intliziyo yakho iyabetha ngamandla, akunjalo? Usenokuba ucinga, 'Owu, kwenzeke ntoni kumntwana wam?' Kodwa ungakhathazeki, le yinto esiyibiza ngokuba yi-'Breath-Holding Spell'. Le yimeko eqhelekileyo kwaye ayiyongozi eyenzeka ebantwaneni abancinci. Makhe sithethe ngale nto ngokweenkcukacha namhlanje, ukuze uyiqonde ngcono.

Ngoko ke, ngaba kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zale 'Spell Ebamba Umphefumlo'?

Ewe, kukho iintlobo ezimbini eziphambili. Masibone ukuba zeziphi. Ukuchaneka, inkangeleko yomntwana kwezi ntlobo zimbini yahlukile kancinci.

1. Uhlobo olujika lube luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ebusweni

Eyokuqala kukuba umntwana ukhala kakhulu aze abambe umphefumlo wakhe de ubuso bakhe bube luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Oku sikubiza ngokuba yi- "Cyanotic Breath-Holding Spell." Olu lolona hlobo luqhelekileyo. Uninzi lwexesha, oku kwenzeka xa umntwana enomsindo kakhulu, edanile, okanye engafumani nto ayilindeleyo. Khawuthelekelele umntwana wakho ecela ithoyizi uze ungamniki yona. Bayacaphuka kakhulu, bakhale, bakhale, baze ngequbuliso babambe umphefumlo wabo. Okokuqala, bayalahlekelwa lilizwi labo, emva koko umzimba wabo uzive uqinile kancinci. Emva kwexesha elithile, imilebe yabo, ulwimi, nobuso babo buqala ukuba luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Ngamanye amaxesha amehlo abo anokuphakama. Kuyoyikisa ukubona oku. Kodwa khumbula, lo mbala uluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ubangelwa kukuncipha kancinci kweoksijini emzimbeni. Kodwa oku kuya kubuyela esiqhelweni kwimizuzwana embalwa, ubuninzi umzuzu.

2. Uhlobo olwenza ubuso bube mhlophe

Uhlobo lwesibini kuxa ubuso bomntwana bujika bube mhlophe. Oku sikubiza ngokuba yi -'Pallid Breath-Holding Spell' . Kule meko, umntwana angakhala kancinci, okanye kungenzeki ngequbuliso ngaphandle kokulila. Oku kudla ngokwenzeka ukuba umntwana ngequbuliso wothuka, woyika, okanye awe ndaweni ithile aze alimale. Umzekelo, masithi umntwana uwela phantsi ngequbuliso. Okanye umsa kuye kufumana i-vaccine aze oyike. Xa ebuhlungu okanye esoyika, angajika abonakale ephaphathekile, abile, aze aqale ukuphefumla ngokungathi akaphili. Ngamanye amaxesha isantya sentliziyo sinokuncipha kancinci. Oku kukwafana nokujika abe luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kwaye kuya kubuyela esiqhelweni kwimizuzwana embalwa, kumzuzu. Kuzo zombini iimeko, umntwana angalahlekelwa yingqondo malunga nomzuzu. Kuthetha ukuba ulahlekelwa yingqondo okwethutyana. Ngelo xesha, umzimba wakho ungaziva uqinile kancinci, okanye ungaziva ungaphili. Kwezinye iimeko ezingaqhelekanga,, umntwana usenokuba nokuxhuzula okuncinci, okuthetha ukungcangcazela. Kodwa ungoyiki ukuba kuyenzeka. Akuyi kubangela umonakalo wexesha elide emntwaneni, kwaye akuthethi ukuba umntwana uza kuba nesifo sokuxhuzula kamva. Le yinto yexeshana nje eyenzekayo ngelo xesha. Olu bunzima bokuphefumla budla ngokubonakala kubantwana abasempilweni abaphakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 kunye neminyaka emi-6 ubudala . Luxhaphake kakhulu kubantwana abaphakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 kunye ne-18 ubudala. Ngamanye amaxesha lunokwenzeka nakwiintsapho, oko kuthetha ukuba ukuba abazali babenaso besebancinci, kukho ithuba lokuba nomntwana uya kuba naso.

Kutheni abantwana abancinci befumana le 'Spell ebambe umoya'?

