Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana wakho omncinci wahlukile kakhulu kwabanye abantwana? Mhlawumbi unengxaki yokuphendula imibuzo ayibuzayo. Ukuba ufunda izinto ngokukhawuleza aze ahlole izinto ezintsha, usenokuba ngumntwana onengqondo engaqhelekanga. Abantwana abanjalo sibabiza ngokuba 'yingqondi'. Kodwa oku akuyonto yokoyika. Le yimeko ekhethekileyo kakhulu. Namhlanje, masithethe ngokuba yintoni le 'ngqondi' kwaye zithini iimpawu zomntwana onjalo.
Ngubani ngokwenene 'ingcali'?
Ngamafutshane, 'ingcali' ngumntu onobuchule obungaqhelekanga bokucinga okanye bokuyila . Ngaphambili, iingcali zengqondo zazisebenzisa i-Intelligence Quotient (IQ) ukulinganisa oku.
Ngaphambili, umntu one-IQ emalunga ne-140 wayethathwa njenge-'genius'. Oko kukuthi, malunga nomntu omnye kwabangama-250 ngokomyinge. Kodwa kamva, umphandi wathi kufuneka i-IQ engaphezulu kwe-180. Ukuba uyijonga ngolo hlobo, ngumntu omnye kuphela kwabangama-2 ezigidi oza kuthathwa njengengqondi.
Kodwa inyaniso kukuba, akukho nkcazelo inye yegama elithi 'ingcali'. Namhlanje, oogqirha neengcali balibona njengegama elibanzi eliquka ubuchule , ukukwazi ukucinga ngeendlela ezintsha, kunye nokukwazi ukufumana izisombululo ezintsha kwiingxaki. Sikwabiza abantwana abaneetalente ezikhethekileyo ngokuthi 'ziZiphiwo'.
Ngaba kukho isizathu esikhethekileyo soku?
Izazinzulu azikayazi kakuhle indlela umntu aba yingqondi ngayo. Kodwa ziyazi ukuba kukho unxibelelwano lwemfuza . Kukho iimfuza ezithile ezimisela umgangatho wobukrelekrele bethu.
Le mpembelelo yemfuza ikwachaphazela umdla womntwana, ukuzithemba kwakhe, kunye nezinye iimpawu zakhe. Ngoko ke ezi mfuza zinokuchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo indlela aqhuba kakuhle ngayo emsebenzini wesikolo nakwiimvavanyo zobukrelekrele.
Ngaba ingqondo 'yengqondi' yahlukile ngokwenene?
Ewe, ii-brain scans zifumanise ukuba iimpawu ezithile ezikhethekileyo zinokubonwa kwiingqondo zabantu abakrelekrele kakhulu.
- Ukwanda komthamo kwezinye iindawo zengqondo: Liyinyaniso elokuba ayinguye wonke umntu onentloko enkulu okrelekrele. Nangona kunjalo, kufunyenwe ukuba 'iingcali' zinenxalenye enkulu yobuchopho ebizwa ngokuba yi-'Gray Matter'. Eli candelo lelona candelo liphambili elicwangcisa ulwazi kwaye lilawula izinto ezifana nenkumbulo, ingqalelo, kunye nolwimi.
- Unxibelelwano olukhawulezayo phakathi kwamalungu engqondo:Inxalenye yengqondo yaba bantu ethi "White Matter" iyasebenza kakhulu. Le "White Matter" ifana nomgaqo odibanisa iindawo ezahlukeneyo zobuchopho. Ngenxa yokuba olu nxibelelwano lusebenza kakuhle, banokucinga ngokukhawuleza nangendlela entsonkothileyo.
- Uvakalelo oluphezulu kunye nobukrelekrele beemvakalelo: Iingqondo 'zeeNgcali' zinokuziva imeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-'Superstimulability.' Oku kuthetha ukuba zinokuziva iimvakalelo zabanye abantu (usizi, ulonwabo) nzulu kakhulu. Nangona oku kubanceda baqonde abanye, kunokuba ngamava adinisayo naxinzelelekileyo ngamanye amaxesha.
Zithini iimpawu 'zobuchule' ezinokubonwa ebantwaneni?
