Ungayiphucula njani izakhono zonxibelelwano zomntwana wakho oneminyaka eyi-4-5? Makhe sithethe ngale nto!

Ukuthetha nabantwana bethu abancinci nokumamela oko bakuthethayo yenye yezona zinto zivuyisayo nezixabisekileyo esinazo njengabazali, akunjalo? Abantwana bafunda izinto ngeencoko zethu zemihla ngemihla, amava abo, kunye nehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Bafana neziponji ezincinci, zifunxa yonke into.

Ngoku, phakathi kweminyaka emine ukuya kwemihlanu, abantwana abaninzi baqala isikolo sabantwana abancinci, kwaye abanye bade baye kwisikolo sabantwana abancinci. Ke ngoko ngeli xesha, izakhono zabo zolwimi, eziquka ukuthetha, ukumamela, nokuqonda, zibaluleke kakhulu ekufundeni eklasini.

Intetho yomntwana ikhula njani xa eneminyaka eyi-4-5 ubudala?

Kule minyaka , intetho yabantwana , oko kukuthi, indlela yabo yokunxibelelana , ikhula ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Bafunda amagama amatsha baze baqale ukuthetha kakuhle ngesantya ongenakusicinga.

Ingxunya kwizakhono zolwimi!

Umntwana wakho oneminyaka emine okanye emihlanu ubudala ngoku uyakwazi ukuqonda nokulandela imiyalelo enzima ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Khawuthelekelele, ukuba uthi, "Nyana, zisa ithoyizi lakho kwigumbi lokuhlala, khupha izihlangu zakho, uzibeke kwindawo yokugcina izihlangu," uya kukwazi ukuqonda aze akwenze kakuhle nangakumbi.

Bakwazi kakuhle ukukuchazela into abayenzayo. Baza kuthetha izinto ezinje, "Mama, ndidlale nabahlobo bam esikolweni namhlanje, kwaye utitshala undinike inkwenkwezi." Ngamanye amaxesha bade bazenzele amabali ezingqondweni zabo. Xa ufunda ibali, abantwana abakule minyaka banokumamela ngononophelo baze balibalise kwakhona, okanye banokumamela ngononophelo baze bakuxelele ukuba kwenzeka ntoni emva koko kwibali eliqhelekileyo. Oku kubonisa ukuba inkumbulo yabo kunye nokuqonda ulwimi kukhula kangakanani.

Indlela yokuthetha namagama

Kule minyaka, izivakalisi zabantwana zihlala zinamagama amane okanye ngaphezulu. Bathi izivakalisi ezifana nokuthi "Mama, ndilambile kwaye ndifuna ukutya." Isigama sabo sikhula rhoqo. Bakhawuleza bafumane amagama amatsha owathethayo kunye namagama eencwadi.

Uninzi lwexesha, kufuneka sikwazi ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo oko kuthethwa ngumntwana kule minyaka. Nangona kunjalo, kusenokuba kukho iimpazamo ezithile zokubiza amagama , oko kukuthi, oonobumba abathile abanakubizwa ngokucacileyo (`iimpazamo zesandi sophuhliso`). Umzekelo, abanye abantwana banokwenza isandi esifana nonobumba 'त' endaweni yonobumba 'स' (`lisping`). Kwakhona, ingakumbi phakathi kwamakhwenkwe , kunokubakho ukungqubana okuncinci kwamagama, okanye 'ukuthintitha'. Ezi zinto zihlala zincipha ngokuhamba kweminyaka.

Khawucinge nje ukuba bekuya kuba njani ukumamela umntwana wakho echaza usuku lwakhe emva kwesikolo. Lonke ilizwi eliphuma kuloo mlomo mncinci lixabisekile kuthi.

Ngaba kukho iingxaki ezincinci?

Njengoko kukhankanyiwe apha ngasentla, ezinye iimpazamo zesandi sophuhliso okanye ukungathintitha zisenokuba yinto eqhelekileyo kule minyaka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kuyaqhubeka, kubonakala ngathi kuya kusiba mandundu, okanye ukuba umntwana wakho akathandi ukuthetha, licebo elihle ukuba ukhathazeke. Uninzi lwexesha, ezi azibalulekanga kangako, kodwa ukuba uneengxaki, kungcono ukuthetha nogqirha.

Yintoni esifanele siyenze ukuze siphucule incoko ngakumbi?

Zininzi izinto ezilula esinokuzenza ekhaya ukunceda ukuphucula izakhono zolwimi zomntwana wethu, ezifana nesigama kunye nezakhono zokuphulaphula. Khumbula, umzuzu ngamnye owuchitha nomntwana wakho ubalulekile ekufundeni kwakhe.

Ubomi bemihla ngemihla yindawo yokuncokola

Ngamafutshane, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuthetha nomntwana wakho rhoqo.

• Thetha ngeziganeko zosuku: Buza imibuzo efana nokuthi "Wenze ntoni namhlanje?", "Bekunjani esikolweni?", "Ngubani umhlobo wakho osenyongweni namhlanje?" Mamela ngononophelo oko kuthethwa ngumntwana wakho. Mxelele into elula eyenzekileyo ngosuku lwakho.
• Thethani ngeencwadi kunye njengoko nifunda: thethani ngemifanekiso ekwincwadi, abalinganiswa ebalini, into enicinga ukuba iza kwenzeka emva koko, njl. Buzani imibuzo efana nale, "Jonga, le ngwenya yenza ntoni?"
• Thetha ngeenkqubo zeTV, iividiyo, kunye nemidlalo eniyibukela kunye: "Kwenzeke ntoni kwikhathuni ngoku?", "Ngubani umlinganiswa omthandayo?", "Singawudlala njani lo mdlalo?"

