Wake waphuma esimeni okwesikhashana bese ingane yakho inyamalala ngokuzumayo? Nakuba lokhu kungenzeka kunoma yimuphi umzali, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi kwenzeke enganeni enesifo se -autism . Ngokwezokwelapha, lesi simo sibizwa ngokuthi 'Autism Elopement'. Kalula nje, kuba lapho ingane ibalekela umuntu oyibhekile ngokuzumayo, ngisho nalapho ibhekiwe. Ingozi enkulu kulokhu ukuthi ezinye zalezi zingane zikhangwa kakhulu ngamanzi. Yingakho zilingeka ukuya echibini eliseduze, emfuleni, emfuleni, noma echibini lokubhukuda. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, imbangela enkulu yokufa kwezingane ezinjalo ezilahlekayo ukuminza.
Kungani lesi simo siyingozi kangaka? (Ukuphunyuka kwe-Autism)
Lezi zingane zinganyamalala nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sonyaka. Kodwa ingozi inkulu nakakhulu ehlobo, lapho ilanga linamandla kakhulu. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi sichitha isikhathi esiningi ngaphandle futhi sihamba. Cabanga nje, lapho wonke umndeni udla i-BBQ, udlala ngaphandle, noma uphumule ehhotela eliseduze nolwandle, ingane inganyamalala ngokuzumayo.
Abantu abaningi, mhlawumbe ngisho nalabo abasemindenini enengane ene-autism, abazi ngale ngozi. I-National Center for Missing and Exploited Children e-United States yenze ucwaningo ngalokhu. Bathi u- 84% wokufa ngengozi phakathi kwezingane ezine-autism kubangelwa ukuminza .
Ucwaningo lwango-2012 olwanyatheliswa ephephabhukwini i-Pediatrics luthole ukuthi iningi labazali bezingane ezine-autism ( cishe ama-50%) bathi ingane yabo izame ukunyamalala ngemva kweminyaka engu-4. Futhi, ama-24% ezingane ezazinyamalele ayesengozini yokuminza . Amanye ama-65% ayesengozini yokuba sengozini yemoto . Laba bantwana bangase bathandwe amanzi kanye nezimoto, izitimela, izinjini zomlilo kanye nezimpawu zomgwaqo.
Kungani laba bantwana befuna izindawo ezithule, ikakhulukazi amanzi?
Kunzima ukusho ngqo ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka, kodwa ochwepheshe bathi kunezinkomba ezithile.
"Into eyodwa esiyibonayo ukuthi laba bantwana bazama ukubalekela izindawo ezibacindezelayo, okungukuthi, izindawo ezinomsindo, ezigcwele abantu, noma ezigcwele abantu. Baya endaweni ethule. Amanzi ngokuvamile ayindawo ethule, enokuthula. Yingakho bekhangwa yilokho."
Akuzona nje amanzi, zingase zilingeke ukuya noma kuphi lapho kuthule khona, njengehlathi noma ngaphakathi kwemoto elahliwe.
Okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu
Umama ogama lakhe linguBeth Dilg, owayehlala eMaryland,USavannah, intombazane eneminyaka engu-7 ubudala ene -autism , waminza. Ngolunye usuku olubandayo, uBeth waya endlini yokugezela imizuzu embalwa ngenkathi indodana yakhe eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala icelwa ukuba ibheke izingane ezimbili ezincane. Kodwa uSavannah waphuma endlini nomfowabo oneminyaka engu-2 ubudala.
Lapho uBeth ephuma, izingane ezimbili zase zihambile. Wacinga lonke igceke efuna uSavannah, owayengakwazi ukukhuluma kahle, kodwa akabuyanga. Wagijimela echibini eliseduze wabona izingane ezimbili emanzini. Nakuba indodana yakhe eneminyaka emibili ubudala yasindiswa yisigqoko sayo sebhayisikili, uSavannah wayequlekile lapho eyikhipha emanzini.
Lokhu kungenzeka kunoma yimuphi umndeni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abazali bathatha izinyathelo eziningi kangakanani zokuzivikela, ingane inganyamalala ngokuphazima kweso.
"Laba bantwana abane-autism bahlakaniphe kakhulu. Bangase bangakwazi ukukhuluma, kodwa banobuhlakani obuhlukile. Ngakho-ke kufanele uhlale uphambi kwabo ngesinyathelo esisodwa ." - Beth Dilg
Wenzani uma ingane ilahleka?
Ukuthola ingane elahlekile kanjena kuyinkimbinkimbi. Abakhulumi, ngakho ngeke baphendule uma othile ebiza igama layo. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane yakho ilahleka, ungayifuni yodwa.
