Uma utholakala unomdlavuza, kunzima ukuchaza ukuthi uzizwa kanjani. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungase uzizwe wesaba, udabuke futhi uthukuthele, kanti ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungase ube nemibuzo eyizigidi mayelana nokuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo, ukwelashwa kuzoba kanjani, nokuthi ngizokwazi yini ukubhekana nalokhu. Kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele uzwile futhi wafunda okuningi ngomdlavuza kubangani bakho, izihlobo, noma ngisho naku-inthanethi. Kodwa namuhla sizokhuluma ngezinto abantu abaningi abangazilindele, kodwa ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuzazi lapho welashwa umdlavuza . Masiziqonde lezi zinto njengokungathi sikhuluma nomngane wethu.
Lokhu akuyona "impi", "uhambo"
Uma sitholakala sinomdlavuza, abantu abasizungezile, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nabezindaba, basikhuthaza ukuba "silwe nomdlavuza." Kungenzeka ukuthi uke wezwa izindaba ezinjengokuthi, "Kufanele ube namandla, kufanele unqobe le mpi." Iqiniso liwukuthi, uma umdlavuza welashwa usesesigabeni sokuqala futhi ungelapheka ngokuphelele, kufana nokunqoba impi.
Kodwa, uma umdlavuza ususakazeke emzimbeni wonke, okuyilokho esikubiza ngokwezokwelapha ngokuthi "umdlavuza we-Metastatic," akukho "mpi yokunqoba." Kufana nokufunda ukuphila nesifo esingamahlalakhona njengesifo sikashukela noma umfutho wegazi ophakeme. Khona-ke okudingeka sikwenze akukhona ukulwa, kodwa ukuphatha lesi simo nokulungisa izimpilo zethu ukuze siphile naso.
Ukwenza lolu shintsho lwengqondo yingxenye enzima kakhulu. Ukusuka endaweni "yokulwa" uye endaweni "yokuphatha nokuphila" kungenye yezinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu kulolu hambo.
Lokhu kuyinto enzima kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma umdlavuza ubuya ngemva kokwelashwa. Abantu bazizwa sengathi, "Angisakwazi ukulwa nalokhu." Khumbula ukuthi awuwedwa kulokhu. Khuluma nodokotela wakho, khuluma nomndeni wakho ngalokhu. Qala ukucabanga ngakho njengohambo okudingeka uluphathe, hhayi impi, njengengxenye yempilo yakho.
Kungani wonke umuntu engatholi ukwelashwa kwakamuva?
Abantu abaningi beza emitholampilo yomdlavuza benethemba lokuthola ukwelashwa kwakamuva, okuseqophelweni eliphezulu abakubonile ku-inthanethi nasemaphepheni. Isibonelo, abantu abaningi bakhuluma ngokwelashwa okufana nokuthi "Immunotherapy." Abanye abantu bayabuza, "Awukwazi ukunginika lowo muthi omusha, dokotela?"
Kodwa okudingeka sikuqonde ukuthi ekwelashweni komdlavuza, ikakhulukazi ezintweni ezifana nomdlavuza webele, siqala sisebenzisa "izindlela zokwelapha ezijwayelekile" ezisetshenziswe isikhathi eside futhi ezifakazelwe kahle ukuthi ziyasebenza . Isizathu salokho ukuthi siyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi lezo zindlela zokwelapha ziveza imiphumela emihle.Ukwelashwa okusha akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi kuwo wonke umuntu, futhi kungaba nemiphumela emibi eminingi. Ngakho-ke, thembela udokotela wakho ukuthi akukhethele ukwelashwa okungcono kakhulu nokufakazelwe.
Ingabe ukwelashwa kubi njengoba ucabanga? Ungesabi imiphumela emibi!
Uma abantu becabanga ngokwelashwa komdlavuza, ikakhulukazi ukwelashwa ngamakhemikhali, bacabanga ngento engathi sína kakhulu, njengokulahlekelwa izinwele, ukuhlanza, kanye nobuhlungu bomzimba. Kufana nokuthi lapho bekhuluma ngokukhulelwa, abakhulumi ngokubeletha okuvamile, kodwa bakhuluma ngezinto ezinzima kakhulu nezesabekayo.
Ukwelashwa ngamakhemikhali kuyingozi kakhulu emzimbeni, yingakho kunedumela elibi. Kodwa into ebalulekile ukuthi, namuhla singakwazi ukulawula imiphumela eminingi emibi ehambisana nakho . Ithimba lakho lezokwelapha selikulungele lokho.
| Umphumela ovamile wecala | Ungayiphatha kanjani? |
|---|---|
| Ukuhlanza kanye nesicanucanu (Isicanucanu) | Manje sekukhona imithi ephumelela kakhulu yokulawula lesi simo. Le mithi inikezwa ngaphambi nangemva kokwelashwa. |
| Izilonda zomlomo | Lokhu kungalawulwa ngemithi yokuhlanza umlomo ekhethekile kanye nemithi yokubulala izinhlungu. Buza udokotela wakho ngalokhu. |
| Uhudo | Kukhona nemithi etholakalayo yalokhu. Ithimba lezokwelapha lizokweluleka nokuthi wenze izinguquko ekudleni. |
| Ukulahlekelwa izinwele | Nakuba lokhu kungenakuvinjelwa kwezinye izindlela zokwelapha, kungancishiswa kwezinye izimo ngokusebenzisa izindlela zokupholisa isikhumba sekhanda. |
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukutshela udokotela wakho noma abasebenzi bobuhlengikazi nganoma yiziphi izimpawu ozizwayo, ngisho nezincane . Indlela ozizwa ukhululekile ngayoYilapho kuzothathwa khona isinqumo sokuthi uzoqhubeka yini nokwelashwa noma cha. Ungabi sezinhlungwini ucabanga ukuthi, "Lokhu kuyinto evamile."
Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kungase kuhluke kakhulu kwabanye.
Kuvamile ukusebenzisa noma yini ku-Google kulezi zinsuku. Kodwa uma kukhulunywa ngomdlavuza, lokhu kungaba yingozi kakhulu. Abantu babelana ngolwazi lwabo emaqenjini engxoxo aku-inthanethi nasezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kodwa umlando wabo womdlavuza, ukwelashwa abakutholayo, kanye nendlela umzimba wabo osabela ngayo kuwo kungase kuhluke ngokuphelele kokwakho.
Ungasheshi ufinyelele eziphethweni ngesimo sakho ngokusekelwe ezindabeni eziku-inthanethi. Lokho kuzobangela ukwesaba nokucindezeleka okungadingekile.
Ngisho namaqembu okusekelana angaba yinselele. Cabanga ukuthi abanye babangani bakho sebeqedile ukwelashwa futhi baphila kahle, kodwa kuzodingeka uthathe ukwelashwa impilo yakho yonke. Lokho kungaba nzima ukukubona. Ngakho thola indawo ekufanele futhi enabantu abaqonda isimo sakho. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi imiphumela yakho izoba yini, indawo engcono kakhulu yokwenza lokho yithimba lakho lezokwelapha.
Izindleko zokwelashwa: Inkinga enkulu esingakhulumi ngayo
Lena inkinga abantu abaningi abangathandi ukukhuluma ngayo, kodwa ithinta abaningi. Eminye yemithi ethile esetshenziswa ukwelapha umdlavuza ibiza kakhulu. Kuze kube yilapho sigula, asiqapheli ukuthi umshwalense wethu uzosikhokhela malini, noma ukuthi kuzodingeka sikhokhe malini ephaketheni lethu.
Ngezinye izikhathi, abantu kufanele bayeke imisebenzi yabo abayithandayo nezinto abazithandayo ngenxa yezindleko zokwelashwa. Lokhu kucindezeleka ngokwezimali kungaba mkhulu kakhulu kunokucindezeleka kwalesi sifo. Lena inkinga enkulu esiyibona naseSri Lanka. Ngakho-ke khuluma nabasebenzi bezenhlalakahle eqenjini lakho lezokwelapha ngalokhu. Kungase kube nezindlela zokuthola impumuzo ezinkampanini zemithi, uhulumeni, noma ezinye izinhlangano.
Impilo yengqondo kanye nokusekelwa kubalulekile
Ngisho nakumuntu ophile iminyaka eminingi nomdlavuza futhi osejwayelene nawo, kunezikhathi lapho konke kuzwakala kungazelelwe kuyisicefe futhi kunzima. Ngezinye izikhathi, uma ubuyela emtholampilo, ungase ukhumbule izinto ezindala futhi ukhunjuzwe ngobucayi besifo futhi.
Kukhona abantu abangakusiza ngezikhathi ezinjengalezi. Abeluleki ezibhedlela kanye nabasebenzi bezenhlalakahle bangakusiza ukuthi ukhulume ngemizwa yakho futhi ukhulule ingqondo yakho.Abantu abahle kakhulu abaseduze. Uma uzizwa sengathi udinga ukukhuluma, ungalindi 'usuku lomtholampilo' olulandelayo. Khuluma nabo.
Futhi, thola isikhathi sokwenza izinto ezikulethela injabulo . Abanye abantu bazokutshela ukuthi "ungadabuki, cabanga kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi." Kodwa uma uzizwa udabukile noma uthukuthele, akukho okubi ngokukuveza. Uma ungakwazi ukutshela umndeni wakho, khuluma nomeluleki omethembayo. Kuyimpumuzo enkulu ukukwazi ukusho okusengqondweni yakho ngaphandle kokwesaba ukwahlulelwa. Khuluma nabangani, hamba uyohamba, futhi uzinike isikhathi sezinto ezikwenza ujabule futhi uphumule.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Umdlavuza awuyona "impi" ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngezinye izikhathi "uhambo" okumele luphathwe futhi luphilelwe.
- Themba ukwelashwa okukhethwe udokotela wakho. Ukwelashwa okusha kungase kungabi ukwelashwa okungcono kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi.
- Yazisa ithimba lezokwelapha nganoma yimiphi imiphumela emibi, ngisho nemincane, engase ivele ngesikhathi sokwelashwa. Ungabi buhlungu.
- Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye ngokufunda izinto ku-inthanethi noma ngokuzwa ngezinto abahlangabezane nazo. Uhambo lwawo wonke umuntu luhlukile.
- Qaphela izindleko zokwelashwa kusenesikhathi futhi ungabi namahloni okucela usizo uma kudingeka.
- Njengempilo yakho engokomzimba, impilo yakho yengqondo nayo ibaluleke kakhulu. Funa usizo lomeluleki uma kudingeka.
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