Ayingabo bonke abantwana abafanayo. Ngoko ke aziyiyo yonke le mpawu eza kubakho kumntwana omnye. Kodwa khangela ukuba umntwana wakho unenye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi mpawu.
| Uphawu | Ukuchaza ngokulula... |
|---|---|
| Ukufunda ngokukhawuleza | Bafunda izihloko ezintsha nezinto ezintsonkothileyo ngokukhawuleza kakhulu kunabanye abantwana. Akufuneki baxelelwe kabini. |
| Umdla ongapheliyo | Basoloko bebuza imibuzo efana nokuthi "Kutheni?" kunye nokuthi "Njani?" Banomdla wokufunda into enye nzulu. |
| Imfuneko yokuvuselelwa kwengqondo | Iingqondo zabo zihlala zifuna umngeni. USum akathandi ukuhlala ekhaya . Uthanda iiphazili, iincwadi, kunye nezinto zokudlala ezintsha. |
| Ukufunda ngaphaya kweminyaka | Baqonda nezifundo ezivela kwiiklasi eziphezulu kunezabo lula. |
| Iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye novelwano | Banovelwano kakhulu kwiimvakalelo zabanye abantu. Basenokulila ixesha elide emva kokubukela umboniso obuhlungu kwimuvi. |
| Ihlaya elidala kunobudala | Bayawaqonda amahlaya aqondwa ngabantu abadala kuphela. Okanye banesimo sengqondo esingaqhelekanga sokuhlekisa. |
| Umbono ophezulu | Sifumana izisombululo ezinobuchule nezingalindelekanga kwiingxaki. |
| Ukuzazi okuphezulu | Banokuqonda okungcono ngabo, okwenzekayo eluntwini, nakwihlabathi kunabanye abantwana. |
Ndingenza ntoni xa ndicinga ukuba umntwana wam naye 'unesiphiwo'?
Ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga noku, eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kuqala kukuthetha nootitshala besikolo somntwana wakho kunye nogqirha wakho wosapho . Kwamanye amazwe, kukho iimvavanyo ezikhethekileyo zokuchonga abo bantwana.
Umntwana onje akanakufundiswa ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Badinga iindlela ezikhethekileyo zokuphuhlisa izakhono zabo. Ngoko ke, ngokuthetha nogqirha okanye ingcali yezemfundo, ungalungisa imisebenzi yabo yemfundo ngendlela emfaneleyo umntwana.
Iimpawu ezibonwa kubantu abadala
Njengabantwana, abantu abadala abakrelekrele kakhulu nabo baneempawu ezifanayo. Ukongeza ekufundeni ngokukhawuleza nokuba nomdla kwizihloko ezithile, ezi zikwazimpawu ezifanayo.
- Ukuba nomnqweno wokugcina indawo osebenza kuyo okanye ohlala kuyo ingcolile kancinci .
- Ukukwazi ukusebenzisa amagama abanye abawajonga 'njengamagama amabi' ngokutyibilikayo nangokufanelekileyo .
- Ndikhetha ukusebenza ebusuku kunokusebenza kusasa (Ni GH t owl).
- Ukukhetha ukuba wedwa kunokuba kwindawo enabantu abaninzi.
- Ukuba nenkumbulo entle kakhulu.
Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha obu bulumko buphezulu bunokunxulunyaniswa neemeko zengqondo ezifana nexhala. Kwakhona, abanye abantu abakwi-Autism Spectrum banokuba nezakhono zobukrelekrele ezingaqhelekanga.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ingqondo nganye, wonke umntu, yahlukile. 'Ingqondo' ligama nje. Ukuba unamathandabuzo ngomntwana wakho okanye ngawe, thetha nogqirha wakho ukuze ufumane ulwazi oluthe kratya.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- 'Ingqondi' ayipheleli nje kwi-IQ score. Yindibaniselwano yezinto ezininzi, ezinje ngobuchule kunye nokukwazi ukucinga nzulu.
- Oku kunempembelelo kwimfuza. Oku kuthetha ukuba kunokuzuzwa ngabazali ukuya ebantwaneni ukuya kwinqanaba elithile.
- Nika ingqalelo xa umntwana ebonisa umdla ongaqhelekanga, ubuchule bokufunda ngokukhawuleza, okanye iimvakalelo ezinzulu.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo ngamakhono omntwana wakho, eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukuxoxa ngawo nootitshala besikolo kunye nogqirha wakho.
- Wonke umntwana wahlukile. Luxanduva lwethu njengabazali ukuqaphela italente yakhe nokubanceda bayiphuhlise.
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