Iincwadi, iingoma kunye nemidlalo

• Gcina iincwadi kunye neemagazini kufutshane: Gcina izinto ezifana neencwadi , iincwadi ezifaka imibala, kunye neemagazini zikufutshane nabantwana. Oku kuya kubakhuthaza ukuba bazithathe baze bazifunde nanini na xa befuna.
• Culani iingoma nize nidlale ngamagama: Ukucula iingoma kunye nokubiza izicengcelezo kuhle kakhulu kwizakhono zabo zolwimi. Dlalani imidlalo yamagama elula efana nethi "Masithi unobumba ngoonobumba."
• Buza imibuzo uze uphendule: Buza umntwana wakho imibuzo evulelekileyo (oko kukuthi, imibuzo engenakuphendula ngo "ewe" okanye "hayi" nje). Umzekelo, "Kutheni uwuthanda loo mbala?" Yiba nomonde ngemibuzo yakhe. Khuthaza umdla wakhe xa ebuza imibuzo efana nokuthi "Kutheni isibhakabhaka siluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka?"

"Ndim lo" yi-albhamu!

Le yingcinga entle kakhulu! Nceda umntwana wakho enze i-albhamu ebizwa ngokuba yi-"This is me" okanye "This is our family" ngokuqokelela imifanekiso yomntwana wakhe, izinto azithandayo, imifanekiso yosapho lwakhe, imizobo ayizobayo, kunye nezipho ezincinci azifumanayo. Thetha ngayo yonke le nto ngelixa uyidala. Ukuthi izinto ezinje, "Oku kuxa wawusemncinci, akunjalo?" okanye "Lo ngumfanekiso owawuwuthathe ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa" kuya kumnceda akhumbule ixesha elidlulileyo, abeke iziganeko ngokulandelelana, kwaye afunde amagama amatsha.

Sifanele sifune nini ingcebiso yezonyango?

Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba izakhono zolwimi zomntwana wakho okanye oko akuthethayo akucaci, kungcono ukuthetha nogqirha ngaloo nto.Khumbula, ayingabo bonke abantwana abafanayo kwaye bakhula ngamanqanaba ahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho amanyathelo aqhelekileyo ekufuneka bawafikelele xa beneminyaka ethile.

Jonga ezi zinto xa uneminyaka emi-4 ubudala

Xa beneminyaka emine ubudala, uninzi lwabantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukwenza ezi zinto:

• Ukuthetha izivakalisi zamagama amane okanye ngaphezulu.
• Ukuphinda amazwi engoma okanye ebalini.
• Ukuthetha ngento enye eyenzekileyo emini. (Umzekelo: "Namhlanje ndikhabe ibhola.")

Ukuba umntwana wakho akazenzi kakuhle ezi zinto, okanye ukuba uneengxaki, kungcono ukubona ugqirha wabantwana ukuze akunike iingcebiso.

Zikhathalele ezi zinto xa uneminyaka emi-5 ubudala

Xa beneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, uninzi lwabantwana kufuneka bakwazi ukwenza ezi zinto zilandelayo:

• Balisa ibali elineziganeko ezimbini ubuncinane. (Umzekelo: "Ndiye esikolweni. Emva koko ndadlala.")
• Phendula imibuzo elula malunga nencwadi okanye ibali. (umz., "Ngubani oye ehlathini?")
• Ukuba nencoko ephindaphindeneyo izihlandlo ezingaphezu kwezintathu. (Oko kukuthi, uthetha into ethile, yena uyaphendula, utsho into kwakhona, naye uyaphendula kwakhona.)
• Sebenzisa okanye uqaphele izicengcelezo ezilula ezifana nethi "ikati - ikati", "ilulwane - ilulwane".

Ukuba usabona ukuba ezi zinto azikho kule minyaka, ingakumbi ukuba kunzima ukuqhubeka nencoko, thetha nogqirha ngayo.

Iingxaki zokuva nezinye izinto

Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana unokufika kade ekuthetheni okanye angakwazi ukuqonda into ethethwayo ngenxa yokukhubazeka kokuva . Ukuba ukrokrela oku, njengokuba umntwana wakho engeva kakuhle xa uthetha, ebuza rhoqo esithi "Usandul' ukuthini?", okanye evula iTV kakhulu, qiniseka ukuba ugqirha uhlola iindlebe zomntwana wakho.

Ngaphandle koku, ukuba unezinye izinto ezikuxhalabisayo malunga nendlela umntwana wakho athetha ngayo, thetha nogqirha ngayo ngokukhululekileyo. Ungaze uyityeshele, uthi, "Yinto encinci nje." Okukhona ingxaki ibonwa ngokukhawuleza, kokukhona kulula ukuyinyanga.

Okokugqibela, khumbula oku (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Okokugqibela, indima yakho ekuphuhliseni intetho yomntwana wakho oneminyaka emine okanye emihlanu ubudala, oko kukuthi, unxibelelwano, ibaluleke kakhulu.

Uthando lwakho, inkuthazo, kunye nomonde zezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini babo. Ukuthetha nomntwana wakho, ukumamela oko akutshoyo, ukufunda iincwadi kunye, kunye nokudlala imidlalo kunye zonke ezi ziindlela ezilungileyo zokumnceda aphuhlise izakhono zakhe zolwimi.

Ngamanye amaxesha kusenokuvela iingxaki ezincinci. Musa ukoyika ngamaxesha anjalo, kwaye funa ingcebiso kagqirha ukuba kuyimfuneko. Khumbula, wonke umntwana ukhula ngesantya sakhe. Indima yethu kukudala imeko-bume engcono kakhulu yokuba ahambe kuloo hambo. Iminqweno emihle kuwe nakumntwana wakho omncinci!

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