Abazali abaninzi bacinga ukuba abantwana benza oku ngabom, ukuba yinto abayenzayo ukuze bafumane into abayifunayo. Kodwa eneneni, abantwana benza oku ngabom. Abanakuyilawula. Kuzenzekela, oko kukuthi, into eyenzeka yodwa. Oogqirha abakafumani ngokupheleleyo isizathu sokuba oku kwenzeke. Kukwakho nethiyori yokuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba kungenxa yotshintsho lwexeshana ekusebenzeni kwezinye iinkqubo zemithambo-luvo engqondweni. Nangona kunjalo, kufunyenwe ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, i-anemia yokunqongophala kwesinyithi ('Iron-Deficiency Anemia') inokuba ngunobangela woku. Oko kukuthi, xa inqanaba lesinyithi emzimbeni womntwana lehla, linokuchaphazela oku kuphefumla. Ngoko ke ukuba udibana nogqirha kwaye uthethe ngale nto, ukuba umntwana uhlala ephefumla ngolu hlobo, angenza uvavanyo lwegazi oluncinci ('Blood Test') ukujonga ukuba inqanaba lesinyithi liphezulu kangakanani. Ukuba isinyithi liphantsi, uya kukunika iipilisi zesinyithi okanye isiraphu ezifunekayo ('Izongezo zesinyithi'). Emva koko unganciphisa ukuphindaphinda koku kuphefumla.

Yintoni omele uyenze xa umntwana wakho ephefumula nzima?

Okokuqala, ukuba le yixesha lokuqala umntwana wakho ephefumla ngolu hlobo, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ufune ingcebiso kagqirha. Nangona olu hlobo lokuphefumla ludla ngokungabangeli bungozi, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho ahlolwe ngugqirha. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi mpawu zinokubangelwa zezinye iimeko zonyango, ngoko ke kungcono ukuzisusa. Kwakhona, ukuba oku kuphefumla kwenzeka rhoqo, kwenzeka amaxesha amaninzi ngemini, okanye ukuba kukho utshintsho kwindlela yokuphefumla (umzekelo, kuthatha ixesha elide kunesiqhelo, okanye ukuphefumla kuye kwanda), okanye ukuba umntwana ubonakala engenabomi kwaye egula nangona engaphefumli, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ubone ugqirha ngoko nangoko. Kulungile, ngoko makhe sibone ukuba yintoni omawuyenze xa umntwana wakho ephefumla:

• Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukungaxhalabi xa umntwana wakho ephefuzela. Ukuba uxhalabile, umntwana wakho uya kukuva oko, kwaye unokoyika ngakumbi. Ngoko ke phefumla nzulu uze uzixelele ukuba, "Oku kuza kuphela kungekudala."
• Okokuqala, yenza umntwana alale phantsi ebhedini okanye phantsi. Oku kuya kuthintela umntwana ukuba angawi. Musa ukumbamba umntwana eme nkqo.
• Susa izinto ezibukhali neziqinileyo ezikufutshane nomntwana, nayo nayiphi na into enokubangela ukwenzakala ukuba umntwana ubetheka entloko.
• Hlala usondelene nomntwana. Musa ukumshiya yedwa.

Khawuthelekelele nje ukuba umntwana ulahlekelwe zingqondo. Ubuya kwenza ntoni ngelo xesha?

• Zama ukuhlala uzolile kangangoko unako. Zixelele ukuba, 'Umntwana wam ukhuselekile, oku kuza kuphela kungekudala.'
• Jonga ukuba kukho ukutya okanye nantoni na ebambeke emlonyeni womntwana. Ukuba kukho, kunokwenza kube nzima ukuphefumla. Kodwa musa ukunyanzela iminwe yakho emlonyeni uze uyitsale, kuba oko kungayenza into ibambeke nangakumbi.
• Ukuba umntwana uhlala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ixesha elingaphezu komzuzu okanye akaphefumli kakuhle, fowunela i-911 ngoko nangoko okanye umse esibhedlele esikufutshane.

Wenza ntoni emva kokuba ugqibile ukubamba umphefumlo wakho?

• Qinisekisa umntwana wakho ukuba yonke into ilungile kwaye oku akulona ityala lakhe. Thetha naye ngothando kwaye umgange . Nangona eselula, unokoyika xa kwenzeka into efana nale.

Ngaba ikho indlela yokuthintela le ngxaki yokubamba umoya?

Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuyimisa ngokupheleleyo, kukho izinto onokuzenza ukunceda ukunciphisa ukuphindaphindeka koku. Ungathetha nogqirha wakho ngeendlela zokunciphisa ukuphefumla komntwana wakho. Ukuba oku kwenzeka rhoqo xa umntwana wakho ekhala, ungazama ukuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba angakhathazeki okanye abe nomsindo ngokungeyomfuneko. Umzekelo:

• Musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho asebenze kakhulu okanye alambe. Kubalulekile ukondla nokulala ngexesha. Umntwana wakho udinga ukuphumla .
• Xa usohlwaya umntwana wakho, zama ukusebenzisa iindlela zokuqeqesha ezizolileyo. Ukukhwaza nokumthethisa kabukhali kunokwenza umntwana wakho akhathazeke ngakumbi aze abe nomsindo. Endaweni yoko, thetha ngokuzolileyo ngendlela umntwana wakho ayiqondayo. Ungasebenzisa iindlela ezifana 'nexesha lokuphumla'. Oko kukuthi, xa umntwana wakho enze impazamo, uthabatha ithoyizi ayithandayo okwethutyana, okanye uyibeke ecaleni okwethutyana.
• Misela umntwana wakho imida ecacileyo. Akulunganga ukuvumela yonke into.

Kunzima kakhulu ukubona umntwana ebambe umphefumlo wakhe ngolu hlobo. Njengomama okanye utata, kufuneka uzive uthwele umthwalo omkhulu. Kufuneka woyike, 'Ngaba umntwana wam uza kungena engxakini?' Kodwa, kuba nje ufuna ukuyeka oku, musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba anikezele kuzo zonke izicelo zakhe kunye nokuziphatha okubi. Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, umntwana angayisebenzisa, kwaye angafunda ukuba 'Ukuba ndenza oku, ndiza kufumana into endiyifunayo.' Akulunganga ekuphuhliseni ubuntu bomntwana. Ukuba unengxaki yokufumana eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuqeqesha umntwana wakho, thetha nogqirha, ingcali yengqondo yabantwana, okanye umntu okucebisayo ngalo mba. Baza kukunika ulwalathiso olufanelekileyo. Hlala ukhumbula, oku kubamba umphefumlo akuyongozi, kwaye kuya kuziphelela njengoko umntwana ekhula. Ukuba ukhathazekile kakhulu okanye uyoyika oku, ukuthetha nengcali yezempilo yengqondo kunokukunceda .Ungafumana uncedo lokujongana nale meko. Yabelana ngomthwalo wakho nabo.

Ngoko ke, zeziphi izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka sizikhumbule koko sithethe ngako?

Kulungile, masiyidibanise yonke into ngoku. Nazi izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzikhumbule:

• `Isipelingi Esibamba Umphefumlo` yinto enokwenzeka kubantwana abancinci, ingakumbi abo baphakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 kunye neminyaka emi-6 ubudala, ngenxa yomsindo, ukukhungatheka, uloyiko, okanye intlungu.
• Le asinto umntwana ayenzayo ngabom, ngoko ke musa ukumgxeka okanye ukumcaphukela.
• Kukho iintlobo ezimbini eziphambili: i-cyanotic kunye ne-pallid.
• Oku kudla ngokuziphelela kumzuzu omnye. Akuqhelekanga ukuba umntu alahlekelwe yingqondo aze axhuzule kancinci, kodwa oku akuyongozi.
• I-anemia yokunqongophala kwe-iron ngamanye amaxesha inokuba ngunobangela woku. Bonana nogqirha ukuze nixoxe ngale nto kwaye nivavanywe ukuba kuyimfuneko.
• Hlala uzolile xa umntwana ephefumla, mlalise phantsi kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, kwaye uhlale ukufutshane.
• Ukuba oku kwenzeka okokuqala, okanye ukuba awukaphefumli/awukajiki ube luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ixesha elingaphezu komzuzu, funa ingcebiso kagqirha ngoko nangoko. Kwakhona, ukuba kwenzeka rhoqo okanye kukho utshintsho kwindlela oziphatha ngayo, xelela ugqirha wakho .
• Musa ukunikezela kwiimfuno zomntwana wakho ezingeyomfuneko ngenxa nje yesi sizathu. Ingqeqesho ibalulekile.
• Le ayisiyongozi, iza kuziphelela ngokwayo njengoko umntwana ekhula. Kholwa yiloo nto.
• Ukuba unoloyiko okanye ixhala eligqithisileyo ngale nto , kuyafaneleka kakhulu ukufuna ingcebiso .

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwazi ukuba awuwedwa xa into efana nale isenzeka emntwaneni wakho. Abazali abaninzi badlula kolu lwazi. Funa iingcebiso zonyango xa kuyimfuneko, hlala uzolile, kwaye unike umntwana wakho uthando lwakho nokuqonda. Yonke into iza kulunga!

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` Isipelingi Esibamba Umphefumlo, Usana, Umntwana, Impilo, Ezonyango, Isipelingi Esibamba Umphefumlo, I-Cyanotic, I-Pallid, Ukunqongophala Kwentsimbi, Ukuxhuzula