Shayela inombolo yamaphoyisa ephuthumayo engu-119 ngokushesha.
Khumbula, umzuzwana ngamunye ubalulekile uma ingane ilahlekile. Amaphoyisa kanye nabasizi bokuqala baqeqeshwe ngokukhethekile ukusesha izingane ezilahlekile. Baqala ngokubheka imithombo yamanzi eseduze, amachibi, kanye nemifudlana.
Izinto esingazenza ukuvimbela izingozi
Kunezinto eziningi ongazenza ukuze uvikele ingane yakho kulolu hlobo lwengozi. Ukulandela lawa macebiso kungenza umehluko omkhulu.
| Icebo lokuphepha | Okufanele ukwenze kulula. |
|---|---|
| Ukuphepha kwasekhaya | Faka ama-alamu enza umsindo lapho iminyango namafasitela kuvulwa. Vala phezulu ukuze izingane zingafinyeleli kuwo. Beka uphawu olubonakalayo, njengophawu oluthi 'Misa', emnyango. |
| Ikhadi le-ID lomuntu siqu | Gqoka ikhadi lomazisi elinegama lengane yakho, isimo se-autism, kanye nenombolo yocingo yomzali. Uma ungakwazi ukuligqoka, ungalinamathisela entanjeni yezicathulo. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi ingane yakho ingase ingabi nazo izicathulo. |
| Ukuhlonza Izinto Ezibangela | Thola ukuthi kungani ingane yakho izama ukubaleka ekhaya. Ingabe kungenxa yomsindo? Ingabe kungenxa yokukhathazeka? Uma ubona isizathu esinjalo, ungayithulisa ingane yakho noma uyinike ama-headphone uma izwa umsindo ophazamisayo. |
| Amakhono okuphepha (ukubhukuda) | Ukuqeqeshwa kokubhukuda kubalulekile. Umsindo kanye nenjabulo yekilasi lokubhukuda elivamile kungase kungabekezeleleki enganeni. Ngakho-ke, thola izifundo zokubhukuda zangasese kumuntu oqondayo izingane ezine-autism. Esifundweni sokugcina, zijwayeze ukubhukuda ugqoke kahle futhi ugqoke izicathulo. Ngoba izingane eziningi zigxumela emanzini zingagqokile. |
| Ukuqapha kweqembu | Uma kunabantu abadala abaningi, njengasemcimbini womndeni, wonke umuntu ucabanga ukuthi othile uzonakekela ingane. Kodwa empeleni, kwenzeka okuphambene nalokho. Ngakho-ke, nikeza umthwalo wokunakekela ingane kumuntu oyedwa ngesikhathi. Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, dlulisela umthwalo wemfanelo komunye umuntu. Ngaleyo ndlela, othile uzohlala enaka ingane. |
Lungiselela isimo esiphuthumayo kusenesikhathi.
Uma ingane yakho ilahleka ngokuzumayo, lungiselela lezi zinto kusenesikhathi ukuze zikusize uyithole ngokushesha.
- Gcina izithombe zisesikhathini: Gcina izithombe ezimbalwa zengane yakho efonini yakho ezibonisa ubuso bayo bonke nekhanda layo. Uma ingane yakho ilahleka, ungathumela lezi zithombe emaphoyiseni ngokushesha.
- Dala ishidi lolwazi oluphuthumayo: Lokhu kufanele kufake igama lengane, ubudala, isimo sayo, ukuthi iyakwazi yini ukukhuluma, izinto ezingayidonsela (njengamanzi, izimoto), kanye nemininingwane mayelana nanoma yimaphi amachibi, amachibi, noma imifudlana eduze kwendlu. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi unikeze amaphoyisa lolu lwazi ngokushesha.
Uma uneminye imibuzo mayelana nalokhu, khuluma nodokotela womndeni wakho. Angakunikeza isiqondiso esengeziwe.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukuphela kwe-autism kuyingozi yangempela futhi engathi sína.
- Ngenxa yokuthi laba bantwana bakhangwa kakhulu ngamanzi, ingozi yokuminza iphezulu kakhulu.
- Ukuvimbela kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuvimbela izingozi. Vikela ikhaya lakho, cela ingane yakho igqoke ikhadi le-ID, futhi nakanjani uzijwayeze ukubhukuda.
- Uma ingane yakho ilahleka, shayela amaphoyisa ngokushesha ku-119 ngaphandle kokulibala. Ungayifuni wedwa.
- Ngesikhathi semicimbi yomndeni kanye nohambo lwangaphandle, nikeza umthwalo wemfanelo wokunakekela ingane kumuntu oyedwa othize.
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